FabSwingers.com forum: Tall and ugly or short and handsome man?

By *ack 55530 OP Man
6 days ago

cardiff

And does height actually matter?

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 days ago

Forest of Dean

"And does height actually matter?"

I’m sure for some it does. People have preferences or things they find attractive and height is one of them.

It’s never been a criteria for whether I find someone attractive or not. I have a playmate pushing 7ft and one not much taller than me. BOTH are gorgeous in their own right.

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By *ltimateGemWoman
6 days ago

Nottingham

I find height incredibly attractive. There is certainly something almost majestic about tall people.

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By *ornydevil123999Man
6 days ago

nottingham

Hello

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By *anWoman555Couple
6 days ago

birmingham

My partner tells me it makes her feel secure, safe and the fact that I can throw her about, but I don’t know I’m sure you short kings can hit all the criteria as well.

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By *uy48caMan
6 days ago

Carlisle

"And does height actually matter?

I’m sure for some it does. People have preferences or things they find attractive and height is one of them.

It’s never been a criteria for whether I find someone attractive or not. I have a playmate pushing 7ft and one not much taller than me. BOTH are gorgeous in their own right.

nephilim/giants - nearly 7ft how many times has your partner hit there head on door frames.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar

I've no specific criteria but I do prefer a larger taller guy. And being thrown on a bed is quite nice 🤣 😊

As for good looks that's all very subjective and irrelevant to the height issue.

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By *uy48caMan
6 days ago

Carlisle

I feel a lot of heightism going on you don't have to be tall

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By *uy48caMan
6 days ago

Carlisle

"I feel a lot of heightism going on you don't have to be tall to throw a person round a room, and yes most people prefer a taller person than the smaller person that's fine but when people say that if you're tall your stronger and better."
... Let's have a tossing competition. See who shoots the furthest.

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By *innamon_flameWoman
6 days ago

london

I like really tall and really short men. Met a few from here that were 6ft 5 and others that were 4ft 10. I don't actually know how tall I am. I put 5 ft 2 on my profile but I might be 5ft 4. Not may places to "height" yourself.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
6 days ago

Willenhall

"Not may places to "height" yourself. "

According to the NHS I'm 178cm barefoot as of December 2013 which would make me 5'10".

That actually made me reduce the height on my profile by 1" as according to West Midlands Police (due to a very minor offence) I was 5'11" in 2003.

Fuck this shrinkflation bollocks...

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
6 days ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I would pick whichever one was in the best shape. If they were of equal shape, then I would probably choose the taller man.

The "handsomeness" or lack of it wouldn't even be taken into consideration.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
6 days ago

Willenhall

"According to the NHS I'm 178cm barefoot as of December 2013 which would make me 5'10"."

Shit, I meant December 2023!

Anyway...I seem to have lost an inch in height over the last ~20 years. Thank fuck it wasn't my penis else I really would have had something to worry about!

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By *anonfire96Man
6 days ago

Mansfield

Well there is hope for me yet going on some of the replies on this post.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
6 days ago

West Dublin

Yea it matters....to me anyway

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By *obilebottomMan
6 days ago

All over

Some like dis some like dat 🤷‍♂️

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By *rostgiantMan
6 days ago

Chippenham

"And does height actually matter?

I’m sure for some it does. People have preferences or things they find attractive and height is one of them.

It’s never been a criteria for whether I find someone attractive or not. I have a playmate pushing 7ft and one not much taller than me. BOTH are gorgeous in their own right.

nephilim/giants - nearly 7ft how many times has your partner hit there head on door frames."

I am he, 6'10" and its not just door frames, a quick list:

Door frames

Vehicles/public transport

Clothing and shoes

People are getting taller but the world is not adapting to accommodate. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ickshawedCouple
6 days ago

Wolverhampton

I married a short handsome man. I'll never get neck strain from kissing him. We're both perfectly comfortable on public transport and never have to duck under a doorframe. Plus our kids are so short we got away for years pretending they were too young to pay on trains and buses. Result

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By *upersonic SamMan
6 days ago

wigan

As a shorter than average gent I can think of 2 immediate advantages, firstly we have a lower centre of gravity, this is good for jelly wrestling and picking dropped money up from the floor. Secondly an average cock on a small frame looks massive, now I just need to grow myself an average cock.....

