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By *iscretDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Near to you

Why is it that married women playing without there partners knowledge is ok but married males doing the same is frowned upon. Seems like alot of double standards.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It's because the women who are cheating tend not to put threads up whinging they can't get a meet, so they stay under the radar as it were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because the women who are cheating tend not to put threads up whinging they can't get a meet, so they stay under the radar as it were. "

Lol, this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have no double standards to us it's just the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that married women playing without there partners knowledge is ok but married males doing the same is frowned upon. Seems like a lot of double standards."

No difference as far as I'm concerned, although - sweeping generalisation coming up - women tend to be more up front about what they are doing than men.

So long as someone - male or female - makes clear the situation YOU could be getting into (and the pitfalls are many...) then you can make an informed, adult decision whether or not to get involved.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why is it that married women playing without there partners knowledge is ok but married males doing the same is frowned upon. Seems like alot of double standards."

Who says it's ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you married or just fighting the cause for men that are ?

Just, if you are, I can see no mention of it in your profile, thus somewhat justifying the comments of some about allowing people to make an informed choice as to whether to meet or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No double standards here

A cheater is a cheater whatever there sex or species

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that married women playing without there partners knowledge is ok but married males doing the same is frowned upon. Seems like alot of double standards."

There is not for us we treat both the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat both sexes the same. However I find women tend to just get on with it whereas men tend to justify their actions in the open.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It is no different whatsoever..Cheating is cheating

If the other partner does not know and give consent then it is cheating...

simples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually turned a married lass down not that long ago!

She said her hubby knew about her lifestyle and was cool with it. But, she wouldn't let me check this with hubby over the phone. So, i told her there would be no meet. I was then accused of being a timewaster and fake and had to eventually block her, so, yeah, us guys DO have standards as well, lol.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No difference as far as I'm concerned x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Why is it that married women playing without there partners knowledge is ok but married males doing the same is frowned upon. Seems like alot of double standards."

No double standards here, doesn't matter if they are male or female. We choose not to knowingly meet those that are married/in relationship and playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both the same - both cheating, both wrong

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