FabSwingers.com forum: Success on fab

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you

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By *ealitybitesMan
18 weeks ago

Belfast

Always play hard to get.

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By *rafter69Man
18 weeks ago

upminster

Put the effort in.

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By *obilebottomMan
18 weeks ago

All over

Bake a cake

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"Always play hard to get. "

Aloofness is my weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Don’t be a dickhead

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
18 weeks ago

from mars

Quit bitchin …. Be yourself … don’t be dick …

And keep it moving …. 😎

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By *oppet22TV/TS
18 weeks ago

huddersfield

Be respectful at all times

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By *enis ColadaMan
18 weeks ago

Totnes

Visit clubs,be respectful,don't assume your going to get anything

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'd say use your common sense and don't let your heart rule your head

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By *ife NinjaMan
18 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Just go to a club 🤓

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"Always play hard to get. "

Don’t play hard to get

**BE** hard to get

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Don't come across as desperate

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By *cLovin2Man
18 weeks ago

London

Be yourself, don't expect things and just make friends here. Above all don't be a pushy prick.

You may end up places and parties you only dreamed about.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Listen to advice and more importantly

ACT on it. Pay attention to shit like this thread (aside from the pisstakers) and not to what your dick is thinking.

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By *agic.MMan
18 weeks ago

Orpington

Not sure if I should give away my secrets just yet 👀...if one of you ladies think you can put a ring on my finger and marry me...and take me away from this lifestyle, than I'll divulge "the recipe "...hell I'll even write a book 🤓 ...I'll name it "The Recipe- a fab success story"

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By *hil most chillMan
18 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

Don't moan and whine, not in your profile, your status or the forum. No one is turned on by that.

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By *arriedminxCouple
18 weeks ago

here

Approach people where with the same respect and courtesy you would if approaching them for the first time in person….we’re all human….

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By *ros40Man
18 weeks ago

Bedford

Send 4 cock pics every hour

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
18 weeks ago

Ipswich

"So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you"

Not successful at all

Have friends on hear

Guess I’m out

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By *eroLondonMan
18 weeks ago

Mayfair

Be bespectacled, be average, be not-so-tall, be gentlemanly...and behave.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Be due diligent of red flags this could stop no shows

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Not successful at all

Have friends on hear

Guess I’m out

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Maybe pick up some tips from this thread

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Your rep precedes your dick. Never the other way around.

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By *ife NinjaMan
18 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Be bespectacled, be average, be not-so-tall, be gentlemanly...and behave."

Get your own masterplan Nero 🤣

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

A well written profile is attractive

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Be confident not arrogant

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By *icknmix500Man
18 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

Be polite honest and understanding

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Don't get involved in drama

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By *cottish guy 555Man
18 weeks ago

London

"Approach people where with the same respect and courtesy you would if approaching them for the first time in person….we’re all human…."

This.

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By *inky MelissaTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Be a conversationalist. The best sex leads from great interactions and can be punctuated by more chat.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
18 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Id love to say not to be an immature dick, but to be honest it has stood me in semi-decent stead.

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By *orthern BeardMan
18 weeks ago

South Wales / Lancashire

Put the effort in. Speak well and be ‘normal’. Nobody wants a dick pic with a ‘wanna fuck’ message.

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By *anielpiercedMan
18 weeks ago

Go to organised socials and clubs, meet people face to face and be polite and respectful. So much easier when you're speaking to people to gauge personalities, that doesn't translate as well when you message people on here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Central

"Don't moan and whine, not in your profile, your status or the forum. No one is turned on by that."

Don't bank on it. Knowing Fab, there's bound to be someone, somewhere who is

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Network. Don't just concentrate on those your attracted to others may know someone your comparable with

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By *eyond PurityCouple
18 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Be polite, courteous and complimentary when needed (not go all in). Talk to people normally as you would do in a pub and ensure your profile and pics are equally as decent as your message, as most will go straight to your profile when receiving a message.

Take no well too!

Engage!

Don’t see people as a number.

I always follow someone’s lead in a conversation, if they are talking about general things, I will. If it gets more intimate then you’ll never be the one that pushes things too far.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I think generally, remember

Be entitled?

Be rude?

Begone!

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By *ansoffateMan
18 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's really how you define success.

If it's just getting sex and that's all you care about then the interaction element becomes a task.

When I enjoy the interaction in itself then it's already a success.

If I just wanted sex I'd go on a sex work site. Why make it hard for yourself? Then you can pick and choose like it's a candy store - without any of the nonsense. Frustration of wasting your time, disappointment etc.