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By *viatrixWoman
6 days ago

Redhill

"I find height incredibly attractive. There is certainly something almost majestic about tall people. "

This exactly. So the height alone would accrue lots of points for me, haha!

A short man would have to be incredibly good looking to get my attention. (It has happened!)

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 days ago

Ends

"I find height incredibly attractive. There is certainly something almost majestic about tall people.

This exactly. So the height alone would accrue lots of points for me, haha!

A short man would have to be incredibly good looking to get my attention. (It has happened!) "

I’m incredibly good looking.

Just adding that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 days ago

North West

"I find height incredibly attractive. There is certainly something almost majestic about tall people.

This exactly. So the height alone would accrue lots of points for me, haha!

A short man would have to be incredibly good looking to get my attention. (It has happened!)

I’m incredibly good looking.

Just adding that "

This is a true fact.

Height isn't something that concerns me. I find tall, short and medium height people attractive.

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By *viatrixWoman
6 days ago

Redhill

"I find height incredibly attractive. There is certainly something almost majestic about tall people.

This exactly. So the height alone would accrue lots of points for me, haha!

A short man would have to be incredibly good looking to get my attention. (It has happened!)

I’m incredibly good looking.

Just adding that "

You are 😘 and you’re not short!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 days ago

Carlisle usually

Which of them interests and excites me? That one. Or if neither of them do, neither. Or if both of them do, both 💜

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By *itty N CremeCouple
6 days ago

Buckinghamshire

Short male here, I grew wide rather than tall but I am more than comfortable in my own skin.

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By *emonochromeMan
6 days ago

Peterborough

All of it matters until none of it matters. We all have physical preferences and then every now and then someone, who has none of them, comes along and knocks you off your feet.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
6 days ago

Reading

Which one makes me laugh? I'm not sure height means much to me.

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By *HUSH-Man
6 days ago

London

"Short male here, I grew wide rather than tall but I am more than comfortable in my own skin. "

Same as me 🍻

I can quite easily walk around at 16 stone and still be athletic.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
6 days ago

rochdale

"I like really tall and really short men. Met a few from here that were 6ft 5 and others that were 4ft 10. I don't actually know how tall I am. I put 5 ft 2 on my profile but I might be 5ft 4. Not may places to "height" yourself. "

What about very short TV's?

Actually, being short works for me in this respect.

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By *anWoman555Couple
6 days ago

birmingham

"Short male here, I grew wide rather than tall but I am more than comfortable in my own skin. "

And to be honest that’s what matters at the end of the day

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By *innamon_flameWoman
6 days ago

london

What about very short TV's?

Actually, being short works for me in this respect."

I can imagine it would and you have very pretty features too. Gorgeous eyes x

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By *allipygousMan
6 days ago

Leicester

Ha, I scoff at some of you men that call yourself short 😏

I often point out the height discrepancy when someone a lot taller messages me on here. Invariably they never get back to me and that's OK.

I find my height is much less of an issue in clubs (demonstrated again last night) as I'm not a lurker, can hold a conversation and can fool folk into thinking I'm a half decent person. Also, for some, I'm a damn good shag

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
6 days ago

rochdale

What about very short TV's?

Actually, being short works for me in this respect.

I can imagine it would and you have very pretty features too. Gorgeous eyes x "

Ooh thank you, you know how to make a girl swoon!

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

I do prefer taller, my other half is 6ft 3 though. So i guess it's what I'm used to.

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By *hunky GentMan
6 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I find height incredibly attractive. There is certainly something almost majestic about tall people.

This exactly. So the height alone would accrue lots of points for me, haha!

A short man would have to be incredibly good looking to get my attention. (It has happened!) "

Like me then?

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By *urry BlokeMan
6 days ago

Stalybridge

Surely we know the answer to this one now?

Or, apparently not...

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 days ago

North Yorkshire

"Which one makes me laugh? I'm not sure height means much to me."

Exactly this!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 days ago

Carlisle usually

"I often point out the height discrepancy when someone a lot taller messages me on here. Invariably they never get back to me and that's OK."

I don't give a damn about height. But if someone brings it up early on I take them as insecure and likely to feel weird about it so just leave it there 💜

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By *ozzybear1981Man
6 days ago

preston

I am what I am, I’m a work in progress currently with the gym becoming more and more needed.

Self improvement with the goal of me doing it for me but then to find someone that looks and thinks, I like him.

Instead of being thought of as an option instead.

It will happen one day.

