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By *hil most chill OP   Man
5 hours ago

South East & Europe

I quite often get fabbed by some bi lad far away from my location, so I assume I'm on his hotlist?

Do you have any people who will reliably fab, wink or message you, despite being nowhere near you?

Or are there people in the forum flirting with you so hard that you're convinced they must have hotlisted you too?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 hours ago

Wales

I have some people on my friends list that do those things but I can't say I've noticed anyone else that does.

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By *ifeleftMan
5 hours ago

Lincoln

I doubt I'm on anyones hotlist, more likely blocked list.

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By *ettpairCouple
5 hours ago

Kettering

Haha doubt we're on anyone's list either

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By *reatscotMan
5 hours ago

kirkcaldy


"I doubt I'm on anyones hotlist, more likely blocked list."
. Same😈

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By *radleywigginsMan
5 hours ago

northwest

Everyone’s surely

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
5 hours ago

Ends

Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.

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By *reat Guy BazMan
5 hours ago

Rustington

Haha I’m on no one’s hotlist ;-(

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By *uffin and JamCouple
4 hours ago

Ayrshire

Would be nice to know if we were on a hotlist, could cater more to them

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 hours ago

Reading

My on/off person (who usually sees them before I post them online!) always fabs my pics within 30 minutes of me uploading them

There are a couple of local men who are regular with it too. Not sure I've noticed anyone from the forums who's on it with my pics.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I doubt I'm on anyones hotlist, more likely blocked list."

Being blocked on here is just par for the course, it's not a bad thing!

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Everyone’s surely"

This is the kind of confidence everyone should have on this site!

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By *uacksplat.Woman
4 hours ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love. "

well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px

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By *igdickeasterneuropeanMan
4 hours ago

Navan

I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love. "

I highly doubt that no one in the forum has you hotlisted, you are one of the forum stars

And no one lifts other men up like the gay/bi men on this site

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
4 hours ago

Ends


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.

well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px "

Ok I didn’t expect that

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hope no one is that sad

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"My on/off person (who usually sees them before I post them online!) always fabs my pics within 30 minutes of me uploading them

There are a couple of local men who are regular with it too. Not sure I've noticed anyone from the forums who's on it with my pics."

It's good to show appreciation with fabs, especially if that person has given you the early access preview!

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By *eliWoman
4 hours ago

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I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.

Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
4 hours ago

Ends


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.

I highly doubt that no one in the forum has you hotlisted, you are one of the forum stars

And no one lifts other men up like the gay/bi men on this site "

People like my threads but don’t think I’m hot

But yes, gay/bi men are the real mvps

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist "

If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them

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By *ynamicnatureMan
4 hours ago

Doncaster


"I quite often get fabbed by some bi lad far away from my location, so I assume I'm on his hotlist?

Do you have any people who will reliably fab, wink or message you, despite being nowhere near you?

That's a no

Or are there people in the forum flirting with you so hard that you're convinced they must have hotlisted you too?"

And that's a no as well.

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By *olte121Man
4 hours ago

just up the road and first left

I’d bet my mortgage against being on the hotlist of anyone from the opposite sex.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.

well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px

Ok I didn’t expect that

"

Haha, see I told you

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By *bitofaslutWoman
4 hours ago

Cannock

I'd better not be. Buncha perves 😂😂

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist

If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them"

Accurate.

I've had torrents of messages from guys when I fat fingered my phone and accidentally looked at their profile (before I knew hiding my views was a thing).

Some guys think even looking at a profile is a guaranteed shag.

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By *uff_Butler85Man
4 hours ago

Here and There...

Everyone's... Surely I am.. I have no doubts that everyone hotlists me but forgets to message haha

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.

Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone."

Come on Meli, you're not fooling anyone. You're a forum star, your erotic writing is unmatched and you've got huge cannons. You're on a ton of hotlists!

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By *amie HantsWoman
4 hours ago

Atlantis

There’s a couple of guys who have stuck with my profile ever since I made it. They’re the most consistent men in my life. Never speaking, only liking my pictures. One’s in Scotland and one is East Midlands so could literally be anywhere in the world. Love you guys! (I have no idea if they read the forums or not. But if they do ♥️)

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By *rSircumsizedMan
4 hours ago

Newport area.

No ones.. I don't really understand the need for it.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.

I highly doubt that no one in the forum has you hotlisted, you are one of the forum stars

And no one lifts other men up like the gay/bi men on this site

People like my threads but don’t think I’m hot

But yes, gay/bi men are the real mvps "

They quietly work away behind the scenes, showing appreciation to profiles who have them blocked from messaging, tirelessly fabbing just in case our sexual preferences change one day. I respect the hustle.

