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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi

Just wondering why is there so many people that are so stuck up on here and honestly think there gods gift on here waiting to here the normal abuse as no one can take any of these chats seriously but putting it out there as there are a good few that aren't

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

💙

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

Hugs OP.

ITt gets easier.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
10 weeks ago

Herts

I am God's gift

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi

No I'm really past careing been on both sides of this websites on a couples account and I answered every single person with respect but it seems no one can be bothered

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By *alahadLadMan
10 weeks ago

Pembs

I've seen that women get a ton of messages, and they often get very similar messages in a row. Then you're either left on read or deleted outright. If that's what's been happening I wouldn't take it personally

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"I am God's gift"
whatever helps you sleep at night

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
10 weeks ago

belfast

Another loser post.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

UK

You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up.

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

Being stuck up is just having another preference

Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"Another loser post. "

Far from a loser mate

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"Being stuck up is just having another preference

Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe "

There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this

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By *alahadLadMan
10 weeks ago

Pembs


"Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

"

This is what I was trying to say. Sometimes you just catch someone at a bad time

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world

If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site)

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world

Or a different answer would be supply and demand

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. "

as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

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By *uzzieboyMan
10 weeks ago

taunton

Well I’m far from stuck up very much down to earth me

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) "
I know it's completely pathetic

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By *lix CoxMan
10 weeks ago

CF39

I Am what I am

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By *abioMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting!

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"Well I’m far from stuck up very much down to earth me "
glad to hear it it's normally women and couples

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! "
says the man with how many verfys I wonder why

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Being stuck up is just having another preference

Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe

There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this "

But if they have declined and say for example you continue, who is in the wrong or right

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! "

What would yours show up at my man ?

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By *IXEN200Woman
10 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! "

That just spoils all the fun....

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"Being stuck up is just having another preference

Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe

There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this

But if they have declined and say for example you continue, who is in the wrong or right "

I would be completely in the wrong if I was to keep going and would be stupid if there clearly not showing no interest but when there completely ignoring people

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

UK


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time "

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested.

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting!

That just spoils all the fun.... "

Bless 🙈🤣🤣🤣

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting!

That just spoils all the fun.... "

This 👆

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Being stuck up is just having another preference

Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe

There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this

But if they have declined and say for example you continue, who is in the wrong or right I would be completely in the wrong if I was to keep going and would be stupid if there clearly not showing no interest but when there completely ignoring people "

No response is also a not interested

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested."

there lose

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic "

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

What’s the context ? Are they rude for not replying or rude in the reply.

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

[Removed by poster at 09/05/25 23:50:56]

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world

Allowed**

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Guys with pics and a decent profile seem to do alright on here.

What would you choose OP - a woman’s profile with a few sexy pics showing how good they looked or a woman’s profile with no pics at all?

Women and couples are exactly the same…

K

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London

Explain what you mean by being stuck up.

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 "

nah completely agree but at least show some respect

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
10 weeks ago

Reading


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose "

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"Guys with pics and a decent profile seem to do alright on here.

What would you choose OP - a woman’s profile with a few sexy pics showing how good they looked or a woman’s profile with no pics at all?

Women and couples are exactly the same…

K

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as I said previously been on couples account and my other accounts but I've mailed people with and without pics but I always ask in chat and there more and willing some people have jobs to protect children that are old enough to be on this website

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J"

trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J"

well as I said I was able to mail everyone even if I wasn't interested

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted "

Are you saying most women on here just want a big dick in them?

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
10 weeks ago

Norwich

We all have different preferences that doesn't make us stuck up it makes us human. Perhaps you have been looking in the wrong places..

Find your people and stop looking places where you are nor embraced!

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By *alahadLadMan
10 weeks ago

Pembs

A big dick isn't a guaranteed win though! I'm rocking that on my profile and I get the occasional left on read in return. Women and couples accounts will always be more in demand, so it's a numbers game. But eventually it works out in the end!

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect "

Respect shown to who exactly lad ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect

Respect shown to who exactly lad ? "

Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume.

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted "

So the pics you send are they just dick pics because you think you are gifted down there and you think that is all women want to see?

