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Would you host a Swingers House Party????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well.....would you?

Ordinary party is stressful enuff....

But a Swinging party could be great!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would if i had more rooms in my house, but i think my house is a bit small to have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would if i had more rooms in my house, but i think my house is a bit small to have one"

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Same here, and I hate housework, and it will definitely stress me out too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few people on here that have been hosting parties regularly for years and I'd much prefer to attend one of them than try and organise one of our own. Some people have the perfect set up for discrete parties whereas our neighbours curtains would be twitching away all evening if we tried it here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but don't know.. if yu not careful your house is in tatters..

you need to stay sober to keep an eye on everyone as once the drink flows..

on the whole most people are fab..

for a single guy its a good way to get known in the scene..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We held our first party at our house, it was a real last minute thing. We had put a note on our profile requesting a meet for the weekend and had a few replies all from lovely couples. Couldnt decide which to go with so thought we would have a party then we could meet them all. We were all party virgins but the night (and morning) was a huge success. Still trying to get the house to ourselves long enough for us to do another one.....but would definatley do it again.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I would if i had more rooms in my house, but i think my house is a bit small to have one.

Same here, and I hate housework, and it will definitely stress me out too much! "

Oh same here too... plus I live in a terraced house and the walls are way too thin.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

It ain't that hard work. You just have to pick the guests well.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Good god NO

Thats why God invented clubs. I hold all my parties there.......

No cleaning up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good god NO

Thats why God invented clubs. I hold all my parties there.......

No cleaning up "

Ya dont anyway ya cleaner does xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Good god NO

Thats why God invented clubs. I hold all my parties there.......

No cleaning up

Ya dont anyway ya cleaner does xx "

Whats ya point??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good god NO

Thats why God invented clubs. I hold all my parties there.......

No cleaning up

Ya dont anyway ya cleaner does xx "

Im sure our staff would clean up!

Ha Ha We wish lol

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm not sure really... It would be nice to assume that everyone is safe and trustworthy, so I guess I'd only hold one for people I've already met. It's a fair cop!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

That's why I said what I said about choosing the guests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

held 4 birthday parties where the only attendees have been swingers, each one has cost me in excess of £1000, next month we are off on holiday with the money I will save celebrating my birthday at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"held 4 birthday parties where the only attendees have been swingers, each one has cost me in excess of £1000, next month we are off on holiday with the money I will save celebrating my birthday at home "

Well have a good time and birthday mate

Cause from what ive heard ya do a lot for others

Ya deserve summat for ya self xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wee cooncil hovel no big enough to have an ordinary party never mind a swingers one but would be nice to have a few like minded friends over sometime!! might stick it on this yrs to do list!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we wouldn't, sadly there are too many people who would not respect the fact that they are in someone elses house

Our parties are either limited to friends and family invited for a drink, as we did on NYE and the swinging type of party would be limited to the couple or single guy who we may have invited round for som fun

But that's as far as it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my wee cooncil hovel no big enough to have an ordinary party never mind a swingers one but would be nice to have a few like minded friends over sometime!! might stick it on this yrs to do list!! xx "

Well if ya desperate give us two a shout lol xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I would love to do it at some point.... When I win the lottey and move into my 7 bedroom shag pad.....

until then... bit of a pipe dream... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have held one before, will hold one again just have to be careful who you invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my wee cooncil hovel no big enough to have an ordinary party never mind a swingers one but would be nice to have a few like minded friends over sometime!! might stick it on this yrs to do list!! xx

Well if ya desperate give us two a shout lol xx "

aww im sure you 2 would be lovely house guests!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my wee cooncil hovel no big enough to have an ordinary party never mind a swingers one but would be nice to have a few like minded friends over sometime!! might stick it on this yrs to do list!! xx

Well if ya desperate give us two a shout lol xx

aww im sure you 2 would be lovely house guests!! "

Well we both house trained lol x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We are planning on having one in the very near future but as someone said earlier we will be very selective in our guest list.

Steve

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

my neighbours are far too nosy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that we wouldn't have one here. I hate mess and clutter and tidying up in the morning, but apart from that, around here if someones pet strays into your garden then everyone knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We certainly have the house for it but have neighbours who we regularly socialise with which could lead to awkward questions.

The garden and conservatory are nice places to play but are overlooked and the extra cars would again lead to awkward questions.

So for us it's a nice thought but a real non starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have held a few parties and they have all been a success. We choose who we invite carefully. No problems here so far. Due to family matters, we hav not had many this last year, but 2010 we intend to get 'back into the swing of things' lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I did have a swingers dinner party does that count lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually i could always hold one at jays house he lives in a mansion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually i could always hold one at jays house he lives in a mansion lol"

Still dont care xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Actually i could always hold one at jays house he lives in a mansion lol

Still dont care xx "

lmao i could play hide and seek with you in the orchard then tie you to a tree and leave you there lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Lol we are kinda lucky as we have the room and are not overlooked at all either.