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By *uac7886Man
4 hours ago

London

I would think not because who would add me, but I was at a club event yesterday and a random couple complimented my pics on here, so maybe I'm on theirs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 hours ago

East Sussex

There are possibly three profiles that fab any new stuff of ours who aren't on our friend list so we assume they've hotlisted us.

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By *midnight-Woman
4 hours ago

...

I can tell a few from the fabs 🤩

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I quite often get fabbed by some bi lad far away from my location, so I assume I'm on his hotlist?

Do you have any people who will reliably fab, wink or message you, despite being nowhere near you?

That's a no

Or are there people in the forum flirting with you so hard that you're convinced they must have hotlisted you too?

And that's a no as well."

With those abs, you're definitely on some hotlists. I think most ladies here play it stealth and don't like to show their hand

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist

If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them

Accurate.

I've had torrents of messages from guys when I fat fingered my phone and accidentally looked at their profile (before I knew hiding my views was a thing).

Some guys think even looking at a profile is a guaranteed shag."

In my early, clueless days on fab, I used to message women who looked at my profile I've since learned to see it for what it really means: nothing

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Everyone's... Surely I am.. I have no doubts that everyone hotlists me but forgets to message haha "

I am certain this is true in my case too

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By *ickshawedCouple
4 hours ago

Wolverhampton

We've not posted pictures in a while now but I was always nosey and checked who fabbed them and quite a few names always did. Forum people and non forum people. They clearly have good taste

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By *lubchuckerMan
4 hours ago

Oxfordshire

I would like to think i'm on a few hotlists but in reality i'm probably not, more likely to be on more blocked lists

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By *zeroMan
4 hours ago

Glasgow

I get the occasional fab from people I am friends with but regular fabs on photos and videos are too far and wide to notice if I'm on anyone's hotlist.

To be honest I probablt don't update my status or upload stuff enough.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"There’s a couple of guys who have stuck with my profile ever since I made it. They’re the most consistent men in my life. Never speaking, only liking my pictures. One’s in Scotland and one is East Midlands so could literally be anywhere in the world. Love you guys! (I have no idea if they read the forums or not. But if they do ♥️)"

This is the most wholesome thing I've seen on the forum in a long time

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist

If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them

Accurate.

I've had torrents of messages from guys when I fat fingered my phone and accidentally looked at their profile (before I knew hiding my views was a thing).

Some guys think even looking at a profile is a guaranteed shag.

In my early, clueless days on fab, I used to message women who looked at my profile I've since learned to see it for what it really means: nothing"

I'm not bothered by the first message on the basis of looking. It's the second, fifth, tenth, and the presumption that I now owe them

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By *otgent97Man
4 hours ago

Coventry

I don’t know but I’d like to know! Any takers?

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By *igboobstCouple
4 hours ago

barrow

No ones but in contrast our hotlist is huge 🤣🤣

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
4 hours ago

Cannock


"No ones but in contrast our hotlist is huge 🤣🤣"

Same goes for us lol

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
4 hours ago

Yorkshire

Mostly friends fab our new pics. Can’t imagine I’m on many peoples hotlist as I’m quite dull compared to many people on here. I have a few on mine though.

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By *usty kayCouple
4 hours ago

Burnham

I'm assuming I'm on a few because they pop up every time I am online even though they aren't friends.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 hours ago

York

We have a regular crowd that fab our pics as soon as they go on so maybe on their hotlist. No one from our friends list or the forums fab our pics (or maybe occasionally).

It’s nice we are on peoples hotlist - we’d like to add the hot people on our hotlist to friends.

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By *et and WillingCouple
4 hours ago

Nuneaton

Like to think we are on hundreds and hundreds of hotlists but in reality maybe one or two

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"No ones.. I don't really understand the need for it."

It's so you can save a profile for later when you don't have time to craft an incredible message, then forget about them for 6 months, then when you do go to message them they've left the site, hidden their profile or blocked you for a lame status you added when d*unk.

What's not to get?

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I would think not because who would add me, but I was at a club event yesterday and a random couple complimented my pics on here, so maybe I'm on theirs"

That's actually quite impressive. Your pics and username were memorable enough to someone for a real life compliment. Nice work!

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
4 hours ago

Ends


"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.

But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.

well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px

Ok I didn’t expect that

Haha, see I told you "

Quack is just a flirt

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"There are possibly three profiles that fab any new stuff of ours who aren't on our friend list so we assume they've hotlisted us. "

Well you do seem very nice, so I'm not surprised!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
4 hours ago

North West

That bloke up the road who curtain twitches, probably.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"We've not posted pictures in a while now but I was always nosey and checked who fabbed them and quite a few names always did. Forum people and non forum people. They clearly have good taste "

Forumites are known for our impeccable taste

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"We have a regular crowd that fab our pics as soon as they go on so maybe on their hotlist. No one from our friends list or the forums fab our pics (or maybe occasionally).

