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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)

Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.

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By *obilebottomMan
10 weeks ago

All over

There must be good food and cake or I am out

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I plan a few other bi guys as well to play with as well.

Make sure there is Jaffa cakes and crumpets in the kitchen for when he manages to get out of the bedroom.

I make sure his dressing gown is ready as that is all he will need to wear.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Need to find me a fwb and get pampered.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I turn up

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"There must be good food and cake or I am out "

Absolutely.

Food is a given right!!

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I plan a few other bi guys as well to play with as well.

Make sure there is Jaffa cakes and crumpets in the kitchen for when he manages to get out of the bedroom.

I make sure his dressing gown is ready as that is all he will need to wear. "

Love this!

Catering to all needs!

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Need to find me a fwb and get pampered. "

All the best hun xx

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I turn up "

I am the gift right? Lol

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By *obboMan
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

I generally take my fwb out for food after and have a social after the fact lol. She tends to come round on a Sunday morning due to work for us and we get straight to it.

She makes it special by turning up in naughty outfits under a trench coat sometimes or if I go to hers just waiting bent over her sofa already wet and waiting....

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By *Silver-Man
10 weeks ago

North Wales

I give my full attention to them, they or she is my priority and I make them feel special.

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By *ony MannMan
10 weeks ago

South Newton


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special."

Just be you xxx

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
10 weeks ago

Aberdeen

My fwb wouldn't dream of spending a weekend at mine, that to him is a relationship. He thinks once a month is enough but he will bring me soup on occasions.

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By *inkyBrightonGuyMan
10 weeks ago

Brighton

Damn, you're a keeper! Hope you FWB realizes that!

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By *ony MannMan
10 weeks ago

South Newton


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.

Just be you xxx"

I should have read more carefully.

I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I …would not spend the weekend with a FWB, that sounds relationship-y to me 😬

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I generally take my fwb out for food after and have a social after the fact lol. She tends to come round on a Sunday morning due to work for us and we get straight to it.

She makes it special by turning up in naughty outfits under a trench coat sometimes or if I go to hers just waiting bent over her sofa already wet and waiting...."

Love the set up. A Trench coat is always a win. Staple item in the wardrobe

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I give my full attention to them, they or she is my priority and I make them feel special."

Love that! Fully present in the moment x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.

Just be you xxx"

100% true. I just do what feels natural to me

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"My fwb wouldn't dream of spending a weekend at mine, that to him is a relationship. He thinks once a month is enough but he will bring me soup on occasions. "

I get that. Everyone is different and hold differntb views of what is considered casual or something a lil more serious

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.

Just be you xxx

I should have read more carefully.

I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery. "

Sounds awesome!!

Bet that reclaim sex is super hot too!

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I …would not spend the weekend with a FWB, that sounds relationship-y to me 😬"

I respect your view. I get that everyone has differing views on what is considered casual v something a little more committed

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Damn, you're a keeper! Hope you FWB realizes that!"

lol. Thanks 😙

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By *raig4973Man
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Essentially, plan out exactly how they want their day/play session to go like. Cuddles, films, massages etc. Just letting them decide on what they need.

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Get the hoover out... 🤣🤣

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

They get out of their kitchen and let me cook

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"They get out of their kitchen and let me cook "

Having seen evidence, my kitchen is all yours xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds


"They get out of their kitchen and let me cook

Having seen evidence, my kitchen is all yours xx"

I do hoover too

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

She’s only a fwb. Let’s not overdo it

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"They get out of their kitchen and let me cook

Having seen evidence, my kitchen is all yours xx

I do hoover too "

You was maid for me..

Literally 😍😍

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By *ein-guyMan
10 weeks ago

East Cowes

Just having her around is all I need. Her smile, her laugh, the abuse she gives me....all turn me on!

For her, I'll do whatever she wants but a strong coffee and a cooked breakfast would go a long way to getting me in her good books

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.

Just be you xxx

I should have read more carefully.

I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery.

Sounds awesome!!

Bet that reclaim sex is super hot too!"

The reclaim sex is super hot 🔥

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Essentially, plan out exactly how they want their day/play session to go like. Cuddles, films, massages etc. Just letting them decide on what they need."

That’s sounding good hun!

Massages too. Love it

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Get the hoover out... 🤣🤣"

lol. A clean house is always good 😜

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"They get out of their kitchen and let me cook "

What’s your signature dish x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"She’s only a fwb. Let’s not overdo it"

Everyone’s different and I can respect that. Some ppl may not see the above as overdoing it x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Just having her around is all I need. Her smile, her laugh, the abuse she gives me....all turn me on!

For her, I'll do whatever she wants but a strong coffee and a cooked breakfast would go a long way to getting me in her good books "

Love this! Thanks for sharing x

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"They get out of their kitchen and let me cook

What’s your signature dish x"

Me hopefully 😉😉

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By *ony MannMan
10 weeks ago

South Newton


"Hi

I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery.

Sounds awesome!!

Bet that reclaim sex is super hot too!

The reclaim sex is super hot 🔥"

Your hot

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

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A whole weekend in someone's company?! No ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

They cook for me. And/ Or make arrangements to take me out then don't actually make it out of bed. That does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Get the hoover out... 🤣🤣"

Not Henry though

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I would not spend a weekend at a FWB’s it’s too long! When I host I cook dinner, put on fresh bedding, make breakfast, if we shower together, I will get some nice stuff for that from lush or something, if it’s more than a night then I try and plan some things to do to get us out of the house, but doesn’t always happen

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends


"She’s only a fwb. Let’s not overdo it

Everyone’s different and I can respect that. Some ppl may not see the above as overdoing it x"

I’m only kidding.

