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"Absolutely and I couldn’t care less…..I’m just happily posting away to distract myself from doing my work anyhow xx 😄" Do what makes you happy I say. Participate in whatever makes you happy on the site and the forums. | |||
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"I do yeah mate, so you're not the only one. In fact the other day I was bypassed twice on those what would you do to the user above games. It is what it is though." Sometimes I think this is genuinely mistakes like two people typing at the same time and then by the time it’s posted there’s another above! | |||
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"On any thread about attraction or about what they want to do to you or anything like that I am always ignored or left out. Except once and I remember saying to myself- all these messages must be coming from the same one person it was so weird. But yeah I do. But what can I do? Cry about being ugly? I’ve got shit to do in my life. " I mean the ‘my mate fancies you’ games and ‘oooft’ and ‘send a message to who you fancy’ games. | |||
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"I do yeah mate, so you're not the only one. In fact the other day I was bypassed twice on those what would you do to the user above games. It is what it is though. Sometimes I think this is genuinely mistakes like two people typing at the same time and then by the time it’s posted there’s another above!" Yeah you're probably right. Or maybe some horny guys want to bypass another guy to get to the woman or couple above 😂 | |||
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"I don't take the forum games seriously at all, just something to do to pass the time." Hey 🥸 | |||
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"Absolutely and I couldn’t care less…..I’m just happily posting away to distract myself from doing my work anyhow xx 😄 Do what makes you happy I say. Participate in whatever makes you happy on the site and the forums. " Exactly that……xx | |||
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"I don't take the forum games seriously at all, just something to do to pass the time. Hey 🥸 " Who's that?!? | |||
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"I don't take the forum games seriously at all, just something to do to pass the time. Hey 🥸 Who's that?!?" who's who now? | |||
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"I like the swipe left or right threads where every guy swipes right on every woman and every guy gets swiped left on by every other guy. 😂 In general I don't care though. If I write something I assume it's read by anyone that's interested in the thread and I don't write for replies. If there's a love in happening between a group of familiar forum users I'm not going to bother joining. Nor am I going to say something nice about the poster above only to have the next poster skip me because he's a guy too. " I passed on a woman in one of those threads once because I didn't like her forum persona and her snidey remarks. It wasn't accidental or done for effect. Just me making a point that the forums aren't always an echo chamber. I got messages afterwards from other women telling me I would be blacklisted and ignored in the forums. The power of one little four letter word. | |||
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"I don't usually join in them because I don't like feeling passed over for the person they fancy. Self preservation. ![]() I would certainly not pass you by | |||
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"Yeah sometimes, but I persevere because I'm annoying and will continue to post my opinion on threads whether people want me to or not ![]() I know that I have said this to you before on a thread but I certainly would look twice and three times at you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When everyone but you gets a reply it's a bit disheartening, and I wonder why. Only because I like them, or they're a friend. So yeah, I have felt invisible. But, it's fiiine! 🤷♀️" Oh in games, no... Doesn't bother me 🤣 Reading comp. isn't the one for me today. 🤦♀️ | |||
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"On any thread about attraction or about what they want to do to you or anything like that I am always ignored or left out. Except once and I remember saying to myself- all these messages must be coming from the same one person it was so weird. But yeah I do. But what can I do? Cry about being ugly? I’ve got shit to do in my life. I mean the ‘my mate fancies you’ games and ‘oooft’ and ‘send a message to who you fancy’ games. " In the 2-3 times I participated in this kind of threads, I’ve got one or two “Aviatrix- my mate says…” and I very much suspect the game organiser was making up the message for me, so I had one and I didn’t feel shit about being left out. So cute. 💌 I am definitely no forum attraction material but likewise, I am not looking to meet people off the forum really so it doesn’t matter to me. Hence I don’t participate any more. Always the same 10 people recycling themselves. 🥱 | |||
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"7 people have added to the thread while I was typing my last post...... My last post is now piss in the wind and won't be read or replied to Will I take it personally - no. The only way it would be read is if someone reads the whole thread and wants to agree or disagree or FAF me" I wrote my post thinking maybe this is one where Granny will notice me. Alas... | |||
