FabSwingers.com forum: Bios on fab

By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
25 weeks ago

North West

Is a badly written bio a deal breaker for you on here? Does a bio that hasn't had much thought put into it, cause you be put off a profile??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not really. Some people aren't good at the written word.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Yes. Any with little or no information.

And the ranty, shouty, angry ones.

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By *artfordBlokeMan
25 weeks ago

Dartford

Sometimes they are better than the ones that have had way too fucking much thought, or bile,put into them. I take the tone rather than the actual content more into account.

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Haywards Heath

It depends... if I receive a proper introductory message from someone but they have a very sparse bio that's not a problem 'cos they put the effort in with their message.

But if the message is a one word or one line thing and then there's nothing about them in their bio I'm less likely to reply. And if the bio is empty AND there are no public pics then it's just delete and move on.

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
25 weeks ago

shankill

For the people I write to they don’t even get to view my bio unless they’re profile views turned off and I’m not noticing.

But it’s like everything, any little thing can be a turn off to a particular person.

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

Will fill later.

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By *mf123Man
25 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

[Removed by poster at 18/02/25 14:29:17]

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
25 weeks ago

North West

"Will fill later."

😂😂😂😂

Walked into that didn't I 😂

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
25 weeks ago

Durham

"Yes. Any with little or no information.

And the ranty, shouty, angry ones. "

This. And the one with the worthless "disclaimers"

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By *mf123Man
25 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Nobody reads the propaganda unless they forum folks most just want to boink

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

"Will fill later.

😂😂😂😂

Walked into that didn't I 😂"

And did a somersault

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By *mf123Man
25 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"Will fill later."
whose will your butler

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By *ealitybitesMan
25 weeks ago

Belfast

I struggle to read my own so I can't really blame others.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Most don’t read

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By *allySlinkyWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

No bio except

"ask me anything"

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

...

Only the one's that are I, I, I, I

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By *estructionDollyWoman
25 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

My bio probably puts people off, but if it's the type of men I don't want messages off anyway it's a win/win.

No bio or a really badly written bio puts me off yes.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Only the one's that are I, I, I, I

I think it should read , you ,you, you

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
25 weeks ago

North West

"Only the one's that are I, I, I, I

I think it should read , you ,you, you

How about me, me, me

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Not really. Some people aren't good at the written word.

This is Me, hence my Bio is naff lol

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By *weetiepie99Woman
25 weeks ago

cardiff

I have no bio. Still get lots of messages. I prefer to get to know someone in person so makes no difference to me.

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By *vaRoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Is a badly written bio a deal breaker for you on here? Does a bio that hasn't had much thought put into it, cause you be put off a profile??

If it’s blank or a one liner yeah.

If I’m looking to meet someone I’m not interested in playing message ping pong to get the bare basics that should be on a profile. What they’re looking for for example. It’s exhausting spending time feeling like I’m interrogating someone and it’s a waste of both our times when inevitably you’re not compatible.

Given two profiles of equal physical attraction, I’ll choose the one who’s made some effort in their bio every time.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
25 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I struggle to read my own so I can't really blame others."

It's decent. I would insert 'Abstract' because that's dead posh and used by the inteligencia.

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes it puts me off. But I'm not looking to hand out literary awards, more participation trophy plus.

If they've tried and I can read it rather than decipher it, that's enough.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
25 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Given two profiles of equal physical attraction, I’ll choose the one who’s made some effort in their bio every time. "

Men work off a similar one, although we go with the one with the biggest tits.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincs

Really all depends on the other factors.

People can impress with their pics, profile and message.

The more effort they’ve put in for all 3 the more intrigued we’d be. If we start having to play message ping pong just to get to a stage where we have the info that should have been in their profile, then it becomes a little monotonous.

We are here for good connections - not pulling teeth 😬

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Soho

It's not a deal breaker for me if there are grammatical anomalies, as long as I can glean as much about the person then it's fine. Poorly written ones, then perhaps yes, it can serve as a deal breaker if there is next to nothing in content or if can sense laziness in the construct.

