FabSwingers.com forum: Is having a sense of humour a major deal for you?

By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North West

I think for me it is, I love people who are as daft as me and who I can have a laugh with.

Anyone feel the same?

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By *isskxxyvWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I don’t care, I’m funny enough for us both.

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By *hortieWoman
8 weeks ago

Northampton

You need one to cope with me, so definitely

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By *aizyWoman
8 weeks ago

west midlands

It is for me I love a good laugh.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
8 weeks ago

North West

Absolutely, if I can’t have a laugh I’ll get bored

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I think a sense of humour is probably the thing I'm most attracted to. I have a tendency to go serious and deep and I think I need people around me who dig me out of that. And the easiest way to do that is to make me laugh.

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By *FF23Man
8 weeks ago

London

Got to have a good sense of humour. 100%

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By *ndymac888Man
8 weeks ago

Dumbarton

If you can balance it with sexual chemistry yeah but I don’t think guys can be laughed out their pants the same way woman can.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
8 weeks ago

West Dublin

Totally. Hate dry sh!tes who cannot have a laugh.

Im not the funniest person around, far from it. Love a bit of sarcasm & take the p!ss. Gotta laugh in life.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

"If you can balance it with sexual chemistry yeah but I don’t think guys can be laughed out their pants the same way woman can. "

How much you wanna bet

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
8 weeks ago

Merseyside

Yes same for us can’t be dealing with seriousness not part of the fun for us - laughing is great my hubby reckons I could be laughed into bed

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

It most certainly is. It's the cornerstone of conviviality and the most wonderful opening gambit when getting to know someone. I think it takes conversations to a next level where you can really engage and learn more about that person. I personally can't manage a form of communication where everything is too forthright and serious, lacking depth and substance. Humour fills that void.

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By *imboInLimboWoman
8 weeks ago

Baldock

Definitely, some people take themselves far too seriously! I’d find it hard to fancy someone I couldn’t have a laugh with

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
8 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

I need to be around people who have a sense of humour. I’m rarely serious and just let the banter and jokes fly and if I’m not getting any of it reciprocated it sucks and I struggle to maintain the conversation/friendship

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By *cottish guy 555Man
8 weeks ago

London

Absolutely.

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By *urningGingeMan
8 weeks ago

Norwich

Definitely, if you don't have dark and/or innuendo based humour, I maybe to much lol!

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By *ampireLoveMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

As long as they laugh at my jokes and make it convincing, I’m happy 😂🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *ndymac888Man
8 weeks ago

Dumbarton

"If you can balance it with sexual chemistry yeah but I don’t think guys can be laughed out their pants the same way woman can.

How much you wanna bet "

If you can seduce me with humour lol ?

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By *FF23Man
8 weeks ago

London

"If you can balance it with sexual chemistry yeah but I don’t think guys can be laughed out their pants the same way woman can. "

I can definitely be laughed out my pants by a woman.

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By *rucking-HellMan
8 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm a Christian, so I don't joke.

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By *olf-of-OdinMan
8 weeks ago

Winchester

Yeah laughing is good for the soul innit.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

"I'm a Christian, so I don't joke. "

Sorry are you dyslexic, did you mean ch*ke? Like ch*ke on that DICKKK

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"I don’t care, I’m funny enough for us both."

Funny, "ha ha" or funny "funny"? Xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yep.

A good test is a game of CaH. If they're not at all funny it's obvious. If they think my sense of humour is too dark were equally not compatible.

Humour is subjective of course, but I've always found it best to be on the same level with someone.

Being the only funny one in a couple is too much like hard work. 🤷‍♂️

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By *oodoodMan
8 weeks ago

Suffolkish

You'll need a sense of humour when you see my face

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By *ndymac888Man
8 weeks ago

Dumbarton

"I'm a Christian, so I don't joke.

Sorry are you dyslexic, did you mean ch*ke? Like ch*ke on that DICKKK "

This is funny but my waistband is still firmly on my hips 😉

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By *iss.BellaWoman
8 weeks ago

"I think for me it is, I love people who are as daft as me and who I can have a laugh with.

