FabSwingers.com forum: Friend list

By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

How often do you communicate with the friends in your list?

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By *aveyougotmymarblesMan
13 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I try to but seldom get a reply

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By *ora the explorerWoman
13 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

All mine haven’t been on here for years and months 🤣. Maybe it’s me!

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By *hunky GentMan
13 weeks ago

north of Peterborough

"All mine haven’t been on here for years and months 🤣. Maybe it’s me!"

Yes, it's you. 😆 🤣

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

Most of them I speak to most days/a few times a week.

1 of them. Could go up to two weeks or so.

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By *hunky GentMan
13 weeks ago

north of Peterborough

I try to chat with friends, probably not as often as a friend should, but then again, many friends don't seem to read them anyway.

Maybe it's just me.

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By *midnight-Woman
13 weeks ago

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I'm in touch with most of them daily/weekly

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By *lack FridayMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

I spring clean the list a few times a year. If we are friends and I message and don't get a response within a week or so, then I just unfriend.

Those that are active friends, we communicate outside of Fab.

I also have two former Fab friends that live abroad and we still keep in touch - met up with one when they were home last summer.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
13 weeks ago

Cheshire

Between daily, every couple of days and weekly

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
13 weeks ago

Ipswich

Some on daily basis

Some very occasionally if they having a few issues

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By *maginitivemindMan
13 weeks ago

nottingham

Occasionally for planning meets at clubs

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By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

Interesting🤔 .

I was looking at our list and noticed that we haven't interacted with some for years.

Next question. Do you accept friend requests from people you've never spoken to?

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
13 weeks ago

Ipswich

"Interesting🤔 .

I was looking at our list and noticed that we haven't interacted with some for years.

Next question. Do you accept friend requests from people you've never spoken to?"

I haven’t messaged some women for few months to be fair as they haven’t been active no I don’t accept friend requests from anyone now as getting older

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Some not really at all. I ought to remove them really but then I'll look like Billy no mates!!

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By *ettpairCouple
13 weeks ago

Kettering

Having a bit of a spring clean as we speak

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By *elloWoman
13 weeks ago

alpha centauri

My inbox is the people I've met so I can remember not really for conversing, although 2 do message about new photos and 1 a occasionally interact with on the forums but I'm not very good at messaging people

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

I don't accept friend requests from people I've not spoken to, no.

I used to not accept requests until after we'd met but that's changed now that all my pictures are public with no friends only gallery.

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By *midnight-Woman
13 weeks ago

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"Interesting🤔 .

I was looking at our list and noticed that we haven't interacted with some for years.

Next question. Do you accept friend requests from people you've never spoken to?"

No... Only if it's a 'find a friend' thread

My profile is pretty PG, so there's nothing exciting to be gained by being friends - even though we have a separate friends mailbox I still miss their messages

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By *hunky GentMan
13 weeks ago

north of Peterborough

"Interesting🤔 .

I was looking at our list and noticed that we haven't interacted with some for years.

Next question. Do you accept friend requests from people you've never spoken to?

No... Only if it's a 'find a friend' thread

My profile is pretty PG, so there's nothing exciting to be gained by being friends - even though we have a separate friends mailbox I still miss their messages

Noted.

I may have a look out for you on the next 'find a friend' thread.

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By *ommy trucker1Man
13 weeks ago

anywhere near you

I've a small circle like an inner circle of friends on fab interact quite frequently. Then there's a few other on the list who don't engage.

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By *ad NannaWoman
13 weeks ago

East London

I have four on my friends list.

One I chat to regularly, two occasionally, and the other is a defunct group social organiser I have not interacted with in a year.

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By *orphia2003Woman
13 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Online, occasionally with a few of them. The rest I seem to chat with in real life at events, but not much on here.

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By *a LunaWoman
13 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Apart from one, fairly regularly. There are three that are sporadic but that’s ok, the rest are weekly if not daily.

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By *obilebottomMan
13 weeks ago

All over

One or two all the time. Just noticed a couple have not been on for ages so they will be coming off

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

My list is in single figures and I only speak to one of them regularly.

I honestly can't remember the last time I sent a message to any of the others or received one.

If I post a new pic, 3 or 4 on that list will fab it and I will fab theirs if they display a new one but that's about as far as the friendship goes.

Apart from the one person I speak to every day I know nothing about any of them, not even their first names.

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By *eoBloomsMan
13 weeks ago

Springfield

Between daily and almost never.

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By *ire_thornMan
13 weeks ago

Sol The Narion system

I try to but rarely get a response.. which is fine.. however I do accept friend requests

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By *oodmessMan
13 weeks ago

yumsville

It'll be the odd text if we do...One's not been on for years and years the other not for 7 months.. I don't add people as that's more of a meet/post meet thing

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I only have a few on mine, one is my other half. The other 2 I speak with regularly too.

I don't see the point in adding people, that I'm not in contact with.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Sometimes its more for people i have met just to be nosey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

If someone would like to be my friend then I could comment on this thread.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
13 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Many of them are event organisers so periodically. Others are in group chats and we chat pretty much daily. Then there are some who are inbetween - we still speak to them regularly but perhaps more like weekly.

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By *he MinionMan
13 weeks ago

My friends list is either people i have met or people i want to meet with but am just chatting with at the moment.

I should put more effort into staying in contact with all of them but at the same time, they know how to reach me too

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Remember when this site displayed friends list, and you could opt out of displaying your list ? It was a bit like fbook with people wanting to look like they had lots of friends

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By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Remember when this site displayed friends list, and you could opt out of displaying your list ? It was a bit like fbook with people wanting to look like they had lots of friends

I think you still can. Ours is hidden along with our verifications ever since someone assumed that because we'd met someone they had we would meet them too 🫣

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Remember when this site displayed friends list, and you could opt out of displaying your list ? It was a bit like fbook with people wanting to look like they had lots of friends

I think you still can. Ours is hidden along with our verifications ever since someone assumed that because we'd met someone they had we would meet them too 🫣"

I stopped displaying verifications when people were mailing my verifications for more info on me and tips to get a meet.

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By *ellinever70Woman
13 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't have a friends list on here

I don't find it necessary if ogling pics isn't your thing

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
13 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Our friends list is all people we’ve met or people I’m talking to and plan to meet. If I don’t hear from people for a long time I tend to ‘unfriend’ them to keep from having loads of people in there that I don’t actually speak to. I never accept friends requests from people I haven’t chatted to.

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By *EAT..85Woman
13 weeks ago

Nottingham

I don't do fab friends. So never.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
13 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Not enough… but they are still friends

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By *riar BelisseWoman
13 weeks ago

Holibobs

All the time, but I am enjoying Rumpy Pumpy with all of them

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