FabSwingers.com forum: Imposter syndrome. These guys are so hot!

By *hampersDarling OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.

IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.

I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.

Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?

Or should I just live the dream?

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By *ampireLoveMan
4 weeks ago

Essex

If you need to average out the hot guys from the not so hot guys, I can approach you if you like 😂

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By *tr8MrEMan
4 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"If you need to average out the hot guys from the not so hot guys, I can approach you if you like 😂"

I'll be in the "not hot" queue

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

It's why I love fab, hot men lowering their standards is awesome for me.

May the men outnumber the women forever!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

Attraction comes in various and, sometimes, unpredictable forms. The seriously athletic people who may prefer people with extra padding, for example, who don't focus on training, etc. It's good to just accept things as they are and to not put yourself down, by comparing yourself with others. Live and let live.

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By *immers123Woman
4 weeks ago

South Molton

Ah I normally think they're too good to be true and quite often with a reverse image search I find out I was right

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By *ildTimes.Man
4 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Some men will literally shag anything, 🥪

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By *WTTS87Man
4 weeks ago

Telford

"Attraction comes in various and, sometimes, unpredictable forms. The seriously athletic people who may prefer people with extra padding, for example, who don't focus on training, etc. It's good to just accept things as they are and to not put yourself down, by comparing yourself with others. Live and let live. "

Exactly this, even when i was gym fit/athletic physique myself, I've always preferred women with curves.

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By *carlettsWoman
4 weeks ago

Harpenden

Who cares if their hot and you wonder would they do me outside of here I say just grab it with both hands, gently of course

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By *tr8MrEMan
4 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Who cares if their hot and you wonder would they do me outside of here I say just grab it with both hands, gently of course

I think the answer would be "yes, fuck yes"

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Don’t over think it OP. Just enjoy yourself. Life is too short to worry about things like that.

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By *a LunaWoman
4 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

I tend to reserve judgement until I’ve seen their face.

Butterface Hercules and all that jazz.

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By *ayRyuMan
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

"I tend to reserve judgement until I’ve seen their face.

Butterface Hercules and all that jazz."

That's why I keep mine hidden 😂

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

Honestly, off of here, I wouldn't approach. I'd be saying to myself "yep, I don't have a shot." So not much difference really. I just don't have to look them in the eye when I do it. That and I'm not being put on blast on social media.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
4 weeks ago

Wirral

On here I tend to assume pics are fake (sad, but I've had more than my fair share of them - tineye is very much my friend!).

In real life in spite of being old and very fat I've had some physically gorgeous partners - one of my relationships was with a ballet dancer.

I try not to second-guess someone's tastes based on their looks because I've had a few happy surprises over the years!

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By *eoBloomsMan
4 weeks ago

Springfield

Live the dream OP, but there will be guys who want to fuck you, and guys who just want to fuck. You're the only one who can say if the difference matters.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.

IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.

I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.

Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?

Or should I just live the dream?

There are definitely some very hot guys...might have to move back to the UK 🔥 🥵

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By *usty kayWoman
4 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

I don't trust them when they're hot. I assume they have messaged every female in a 50 mile radius and I just got caught in the net. Once or twice they've surprised me over the years but it usually follows the same pattern.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Christ, hot guys who want to fuck me? I should be so lucky 🤣🤣

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By *onty777Man
4 weeks ago

midlands

"Christ, hot guys who want to fuck me? I should be so lucky 🤣🤣"

You’re hot, don’t be so down!! X

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By *mmaleiaWoman
4 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I lap it up! Some hot guys on here

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Christ, hot guys who want to fuck me? I should be so lucky 🤣🤣

You’re hot, don’t be so down!! X"

Not down, realistic 🤣

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By *onty777Man
4 weeks ago

midlands

"Christ, hot guys who want to fuck me? I should be so lucky 🤣🤣

You’re hot, don’t be so down!! X

Not down, realistic 🤣"

Well imo you’re hot.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Christ, hot guys who want to fuck me? I should be so lucky 🤣🤣

You’re hot, don’t be so down!! X

Not down, realistic 🤣

Well imo you’re hot.

Thank you xx

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By *armandwet50Couple
4 weeks ago

Leyland

Don't sweat it OP just enjoy yourself

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By *ungscotsman26Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.

IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.

I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.

Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?

Or should I just live the dream?

Ride them like a bucking bronco and don't overthink it

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
4 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.

IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.

I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.

Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?

Or should I just live the dream?

I totally understand what you are saying and feel this myself.

It can be very intimidating initially.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
4 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

I have definitely been punching above my weight at times. I've had a few smoking hot FWB's and met gorgeous guys in Clubs, I mean it's surprising how many guys like the older potato shaped ladies, when I queried it I was told confidence and attitude gets you everywhere

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Don't over think it

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By *andTWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

In real life I get approached by neither the hot guys or just guys 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *ougarsilkWoman
4 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

Mmm, perfect 10 , fit, ripped, eye candy guys .....too good to be true, unfortunately.

A well-known social media page is full of body shots for snakes to fake and photoshop.

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By *uke_silverMan
4 weeks ago

London

Or should I just live the dream?

Live the dream. Please 🙏

Else you'll only exacerbate the imposter syndrome of us less aesthetically pleasing guys.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.

IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.

I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.

Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?

Or should I just live the dream?

I get this constantly. I used to let it bother me and I would turn down socials with people I thought were "too hot" for me as I found it intimidating. Now I just go with it. If they like you, and the chemistry is there, then go for it.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chard

"I don't trust them when they're hot. I assume they have messaged every female in a 50 mile radius and I just got caught in the net. Once or twice they've surprised me over the years but it usually follows the same pattern. "

This is where I am at, however don't be afraid to pursue, some are genuine and hot and turn out to be great meets!

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

OP just enjoy yourself.

Reverse image search and/or sort out a quick video chat to be sure they’re genuine.

Attraction comes in all sorts of shapes and sizes.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
4 weeks ago

Dudley...kinda

Mrs still can't believe that we get messages from what would be considered " conventionally" attractive people, younger guys and people with toned bodies and abs.

I tell her to go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

That’s because the majority of men are fickle, on the street you’re a person on here you’re an object.

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By *etwife8230Couple
4 weeks ago

Newport

"It's why I love fab, hot men lowering their standards is awesome for me.

May the men outnumber the women forever! "

Amen to that 🙏

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I get this OP. No one looks twice at me in the real world or on sites where I show my face .

Sometimes I think fuck it and just enjoy ,mostly I over think it too much and don't .

As someone said previously there's a difference between men who want to fuck and men who actually want to fuck me . I know which ones I prefer

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