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" I don't use the would you wouldn't you , who would you , what would you threads for a few reasons. One of those reasons is that Johnny doesn't read the threads, he looks for someone that gives him a semi and has a little flirt. Jenny , doesn't really read all the posts she just posts something lurid that she knows will attract response and imagine the number of replies = her popularity. Joe Public just reads the original Q .... by passes everyone and responds at the bottom happily avoiding reading all the shite posted previously. To be fair O.P. you are a bloke and the blokes won't be trying to get into your good books...... or your kecks , so you will only get replies from the few women who aren't sitting there passively waiting for adoration to make them think they've got 'it' " And then you get the Anns who aren't actually interested in each other but they've realised it's a way to get male attention. Like good little females. I've never taken part in the fabathon/winkathon. Very very rarely take part in the user above thread unless it's something nonsensical. I don't feel left out as such OP; no one person on this site gets a reply everytime they post. I do think I might be more likely to get a reply but that's on me having a vagina, not because I'm something special. I have an active irritation of people who say "I'm in" and then get upset when no one messages them. Have they messaged anyone? More than likely - no. If you're wanting interaction like the game threads, you sadly have to accept that the ratio of men to women means there's a likelihood you'll be passed over in the bid to catch a woman's eye. | |||
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"On any thread about attraction or about what they want to do to you or anything like that I am always ignored or left out. Except once and I remember saying to myself- all these messages must be coming from the same one person it was so weird. But yeah I do. But what can I do? Cry about being ugly? I’ve got shit to do in my life. I mean the ‘my mate fancies you’ games and ‘oooft’ and ‘send a message to who you fancy’ games. In the 2-3 times I participated in this kind of threads, I’ve got one or two “Aviatrix- my mate says…” and I very much suspect the game organiser was making up the message for me, so I had one and I didn’t feel shit about being left out. So cute. 💌 I am definitely no forum attraction material but likewise, I am not looking to meet people off the forum really so it doesn’t matter to me. Hence I don’t participate any more. Always the same 10 people recycling themselves. 🥱 " I do know some OP's of these kind of threads do do that for the reason you've stated | |||
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"On any thread about attraction or about what they want to do to you or anything like that I am always ignored or left out. Except once and I remember saying to myself- all these messages must be coming from the same one person it was so weird. But yeah I do. But what can I do? Cry about being ugly? I’ve got shit to do in my life. I mean the ‘my mate fancies you’ games and ‘oooft’ and ‘send a message to who you fancy’ games. In the 2-3 times I participated in this kind of threads, I’ve got one or two “Aviatrix- my mate says…” and I very much suspect the game organiser was making up the message for me, so I had one and I didn’t feel shit about being left out. So cute. 💌 I am definitely no forum attraction material but likewise, I am not looking to meet people off the forum really so it doesn’t matter to me. Hence I don’t participate any more. Always the same 10 people recycling themselves. 🥱 I do know some OP's of these kind of threads do do that for the reason you've stated " Which is nice and kind and adds to the so-called forum inclusivity (which is everything but, really! 😂) but really, no need to keep things artificial for my sake. The forum isn’t my hunting ground so to speak. It’s never been, I just use it to fight boredom and compile cool music playlists. | |||
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"On any thread about attraction or about what they want to do to you or anything like that I am always ignored or left out. Except once and I remember saying to myself- all these messages must be coming from the same one person it was so weird. But yeah I do. But what can I do? Cry about being ugly? I’ve got shit to do in my life. I mean the ‘my mate fancies you’ games and ‘oooft’ and ‘send a message to who you fancy’ games. In the 2-3 times I participated in this kind of threads, I’ve got one or two “Aviatrix- my mate says…” and I very much suspect the game organiser was making up the message for me, so I had one and I didn’t feel shit about being left out. So cute. 💌 I am definitely no forum attraction material but likewise, I am not looking to meet people off the forum really so it doesn’t matter to me. Hence I don’t participate any more. Always the same 10 people recycling themselves. 🥱 " Yeah. That’s the game. But I still play along. It’s funny sending silly messages. Also like, who knows, my love, maybe the ones that fancy us will join the forums soon ![]() | |||
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"On any thread about attraction or about what they want to do to you or anything like that I am always ignored or left out. Except once and I remember saying to myself- all these messages must be coming from the same one person it was so weird. But yeah I do. But what can I do? Cry about being ugly? I’ve got shit to do in my life. I mean the ‘my mate fancies you’ games and ‘oooft’ and ‘send a message to who you fancy’ games. In the 2-3 times I participated in this kind of threads, I’ve got one or two “Aviatrix- my mate says…” and I very much suspect the game organiser was making up the message for me, so I had one and I didn’t feel shit about being left out. So cute. 💌 I am definitely no forum attraction material but likewise, I am not looking to meet people off the forum really so it doesn’t matter to me. Hence I don’t participate any more. Always the same 10 people recycling themselves. 🥱 I do know some OP's of these kind of threads do do that for the reason you've stated Which is nice and kind and adds to the so-called forum inclusivity (which is everything but, really! 😂) but really, no need to keep things artificial for my sake. The forum isn’t my hunting ground so to speak. It’s never been, I just use it to fight boredom and compile cool music playlists. " Me too, I think 99.9% of my meet ups have been with non forum people. | |||
