FabSwingers.com forum: Please check profiles before messaging

By *aren_nylons OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

I like to thank people for taking the time to message me, but on behalf of many members please read profiles thoroughly before wasting everyone’s time.

This is meant sincerely and without trying to cause offence

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By *oodmessMan
11 weeks ago

yumsville

If people haven't read my profile I send them a dick pic, maybe a face pic, maybe both if they've really tried.

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
11 weeks ago

Dartford

"I like to thank people for taking the time to message me, but on behalf of many members please read profiles thoroughly before wasting everyone’s time.

This is meant sincerely and without trying to cause offence "

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

You're preaching to the converted. Those who fail to read your profile won't be found on the forå. The likelihood is less anyway.

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By *agic.MMan
11 weeks ago

Orpington

As Confucius once said ..."Sometimes in life you cannot have your cake and it", at least I think it was Confucius 🤔, but than again maybe it was me on my birthday when I was d*unk, having my cake and eating it.

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By *aren_nylons OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Guilty. I've met people who's profile I still haven't read 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *aren_nylons OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

"Guilty. I've met people who's profile I still haven't read 🤷🏻‍♀️"

But 23 years outside your preferred age range?🤣🤣

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I tend to read it after I’ve been chatting for a while. I prefer to get to know someone organically. The amount of women who say that they don’t drink or smoke and won’t meet smokers and then come round here and steal all my Captain Morgan & Marlboros….

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
11 weeks ago

Altrincham

"I like to thank people for taking the time to message me, but on behalf of many members please read profiles thoroughly before wasting everyone’s time.

This is meant sincerely and without trying to cause offence "

Mine actually says at the beginning ***please read my profile***

But do they...? No they do not. 😔

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"The amount of women... ...come round here and..."

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Get you, Mr Champion Lover!

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By *VineMan
11 weeks ago

Just north of Bristol

But the pictures are so much easier on the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"I tend to read it after I’ve been chatting for a while. I prefer to get to know someone organically. The amount of women who say that they don’t drink or smoke and won’t meet smokers and then come round here and steal all my Captain Morgan & Marlboros…."

Damn - I didn't know they were up for grabs...I would have made more of an effort to come and see you😋

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By *oughmanMan
11 weeks ago

Sunderland

Still gets me that people don't understand this very basic concept. It's really not that hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It's a good filter, just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"The amount of women... ...come round here and...

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Get you, Mr Champion Lover!

I've heard there's a visitor's book...

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Chard

"It's a good filter, just block and move on."

I am rapidly arriving at this point, I can't be doing with the one word/one line wonders anymore.

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think people do read profiles

It might just be that they decide to shoot their shot regardless

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

"I think people do read profiles

It might just be that they decide to shoot their shot regardless "

Yep. You (OP) might want them to respond in a certain way, they might choose to ignore certain incompatibilities but they still read 'em.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Our profile is pretty cut and dry with what we want. Chubby bisexual men.

So naturally our inbox is full of straight athletic guys who don't read profiles.

We are polite enough in rejecting but its getting exhausting

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
11 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x"

You could use your filters to stop them being able to message

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

No one reads my profile...more fool them.

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By *w funwifeWoman
11 weeks ago

near taunton

i only meet guys so i wont bloak all but p block loads daily for messaging without reading profile or they did read it and for some reason think it wont apply to them... block block blobk its that easy

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
11 weeks ago

scunthorpe

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x

You could use your filters to stop them being able to message "

We have some long term friends on here who are single men who message us

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x"

It isn't single women is it? 🤔😂😂

Honestly it is like talking to a brick wall. You won't get through to them. They'll still message your profile.

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

London

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x

You could use your filters to stop them being able to message

We have some long term friends on here who are single men who message us "

So if you message them back, that breaks the filter for them specifically while still blocking other guys. Try it, probably works a treat

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x

You could use your filters to stop them being able to message

We have some long term friends on here who are single men who message us

So if you message them back, that breaks the filter for them specifically while still blocking other guys. Try it, probably works a treat

Thank you Joe for fighting the good fight. 👌

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

London

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x

You could use your filters to stop them being able to message

We have some long term friends on here who are single men who message us

So if you message them back, that breaks the filter for them specifically while still blocking other guys. Try it, probably works a treat

Thank you Joe for fighting the good fight. 👌"

I will continue to do so if it helps the poor women and couples not looking for single men actually do something about it instead of moaning on the forums 😇

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
11 weeks ago

scunthorpe

"Our profile starts with

**** NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN ****

Guess who we get most messages from 🙈😂

Donna x

You could use your filters to stop them being able to message

We have some long term friends on here who are single men who message us

So if you message them back, that breaks the filter for them specifically while still blocking other guys. Try it, probably works a treat

Thank you Joe for fighting the good fight. 👌

I will continue to do so if it helps the poor women and couples not looking for single men actually do something about it instead of moaning on the forums 😇"

First…not moaning.

This post was specifically regarding people not reading profiles

Donna

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