FabSwingers.com forum: Sex tips for men!

By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

I See one for women so thought id start one for men… only fair right 😉

Think the most important one for me is not to ‘finger blast’ like you’re trying to gut a fish!! I mean there is a time and a place for it but not from the get go! It’s a instant turn off and it hurts…. Imagine someone flicking you in the balls 🥴😂

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By *carlettsWoman
7 weeks ago

Harpenden

I love tongue but don't shove it down my mouth like you're bobbing for apples

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By *aramel.desiresMan
7 weeks ago

SouthEast.

Always be a gentleman and never disrespect a women.

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
7 weeks ago

SA3

Always up for listening, learning and developing, every day is a school day, so I’ll be keeping an eye on this thread!

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By *lirtingentMan
7 weeks ago

Stroud

Watching this thread..always open to advice

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"I Imagine someone flicking you in the balls 🥴😂 "

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"I love tongue but don't shove it down my mouth like you're bobbing for apples"

Or not to wet, had someone kiss like that the other day and it was horrible

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
7 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Great thread!

Don't speak to me like I am an object.....or like you are an oversexed teenager who clearly doesn't get laid...I have a brain, I think and I feel

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Great thread!

Don't speak to me like I am an object.....or like you are an oversexed teenager who clearly doesn't get laid...I have a brain, I think and I feel"

Like this one but it should go without being said… unfortunately not for this site!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
7 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

If you hear the words I’m gonna cum don’t speed up slow down or change ANYTHING!

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
7 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

"Great thread!

Don't speak to me like I am an object.....or like you are an oversexed teenager who clearly doesn't get laid...I have a brain, I think and I feel

Like this one but it should go without being said… unfortunately not for this site! "

Nope, the contents of my inbox reflects this

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By *carlettsWoman
7 weeks ago

Harpenden

Not tweaking my nipples like your tuning into a radio station

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

Another one is handle rejection! Had a guy pester and insist how fake i was because i didn't message him back.. i had 150 messages to get through!

Also a polite no thanks is not an invitation to more questions 😂

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By *as7643Man
7 weeks ago

staffs

Taking notes

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Great thread!

Don't speak to me like I am an object.....or like you are an oversexed teenager who clearly doesn't get laid...I have a brain, I think and I feel

Like this one but it should go without being said… unfortunately not for this site!

Nope, the contents of my inbox reflects this

So sad.. and yet so many moan why its so hard for single men on here 👀

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Not tweaking my nipples like your tuning into a radio station"

Hahaha YES!

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By *carlettsWoman
7 weeks ago

Harpenden

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By *carlettsWoman
7 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Another one is handle rejection! Had a guy pester and insist how fake i was because i didn't message him back.. i had 150 messages to get through!

Also a polite no thanks is not an invitation to more questions 😂 "

But why,but why?!?!?

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Another one is handle rejection! Had a guy pester and insist how fake i was because i didn't message him back.. i had 150 messages to get through!

Also a polite no thanks is not an invitation to more questions 😂

But why,but why?!?!?

I can travel… ill get a hotel 😂

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If your going down on a woman and she's about to cum do not stop what your doing and change the pace

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"If your going down on a woman and she's about to cum do not stop what your doing and change the pace"

Never change the pace!! Also this when fucking.. why do that..?! Now I lost it hahah

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
7 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

"I've never been to a club/had a threesome....etc etc, can you help me?"

I've not got 'babysitter' stamped on my forehead so I will respond in the negative

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By *ony MannMan
7 weeks ago

South Newton

Everyone is different

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By *ickey_blue11Man
7 weeks ago

Maidenhead

"Not tweaking my nipples like your tuning into a radio station"

I have had mine pinched before and don’t really see the sensation. How do you like your nipples played with?

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

""I've never been to a club/had a threesome....etc etc, can you help me?"

I've not got 'babysitter' stamped on my forehead so I will respond in the negative

My GF/wife is out of town can you help?! Im sure this never works either

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By *midnight-Woman
7 weeks ago

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When I say bite me, I don't mean like I'm a piece of steak

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"When I say bite me, I don't mean like I'm a piece of steak

It would be hard not to though 😉

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By *illy IdolMan
7 weeks ago

Midlands

"When I say bite me, I don't mean like I'm a piece of steak

Like a piece of tofu?

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Always be a gentleman and never disrespect a women."

Is that mandatory?

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
7 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

"….…. Imagine someone flicking you in the balls 🥴😂 "

And with that thought, I left the thread.

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By *olinOfBathMan
7 weeks ago

Corsham

I see no mention of chocolate, wine, or orchids... Crikey.

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"….…. Imagine someone flicking you in the balls 🥴😂

And with that thought, I left the thread.

