FabSwingers.com forum: Exact moment you realised you are a swinger

By *wing2023 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

london

What’s the exact moment you realised you are deviant by normal society norms and are interested in the swinger lifestyle

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

2020 when I joined fab. Yall corrupted me.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

When I was asked that my now ex boyfriend's boss wanted me as his birthday present. I was asked by the boss's wife. The fact that I discussed it with my then boyfriend, planned and went through with it defined me as a swinger. This was more than 30 years ago.

Mrs

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By *usty kayCouple
2 weeks ago

Burnham

During our first club visit when I quite literally had a taste of a couple of people.

Talking about it and deciding to go was fun but it was about exploring so I didn't end up resenting another marriage.

I knew from that first club visit this was not going to be a short term experiment

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I clearly remember a point about 4 months after joining here, when I knew if I carried on, there would be no turning back.

That was my deviant baptism.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We've been here a couple of years now, and I'm still not sure i am.

Mr.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?

Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?

Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.

But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I guess when I had my first threesome with a married couple and decided yes, I want more of this!

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 weeks ago

rochdale

We started going to The Gatehouse just to give me somewhere safe to dress & socialise.

After a few months we ended up with another couple.

Morning after we looked at each other with a big grin & said "are we swingers now?"

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.

But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔"

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.

But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔

Guess you don’t like sex in the car hahaha 🤣

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
2 weeks ago

Lurgan

Probably the moment that I watched my wife pull her knickers down for the man who was our first meet, as he was naked and hard ready to have fun with her

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.

But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔

Guess you don’t like sex in the car hahaha 🤣"

No, I need room man

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 weeks ago

glasgow

I was, and still can be very naive so try not to laugh too much.

It was about 3 months after my first ganbang. Started with a fwb. Then a meet with a married couple. They introduced me to swinging before I realised. Meeting them, then adding another man. Suddenly I was in a hotel room with more guys than I could count.

And even then it didn't quite sink in. It was months later I asked how they set all this up and I finally joined fab

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.

But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔

Guess you don’t like sex in the car hahaha 🤣

No, I need room man

Well I wasn’t offering to throw you around just yet Bella 🖤

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

3.15pm on the 28th March 2004

I think......

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
2 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

When a FWB took me to a swingers club, I agreed to go and jusr observe. Ended up immersed.

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By *wing2023 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

london

"When a FWB took me to a swingers club, I agreed to go and jusr observe. Ended up immersed. "

That’s a common thing I guess .: go in as a voyeur and come out a swinger

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By *ilva69Man
2 weeks ago

stockport

When my best mate staying over crept into our bedroom and I pretended to be asleep as he took my wife

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By *ripfillMan
2 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Coming out of from the darkness …. into the light

And being able to smile again ….

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

No swingers here just students from Sydney university.

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By *orcsmatMan
2 weeks ago

Kidderminster

"What’s the exact moment you realised you are deviant by normal society norms and are interested in the swinger lifestyle "

1972 when I fucked my girlfriend's friend while her husband fucked my girlfriend.

No internet so never met other couples as the process was long winded and expensive.

Had we able to meet other couples online I suspect my life would have been very different.

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By *otuseater11Man
2 weeks ago

kilwinning

My ex gf was always talking about wanting a threesome and one night she said she knows a guy that's always asking her out for a drink .so I said why don't we all go out together for a drink anyway after a few drinks we started chatting about sex and could tell ex gf was getting turned on and we both started kissing her and asked him home with us best night of our lifes that night .to this day am the guys best mate and nip out for a odd drink with him and chat about the good times when we were younger.never looked back on the swinging life style .even when I was married me and the wife enjoyed the life style together

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By *andSxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"When a FWB took me to a swingers club, I agreed to go and jusr observe. Ended up immersed.

That’s a common thing I guess .: go in as a voyeur and come out a swinger "

That's exactly what happened to us.😅

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By *axtanMan
2 weeks ago

los Cristianos now

Your homework is late Sydney University student. Report to the office!

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By *ony MannMan
2 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

It could have been when a part time lover turned up with her cousin or when I joined another site, but it was probably at my first club. A man invited me to fuck his wife in front of him and three other men, I did.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm not a swinger, I'm not a deviant. I quite like the concept of some societal norms.

However I also quite like the possibilities here can bring.

Not sure what that makes me but I've been this way since about 2011

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I think the amount of actual swinger's on here is pretty minimal.

For the most part it seems to be full of people cheating on their partner or singles looking for a quick fuck because they assume swinger's are easy.

Then you get the group who like to live vicariously through others exploits.

So asking seems a tad pointless when genuine swinger's seem a bit thin on the ground.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"When I was asked that my now ex boyfriend's boss wanted me as his birthday present. I was asked by the boss's wife. The fact that I discussed it with my then boyfriend, planned and went through with it defined me as a swinger. This was more than 30 years ago.

Mrs"

More than 30 years ago ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

It was a dark and misty morning. Sunbeams flickered like dancing flames though his wiry black hair. I left the bagwash and followed him down the jigger where I earned my 50p for the driers....... best not to tell the kids when I pick them up from school I thought to myself cos they will only tell their Dad.....

So .... I guess it was early December circa 1996 at approx 2.45 p.m.

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By *irty-pairCouple
2 weeks ago

Essex

We’ve always been filthy deviants, and started talking about fucking other people whilst we were fucking. The key moment was when we started talking about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes when we weren’t horny and fucking each other x

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By *ickedwillyCouple
2 weeks ago

Bangor

When I watched her having her first man.

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By *haiababeWoman
2 weeks ago

North devon

I'm going to be honest. I'm not sure if i would he classed as a swinger as i havent had a 3sum(yet) been to a club or anything like that.

But what i did realise that i didnt want to be monogamous, it was march last year i had been seperated 9 months was looking for a fwb. Ended up meeting a couple of guys of tinder, and thay was then it hit me. One of them recommended this site amd this has been my main source of meeting guys since. I just enjoy being ENM.

I know i will have thay 3sum at aomepoint and probably go to club. But when im ready. So you guys can decide if i am a swinger or not.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Having a threesome isn't necessary to be a swinger. Nor is going to a club.

Funny really - it's talked about a lot but no one seems to know what it means.

I'd just say i'm non monogamous the rest doesn't matter.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

Mrs

More than 30 years ago ? "

Yes

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By *layfull pairingCouple
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Many, many years ago innocently fucking in the car in a quiet car park.. and notice a guy openly watching... she got very turned on by it and after I shouted to the fella in a friendly manner “your a ballsy sod”, he replied “ well it is a dogging site” and we all got chatting ... he told us about the dogging scene, clubs, etc.... and after the first club visit where there was a swimming pool full of naked people playing, we were hooked...

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By *ltraVixenWoman
2 weeks ago

South Essex

When another man’s cock was inside me and my husband was next to me fucking another woman!

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By *uchessdoeWoman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I also wouldn't define myself as a swinger!

When did I discover I'm a non-monogamous, slutty deviant? About 5 years ago and I'll never look back

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By *r SensualMan
2 weeks ago

London

After I went to my very first party alone in December 2019. Had an amazing time, met some great people who invited me to another party and it all took from there

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
2 weeks ago

The Continental

When I watch Mrs wick on another dick.

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