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
10 weeks ago

Reading


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted "

Many men on Fab seriously overestimate their market worth.

*That concludes my Ted Talk

J

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

Don't mind me 🍿

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in with a FORUM INSURANCE claim form

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands


"Pops in with a FORUM INSURANCE claim form "

You got any Jelly Babies?

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I am God's gift"

I'm the Devils... 🥪

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol


"I am God's gift

I'm the Devils... 🥪"

True, I did send you here to piss everyone off 🤣

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect

Respect shown to who exactly lad ?

Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume."

Hahaha you’re not denying that for all women though nanny ? 🙈🤣

Bit like getting told I’ve got a big cock attention’s attention right?

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi

Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

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By *abioMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why "

Those would be me getting off my arse and going to socials all over the country…. you know.. actually meeting and talking and getting to know people face to face!

Dear boy, you are better than making assumptions….

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect

Respect shown to who exactly lad ?

Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume.

Hahaha you’re not denying that for all women though nanny ? 🙈🤣

Bit like getting told I’ve got a big cock attention’s attention right? "

Denying what? That women on here are often treated disrespectfully by a lot of men.

I've had a few big cocks in my time, and my vagina always went back to it's original state.

The same way it did after my children were born.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

... And the fish jump in to the boat 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites "

Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because of your massive cock?

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London


"... And the fish jump in to the boat 🤷🏼‍♂️ "

I was just thinking someone's on a wind up tonight.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
10 weeks ago

La La Land


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because you are massive cock?"

I've amended your typo BN 🫶🏻

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By *alahadLadMan
10 weeks ago

Pembs

Well, you heard him ladies. You're lose 😔

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why "

Says the man with a whole gallery of photos, a detailed biog, doesn’t think all he needs is a big dick, puts in years of hard graft and understands the swinging world.

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because you are massive cock?

I've amended your typo BN 🫶🏻"

You win today's Internet.

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

This is brutal but I can’t stop watching the comments.

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By *am80CoolWoman
10 weeks ago

Town

Why are you so upset about this?

Site rules are clear about what receiving no response means. No one forced people to message and no one is expected to respond.

And approach and attitude is important, you are likely to receive negative responses with a negative attitude like the one you are showing in this thread OP.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"... And the fish jump in to the boat 🤷🏼‍♂️

I was just thinking someone's on a wind up tonight. "

I started to type out an articulate reply but then I lost the will and remembered something someone posted on here about fish and boats 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *hickthighs25Woman
10 weeks ago

Stockton

🍿🍿🍿🍿🤣

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol


"🍿🍿🍿🍿🤣"

Yup

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why

Says the man with a whole gallery of photos, a detailed biog, doesn’t think all he needs is a big dick, puts in years of hard graft and understands the swinging world.

"

He killing it! 👊🏼

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By *t_takes_two!Woman
10 weeks ago

Yorkshire

No one owes you anything in life, on here, or in bed. You aren't entitled to a response n you might not like any of the responses you do invite/get on the internet. Getting angry will also not help you handle the rejection or increase your odds of getting sex. If it's a time waste here, take a break, go Enjoy yourself else where. Fab is not important enough to let it affect you. Hope you find things that make you feel better x

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic

Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect

Respect shown to who exactly lad ?

Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume.

Hahaha you’re not denying that for all women though nanny ? 🙈🤣

Bit like getting told I’ve got a big cock attention’s attention right?

Denying what? That women on here are often treated disrespectfully by a lot of men.

I've had a few big cocks in my time, and my vagina always went back to it's original state.

The same way it did after my children were born.

"

So are the men though if anything 10x worse here not more but yes some on here and normal dating sites are selling the same lassies (couples girls) fannie 🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣

We ain’t all ass lickers (even if I do that’s not the point) attention gets given and it changes some women’s gramted you restrechung after childbirth I’d assume is different to my fist we all ain’t the saint nanny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *B..Woman
10 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I don’t reply to many messages, ones thinking a big dick is all that it takes to get my attention usually get deleted first, so if that makes me stuck up then so be it.