It’s nice we are on peoples hotlist - we’d like to add the hot people on our hotlist to friends.

"

Maybe if you update your status saying as much, they will emerge from the shadows to claim their reward?

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By *eliWoman
4 hours ago

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"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.

Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone.

Come on Meli, you're not fooling anyone. You're a forum star, your erotic writing is unmatched and you've got huge cannons. You're on a ton of hotlists!"

Oh Phil you're so very lovely. Not (only) because you've thoroughly massaged my insufferable ego but because you're making the time to actually reply to people and lift them up a little. I hope that you're on the hotlist of every woman you'd like to lose yourself in. 🩷

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By *ikesEmBigMan
4 hours ago

Herts

I could only hope I'm on your list

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By *ifeleftMan
4 hours ago

Lincoln


"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.

Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone."

You are on mine Meli, not in expectation of anything other than the hope of a new pic.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
4 hours ago

Brum - ish

Couple of men who look at us regularly so quite possibly them.

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By *avexxMan
4 hours ago

cheshire

none i would imagine

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By *uscle88Man
4 hours ago

Potters Bar

Not too sure

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
4 hours ago

Reigate

Not many I would imagine, but honestly, we are happy with what we have x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 hours ago

Reading

That sounds like too much work to figure it out.

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By *emarkablybobMan
4 hours ago

Bradley Stoke

Absolutely nobody’s lol

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By *anilla_SundaeCouple
4 hours ago

Aberdeen

Probably nobody's, we wouldn't know unless they told us

Mrs

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By *allnHandsome12Man
4 hours ago

Teesside

Doubtful I’m on anyone’s but I enjoy the tool and find it useful, more so for local people in my case

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.

Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone.

Come on Meli, you're not fooling anyone. You're a forum star, your erotic writing is unmatched and you've got huge cannons. You're on a ton of hotlists!

Oh Phil you're so very lovely. Not (only) because you've thoroughly massaged my insufferable ego but because you're making the time to actually reply to people and lift them up a little. I hope that you're on the hotlist of every woman you'd like to lose yourself in. 🩷"

I am genuinely touched by the fact that I commented on someone's "huge cannons" on the forum and they responded positively. Maybe there is a god

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By *emarkablybobMan
4 hours ago

Bradley Stoke


"Probably nobody's, we wouldn't know unless they told us

Mrs"

You’re on mine now wow

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By *oodo69Man
4 hours ago

London (visiting frequently)

Can’t imagne lm on anyones lol

Maybe someone can surprise me…

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"I could only hope I'm on your list "

Not my type I'm afraid, but I imagine you're on some here, with that big thing threatening to burst through your profile pic!

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By *dam1971Man
4 hours ago

Bedford

From the posters here, Midnight, Meli, Miss Bella and Swingdress are on mine. Not because there’s I have any chance of meeting them, but because they’re interesting, cool (or hot, whatever the term is) and I want to know what they have to say. The occasional photo is the cherry on a pretty awesome cake.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Can’t imagne lm on anyones lol

Maybe someone can surprise me… "

In the USA in the 1940s, a chicken once lived for 18 months without a head. I bet that suprised you!

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By *ike OxmallMan
4 hours ago

Elderslie

I'd be amazed if I was on anybody's!

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By *929Man
4 hours ago

northumberland

I doubt on anyone’s here

I suspect a few local men have me on theirs as always the same ones fab when put up a new photo haha

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
4 hours ago

Glasgow / London

I’m sure I’m on someone’s, but I kinda like not knowing. A bit of mystery never hurts.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
4 hours ago

BRIDPORT


"Can’t imagne lm on anyones lol

Maybe someone can surprise me…

In the USA in the 1940s, a chicken once lived for 18 months without a head. I bet that suprised you!"

That’s nothing, in 2025 they put one in charge at the white house

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
4 hours ago

South East & Europe


"Can’t imagne lm on anyones lol

Maybe someone can surprise me…

In the USA in the 1940s, a chicken once lived for 18 months without a head. I bet that suprised you!

That’s nothing, in 2025 they put one in charge at the white house "

Nah, if so the price of eggs might have actually dropped in the USA, as promised

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By *ooLou89Woman
4 hours ago

Nottinghamshire

I have a couple suspicions 😏😂 and certainly a few I wish I made the cut for 🤭

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 hours ago

the moon

The devil’s 👺

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