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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" Most will look at your profile before your message. Yours is basically blank so it falls into the category of messages that are generally ignored. Add some decent photos and a bio and you might see an improvement when women can see who you are and what you look like Dicks are dime a dozen. | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" Not all men Only the ones that have blank profiles or one word in the bio | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" As others have said, there's MANY more single men than single ladies or couples. Successful men tend to have profiles that sell themselves well and highlight their personality. Women have oodles of choice. You need to give them a reason to want to interact with you. | |||
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"Woman do like single guys they just put boundaries on their profiles for their own sanity, hundreds of messages a day makes it hard to interact with the ones they like. They have their own fantasy’s to make real if your profile matches what they are looking for they will get in touch. Yep this " | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" Repelled? I'm 64, with a face like a hippo's rear, but 200+ Fab encounters... | |||
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"It's not just the numbers, it's the attitude of the weirdos, like the prick who messaged me out of the blue a photo of his A hole, even though I am straight. He never read my profile and I'm guessing sent it to a lot of other guys too. I don't know why these gay guys are on here. They should be on their own gay site." Please explain this last paragraph of yours? So gay woman can be on here as they don’t have their own site? What is your issue with having gay men on here? Just block all men from messaging you. | |||
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"It's not just the numbers, it's the attitude of the weirdos, like the prick who messaged me out of the blue a photo of his A hole, even though I am straight. He never read my profile and I'm guessing sent it to a lot of other guys too. I don't know why these gay guys are on here. They should be on their own gay site." A single guy gets treated like the ladies and couples do on here and suddenly it's a problem 😂 | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" Supply v demand. Why are straight guys here looking for cock? That's another conundrum.  | |||
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"It's not just the numbers, it's the attitude of the weirdos, like the prick who messaged me out of the blue a photo of his A hole, even though I am straight. He never read my profile and I'm guessing sent it to a lot of other guys too. I don't know why these gay guys are on here. They should be on their own gay site." I get messages from straight guys who are curious? Who am I to deny helping them out! | |||
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"They do the repelling themselves (many not all) The ones that speak to you like some disposable cum bucket not a human. The ones who's little ego can't take a no thank you and bombard you with abuse even though 2 mins ago you were the most beautiful thing on earth now your a fat entitled cunt because you won't fuck them. Then there's the ones who think they are entitled to sex purely because you are here, the woah me, the desperate, the crying on the forums because they can't get their dick wet yet they messaged 100 people. There's the ones that think having 1730 cock pics from different angles while pulled back as far as possible to gain an extra cm think because they've shown their appendage everyone should be grateful to see it & gets upset when you don't want to. The ones where there's zero effort in the profile, one line, dirty pics or even worse their wife's belongings in there and they expect you to make effort in replying they can't even make an effort in their own shop window. So to summarize many men don't have a clue about their target audience, those that do do well, those that don't get their ego bruised over and over but it's always someone else's fault. There's some decent guys here however the majority aren't. The men folk repel themselves they don't need help." Nope...Still women's fault | |||
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"They do the repelling themselves (many not all) The ones that speak to you like some disposable cum bucket not a human. The ones who's little ego can't take a no thank you and bombard you with abuse even though 2 mins ago you were the most beautiful thing on earth now your a fat entitled cunt because you won't fuck them. Then there's the ones who think they are entitled to sex purely because you are here, the woah me, the desperate, the crying on the forums because they can't get their dick wet yet they messaged 100 people. There's the ones that think having 1730 cock pics from different angles while pulled back as far as possible to gain an extra cm think because they've shown their appendage everyone should be grateful to see it & gets upset when you don't want to. The ones where there's zero effort in the profile, one line, dirty pics or even worse their wife's belongings in there and they expect you to make effort in replying they can't even make an effort in their own shop window. So to summarize many men don't have a clue about their target audience, those that do do well, those that don't get their ego bruised over and over but it's always someone else's fault. There's some decent guys here however the majority aren't. The men folk repel themselves they don't need help." Yeah I should have pointed at this one. 👆 It's said far more eloquently. | |||
