FabSwingers.com forum: Dilema

By *ensual Desires OP Man
24 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

I want people's opinion. Right I saw that someone had an account on here for them and their girlfriend without her knowledge as she is my friend I told her. Now she is accusing me of setting up the account. Did I do the right thing telling her

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
24 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

What do you think?

The saying 'not my monkey, not my circus' springs to mind.

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
24 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Makes me regret being a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

It’s best never to say owt in situations like that, their parter can be the biggest piece of shit walking the planet but say owt about them and you are the bad one. They always just have to see for themselves

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

"I want people's opinion. Right I saw that someone had an account on here for them and their girlfriend without her knowledge as she is my friend I told her. Now she is accusing me of setting up the account. Did I do the right thing telling her"

You’ve looked out for her, and she has shown she doesn’t trust you.

She isn’t your friend.

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By *ondiego85Man
24 weeks ago

nottingham

If you didn’t tell her and she’d find out, she would have accused you anyway. You can’t win in those situations…

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By *oobieTrapWoman
24 weeks ago

london

Sadly a lot of men create fake couples accounts to contact women and then try to arrange to meet the women alone saying she’s unavailable or whatever

It’s a shame she feels you’d shit stir for no reason. Logically why would you do it?

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By *oodmessMan
24 weeks ago

yumsville

Aren't there things called revenge porn and catfishing ? Is she exaggerating her reaction a little

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I wouldn't have said anything, I've looked out for a so called friend before and told her something she had done while she was d*unk, she didn't believe me and called me a liar. We haven't spoken since. Take care of you OP leave others to worry about themselves.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
24 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I think worrying if you did the right thing or not is a moot point now; you did it!

Your dilemma is how to respond, or IF you even respond.

...and that, only you can know, because only you know the situation and the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I think you should have talked with him first and avoided the conflict and the shame she is feeling now. X

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
24 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Im here friend not his they had literally only just got together

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By *edSirenWoman
24 weeks ago

magic mountain

You did the right thing. No true friend would see something like that and not say. I get that others are saying it wasn’t your business. But I don’t think that’s what’s going on here. She deserved to know about a semi public profile of herself and as a mate, it would be pretty shitty not to say something.

Sucks she lashed out though. I’d step away from that situation now.

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
24 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"I wouldn't have said anything, I've looked out for a so called friend before and told her something she had done while she was d*unk, she didn't believe me and called me a liar. We haven't spoken since. Take care of you OP leave others to worry about themselves."
i do regret telling her

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

How did you know she didn't know?

I don't know why she's accusing you, I mean you'd hardly blow your own cover.

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By *orny PTMan
24 weeks ago

Peterborough

Being the messenger of bad news is asking to be a bullet magnet.

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By *ansoffateMan
24 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Sounds like drama.

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By *rown_Bread78Man
24 weeks ago

Leeds

yup, Ouch!

Can we be sure which, if not both, set up the account?

Tricky situation

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By *layfullsamMan
24 weeks ago

Solihull

What’s the account name ?

Judge Sam needs to see the evidence before passing judgement on this

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By *over of ladiesMan
24 weeks ago

cannock

How do you know she didn't know about it,could she have been pretending she didn't know?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Too late to ask opinion really.

Damage done.

Lesson learned……..keep your own backyard tidy, and fuck what anyone else’s looks like.

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By *ags73Man
24 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Too late to ask opinion really.

Damage done.

Lesson learned……..keep your own backyard tidy, and fuck what anyone else’s looks like. "

That.

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By *r TriomanMan
24 weeks ago

Malmesbury

Now I have a Nelly and Kelly earworm now OP - thanks.

Sorry that this situation hasn't turned out well for you; although you were trying to be a good friend, you've become the bad guy.

I'm not sure what I would've done myself, getting involved in other people's relationships is super risky.

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