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By *umagain58Man
18 weeks ago

London

"Be polite, courteous and complimentary when needed (not go all in). Talk to people normally as you would do in a pub and ensure your profile and pics are equally as decent as your message, as most will go straight to your profile when receiving a message.

Take no well too!

Engage!

Don’t see people as a number.

I always follow someone’s lead in a conversation, if they are talking about general things, I will. If it gets more intimate then you’ll never be the one that pushes things too far.

This is exactly what I try and do. Go slow, be polite, kind and respect. Talk about what you like or not in chat. The end results are so much better when you do and more likely to meet again. Lots of lovely people on here. Those who are not in minority

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Be confident, a little arrogance is better than the woe is me shite.

Don't be a simp.

Be interesting.

And be hot.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
18 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Network. Don't just concentrate on those your attracted to others may know someone your comparable with"

Yes because for every hottie that you have your eyes on, there are 3 lurkers that maybe have their eyes on you.

I have definitely been lurked.

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By *he MinionMan
18 weeks ago

It is a cliché but socials and clubs are great places to meet and chat to lots of people. You may not connect with everyone you chat too but these people have friends who you may connect with and in general, people are friendly at clubs and even more so at socials. Talk to everyone, address couples as a couple not just the beautiful lady, chat to the lucky guy on her arm too.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Good tips everyone, keep them coming

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By *hil most chillMan
18 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

"Don't moan and whine, not in your profile, your status or the forum. No one is turned on by that.

Don't bank on it. Knowing Fab, there's bound to be someone, somewhere who is

Great point. So I'll add, never underestimate the kinks that people have

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Anymore tips?

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
18 weeks ago

from mars

"Anymore tips?"

I’ve got a pink tip 😌

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By *cLovin2Man
18 weeks ago

London

"Anymore tips?"

Be a poet, a written word is still the way to a lady's heart,

Reveal the torment in your heart, for release is ecstasy and the path to eternity.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

Wank yourself dry before even attempting to engage with a woman so that you do so with clarity of mind.

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By *AJMLKTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Burley

Offer McDonald's or Gregg's vouchers.

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By *NormalMan01Man
18 weeks ago

Harrogate

It might be a “sex site” but people have lives, feelings and preferences. Don’t be a dick.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
18 weeks ago

Altrincham

Communicate, be honest, don't play games

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By *reative-mindMan
18 weeks ago

exeter

Just do what suits you is my advice.

Clubs and socials arnt really an option for me...well not till i find a partner in crime I'm comfortable around, means I'm probably at a disadvantage.

Then again I don't fret about my "success" on fab, I won't be everyone cup of tea that's life.

Not had reply in weeks to the very few messages I send, is what it is.

Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you. "

So just have a wank?

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Just do what suits you is my advice.

Clubs and socials arnt really an option for me...well not till i find a partner in crime I'm comfortable around, means I'm probably at a disadvantage.

Then again I don't fret about my "success" on fab, I won't be everyone cup of tea that's life.

Not had reply in weeks to the very few messages I send, is what it is.

Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you. "
That's you, some might want a little pointer in the right direction to make their experience more successful

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By *reative-mindMan
18 weeks ago

exeter

"Just do what suits you is my advice.

Clubs and socials arnt really an option for me...well not till i find a partner in crime I'm comfortable around, means I'm probably at a disadvantage.

Then again I don't fret about my "success" on fab, I won't be everyone cup of tea that's life.

Not had reply in weeks to the very few messages I send, is what it is.

Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you. That's you, some might want a little pointer in the right direction to make their experience more successful"

To be honest I've asked that question and non of the answers I got made me any more successful or unsuccessful on here.

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By *reative-mindMan
18 weeks ago

exeter

Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you.

So just have a wank? "

Romantic wank but only on the second Sunday of the month.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

bump

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By *andadbodMan
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

There are many levels of success, those who get replies from PMs sent out, those who are quoted in the forums, thus being recognised by someone else by their comment, then there’s those who are accepted on to guest lists for private socials and the likes.

Myself since rejoining Ive had a few conversations and a couple of social meets, one turned into a full on naked session in their bed, that was quite some time ago now.

Those who complain are probably bombarding loads of profiles hoping for at least one reply but done get it, all I can say to them is be patient and you’ll be rewarded. 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Be genuine and patient. Not everyone can be available for hot sex at the drop of a message.

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By *ellhungvweMan
18 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Be yourself. This place is about people. People respond to people - they don’t respond to things that are not authentic.

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By *ags73Man
18 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Don’t moan and keep trying

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"Be confident, a little arrogance is better than the woe is me shite.