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By *amierebelMan
10 weeks ago

My own little world


"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why

Those would be me getting off my arse and going to socials all over the country…. you know.. actually meeting and talking and getting to know people face to face!

Dear boy, you are better than making assumptions…. "

Desperate is the word you seek mate 👍

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
10 weeks ago

Reading

The men on the thread "self blocking" is hilarious.

J

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not God's gift. I'd have to believe in gods for that.

I am, however, fucking great 💜

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By *j NorthMan
10 weeks ago

Wakey

Having been part of a couple on here twice !

I use to filter through the messages on her behalf.

Some of the messages single blokes sent differes between. Instant Block , ignore ,

Crikey that's twice size of mine .

And no I'm not interested in a bi 3way

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because of your massive cock?"

no I don't I have a good personality and I'm quiet funny as well I ain't no oil canvas but I'm not a ugly bastard

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By *igyin96 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

livi


"No one owes you anything in life, on here, or in bed. You aren't entitled to a response n you might not like any of the responses you do invite/get on the internet. Getting angry will also not help you handle the rejection or increase your odds of getting sex. If it's a time waste here, take a break, go Enjoy yourself else where. Fab is not important enough to let it affect you. Hope you find things that make you feel better x"
not angry at all but just gets boarding getting the same thing over and over again like women have said god knows how many times in there status

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By *cottish guy 555Man
10 weeks ago

London

Fascinating.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

My horse is very tall 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time "

You're what most people are looking for?

Perhaps they're into denial

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
10 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

I wonder where the term 'stuck up' originated from? What does it mean?

I'm not stuck up, I've never been stuck up anywhere....unless you count the time I was stuck up a tree house when I was little because some silly arse nicked my ladder

I can be a twat though if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I want to know where this train is going...

I'm kind of confused OP. If you've been here for 6 years, on and off, especially as a couple as well, then you realise that the interactions that are possible in here are wildly varied. Go find the community that works for you on here

I personally don't think it's them being stuck up. I think people are very, rightly, guarded in who they choose to interact with. It's a site filled with blank profiles of unidentifiable people who can at times be nasty.

Yes it's frustrating not always getting fluid and inspiring conversation and the validation you seem to be seeking. Just relax and enjoy the good moments. Xx

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By *ayhay23Man
10 weeks ago

Northampton


"I wonder where the term 'stuck up' originated from? What does it mean?

I'm not stuck up, I've never been stuck up anywhere....unless you count the time I was stuck up a tree house when I was little because some silly arse nicked my ladder

I can be a twat though if that helps"

It was different times!!! I would have done anything for a tree house!

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

OP has the energy of someone who when given a polite rejection messages back asking why.

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

i honestly dont know why im stuck up it must be in the genes,, but im working on it

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I assure you that we take all our subject's comments seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"OP has the energy of someone who when given a polite rejection messages back asking why."

This is what I read sensing, it strings it conversations demanding pictures etc x

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By *othario lMan
10 weeks ago

Burnley

The narcissists playground......carry on.....

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chard

It's a hard knock life.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites "

I don't like massive cocks and especially ones on arrogant men.

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
10 weeks ago

Birstall


"OP has the energy of someone who when given a polite rejection messages back asking why.

This is what I read sensing, it strings it conversations demanding pictures etc x"

And then when they get the reply that they are just not interested proceeds to insult and say that they're not all that

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
10 weeks ago

Birstall

Really giving out incel vibes!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

I don't like massive cocks and especially ones on arrogant men."

I'm quite partial to the odd one on a decent guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

This thread just shows that the women who turned him down were right to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

The problem is when you post a thread where you think you’re asking a genuine question but reply to those that respond in a passive aggressive manner you could of answer your own question

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
10 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"Really giving out incel vibes!"

Another day on fab another petulant outburst with the usual sad and predictable abusive language about those they seek to meet..

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
10 weeks ago

Birstall


"Really giving out incel vibes!

Another day on fab another petulant outburst with the usual sad and predictable abusive language about those they seek to meet..

