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"I think The Dog's Trust does dog behavioural classes." Dogs trust classes close to me are Monday evening only. Which are unfortunately not suitable for me. | |||
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"I'm no expert, but it's about making sure he wants to focus on you - do you walk him with treats? Reward the behavior you want. Takes time but he'll learn. Please don't get a shock collar (know you said you don't want to) - can't imagine anyone who says they like dogs saying they are the answer!" But as others have said, get to classes if you can! | |||
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"I'm no expert, but it's about making sure he wants to focus on you - do you walk him with treats? Reward the behavior you want. Takes time but he'll learn. Please don't get a shock collar (know you said you don't want to) - can't imagine anyone who says they like dogs saying they are the answer! But as others have said, get to classes if you can! " Shock collar is not an option for me at all. I did buy a "clicker" which he is responding to well for sit, stay and heel commands. Classes are certainly an option that I am considering. My only concern is that he DOES NOT respond to commands while being distracted ie other dogs around. He just wants to play. I'm concerned other people won't like his behaviour around other dogs. Is this an issue in these classes? Sorry if i seem nieve. I have grew up with dogs all my life but this is my first dog as an adult. Since I and better half work full time I thought a house trained rescue instead of a new pup would be best option. Gees I'm probably over thinking this. But just want what's best for him. He's an absolute cracker. | |||
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"Please take some advice from a good behaviourist who practised reward based positive reinforcement Please don't use a shock collar....it might stop the unwanted behaviour but it won't teach your dog what you want him to learn. To teach lead walking doesn't require such an extreme measure....Check the guidance, I know the use of shock collars was banned in England last year and for good reason." I promise everyone here. A shock collar is not an option 100%. | |||
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"I'm no expert, but it's about making sure he wants to focus on you - do you walk him with treats? Reward the behavior you want. Takes time but he'll learn. Please don't get a shock collar (know you said you don't want to) - can't imagine anyone who says they like dogs saying they are the answer! But as others have said, get to classes if you can! Shock collar is not an option for me at all. I did buy a "clicker" which he is responding to well for sit, stay and heel commands. Classes are certainly an option that I am considering. My only concern is that he DOES NOT respond to commands while being distracted ie other dogs around. He just wants to play. I'm concerned other people won't like his behaviour around other dogs. Is this an issue in these classes? Sorry if i seem nieve. I have grew up with dogs all my life but this is my first dog as an adult. Since I and better half work full time I thought a house trained rescue instead of a new pup would be best option. Gees I'm probably over thinking this. But just want what's best for him. He's an absolute cracker." You don't sound naive at all, mate. And anyone trying to do right by a dog is a good egg in my eyes! I'm sure they'll be used to over excited dogs in puppy classes - this isn't unusual at all! Absolutely get that when they are so focused on something else - mine is the same if he sees a cat!! | |||
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"I'm no expert, but it's about making sure he wants to focus on you - do you walk him with treats? Reward the behavior you want. Takes time but he'll learn. Please don't get a shock collar (know you said you don't want to) - can't imagine anyone who says they like dogs saying they are the answer! But as others have said, get to classes if you can! Shock collar is not an option for me at all. I did buy a "clicker" which he is responding to well for sit, stay and heel commands. Classes are certainly an option that I am considering. My only concern is that he DOES NOT respond to commands while being distracted ie other dogs around. He just wants to play. I'm concerned other people won't like his behaviour around other dogs. Is this an issue in these classes? Sorry if i seem nieve. I have grew up with dogs all my life but this is my first dog as an adult. Since I and better half work full time I thought a house trained rescue instead of a new pup would be best option. Gees I'm probably over thinking this. But just want what's best for him. He's an absolute cracker." A good behaviorist will advise. My Daughter in law is a behaviourist, she does a meet and greet initially to meet the family, meet the dog talk to them about what they require, then they pre agree a plan if action. She won't recommend classes if the dog is easily distracted, she'll arrange one to one training, building up to socialising, using her own dog as a stooge or a small group If she feels she dog will get overwhelmed in class or is easily distracted she won't push the dog into a situation if she feels he won't cope | |||
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"A good behaviorist will advise. My Daughter in law is a behaviourist, she does a meet and greet initially to meet the family, meet the dog talk to them about what they require, then they pre agree a plan if action. She won't recommend classes if the dog is easily distracted, she'll arrange one to one training, building up to socialising, using her own dog as a stooge or a small group If she feels she dog will get overwhelmed in class or is easily distracted she won't push the dog into a situation if she feels he won't cope " ^ This is good advice ![]() | |||