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By *avexxMan
6 days ago

cheshire

im sort of in between

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By *allipygousMan
6 days ago

Leicester

"I often point out the height discrepancy when someone a lot taller messages me on here. Invariably they never get back to me and that's OK.

I don't give a damn about height. But if someone brings it up early on I take them as insecure and likely to feel weird about it so just leave it there 💜"

Oooh Prey, trying to throw a bit of shade 🙂

You see insecurity where, in my case, pragmatism exists, but I guess you know me better than me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 days ago

Carlisle usually

"Oooh Prey, trying to throw a bit of shade 🙂

You see insecurity where, in my case, pragmatism exists, but I guess you know me better than me. "

Simply pointing out what could be a common occurrence.

Your kind of pragmatism says bring it up early. My kind says bringing it up early indicates it is heavy on their mind and I don't want to deal with that.

Not saying your kind is wrong. Just offering how it can be interpreted 💜

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By *itty N CremeCouple
6 days ago

Buckinghamshire

"Short male here, I grew wide rather than tall but I am more than comfortable in my own skin.

Same as me 🍻

I can quite easily walk around at 16 stone and still be athletic."

You look great mate and you’re not that short 💪🏻

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By *allipygousMan
6 days ago

Leicester

"Oooh Prey, trying to throw a bit of shade 🙂

You see insecurity where, in my case, pragmatism exists, but I guess you know me better than me.

Simply pointing out what could be a common occurrence.

Your kind of pragmatism says bring it up early. My kind says bringing it up early indicates it is heavy on their mind and I don't want to deal with that.

Not saying your kind is wrong. Just offering how it can be interpreted 💜"

Fair point. My bringing it up to really tall people comes from being 99.99% sure that my height hasn't been noticed. It's not just men that can't/don't read profiles properly.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
6 days ago

Cheshire

I (A) am short. It really doesn't bother me. If someone wasn't interested in me for height related reasons, that's fine by me. I just move straight on and not really give it a second thought. I don't dwell on other people's preferences regarding body features much. If I meet them, great, if I don't, fair enough. Everyone's entitled to their own preferences and that I respect.

What I would say to people who are wondering if their height is a factor in them not finding success here is, try going to a club or a social, get yourself Infront of people and let the real you shine. You'll be surprised at the large amount of people who won't actually notice your height (we don't tend to walk around with height on a post-it note on our foreheads!).

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By *anWoman555Couple
6 days ago

birmingham

I’m tallish 6’1 I say ish because some say that’s average those people usually aren’t human but in fact titans 😆 but I always say humour is the best medicine, when I used to work as a chef we would constantly have banter about “well you’re the tall one so you can reach up on the top shelf to pass me stuff and I’d say well you’re short so you can get the stuff at the bottom to save me getting a bad back. I suppose it’s how you take it. We all have stuff we’d change but as long as you’re comfortable in your skin it doesn’t matter people will like you for you and those who don’t fuck’em. 😁

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By *ggdrasil66Man
6 days ago

Saltdean

I guess that some would say that 6ft4 is tall, but it doesn’t do much for me.

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 days ago

Fife

"And does height actually matter?"

Neither..the wrapper means nothing if the contents are vile.. I don't care on appearance.. chemistry only

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By *rostgiantMan
6 days ago

Chippenham

As tall as I am, and I am very, I do struggle with self confidence

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By *HUSH-Man
6 days ago

London

"Short male here, I grew wide rather than tall but I am more than comfortable in my own skin.

Same as me 🍻

I can quite easily walk around at 16 stone and still be athletic.

You look great mate and you’re not that short 💪🏻"

Thank you. You’re in great shape yourself too💪 🍻

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By *huddahatMan
4 days ago

Nottingham

Speaking from a tall pov. I find short women sexy as fuck. I love being able to tower over someone and the feed back I've had has always been reciprocal. But I suppose I wouldn't have got that far if they hadn't been attracted to tall guys or are least me.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
4 days ago

Delightful Bliss

Always a handsome to me man

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By *layfullsamMan
4 days ago

Solihull

I can confirm that the ladies don’t like tall and ugly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 days ago

little house on the praire

At 5ft1 height has never bothered me although I've never been with anyone shorter.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
4 days ago

pink panther territory

Height isn't an issue with me

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't want extremely tall. But that's like, I dunno, 1% or less of men.

Otherwise I don't care. The best sex I've had is with a guy whose height is firmly average.

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