"

I can imagine they are the ones that ask 'well why are you on a sex site if you won't meet?' when they get a polite 'no thanks' to their request to meet instantly

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I get it can feel frustrating when you don't get a reply ,however you don't give much to reply to from your profile.

I often don't open messages at all because I look at profiles first..

Also if someone replied back to you saying thanks but no thanks would you honestly feel better? Or would they still be seen as stuck up for purely not being in to you?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
10 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"Really giving out incel vibes!

Another day on fab another petulant outburst with the usual sad and predictable abusive language about those they seek to meet..

I can imagine they are the ones that ask 'well why are you on a sex site if you won't meet?' when they get a polite 'no thanks' to their request to meet instantly "

It's like at times watching children throw a hissy fit, instead of looking at what they are doing wrong or could learn from others doing well on here..

As you pointed out, incel vibes..

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
10 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

The way people act on the internet is not the way they act in real life. Afterall, we have laws & consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

No reply = no thank you.

If that makes me stuck up so be it, have you replied to everyone on this thread? Do you reply to your spam emails? So you ring the leaflets through your door and say sorry it's not for me but thanks anyway?

No one is owed a reply from someone they never asked for a message from.

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
10 weeks ago

Birstall


"The way people act on the internet is not the way they act in real life. Afterall, we have laws & consequences "

I'd hope not! If you have to say no to somebody 10 times and they still try to convince you to meet them, how safe would you actually be if you did meet them!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites "

I'm not interested in the size of a guys cock.. I like to get to know people. If you can't or don't write a decent message then yeah people are going to delete the message or not read it .. it doesn't make them stuck up!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"It's a hard cock life."
🤣

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By *xydadbodMan
10 weeks ago

Milton keynes

If someone doesn't reply, then it's a sign that someone isn't interested.. its one of those rules I first learned when I first join fab, and that was a very long while ago.. so unless that's all changed without me knowing, I must of missed the memo

But it is what it is really.. we can't all be everyone's cup of tea, if someone's not interested, then move on. It's as simple as that, but as this thread shows.. it may not be the case for some

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By *hortyscotWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Where's the popcorn?

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day.

They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct.

That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time

Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose

But it's not "their loss"

If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing.

If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is.

J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted "

It makes me smile every time I see a single man say "it's their loss"

It's their loss is flavoured as words of comfort, but it tastes like "fuck me instead".

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By *ezza50Man
10 weeks ago

Peterborough

I totally agree with you

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I totally agree with you "

With who?

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By *ustAnotherMan
10 weeks ago

brumish

Been pretty rude to a few people replying to this just trying to help with some objectivity it seems.

And yeah it does smack of sour grapes

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"I totally agree with you

With who?"

The OP I think

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chard


"It's a hard cock life. 🤣"

I thought my autocorrect had done that!

🤣

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By *oxychicWoman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Stuck up ? In which way do u think ppl are stuck up ?

If your profile don't intrigue me im not going to reply but that isn't because I'm stuck up , just that you have nothing that interests me, I don't have time to message everyone, and I'm not stuck up or think I'm better than you or anyone, in fact I'm rather normal , and there far better than me on here but to survive on here male or female, you have to grow a tough skin x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"It's a hard cock life. 🤣

I thought my autocorrect had done that!

🤣"

🤣🤣🤣 Nope im in a cheeky mood today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"I am God's gift"

I'm gods booby prize

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

10 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'.

Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here.

Not a message.

Not a reply.

Certainly not sex.

People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it.

Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷‍♂️

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By *oadie00Man
10 weeks ago

Bellshill

I've wondered this as well, I run a couples account and some of the messages from guys are fucking vile so when I message from my private account I try to be nice and respectful, I really wonder what tactic works best because I spend some time reading bios, finding a common interest etc and get deleted straight away 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites "

And? What do you think having a large penis means? Absolutely nothing it's another cock in a sea of 16300 cocks.

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town


"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'.

Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here.

Not a message.

Not a reply.

Certainly not sex.

People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it.

Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷‍♂️"

When we meander our way through life. Is it more pleasant or less pleasant, more enjoyable or less enjoyable, when we show and share with people a little respect, common decency, engagement, acknowledgement, walking past people with a nod or a hello, stopping to chat as our worlds bump into eachother for a short while. Being insular and self absorbed and not owing people anything is not a terribly enjoyable state of affairs. Random electronic communication has much to answer for.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

10 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I've wondered this as well, I run a couples account and some of the messages from guys are fucking vile so when I message from my private account I try to be nice and respectful, I really wonder what tactic works best because I spend some time reading bios, finding a common interest etc and get deleted straight away 🤣"

The tactic that worked best for me (at least it did when I actually sent messages) was to understand that I wouldn't float everyone's boat, and that they hadn't asked me to message them.

A reply was never expected.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

10 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'.

Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here.

Not a message.

Not a reply.

Certainly not sex.

People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it.

Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷‍♂️

When we meander our way through life. Is it more pleasant or less pleasant, more enjoyable or less enjoyable, when we show and share with people a little respect, common decency, engagement, acknowledgement, walking past people with a nod or a hello, stopping to chat as our worlds bump into eachother for a short while. Being insular and self absorbed and not owing people anything is not a terribly enjoyable state of affairs. Random electronic communication has much to answer for. "

This isn't 'real life' though. Of course people smile at eachother, say 'morning' to strangers when walking dogs, hold doors open for people and make idle small talk in the queue at Adli.

But on here the equivalent comparison to a message on here is often someone walking into a pub, seeing someone they fancy, flopping their dick out and saying 'nice tits love, get a load of my huge wang. Fancy noshing me off in the car park?'.

It's a false comparison and the situations aren't comparable.

Even a perfectly polite message is more akin to a well presented marketing leaflet dropped through your letterbox from a perfectly good business that you simply have no interest in using. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chard


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

And? What do you think having a large penis means? Absolutely nothing it's another cock in a sea of 16300 cocks."

I demand a recount

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By *ea monkeyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites

Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because of your massive cock? no I don't I have a good personality and I'm quiet funny as well I ain't no oil canvas but I'm not a ugly bastard "

Is this good personality something that you switch on and off?

*waits patiently for the good personality to actually show up*

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
10 weeks ago

South Wales


"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'.

Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here.

Not a message.

Not a reply.

Certainly not sex.

People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it.

Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷‍♂️"

👌👌👌

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

“It’s pronounced - Winklé

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

cradley

Thing is nobody owes you a reply. If someone isn't interested they don't have to reply to you.

When you receive minimum 50 messages a day on couples/female accounts you can't reply to every single person

Especially when a lot of them are like 'hey' 27 times with no reply thinking the 28th will somehow illicit a response....

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke

Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
10 weeks ago

South Wales


"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping "

You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol


"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping

You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X"

Oi! Back of the queue! I was here first

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

cradley


"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping

You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X

Oi! Back of the queue! I was here first "

Hey that silhouette is so alluring! Both of us can barely contain our arousal it has us seconds away from orgasm

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke


"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping

You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X"

Looks like we'll have to share him then, I'm sooo wet with the silhouette

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
10 weeks ago

South Wales


"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping

You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X

Looks like we'll have to share him then, I'm sooo wet with the silhouette "

You can have him for his looks, we will take him for his sparkling personality. Deal x

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By *ins and secretsWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow and South West Scotland

Since when is not wanting to shag any random stranger who messages being stuck up?

Your sense of entitlement is ridiculous

Ask yourself why an inbox full of written rejection so important to you. Will an inbox of no make you feel better?

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

cradley


"Since when is not wanting to shag any random stranger who messages being stuck up?

Your sense of entitlement is ridiculous

Ask yourself why an inbox full of written rejection so important to you. Will an inbox of no make you feel better?"

This is such a fair point. Why is a no thankyou message any more validating to you than a lack of a reply? It's the same net outcome surely

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By *abioMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I still stand by my original comment…. Friday and Saturday night on here after 11pm… breathalyser on mobile phones!!!

Imagine the amount of people we could have saved… I could almost be a saint!!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

How could anyone resist such judgemental entitlement

This thread has dried me up!