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"One thing I can tell you is (we had a German shepherd from a bub, and was trained) to hold the lead in both hands across me. The end in one hand, the middle in the other to keep control of the lead. It makes a difference " Yep, I used to do this with my Shepherd, it stabilises the and you have greater control. I also use a Julius harness on my German Shepherd as the force of his weight is distributed evenly on his body rather than cause damage to his neck when he pulled. | |||
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"I'm no expert, but it's about making sure he wants to focus on you - do you walk him with treats? Reward the behavior you want. Takes time but he'll learn. Please don't get a shock collar (know you said you don't want to) - can't imagine anyone who says they like dogs saying they are the answer! But as others have said, get to classes if you can! Shock collar is not an option for me at all. I did buy a "clicker" which he is responding to well for sit, stay and heel commands. Classes are certainly an option that I am considering. My only concern is that he DOES NOT respond to commands while being distracted ie other dogs around. He just wants to play. I'm concerned other people won't like his behaviour around other dogs. Is this an issue in these classes? Sorry if i seem nieve. I have grew up with dogs all my life but this is my first dog as an adult. Since I and better half work full time I thought a house trained rescue instead of a new pup would be best option. Gees I'm probably over thinking this. But just want what's best for him. He's an absolute cracker. You don't sound naive at all, mate. And anyone trying to do right by a dog is a good egg in my eyes! I'm sure they'll be used to over excited dogs in puppy classes - this isn't unusual at all! Absolutely get that when they are so focused on something else - mine is the same if he sees a cat!! " Thanks mate kinda needed that. ![]() | |||
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"As a bulldog owner myself the best starting place for training is within your own home/garden. Build this up first to a high level and it's much easier in the "outside world". Socialise them with a variety of people in your own home too if you can, this is easier than random people outdoors. The outside world is often too much for bulldog breeds to pay attention as they are naturally very stubborn. The older they get the more attitude and stubborness you'll see, put that together with the kg weights they end up being and it's a loosing battle. Never force them to socialise or be touched by random people if they don't want too. Everything needs to be as and when they want to do it. Treats work well - but need to be limited due to their size. Harnesses don't work well after too long as they can end up with sore patches due to the way they waddle rather than walk so be aware of that. Also be careful with holding them or trying to move them elsewhere using their collar to direct them. You can end up with a dog that becomes collar reactive/aggressive as they believe their in trouble for something anytime you grab onto them to remove them from a situation when they don't want to be told or moved. They are amazing dogs with great personalities, but you will be in for the ride of your life owning one for years to come. And will be tested in all manner of ways 🤣🤣🤣" Thank you. This makes a lot of sense. As I said I bought a "clicker" and spent a lot of time with this in my garden. He is very responsive and doing well with this. He will sit, stay and come no problem. To the point at home I can have him sit and stay as I put his food out. He will not touch it untill I tell him too. But as soon as he has a distraction especially of other dogs I struggle to get him to come back on command. I do get classes are probably the best option but location timing and availability seem to be the hurdle at the moment unfortunately. 😞😞 | |||
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"Using shock collar just adds to the animals insecurities and is inhumane as the animal will always be in fear which could leave long term effect trauma " Exactly, the dog goes into shutdown mode, which is dangerous because then the dog inhibits the warning signals it gives out before it reacts to people and situations. You end up with a dog who's behaviour you can't predict and a dog who is constantly in flight or fight mode. | |||
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"I have had a few rescues and terriers as well I was always told they pull because they want to get somewhere. So I have always turned and walked in the opposite direction with them for about 10 metres then turned back and carried on walking They soon learn that pulling doesn’t get them what they want " This is good, I do this with mine just turn them around when they pull. Or stop and make them sit so their attention is on you. You can get those collars that go round their nose to stop them pulling aswell. | |||
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"Using shock collar just adds to the animals insecurities and is inhumane as the animal will always be in fear which could leave long term effect trauma Exactly, the dog goes into shutdown mode, which is dangerous because then the dog inhibits the warning signals it gives out before it reacts to people and situations. You end up with a dog who's behaviour you can't predict and a dog who is constantly in flight or fight mode. " It can in fact turn a dog aggressive or constantly shaking. Dogs just need bonded with and talking with them is very educational ![]() | |||
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