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"I like the swipe left or right threads where every guy swipes right on every woman and every guy gets swiped left on by every other guy. 😂" • Not me. I swipe right for practically every man (in addition to women et al) to the breaking point that newbies and those unaccustomed presume I'm gay. I get in-threads remarks from men telling me they're only into women (so am I) to private messages from men reinforcing their sexual persuasions. I only do it for one reason: inclusivity, variety and diversity. | |||
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"I like the swipe left or right threads where every guy swipes right on every woman and every guy gets swiped left on by every other guy. 😂 • Not me. I swipe right for practically every man (in addition to women et al) to the breaking point that newbies and those unaccustomed presume I'm gay. I get in-threads remarks from men telling me they're only into women (so am I) to private messages from men reinforcing their sexual persuasions. I only do it for one reason: inclusivity, variety and diversity." I’ll swipe either way on gents but try to make either reply at least humorous | |||
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"I like the swipe left or right threads where every guy swipes right on every woman and every guy gets swiped left on by every other guy. 😂 • Not me. I swipe right for practically every man (in addition to women et al) to the breaking point that newbies and those unaccustomed presume I'm gay. I get in-threads remarks from men telling me they're only into women (so am I) to private messages from men reinforcing their sexual persuasions. I only do it for one reason: inclusivity, variety and diversity." I'm still down for drinks and chess though just saying, I suck at chess. | |||
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"I like the swipe left or right threads where every guy swipes right on every woman and every guy gets swiped left on by every other guy. 😂 • Not me. I swipe right for practically every man (in addition to women et al) to the breaking point that newbies and those unaccustomed presume I'm gay. I get in-threads remarks from men telling me they're only into women (so am I) to private messages from men reinforcing their sexual persuasions. I only do it for one reason: inclusivity, variety and diversity. I'm still down for drinks and chess though just saying, I suck at chess." • As long as you suck it's fine. | |||
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"Can't say I'm overly bothered, I know full well that my gender and age are against me. I'm more likely to be irritated by those that hijack someones post to fawn over each other. " God you're gorgeous | |||
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"Question to all. Do you ever feel ignored, passed over in the forum games. Feel like you are invisible. I've been here long enough for it not to bother me, but how does it make you feel?" Only time it ever bothered me was when I started a game thread (another round of battlenips) and it got zero comments... broke my heart! 🤣🤣 | |||
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"7 people have added to the thread while I was typing my last post...... My last post is now piss in the wind and won't be read or replied to Will I take it personally - no. The only way it would be read is if someone reads the whole thread and wants to agree or disagree or FAF me I wrote my post thinking maybe this is one where Granny will notice me. Alas..." I always notice you. | |||
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"Question to all. Do you ever feel ignored, passed over in the forum games. Feel like you are invisible. I've been here long enough for it not to bother me, but how does it make you feel? Only time it ever bothered me was when I started a game thread (another round of battlenips) and it got zero comments... broke my heart! 🤣🤣" I like battlenips, mainly because I won! 👑 | |||
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"Bring passed over in a forum game on a niche website doesn't bother us no. Getting in a miff because "cuminurwifenow69" quoted the couple above us isn't really what we would do " I wouldn't go confusing popularity with verbosity | |||
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"I like the swipe left or right threads where every guy swipes right on every woman and every guy gets swiped left on by every other guy. 😂 • Not me. I swipe right for practically every man (in addition to women et al) to the breaking point that newbies and those unaccustomed presume I'm gay. I get in-threads remarks from men telling me they're only into women (so am I) to private messages from men reinforcing their sexual persuasions. I only do it for one reason: inclusivity, variety and diversity." Oh I know Nero. I've seen you do it many times. You have inspired me too do the same and I have done so on occasion. I even wrote your name in my post but then decided not to single you out that you may speak for yourself | |||
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"Occasionally. But you know, it's just fab ...and the likelihood of me meeting even 0.5% of users must be incredible odds" • My goodness Míddèrs, what madness is this?! It's not just Fab, it's THE Fab, the one and only, the celebrated and fêted Fab, the Fab that one trawls the airwaves to find, the one where bad men with good hearts scour the hinterland and tundra to locate the good women with bad souls, where errant Knights † embark on a quest to find their true loves, the Fab of all Fabs, the nirvana, the Shangri-la... ... ... ...the hopeful few that attain your ∅.5% and the chance to charm and beguile your quivering quim and tame your dangerous derrière. "just fab" indeed. {shakes fist} | |||
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"I don't usually join in them because I don't like feeling passed over for the person they fancy. Self preservation. ![]() This. It was one of my earliest lessons of The Fab Forum. ![]() | |||