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"They do the repelling themselves (many not all) The ones that speak to you like some disposable cum bucket not a human. The ones who's little ego can't take a no thank you and bombard you with abuse even though 2 mins ago you were the most beautiful thing on earth now your a fat entitled cunt because you won't fuck them. Then there's the ones who think they are entitled to sex purely because you are here, the woah me, the desperate, the crying on the forums because they can't get their dick wet yet they messaged 100 people. There's the ones that think having 1730 cock pics from different angles while pulled back as far as possible to gain an extra cm think because they've shown their appendage everyone should be grateful to see it & gets upset when you don't want to. The ones where there's zero effort in the profile, one line, dirty pics or even worse their wife's belongings in there and they expect you to make effort in replying they can't even make an effort in their own shop window. So to summarize many men don't have a clue about their target audience, those that do do well, those that don't get their ego bruised over and over but it's always someone else's fault. There's some decent guys here however the majority aren't. The men folk repel themselves they don't need help. Nope...Still women's fault "It always is 😂 | |||
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" There's the ones that think having 1730 cock pics from different angles while pulled back as far as possible to gain an extra cm [...] " Damnit this is my only party trick. I need that 1cm! | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" We see single guys who come on this site, make no effort whatsoever then moan on the forums because they feel disliked. Certainly not all, but a substantial number. Bizarre really. | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" Perfect example just happened… We get a wink. Go to their profile, no pics, not verified, not photo verified, not a site supporter and the profile text just says “fill in later” and they have been on over a year. This is not uncommon, half the contacts we get are like this. Some will be site supporters, some will be photo verified, some will say “looking for fun”. Wow, no shit Sherlock! You get out of this site what you put in to it. If there’s 100 single guys for every couple it stands to reason that you need to make yourself stand out from the crowd. | |||
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"They do the repelling themselves (many not all) The ones that speak to you like some disposable cum bucket not a human. The ones who's little ego can't take a no thank you and bombard you with abuse even though 2 mins ago you were the most beautiful thing on earth now your a fat entitled cunt because you won't fuck them. Then there's the ones who think they are entitled to sex purely because you are here, the woah me, the desperate, the crying on the forums because they can't get their dick wet yet they messaged 100 people. There's the ones that think having 1730 cock pics from different angles while pulled back as far as possible to gain an extra cm think because they've shown their appendage everyone should be grateful to see it & gets upset when you don't want to. The ones where there's zero effort in the profile, one line, dirty pics or even worse their wife's belongings in there and they expect you to make effort in replying they can't even make an effort in their own shop window. So to summarize many men don't have a clue about their target audience, those that do do well, those that don't get their ego bruised over and over but it's always someone else's fault. There's some decent guys here however the majority aren't. The men folk repel themselves they don't need help." This! I recently saw something that said a lot of men model themselves in the ways that they think other men would find them impressive, rather than what women actually want whilst dating etc. Made a lot of sense to me. | |||
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"They do the repelling themselves (many not all) The ones that speak to you like some disposable cum bucket not a human. The ones who's little ego can't take a no thank you and bombard you with abuse even though 2 mins ago you were the most beautiful thing on earth now your a fat entitled cunt because you won't fuck them. Then there's the ones who think they are entitled to sex purely because you are here, the woah me, the desperate, the crying on the forums because they can't get their dick wet yet they messaged 100 people. There's the ones that think having 1730 cock pics from different angles while pulled back as far as possible to gain an extra cm think because they've shown their appendage everyone should be grateful to see it & gets upset when you don't want to. The ones where there's zero effort in the profile, one line, dirty pics or even worse their wife's belongings in there and they expect you to make effort in replying they can't even make an effort in their own shop window. So to summarize many men don't have a clue about their target audience, those that do do well, those that don't get their ego bruised over and over but it's always someone else's fault. There's some decent guys here however the majority aren't. The men folk repel themselves they don't need help. This! I recently saw something that said a lot of men model themselves in the ways that they think other men would find them impressive, rather than what women actually want whilst dating etc. Made a lot of sense to me." Exactly, so many guys profile appeal to men not women, then they moan that they get views and fabs off men, like no shit Sherlock! | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" In my experience single men aren't repelled. Successful men use all the tools Fab provides. The ability to create and reply to meet requests. The ability to host and attend social events. The ability to research and connect with clubs. The ability to post meets in a designated forum. The ability to show your person in the forums. The ability to send and receive messages with potential suitors. And most importantly, create a good first impression in a profile, ideally with a biog that describes themselves, what they're looking for and what they offer, together with a portfolio of interesting photos. Sadly too many men put zero effort into any of these and assume that women and couples will simply fuck every man that messages them, purely because they're here. *that concludes my Ted Talk | |||