Don't be a simp.

Be interesting.

And be hot.

That's me! get out of my profile you! welcome back, 😂 🥪

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By *ou only live onceMan
18 weeks ago

London

All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.

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By *eoBloomsMan
18 weeks ago

Springfield

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing."

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
18 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing."

You've won today. Well done. 😂

And for those of you who haven't won. Well done anyway.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing."
very good

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By *ou only live onceMan
18 weeks ago

London

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.

You've won today. Well done. 😂

And for those of you who haven't won. Well done anyway."

It's the taking part that counts, losers...

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
18 weeks ago

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
18 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪"

That's why I'm doing so well! 🙏

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

Put a little effort in before moaning, verifications are easy to get however they aren't an automatic tick that magically improves your success.

Pop to a club and ask to be verified.

Go to a social and ask to be verified.

Pop on cam and again ask.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Don't send messages, wait for the chicks to come to you.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
18 weeks ago

kent

Learn how to express yourself through writing. It is the primary method of engagement here, and probably worth more than your photos x

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18 weeks ago

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

Be attractive.

If you're not, get yourself to a club🍞

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By *es not the MessiahMan
18 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I don't care about being successful

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By *tubbsy85Woman
18 weeks ago

Ipswich

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪"

This explains why you haven't met me yet 😎

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By *anderingArtistMan
18 weeks ago

an abstract world

I had a modicum of success on a previous account. My shit top would be to be yourself. There's a lock for every key just don't put a time frame on it and don't beat yourself up in the process.

Engage in the forums, don't send unsolicited dick pics, accept that no means no and have fun.. send that dad joke, measure your penis in millimetres, send an unsolicited duck pic instead 🦆

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By *anderingArtistMan
18 weeks ago

an abstract world

"I had a modicum of success on a previous account. My shit top would be to be yourself. There's a lock for every key just don't put a time frame on it and don't beat yourself up in the process.

Engage in the forums, don't send unsolicited dick pics, accept that no means no and have fun.. send that dad joke, measure your penis in millimetres, send an unsolicited duck pic instead 🦆"

*shit tip

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Set your standards high and your target low.

Be choosy on who you message and actually think about what you are looking for in a playmate beyond a willing hole. Punch above your weight by all means and be confident that you can charm your way into anyone's bed.

Then with that new found confidence, aim to meet one new person a year. Remember, you have something to offer and ladies / couples have to put some effort in too.

Be more than just a cock of convenience and work on establishing that friendship. The harder you try and the more desperate you seem, the harder it is to stand out.

Finally, be yourself and be true to yourself. Don't be what you think others want you to be, invariably you'll get it wrong. Be lucky!

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By *eoBloomsMan
18 weeks ago

Springfield

High standards, realistic expectations, low morals.

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By *ell I WonderMan
18 weeks ago

Staines

"Always play hard to get.

Aloofness is my weakness"

I'm so aloof that I never meet anyone 😂

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

This explains why you haven't met me yet 😎"

You ghosted me for your winter break as I recall 🤔🤔🥪

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"High standards, realistic expectations, low morals."

Low standards, low expectations, low morals. ...high body count! 🥪

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By *eliWoman
18 weeks ago

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing."

I don't know why but I'm surprised you wrote this. Also kind of turned on. It's very confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Just be a decent person and be respectful

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By *cLovin2Man
18 weeks ago

London

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.

I don't know why but I'm surprised you wrote this. Also kind of turned on. It's very confusing."

Someone's hit the jackpot, next shag through a mathematical formula to show you how to get your leg over. Just need to plumb into the formula what to say, and your target will jump on you, legs wrapped around your waste.

Who said maths is boring

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By *cLovin2Man
18 weeks ago

London

Waist, damn autocorrect

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Some great tips everyone

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
18 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

Be yourself.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪"
But that doesn't work, that's when they come on the forums complaing the ugly ones won't meet them after they had lowed their standards.

Who knew even munters had standards

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By *avie65Man
18 weeks ago

In the west.

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪But that doesn't work, that's when they come on the forums complaing the ugly ones won't meet them after they had lowed their standards.

Who knew even munters had standards

I’ve always had standards.

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By *allnHandsome12Man
18 weeks ago

Teesside

I usually send a face pic and either reference their bio, in more than one sentence, or be polite and succinct as an opening message. Obviously it wont always work (especially with my face and selfie ability) but it has known to on occasion and even enjoyed by those involved!

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Ilkeston

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
18 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

But how do you measure success here in Fab or when swinging?