I do enjoy reading verbose profiles with substance, humour and originality.

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By *WANDTGCouple
25 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

I'd rather short and sweet than prolonged waffle or bullet points on do and don'ts.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I’d rather an empty bio or a one line bio than a poorly written one.

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By *r SensualMan
25 weeks ago

London

If there’s nothing in there of which I can use as points of conversation then I’ll just move on to the next profile.

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By *usty kayWoman
25 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

It's not a deal breaker but I won't engage with someone with a poorly written bio first because there is no way of judging if we would be compatible. If they message me it depends on what they do with that initial message. If there is still nothing to go on I won't respond. If they've put that little thought into either their profile or the first message guaranteed they haven't read my bio and are happy to shag whatever they can get hold of.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They can be off putting to the extent of me not wanting to message them

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By *ympho6969Woman
25 weeks ago

glasgow

A blank profile is a turn off for me. It doesn't take much to add a little info.

For those who have issue with writing, I don't generally care about typos, though do like some basic punctuation (not a long singular sentence)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Is a badly written bio a deal breaker for you on here? Does a bio that hasn't had much thought put into it, cause you be put off a profile??

Put me off what?

If their profile doesn't spark my interest, that's pretty much it.

What was I supposed to be into before the profile put me off?

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By *ife NinjaMan
25 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I don't respond, or try to interact with anyone with no photos, profile details or if there's anything that just seems 'off'.🤓

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
25 weeks ago

North West

"Is a badly written bio a deal breaker for you on here? Does a bio that hasn't had much thought put into it, cause you be put off a profile??

Put me off what?

If their profile doesn't spark my interest, that's pretty much it.

What was I supposed to be into before the profile put me off?"

Put you off interacting further with the profile meant to say.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
25 weeks ago

West Dublin

A bio does influence me whether I will engage with the sender or not, yes.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

An empty one, a badly written one, a one liner. They all put me off. If you’re not good with that type of thing it’s unlikely we’ll get along well.

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By *eoBloomsMan
25 weeks ago

Springfield

"I'd rather short and sweet than prolonged waffle or bullet points on do and don'ts. "

100% this.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
25 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Only the one's that are I, I, I, I

I think it should read , you ,you, you

How about me, me, me "

If you insist

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Put you off interacting further with the profile meant to say. "

But what was I on to be put off if the profile is gash?

I'll often chat to people I see around without ever bothering to look at their profile.

If I'm looking at their profile it's to see if I'm interested. I'm not put off if it's rubbish, I just continue to not be particularly interested 💜

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
25 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I'm crap at writing about myself, my bio was largely written by my husband with a bit of tweaking by me a while ago

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By *bcplCouple
25 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Yes empty ones, or the ones with the I don’t give permission for fab to xyz ones put me off

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

Honesty above all is the only way to see if you are coympatible or not. Talk a bit about you and what you are looking for. Try to show aspects of your personality (caring, optimistic, spontaneous, outgoing, anbitious or not) and some of your main interests (music, food, walks, gym ..) which might indicate to someone whether you are compatible or not, both socially and in the bedroom. Give some clues as to the sort of person you are looking for too, don't just talk about yourself. A little humour is good but too much sarcasm can tip it the other way. Avoid too many dont's hahas, lols and emojis. And again, be honest as you will soon be found out if not. Keep it simple and short. Good luck

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
25 weeks ago

North West

"Honesty above all is the only way to see if you are coympatible or not. Talk a bit about you and what you are looking for. Try to show aspects of your personality (caring, optimistic, spontaneous, outgoing, anbitious or not) and some of your main interests (music, food, walks, gym ..) which might indicate to someone whether you are compatible or not, both socially and in the bedroom. Give some clues as to the sort of person you are looking for too, don't just talk about yourself. A little humour is good but too much sarcasm can tip it the other way. Avoid too many dont's hahas, lols and emojis. And again, be honest as you will soon be found out if not. Keep it simple and short. Good luck

Words of wisdom

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
25 weeks ago

Coventry

For us a profile is the sum of the parts. So yes a bio that is not for us is a deal breaker but so the same is for pictures we don't find appealing or contain none of the male in couples photos. Same can also be said about the posting of an off putting status.