I just don’t have a fwb so can’t think what I’d do

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends


"She’s only a fwb. Let’s not overdo it

Everyone’s different and I can respect that. Some ppl may not see the above as overdoing it x

I’m only kidding.

I just don’t have a fwb so can’t think what I’d do"

I know, I’d order a Chinese

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By *ripfillMan
10 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I am seeing a lovey couple this weekend so I am ….. taking pink champagne ,my home made marmalade , home made bread ,

Some cut flowers and plenty of wine ,

Leaving a small gap between the curtains to roughly know what time of day it is !

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


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I know, I’d order a Chinese "

Make it Thai and I’m in

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends


"

I know, I’d order a Chinese

Make it Thai and I’m in "

You’re so going to get it

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"A whole weekend in someone's company?! No ta. "

I’m curious hun. Why not x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"They cook for me. And/ Or make arrangements to take me out then don't actually make it out of bed. That does it for me.

"

Love it!

What’s your fav meal

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I am seeing a lovey couple this weekend so I am ….. taking pink champagne ,my home made marmalade , home made bread ,

Some cut flowers and plenty of wine ,

Leaving a small gap between the curtains to roughly know what time of day it is !

"

This is cute. Love this for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"They cook for me. And/ Or make arrangements to take me out then don't actually make it out of bed. That does it for me.

Love it!

What’s your fav meal "

Ah food is food. I love it all. I cook all the time at home so having someone cook for me is kinda lovely. I really appreciate their efforts.😊

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"They cook for me. And/ Or make arrangements to take me out then don't actually make it out of bed. That does it for me.

Love it!

What’s your fav meal

Ah food is food. I love it all. I cook all the time at home so having someone cook for me is kinda lovely. I really appreciate their efforts.😊"

It defo tastes nicer when someone else has cooked it

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By *ripfillMan
10 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant


"I am seeing a lovey couple this weekend so I am ….. taking pink champagne ,my home made marmalade , home made bread ,

Some cut flowers and plenty of wine ,

Leaving a small gap between the curtains to roughly know what time of day it is !

This is cute. Love this for you x"

Thank you x

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
10 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Five finger knuckle shuffle followed by a chippy tea and a can of shandy if I'm feeling edgy

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By *partharmonyCouple
10 weeks ago

Ruislip


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special."

Just be naked all the time.

Bring a friend.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
10 weeks ago

Someplace

Look good.

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By *ensualDivaWoman
10 weeks ago

Galway, Some sensual out West

Hoover

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By *ogmark1Man
10 weeks ago

Reading

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By *ogmark1Man
10 weeks ago

Reading

Tidy up a bit , make them welcome , offer them a drink or order some food , whatever they fancy

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By *eliWoman
10 weeks ago

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This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.

Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.

I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.

Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air.

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Five finger knuckle shuffle followed by a chippy tea and a can of shandy if I'm feeling edgy "

🤭

Love it

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Hi

You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?

Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.

Just be naked all the time.

Bring a friend. "

lol clothes. Just an unnecessary layer right lol 😝

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Look good. "

💯 agree x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Hoover "

A clean house - I hear that x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Tidy up a bit , make them welcome , offer them a drink or order some food , whatever they fancy "

You wanna make your friend feel at home right!

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.

Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.

I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.

Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air."

Thank you for sharing your view.

I value the friendship aspect also.

Girl hope these men appreciate your friendship also x

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10 weeks ago


"This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.

Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.

I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.

Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air.

Thank you for sharing your view.

I value the friendship aspect also.

Girl hope these men appreciate your friendship also x"

This forum isn’t big enough to list all the things that make it special for us

We are 300+ miles apart and the effort that takes is big but wow it’s worth it and we’re all very happy

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By *race in LaceWoman
10 weeks ago

Preston

I always let them keep my knickers.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
10 weeks ago

Stratford

Cuppa in the morning. I’m a simple soul

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Well, none of us can host. So at hotels, I'll bring snacks and drinks. Something sexy to slip into, just to slip out of it again. Sometimes there's a bag of tricks If I'm at the room first, be ready and waiting

I like to have a look to see where to suggest we can go for a meal (even though it's always the same 2 places 🤭), coffee in the morning, an activity for the next day. Now, we don't always end up following the pencilled itinerary, but there we go 🤣

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.

Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.

I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.

Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air.

Thank you for sharing your view.

I value the friendship aspect also.

Girl hope these men appreciate your friendship also x

This forum isn’t big enough to list all the things that make it special for us

We are 300+ miles apart and the effort that takes is big but wow it’s worth it and we’re all very happy "

❤️

I love this for you!

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"I always let them keep my knickers."

Great idea. Thanks for sharing x

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Cuppa in the morning. I’m a simple soul "

Thanks all you require?

Do you ask for a side order of sloppy toppy

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By *leasinglipznhips OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (Temporarily)


"Well, none of us can host. So at hotels, I'll bring snacks and drinks. Something sexy to slip into, just to slip out of it again. Sometimes there's a bag of tricks If I'm at the room first, be ready and waiting

I like to have a look to see where to suggest we can go for a meal (even though it's always the same 2 places 🤭), coffee in the morning, an activity for the next day. Now, we don't always end up following the pencilled itinerary, but there we go 🤣"

Haha. Love it.

The intention was there nonetheless 😝

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