High body count or that people like you, and don’t have a bad word to say about you?

A lot of verifications could make you look ‘easy’ to some people. #just saying.

I like the wholesome people that only have 1 verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪"

*grateful

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By *r SensualMan
18 weeks ago

London

Stop trying to appeal to the masses! Everyone knows what (or who) they like, so focus efforts towards people who fit that description

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By *rdere OpusCouple
18 weeks ago

Brum - ish

I was very successful as a single guy on fab. Never struggled to arrange meets or cultivate interest in my target audience so to speak.

Being considered physically attractive, without a doubt contributed to this. It gets your foot in the door, but is not a guarantee of success. It needs following up with being engaging, chatty and relaxed. Never give off thirsty vibes or be too eager to immediately go into "sex" talk. Be patient and see how things develop. If all this is anchored to a well written profile with good pictures, I see no reason to not be successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Always measure your peepee (always call it your peepee too they love that) in units of sky remote, use the forum every day, I know a lot of ladies don’t use the forum but whilst you are in here looking at empty inboxes you may as well make yourself useful

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
18 weeks ago

North West

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful"

😂😂

Bring him down!

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful

😂😂

Bring him down! "

He needs it doesn't he

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By *cLovin2Man
18 weeks ago

London

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful

😂😂

Bring him down!

He needs it doesn't he

Isn't that just like a teacher

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful

😂😂

Bring him down!

He needs it doesn't he

I suppose you think you're funny? 🥪

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
18 weeks ago

North West

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful

😂😂

Bring him down!

He needs it doesn't he

I suppose you think you're funny? 🥪"

Funnier than you 🍭

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I don’t have a lot of success on here

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I SO misread the retort! (above comment was invalid!😳)

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By *oiluvfunMan
18 weeks ago

Penrith

Only message those profiles you feel you will be a genuine match for;

Block any profiles you’re not a genuine match for (you don’t need them clogging up your local updates with no possibility of a meet);

Be yourself at all times! You’ll get caught out if you’re just saying what you think they want to hear, and women usually go for self confident, comfortable in their own skin men

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By *estructionDollyWoman
18 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪"

Nah, I'm a totally ungrateful cunt. Soz.

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful

😂😂

Bring him down!

He needs it doesn't he

I suppose you think you're funny? 🥪

Funnier than you 🍭"

you're funny looking, I'll give you that! 🥪

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By *oughmanMan
18 weeks ago

Sunderland

"Always measure your peepee (always call it your peepee too they love that) in units of sky remote, use the forum every day, I know a lot of ladies don’t use the forum but whilst you are in here looking at empty inboxes you may as well make yourself useful

Unfortunately that last bit about the forums does hit the nail on the head.

Hey, it's boring at work and I'm lonely.

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By *ildTimes.Man
18 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

Nah, I'm a totally ungrateful cunt. Soz. "

The sass in here today...unreal!!! 🥪

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
18 weeks ago

Norwich

Be nice and don't be a dick!

No seriously read the profile of the person you are messaging and respect their preferences. If you are not it don't message them.

Have some public pics and a completed profile. If you don't have any verifications try to get some via a social or at a club.

Having a list of stipulations or no's is a massive turn off.

Be genuine and nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

*grateful

😂😂

Bring him down!

He needs it doesn't he

I suppose you think you're funny? 🥪"

No.. I know I am

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪

Nah, I'm a totally ungrateful cunt. Soz. "

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By *ergus1622Man
18 weeks ago

Dundee

I actually made a fort in my living room foe a meet! That went down a treat !

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
18 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

How does a woman view or measure her success in here.

I should have started a thread for ‘a question for just the ladies’ I know.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"How does a woman view or measure her success in here.

I should have started a thread for ‘a question for just the ladies’ I know.

"
I would say I was successful as I met lovely respectful guys. Was able to communicate between our selves our wants and needs.

I never had abuse(three abusive messages in 19 years) I never had a no show or cancellation. Fab has always been good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"How does a woman view or measure her success in here.

I should have started a thread for ‘a question for just the ladies’ I know.

I can pull way hotter guys than I can in real life.

May the men always outnumber the women!! 🙏🏻

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By *olinOfBathMan
18 weeks ago

Corsham

Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
18 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

That’d be me out on the patience one 🤣

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By *inceIlkestonMan
18 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Don't type with your cock in your hand

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By *hunky GentMan
18 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Form a queue ladies, ChunkyGent is here.

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By *olinOfBathMan
18 weeks ago

Corsham

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better."

Ahhh. Here's the big point.

If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better."

Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?