OP, how about showing some humility, if that's what you seek?

C

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By *otterabzMan
10 weeks ago

Ellon

That’s a serious dose of self entitlement OP, well done! And may I introduce you to the full stop on your keyboard? It’s the wee dot at the bottom. Means you can use it to break up your rambling monologues into readable sentences.

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By *AYENCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Just wondering why is there so many people that are so stuck up on here and honestly think there gods gift on here waiting to here the normal abuse as no one can take any of these chats seriously but putting it out there as there are a good few that aren't "

You've scored a very respectable 9.5 on our reasons to block - add a cock profile picture and you will get a perfect 10.

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By *x2 4 funCouple
10 weeks ago

Southampton

This guy

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By *-DrakeMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester

🍿🍿🍿

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By *tormchasingCouple
10 weeks ago

Essex

Have you replied to everyone on this thread OP?

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
10 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Sorry op but there’s nothing in your profile that catches my attention, no pictures and a bio that tells me nothing about you.

It’s not my loss if I don’t ask you for pictures and cock size is not the be all and end all - in fact it’s not near the top of the list of things I look for.

Not replying to a message doesn’t make me stuck up or rude - it just shows I’m not interested in.

Donna

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By *43SomeCouple
10 weeks ago

Staines

When I get messages from polite guys I always respond.

But, sadly some men are crap at chat up lines and offering you his big hard cock or the fact that he is staying overnight in a hotel and would I like a fuck does now warrant my time.

I don’t do crass and feel men should not treat women as such unless dirty talking with a trusted partner.

Not only does a profile need to appeal, but guys approach towards you.

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By *riel13Woman
10 weeks ago

Northampton

You would rather know for definite that someone's not interested with an inbox full of no thank yous?! Or hear it once you have spoken and "gotten on"? Pictures are important... Attraction might not be your thing but I find it's essential for most... Get over it or life will be a difficult ride... And nobody will ask for a face pic as we're made to feel rude when we aren't attracted

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town


"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'.

Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here.

Not a message.

Not a reply.

Certainly not sex.

People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it.

Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷‍♂️

When we meander our way through life. Is it more pleasant or less pleasant, more enjoyable or less enjoyable, when we show and share with people a little respect, common decency, engagement, acknowledgement, walking past people with a nod or a hello, stopping to chat as our worlds bump into eachother for a short while. Being insular and self absorbed and not owing people anything is not a terribly enjoyable state of affairs. Random electronic communication has much to answer for.

This isn't 'real life' though. Of course people smile at eachother, say 'morning' to strangers when walking dogs, hold doors open for people and make idle small talk in the queue at Adli.

But on here the equivalent comparison to a message on here is often someone walking into a pub, seeing someone they fancy, flopping their dick out and saying 'nice tits love, get a load of my huge wang. Fancy noshing me off in the car park?'.

It's a false comparison and the situations aren't comparable.

Even a perfectly polite message is more akin to a well presented marketing leaflet dropped through your letterbox from a perfectly good business that you simply have no interest in using. 🤷‍♂️"

Well talking of false comparisons... The comparison is walking into a pub and saying hello to someone and them either saying hello in response or blanking you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Well talking of false comparisons... The comparison is walking into a pub and saying hello to someone and them either saying hello in response or blanking you. "

Except it's a pub with 200 other men also shouting variants of hello and helicoptering their dick in your general direction too.

And your own experience tells you that acknowledging one that you're not absolutely sure of from the outset often leads to verbal abuse or at least a 'polite' but persistent but whyyyyy, which because you've set the precedent of responding at all they now feel they're entitled to an answer to 💜

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"Just wondering why is there so many people that are so stuck up on here and honestly think there gods gift on here waiting to here the normal abuse as no one can take any of these chats seriously but putting it out there as there are a good few that aren't "
I dunno why you assume some are stuck up on here did you get a knock back? it’s all about peoples choices/preferences on here just because people are on here it doesn’t mean they will fuck you & the sooner some get this the better it’s the same as walking into a bar just because someone is in there they don’t have to go with you

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's not their loss,If they weren't interested op.