We mainly only me new people in clubs, organised socials and just out and about. We don't really like to use profiles to chose. In our experience we've met people we've been attracted to and got on/had fun with who's profiles would have not been for us if we'd seen it first. Likewise there have been profiles we've really liked the look of but have them bumped into them in clubs and said they're not for us. So don't really give profiles much weight, we just like to take people as we find them in the real world.

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By *xfordjohnMan
25 weeks ago

Oxford

I do like to see a carefully written, literate bio as it tells me I might have at least something in common, but having said that, my five year relationship with a lovely couple was started seeing their one-liner with no photos or veris. So sometimes it's worth stepping outside the box.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

It depends

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By *ildatheart30Couple
25 weeks ago

Gorebridge

It's not a deal breaker unless they sound like a complete attention seeker or nut job but a well written one is definitely a bonus

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By *rdere OpusCouple
25 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Depends on what’s bad about them but in the main, yes. Angry or demanding is a big put off, same for one liners. It’s just one part of the package though.

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By *londie8399Couple
25 weeks ago

blackpool

What's the point of a bio half of them don't read it anyway then sending messages thats in said bio pointless really

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
25 weeks ago

Watermouth

We don't need to know about people's work. We do need to know what they are looking for....

....must check our profile 😳

Sometimes the profile is an off putter, but normally a collection of dick pics are a bigger put off

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By *londie8399Couple
25 weeks ago

blackpool

Or couple profiles were there is no picture of the male half put me off and then you have to ask the dreeded question can I see a picture it's hard enough getting mutual attraction between couples

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What's the point of a bio half of them don't read it anyway then sending messages thats in said bio pointless really"

It's a filter for me. If they haven't read it I'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm going to be completely honest. If you're hot I don't read the bio 🫣🫣

So, ladies, I probably haven't got a clue which word I'm supposed to have included in my message for you to consider reading it, sorry!

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
25 weeks ago

KIRKBY

I like to think my bio is rather good…humorous, light hearted and says what I like with an enough to create a conversation if someone was to message and I do read peoples profiles!!

But let’s face it….unless you’re hot and what someone wants physically….its a waste of time!!

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By *oeBeansMan
25 weeks ago

Derby

Probably not badly written but a list of no's and complaints can be a turn off as it's a sign of someone jaded by the site and I'm not one to try and convince them that I'm "one of the good ones".

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
25 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

I like to read humour. And something that shows your personality

Mine is a hot mess, so it reflects me perfectly

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
25 weeks ago

Cambs

I like to see some personality in a profile, I want to know the kind of person I'm messaging, my bio is a mile long so I look for people who's vibe matches mine or their first message is engaging. Effort is sexy.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Brum

We prefer the bio ones but it’s not a deal breaker.

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands

I'm not too fussed. Some of the best people I've chatted to/met have had terrible bios. Even with mine in the past, I often would get more interactions when my bio was dreadful.

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
25 weeks ago

London

Some words in Bios do put me off....

"I'm a professional"

I feel like asking....A professional what 🤭

"I'll make you squirt" so off putting as if it's the be all & end all for a woman to squirt, I personally do not want to squirt & thankfully I never have.

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By *tew008Man
25 weeks ago

edinburgh

it’s been there that long I consider it a modern classic

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By *ythenMan
25 weeks ago

"it’s been there that long I consider it a modern classic

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By *issmorganWoman
25 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, if the Sydney University disclaimer is there & longer than what they've written, it's a delete.

I like to get an idea of what the person is like and one line profiles give me nothing to go on.

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