😂

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"I see no mention of chocolate, wine, or orchids... Crikey. "

I do like a orchid, I've had mine going for a year.. the mother in law has killed three this year so far 😂

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By *ou345Woman
7 weeks ago

Derby

Get her to show you how she likes to be touched and pay attention. 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Saying "sorry" after you've come is a real mood killer.

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

First stop calling us females. You sound like a ferengi from Star Trek

Secondly… pay attention! Focus on all the signs that she’s enjoying herself or not and when you get the right signs keep fucking going. We are all different in how we want to be touched so your patented tongue punch nipple twister finger blast combo might not be hitting the spot for her.

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By *mily36CWoman
7 weeks ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Think the most important one for me is not to ‘finger blast’ like you’re trying to gut a fish!! I mean there is a time and a place for it..."

... when is there ever a right time and place???

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By *ou345Woman
7 weeks ago

Derby

"Saying "sorry" after you've come is a real mood killer."

So is 'do you need finishing off' 🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *entlemanH666Man
7 weeks ago

Here, there….

"I love tongue but don't shove it down my mouth like you're bobbing for apples"

If that’s how they bob for apples they are also going to be unsuccessful at that

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
7 weeks ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

When I am rolling my hips whilst on top, do not try to speed me up - I am doing this for me, not for you.

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Saying "sorry" after you've come is a real mood killer."

Even if it is quicker than expected, it really kills the mood

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

Think the most important one for me is not to ‘finger blast’ like you’re trying to gut a fish!! I mean there is a time and a place for it...

... when is there ever a right time and place???

Well you know… once things have got a bit more frisky it can be faster lol and i know some do like it

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Watermouth

"First stop calling us females. You sound like a ferengi from Star Trek

Start by touching 2 fingers to 2 fingers, then gently move them over the hand then slowly extending the range until ... well you know the rest.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool

Can we still rub the clit like a DJ though?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I think the single most important thing is that all women are different and just because something worked before doesn't mean it will work on everyone. As well as reading the woman's body try and get her to relax to vocaly communite her wants

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
7 weeks ago

Debauchery

Don’t tell me you want to make 🤢 love 🤮. I will be dryer than the Sahara in seconds

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Can we still rub the clit like a DJ though?"

Yes but don't slap it! 😂 what DJ slaps a record

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
7 weeks ago

Debauchery

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Don’t tell me you want to make 🤢 love 🤮. I will be dryer than the Sahara in seconds "

Yes this is only for my hubby

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
7 weeks ago

Debauchery

"Can we still rub the clit like a DJ though?

Yes but don't slap it! 😂 what DJ slaps a record "

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By *sWyldWoman
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Please for the love of all that's holy , cut and file your nails !!

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By *inx_xxWoman
7 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Honesty

Manners (we love a Gentleman)

Don't take dick pics over a toilet /messy bedroom / claim your single wearing a wedding ring (see point 1)

If you wouldn't say it to a stranger then don't send it as an intro post. "meet now", "fancy a fuck"

Personal preferences,

Don't call me a "Good girl" I'm a grown woman!

Don't try and grab my throat unless I actually want you to

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By *estinysswingersCouple
7 weeks ago

Worsley

Just listen to Tenacious D - Fuck Her Gently. It's got all the tips.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Have good communication beforehand S somethings really are marmite, spitting, referring to them as good girl or wanting to be called daddy you really must choose your audience

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By *egDaySkipperMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Can we still rub the clit like a DJ though?

Yes but don't slap it! 😂 what DJ slaps a record "

DJ the clit and spank a titty!

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By *etsmingle OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Hitchin

"Can we still rub the clit like a DJ though?

Yes but don't slap it! 😂 what DJ slaps a record

DJ the clit and spank a titty!"

Spank the arse!

Ill DJ the cock and spank the balls 😂

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By *ugar kittenWoman
7 weeks ago

home

"Another one is handle rejection! Had a guy pester and insist how fake i was because i didn't message him back.. i had 150 messages to get through!

Also a polite no thanks is not an invitation to more questions 😂

But why,but why?!?!?

I can travel… ill get a hotel 😂 "

But you're stunning....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

The world has one giant manbaby running the USA. Don't be another - we want a man with emotional maturity.

Don't play games. Just be open and especially to what we need.

I want to know that you need and want sex with ME. I'm different from everyone else and you'll get a unique experience. Let me know that you honour that and not in any way making do, etc. If you want purely me, you'll get the pure and fuller me, giving you more to be satisfied with.

Putting your ear to the seashell in the right way, you'll truly be able to hear the sea. If you truly want to hear, we'll share what we're needing.

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