As someone pointed out, people won't ask for pics, they will just pass silhouette profiles by, for ones that do have pictures.

Especially those ladies who are inundated with messages.

That doesn't make people stuck up, we are all here for ourselves. Most of us won't spend time taking to someone, when we have no idea if there would be any sort of attraction etc.

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By *nsaneronMan
10 weeks ago

PO7


"No I'm really past careing been on both sides of this websites on a couples account and I answered every single person with respect but it seems no one can be bothered "

My account originally was with my late partner. We always answered all messages if it was negative but still got the same messages we deleted.

Since it’s been me alone I think I’ve only had 3 women reply to me and most couples it’s the guy wanting to chat. I’m well aware that women can get bombarded by messages. But then you have got pics of you naked advertising your looking for men.

My favourite is no verification no reply. Question how do we get verification if all of our messages are ignored? 🤔

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"My favourite is no verification no reply. Question how do we get verification if all of our messages are ignored? 🤔"

Go to a club night, the organisers will usually verify attendees or if you get chatting to someone there they can verify you 💜

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chard


"I still stand by my original comment…. Friday and Saturday night on here after 11pm… breathalyser on mobile phones!!!

Imagine the amount of people we could have saved… I could almost be a saint!!! "

Not worth saving them mate, Daylight exposes the dickheads for us all to avoid.

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town


"Well talking of false comparisons... The comparison is walking into a pub and saying hello to someone and them either saying hello in response or blanking you.

Except it's a pub with 200 other men also shouting variants of hello and helicoptering their dick in your general direction too.

And your own experience tells you that acknowledging one that you're not absolutely sure of from the outset often leads to verbal abuse or at least a 'polite' but persistent but whyyyyy, which because you've set the precedent of responding at all they now feel they're entitled to an answer to 💜"

Not sure which pubs you frequent with 200 men helicoptering their dicks but if that's your experience of pubs i can't argue with it. Most pubs I go into people, male and female, strangers and friends are friendly with eachother and respectful. Nobody is expecting a fuck or anything else. But simply human interaction. I don't understand why some of the responses on here are as binary as, its fuck someone or ignore them. It's possible to engage for even a short while politely. Whilst it's a sex site it seems the thought process of many contributions on here are... People expect or are owed something. Truth is they don't what other people are thinking. I don't believe that to be the case and is a convenient trope to hide rude behaviour behind. I don't deny there are some pretty grim individuals and emails and behaviours on here. Just as there are increasingly in society, but for me at least the only expectation is to be human and polite with people. That seems to be beyond some people in here, but maybe that's more about the media that is being used and if face to face they would be charm personified.

Now back to the "helicoptering dicks"... Great name for a pub. Or a band.

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton


"No I'm really past careing been on both sides of this websites on a couples account and I answered every single person with respect but it seems no one can be bothered

My account originally was with my late partner. We always answered all messages if it was negative but still got the same messages we deleted.

Since it’s been me alone I think I’ve only had 3 women reply to me and most couples it’s the guy wanting to chat. I’m well aware that women can get bombarded by messages. But then you have got pics of you naked advertising your looking for men.

My favourite is no verification no reply. Question how do we get verification if all of our messages are ignored? 🤔"

I had to turn down a woman once she just didn’t meet any of my preferences, it was my only message that day and I took the time to reply as she sent a nice message.

Honestly it was a worse feeling than being rejected by a woman I had messaged, even if all the messages a single woman receives are polite and respectful it’s unfair to reduce her experience on the site to a series of polite rejections that make her feel like she’s being a bad human being just for having her own preference.

So yeah they have to ignore messages or they would never be able to have the time or energy to find and interact with the men that turn them on.

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By *icecouple64Couple
10 weeks ago

Nottingham

As a couple on here you can't possibly reply to every message you get. If they are polite, have clearly read about you...and the message is clearly personally written with us in mind, we politely reply. I want to fuck your missus now and similar classy approaches... delete!

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

This thread has been enlightening I now realise... Anyone who won't meet me is stuck up...🥪

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

This site is tough for men. Very bruising to the ego. What you see as stuck up may not be.

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