Anyone feel the same?"

Yes, along with thick skin

If we can't rip shreds out of eachother whilst ripping each other's clothes off.. what's the point? The main reason I avoid those that are easily offended

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By *sStephenPickleMan
8 weeks ago

Ends

A good sense of humour or just the same sense of humour as me?

I appreciate people who are funny even if it’s not my usual humour.

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
8 weeks ago

Southport

Absolutely need to have a sense of humour, preferably a good one, (dark or dry is ok as well)

If you can't laugh together.....

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
8 weeks ago

Southport

Forgot to add innuendo

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By *outhman15Man
8 weeks ago

southampton

Not a fan of misserable people love having a laugh i can laugh at myself as you can tell by my pics its a case of having too

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Yes, but someone as daft as me is hard to come by.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
8 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Yep, I love to laugh. A sense of humour is so important

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Definitely need to be able to have a laugh, especially when first meeting someone

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By *avexxMan
8 weeks ago

cheshire

i do like a good giggle

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

Everyone has a sense of humour.

I like people who have a compatible/similar sense of humour, it's easier to understand and relax around them. I'm pretty poor at faux laughing to humour people/as a way of flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

A moody dark sense of humour, yes please.

Constantly cracking jokes and being an immature dick, no thanks.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
8 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

Sure. Tell us a joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Well the last meet I had, we both stripped off and she pissed herself laughing, I must have humoured her unwittingly somehow

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
8 weeks ago

Up North

Yeah, it’s important to me that friends and sexual partners can make me laugh and vice versa.

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By *.R.MMan
8 weeks ago

Norfolk

Imperative for me, especially when I take my clothes off

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Yes HUGE ! Humour is very subjective though... so don't come in a funny hat wearing your clown shoes.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
8 weeks ago

Stratford

I mean it will never match mine, but they have to try

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By *ude LawMan
8 weeks ago

Harrogate

"so don't come in a funny hat wearing your clown shoes. "

No kink shaming please.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Sense of humour is important.

Women always say it’s important but I’ve never been able to get anyone’s knickers off by making them laugh. Though no doubt they’d laugh when I got my clothes off

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By *a LunaWoman
8 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Yes.

A complimentary sense of humour to mine is important to me.

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By *amilla99TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Everyone has their own sense of humour but being willing and able to laugh at yourself is the most important thing. If you can't take a joke about yourself, we're not really going to get on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Having a similar sense of humour or one that I can appreciate is fairly important. If neither of us gets the others idea of humour it could get awkward. I really dislike practical jokes for instance so would be unlikely to click with someone who did.

I think it's rare to have no sense of humour at all.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
8 weeks ago

Castlebar

Absolutely 💯

It's essential to be able to have a laugh with someone

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

...

If we're not bouncing off each other, I'll try to exit as soon as I can

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By *oneyBee200Woman
8 weeks ago

Kent

Absolutely. Life is too serious so having a laugh on a meet is essential. They need a good sense of humour for when I get naked

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By *race in LaceWoman
8 weeks ago

Preston

Not if they laugh when they see my tits

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Having a similar sense of humour or one that I can appreciate is fairly important. If neither of us gets the others idea of humour it could get awkward. I really dislike practical jokes for instance so would be unlikely to click with someone who did.

I think it's rare to have no sense of humour at all. "

I would add that if you expect a laugh a minute when you're with me you'll be disappointed. I don't want to attend a one person comedy gig or provide one. Original wit, wry observations and good conversation will do for me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"so don't come in a funny hat wearing your clown shoes.

No kink shaming please."

Now everyone knows about your clown shoes.

^ He always liked to come in Boots until the manager had him thrown out..... Boom!

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By *ookie46Woman
8 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

It’s a huge thing for me and I like to give as good as I get

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
8 weeks ago

Coventry

To be fair if they didn't have a sense of humour I don't think they'd want be around us very long

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

Yes but it has to be complementary to your own or it won't work.

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By *r Man45Man
8 weeks ago

North West

You've got t have a sense of humour to put up with me...ha ha

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