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By *olinOfBathMan
18 weeks ago

Corsham

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?"

They aren't synonymous.

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?"

There's only one P. It needs more work😕

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By *olinOfBathMan
18 weeks ago

Corsham

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?

There's only one P. It needs more work😕"

Penis - they'll let you know when they're ready to see it.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
18 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Ahhh. Here's the big point.

If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem. "

This reads like chat gp would answer.

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By *olinOfBathMan
18 weeks ago

Corsham

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Ahhh. Here's the big point.

If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.

This reads like chat gp would answer.

Wow. Offensive, somewhat.

Skibidi, Skibidi.

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?

There's only one P. It needs more work😕

Penis - they'll let you know when they're ready to see it."

Genius

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By *ude LawMan
18 weeks ago

Harrogate

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By *ude LawMan
18 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better."

Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym.

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym."

PEAR 🍐

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

"
Thankyou for your input Colin and your verifications prove this to work.

Maybe this will help some that struggle

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By *ude LawMan
18 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym.

PEAR 🍐 "

Well I had REAP 👨‍🌾 but near enough.

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym.

PEAR 🍐

Well I had REAP 👨‍🌾 but near enough."

Both work. Just use whichever is easier for you to remember 🫶

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
18 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Ahhh. Here's the big point.

If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.

This reads like chat gp would answer.

Wow. Offensive, somewhat.

Skibidi, Skibidi. "

You think this was an offensive reply?

Just hang around, your on the internet you know.

But seriously. This sounded like a chatgp search. #justsaying. ….

Walks away from this chat.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Ahhh. Here's the big point.

If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.

This reads like chat gp would answer.

Wow. Offensive, somewhat.

Skibidi, Skibidi.

You think this was an offensive reply?

Just hang around, your on the internet you know.

But seriously. This sounded like a chatgp search. #justsaying. ….

Walks away from this chat.

"
Doesn't really matter, he's a successful man and it works for him. Why would you be negative

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

anymore tips, maybe a few are taking notes from this thread

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By *ou only live onceMan
18 weeks ago

London

"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.

Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.

I don't know why but I'm surprised you wrote this. Also kind of turned on. It's very confusing.

Who said maths is boring

It's an art not a science, McLovin!

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By *Silver-Man
18 weeks ago

North Wales

Good communication, being genuine and having choclate never lets me down😉

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By *egDaySkipperMan
18 weeks ago

Ignore them. The moment I removed all my public and friends only pics, my attention quadrupled.

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By *tr8MrEMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.

Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.

Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.

Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.

Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.

Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.

Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.

Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.

Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.

Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.

Ahhh. Here's the big point.

If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.

This reads like chat gp would answer.

Wow. Offensive, somewhat.

Skibidi, Skibidi.

You think this was an offensive reply?

Just hang around, your on the internet you know.

But seriously. This sounded like a chatgp search. #justsaying. ….

Walks away from this chat.

Doesn't really matter, he's a successful man and it works for him. Why would you be negative"

Well this escalated 😮😮

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By *estructionDollyWoman
18 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

What does "success" on here even mean? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Manage your expectations, especially as an older guy.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"What does "success" on here even mean? 🤷🏻‍♀️"
It has a different meaning to different people but for me it's someone getting what they want out the site

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By *tr8MrEMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Manage your expectations, especially as an older guy. "

Low then 🤣🤣

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By *egDaySkipperMan
18 weeks ago

"What does "success" on here even mean? 🤷🏻‍♀️"

For men, it's when their cucumber turns into a pickle 🥒

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By *electableicecreamMan
18 weeks ago

The West

I thought I posted here but I must have only wrote it in my head.

Success on Fab, to me, means leveraging what you have to get what you want.

It's not any one thing.

I'd consider myself as having met a reasonable amount of success in as much as I now have a network of friends and lovers in a sex positive community

I meet people by staying active in the forums and I attend the occasional day time coffee social.

I don't send opening messages and I don't go to clubs or social events in busy bars or venues as I don't shine there at all.

I take photos for myself and I enjoy sharing them and other people seem to like that too.

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By *antra MassageMan
18 weeks ago

Galway

Go to a social.

Chat to every man in the room .

They will vet you... Once approved, chat to the wives, gf's.

Be prepared to go home alone from a social.

Be patient.

If they liked you, they'll get in touch.

Write a good profile.

Nude selfies aren't good.

Get a good friend to take your photos.

Stand out from the (below) average man.

Be impeccable in all your interactions.

Women talk to other women, and will refer you.

I never send a first message.

Shiva waits until Shakti decides.

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