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"I don't usually join in them because I don't like feeling passed over for the person they fancy. Self preservation. ![]() ![]() Good job someone fancies you. I won't be the only one 🔥🤓 | |||
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"We are the minority. Accept that or just move on from fab. " It's actually the minority that are the loudest 😊 | |||
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"I'm dyslexic and try to take care of my spelling if possible. Because of this I take a little bit of time in replying and usually end up telling some big hairy man that he's gorgeous and what I'd love to do to him. Instead of the sexy woman 4 posts back in the thread " This really did make me laugh. Thank you. But also funny at the time I assume. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm dyslexic and try to take care of my spelling if possible. Because of this I take a little bit of time in replying and usually end up telling some big hairy man that he's gorgeous and what I'd love to do to him. Instead of the sexy woman 4 posts back in the thread This really did make me laugh. Thank you. But also funny at the time I assume. ![]() ![]() ![]() It is yes....they're used to me in the Irish forum ![]() | |||
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"Question to all. Do you ever feel ignored, passed over in the forum games. Feel like you are invisible. I've been here long enough for it not to bother me, but how does it make you feel?" Occasionally but I try not to let it bother me x | |||
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"Question to all. Do you ever feel ignored, passed over in the forum games. Feel like you are invisible. I've been here long enough for it not to bother me, but how does it make you feel?" Sorry, did someone say something? | |||
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"Yes just now on my own thread. Nobody was getting me a coctail so I got one myself😭" Happened to me the the other day when i posted a drinks request in the 'what are you having' type one. I foolishly thought that as it was pretty inane and non -flirty i might get welcomed (it was a long Saturday..). Of course i didn't get an acknowledgement. Quite, er, dispiriting. And then i remembered that 'Oh, yeah, it's Fab'. Never forget it's a misnomer. Still. Some of the pictures, videos, and occasionally the profile texts prove pleasantly distracting. | |||
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"I don't usually join in them because I don't like feeling passed over for the person they fancy. Self preservation. ![]() Just checked you out…How could anyone psss you over? Stunning babe 😍💪 | |||
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"I do yeah mate, so you're not the only one. In fact the other day I was bypassed twice on those what would you do to the user above games. It is what it is though." Who said that?? 😉😁 | |||
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"Often A lack of response doesn't mean your contribution has gone unnoticed though It may have been useful to someone or made them smile Not everyone who reads contributes" This. Way more people read than post. | |||
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"Often A lack of response doesn't mean your contribution has gone unnoticed though It may have been useful to someone or made them smile Not everyone who reads contributes" I rarely get a direct response to things I post but every time there is a thread about noticing people or what you think of other fabbers, I get messages from women I've never spoken to, including some I've never seen on the forums saying how they really like my forum approach and they enjoy what I have to say. That makes it all worthwhile. | |||
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"Can't say I'm overly bothered, I know full well that my gender and age are against me. I'm more likely to be irritated by those that hijack someones post to fawn over each other. God you're gorgeous " naughty, naughty lol ![]() | |||
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"Question to all. Do you ever feel ignored, passed over in the forum games. Feel like you are invisible. I've been here long enough for it not to bother me, but how does it make you feel?" Yeah occasionally but I'm not for everyone and vice versa so whatever | |||
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"Question to all. Do you ever feel ignored, passed over in the forum games. Feel like you are invisible. I've been here long enough for it not to bother me, but how does it make you feel?" “I've been here long enough for it not to bother me” ^i copy and pasted yours. ![]() | |||
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"Who posted this? " This aged perfectly. | |||
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"All the time, and to be honest it’s why I don’t bother anymore. But, it’s the forums and should not be taken seriously! " That’s quite disappointing though isn’t it, more and more of us don’t take it seriously, and what happens then? Maybe this is why so many great people like jokes on here? Just a thought. | |||
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"I do yeah mate, so you're not the only one. In fact the other day I was bypassed twice on those what would you do to the user above games. It is what it is though. Sometimes I think this is genuinely mistakes like two people typing at the same time and then by the time it’s posted there’s another above!" i would agree with this as i always seem to get the timing wrong lol | |||
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"I've been ignored on those things so many times I've lost count. It's not important. I throw my contribution in and if there's a response, great. Otherwise, no worries. ![]() This for me too | |||
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