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"I don't think they're repelled but a lot of the questions you have can probably be answered by the sheer number of them (myself included). It's an oversaturation, can be overwhelming, and can lead to a fatigue among women and couples seeing the same thing from a lot of men they come across. I can see why they become a bit spiky and defensive but there is a place for men on here! Don't lose hope and the right people will come along "Sums it up well 😁 | |||
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"Because i make sure I wear my single guy repellent every day. " Also known as being menopausal😂 | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" No. The decent/ compatible ones are very few and far between. The rest are easy enough to ignore. | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" No, but I think the site should be more transparent on its membership numbers. | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" No they are helping keep the membership prices down | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" No, but they shouldn't be able to message without photo verification. Opinions may vary | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ? No, but they shouldn't be able to message without photo verification. Opinions may vary" I think that would have to apply to everyone because there’d be too many work arounds | |||
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"Because i make sure I wear my single guy repellent every day. Also known as being menopausal😂" Does that come in a can? | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" How could anything like that be enforced? | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" Presumably you'd like the numbers cap introduced now. As opposed to before you joined......  | |||
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"They're like flies, they start swarming once the weather gets nice. " • This is why I look forward to the temperate and fresh months of lovely Åutumn. The chill air matched by the chill hearts of those cool maidens with their icy glares. 💙 | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ?" · The issue isn't that there are too many men on here. The crux is that there are far fewer women to balance the numbers. | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ? No they are helping keep the membership prices down "😂😂 | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ? · The issue isn't that there are too many men on here. The crux is that there are far fewer women to balance the numbers." And gentlemen of a certain calibre my fine friend. | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ? · The issue isn't that there are too many men on here. The crux is that there are far fewer women to balance the numbers." For the entitled and lazy: there could be 1,000 women to 1 man and he still wouldn't get a look in. It's not down to a lack of women, it's a lack of attractive propositions. C | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ? · The issue isn't that there are too many men on here. The crux is that there are far fewer women to balance the numbers. · For the entitled and lazy: there could be 1,000 women to 1 man and he still wouldn't get a look in. It's not down to a lack of women, it's a lack of attractive propositions. C" • Yes, I know. I've lost my touch. Sorry. I should give up this lark. 😢 | |||
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"Why are single guys so repelled here on fab? Or is this facility the preserve of couples and f only?" It's often a self fulfilling prophecy, based on behaviour, effort put in to profiles and levels of expectancy. And no. This isn't a place just for couples and women. The numbers and ratios mean nothing. Nobody is 'tarred with the same brush'. We're all responsible for our own enjoyment of the site, our own 'luck' and our own interactions. Nobody else's. Not one thing anyone else does will ever affect me and neither will anything I do have any impact on someone else. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Do you think there should be a cap of how many single guys should be on here ? · The issue isn't that there are too many men on here. The crux is that there are far fewer women to balance the numbers. · For the entitled and lazy: there could be 1,000 women to 1 man and he still wouldn't get a look in. It's not down to a lack of women, it's a lack of attractive propositions. C • Yes, I know. I've lost my touch. Sorry. I should give up this lark. 😢" That was certainly not aimed at you, Nero. So much so, I didn't think cause to state it x C | |||
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"MrsKOTCT explains it perfectly" Thank you, a guy who agrees with me, I'm shocked. | |||
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"MrsKOTCT explains it perfectly Thank you, a guy who agrees with me, I'm shocked." Impossible not to agree once you've seen some of the messages. | |||
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