FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine Fabbers

By *weetRoseyx OP Woman
2 weeks ago

North West

Anyone give up hope that fab isn’t really working to find genuine people or likeminded people 🤔

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By *valiceslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

London

One can never give up hope …. It’s all we have when there is nothing else

Never give up

The universe is huge and always looking out for all of us

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By *ootnootboopCouple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

Don't give up lovely! Yes you might be looking for a needle in a haystack, but they will be out there.

Maybe focus less on searching online and get out to more in person events? You get a sense of a person much quicker that way.

😊

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By *oxychicWoman
2 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Fab isn't what it used to be since covid , I think it changed massively and now there is alot of time wasters on here, however there is good on here to it's just a matter of finding them 😄🙃

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By *.B.D.DMan
2 weeks ago

Northants

"Fab isn't what it used to be since covid , I think it changed massively and now there is alot of time wasters on here, however there is good on here to it's just a matter of finding them 😄🙃"

True, I'm right here 👋🏼😁

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Pony?

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By *usty kayWoman
2 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

There's some good ones around, just have to sift through some odd ones to get there

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Like-minded" is a broad spectrum descriptive. I have my type of 'like-mindedness' that I engage with on here, and Fåb works fine for me in that regards. With others not so much.

There are genuine people on here. I don't think I've personally come across anyone who wasn't.

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By *xfordjohnMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford

"Anyone give up hope that fab isn’t really working to find genuine people or likeminded people 🤔"

No, don't give up. It took me a year to find the couple I spent the next six years meeting, then when that ended, it's only been four months and I've got more offers than I've ever had before. There are really are like-minded and genuine people out there but it does seem a bit random whether you find them.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield

I get the impression it's harder for younger people such as yourself? I'd guess the average Fab age is 40s to 50s.

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By *andTWoman
2 weeks ago

Altrincham

There's someone for everyone.

You just have to find your someone.

Some people find their someone easier than others, but, once you find your someone enjoy every minute with them, enjoy getting to know them, enjoy making their life happier, enjoy being someone's someone 🫶🏼

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By *egDaySkipperMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I can't complain

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Absolutely every person on Fab is fake. Fact

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

"Absolutely every person on Fab is fake. Fact "

True. She's actually 3 super smol birds in a little bird suit.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

You probably just need to learn and adjust your strategy, including using clubs and filtering people differently.

I've just met someone new and it, thankfully was delightfully simple and stress free. It's still possible

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By *entleman JayMan
2 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve met lots of genuine people.

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By *harmedAndInChargeMan
2 weeks ago

"Anyone give up hope that fab isn’t really working to find genuine people or likeminded people 🤔"

Fab started to work for me when I realised that the right people for me just didn’t live close

Luckily work takes me closer to those people when I find them

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Absolutely every person on Fab is fake. Fact

True. She's actually 3 super smol birds in a little bird suit. "

Shush… that’s a secret 😉

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By *ripfillMan
2 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

There are some genuine fab people in here after all it’s not LinkedIn !

I have been really lucky as a bloke in here to have met some outstanding people in this platform

Long may it continue ( Que ça continue longtemps)

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Anyone give up hope that fab isn’t really working to find genuine people or likeminded people 🤔"

Nope. I met about 80 on Saturday. All real live people, all swingers and all who attended an event organised by other fabbers, via fab and open to anyone interested in attending.

It'll happen again in a couple of weeks and has been happening to me for years.

If all your looking to do is meet people via the Internet then it may be harder, but to me 'Fab' has never just been about the site itself. It's a means of connecting with others in real life, which means the more avenues you explore and utilise, the better you network. Even if clubs aren't your thing then you can make a lot of headway into finding other like minded people to arrange private meets with via organised socials and they're packed with other fabbers.

Limiting yourself to just arranging anything via PM's is just that....limiting. 🤷‍♂️

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By *uenevereWoman
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Anyone give up hope that fab isn’t really working to find genuine people or likeminded people 🤔"

I think your relative youth and the fact that you're seeking older men, may be making your search harder.

The sort of man who you would be interested in, may consider you to be too young.

It's not clear how you're using the site. If you aren't already doing so, your best bet is to do the searching yourself, rather than hope the right person will message you.

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Genuine and like minded are pretty strong filters.

Add mutual sexual attraction and compatibility.

It's a pretty narrow range I'm working with here.

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