Everyone knows we have family parties and bikers parties so the locals dont batter an eyelid when they see folks turning up here.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually i could always hold one at jays house he lives in a mansion lol

Still dont care xx

lmao i could play hide and seek with you in the orchard then tie you to a tree and leave you there lol"

Mmm sounds like a smashing place ta raise a child xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Actually i could always hold one at jays house he lives in a mansion lol

Still dont care xx

lmao i could play hide and seek with you in the orchard then tie you to a tree and leave you there lol

Mmm sounds like a smashing place ta raise a child xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if i didnt have the kids, maybe when they all grown up and left home i'll have one, mind you i'll be to damn old by then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we held our first one just before christmas and it went really well, or so we thought

had a few peops who stayed overnite as well. however they turned out to be the worst. inconsiderate feckers who like to get up too early and make too much fookin noise for my liking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had several house swingers partys and loved um

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

We had a swinger’s party last march turned out to be a very good night

Haven’t found the time do organise another due to illness. So hopefully

We can sort one out in March now mr tuxi is on road to recovery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah would defo throw one as I enjoyed the one I went to last year however Its only a flat dont think I have that many emergency chairs!!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"We certainly have the house for it but have neighbours who we regularly socialise with which could lead to awkward questions.

The garden and conservatory are nice places to play but are overlooked and the extra cars would again lead to awkward questions.

So for us it's a nice thought but a real non starter "

That's a shame as Calne is just down the road from me and I know it very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few over past years and yes they can be stressful to a point.

Getting the right balance is essential .

Cpls and singlys.

easiest way is to invite those you have already met and liked. they all bring a bottle...

And you also invite a cpl of gorgeous hunks and single fems.

I stuck nibbles on first one...

second i stuck a big pot of curry on and rice and let everyone sort themselves out.

Now that was a good night

Hot food as a curry increases the guys ardour ya know

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I am planning to move to a small house in the summer and plan to get a secluded cottage so that I can host parties

I dont have the space here and now and privacy is an issue

So yes I hope to soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had nye one was great xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we had the bedrooms for it and no nosey neighbours then yeah would deffo go for it with select folks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we held our first one just before christmas and it went really well, or so we thought

had a few peops who stayed overnite as well. however they turned out to be the worst. inconsiderate feckers who like to get up too early and make too much fookin noise for my liking"

Oh ya back then are ya lol and you can talk about noisy feckers pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really didnt consider the neighbours, lmao

i live in a block of 4 houses with adjoining walls too.

I dread to think what they thought at all the noises etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, having read the posts...seems about 50/50

We probably wouldent, we had a problem with a single guy who came to our old house...hence our travel only rule.

Shame really as its nice to have a drink and not have to drive etc etc.

Being selective is difficult if you have not actually met people too...its sometimes difficult to gauge what folks are really like until you meet them.

We are housetrained and polite

Many are not....

Soooooooo invites anyone.....

R&J XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one once when i had invited a newbie...

The guy was youngish and asian and he said he would bring some samosas etc.

I thought. awwwwwwwww

ANyways he gets here, hands over the food and i say thanks ..

He enters the lounge when things were already happening and whoooooosh....

HE departed quick as anything.

lmao

nervous or wot !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, having read the posts...seems about 50/50

We probably wouldent, we had a problem with a single guy who came to our old house...hence our travel only rule.

Shame really as its nice to have a drink and not have to drive etc etc.

Being selective is difficult if you have not actually met people too...its sometimes difficult to gauge what folks are really like until you meet them.

We are housetrained and polite

Many are not....

Soooooooo invites anyone.....

R&J XXX"

ANytime your welcome....Im one of the good singles lol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

When I get round to hosting parties

It will ONLY be singles as they are often overlooked by the regular cpls parties

I shall invite a select group of single lady friends

and tonnes and tonnes of single boys wooohoooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I get round to hosting parties

It will ONLY be singles as they are often overlooked by the regular cpls parties

I shall invite a select group of single lady friends

and tonnes and tonnes of single boys wooohoooo "

Tart lol xxx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"When I get round to hosting parties

It will ONLY be singles as they are often overlooked by the regular cpls parties

I shall invite a select group of single lady friends

and tonnes and tonnes of single boys wooohoooo

Tart lol xxx"

haha thanks you very much xxx

I may also host just a few select cpls parties of course for folk as,lush as you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, having read the posts...seems about 50/50

We probably wouldent, we had a problem with a single guy who came to our old house...hence our travel only rule.

Shame really as its nice to have a drink and not have to drive etc etc.

Being selective is difficult if you have not actually met people too...its sometimes difficult to gauge what folks are really like until you meet them.

We are housetrained and polite

Many are not....

Soooooooo invites anyone.....

R&J XXX

ANytime your welcome....Im one of the good singles lol "

Ha Ha hey we know there are gud guys out there, just finding them and arranging meets.....Kidds, Shifts, Periods....Grrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I get round to hosting parties

It will ONLY be singles as they are often overlooked by the regular cpls parties

I shall invite a select group of single lady friends

and tonnes and tonnes of single boys wooohoooo

Tart lol xxx

haha thanks you very much xxx

I may also host just a few select cpls parties of course for folk as,lush as you x "

Compliments will get you every where mmmmwwwwwaaaa xxxxxx

Time for tea now Laters xxx

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