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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "I'm still living in the shade from posting that I like the 'Bet Lynch' look back in 2023 Nora. Fuck me did that upset the normal 'continually offended brigade' | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
I'm still living in the shade from posting that I like the 'Bet Lynch' look back in 2023 Nora. Fuck me did that upset the normal 'continually offended brigade'"Ps. I don't own a set of white underwear. They show skidmarks. | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
I'm still living in the shade from posting that I like the 'Bet Lynch' look back in 2023 Nora. Fuck me did that upset the normal 'continually offended brigade'"Oh crumbs. Even I think the only thing that leopard print looks good on is leopards! | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
I'm still living in the shade from posting that I like the 'Bet Lynch' look back in 2023 Nora. Fuck me did that upset the normal 'continually offended brigade'
Oh crumbs. Even I think the only thing that leopard print looks good on is leopards! "It might have been more of the 'mutton/lamb' thing. Ironically the offended ones were quite young and seemingly secure in their own look. | |||
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"Well said Nora 👏 Did you say tighty whiteys?  "Well it is Friday Bella . I just like the colour. It’s absolutely nothing to do with any bulge that may be present  | |||
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"Well I don’t care about upsetting a lot of women. I think it’s ok to sexualise & even fetishise on here , it’s a sex site after all. As long as it’s not abusive. I love a woman stood at the cooker in a short tight jumper dress and a huge round bum….Especially if she’s making me pasta and wearing no knickers " Ha. There’s a few men I know would comment and not care. You’re one of them. Those are my type of men. And I agree that’s hot!  | |||
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In fact, I think there’s lots of women on here with your opinion Nora that think the forums are too hard on men. So agreeing with you wouldn’t lose them anything.
But anyway I do think that it is understandable that women get fed up of being sexualised considering like, it isn’t just something in certain spaces of the internet. It’s like everywhere for many women and in their day to day for some. It just isn’t for us. In fact I think men on the forum look forward to threads like that so they can show themselves off and be appreciated.
Also- I’ve got a pic on my profile.
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"I don’t give a fuck about upsetting people on here
In fact, I think there’s lots of women on here with your opinion Nora that think the forums are too hard on men. So agreeing with you wouldn’t lose them anything.
But anyway I do think that it is understandable that women get fed up of being sexualised considering like, it isn’t just something in certain spaces of the internet. It’s like everywhere for many women and in their day to day for some. It just isn’t for us. In fact I think men on the forum look forward to threads like that so they can show themselves off and be appreciated.
Also- I’ve got a pic on my profile.
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"There is though a big difference between saying you like women or men looking a certain way and assuming every woman or man who looks that way wants to have sex with you" Oh yeah definitely. It was just an old thread I saw earlier that had been bumped up, but Ive seen this sort of thing loads of times on here. Same with the cheating thing. Husbands not interested in sex - aw poor wife what’s wrong with him. Wife not interested in sex - cheating scumbag being on here. | |||
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"I don’t give a fuck about upsetting people on here
In fact, I think there’s lots of women on here with your opinion Nora that think the forums are too hard on men. So agreeing with you wouldn’t lose them anything.
But anyway I do think that it is understandable that women get fed up of being sexualised considering like, it isn’t just something in certain spaces of the internet. It’s like everywhere for many women and in their day to day for some. It just isn’t for us. In fact I think men on the forum look forward to threads like that so they can show themselves off and be appreciated.
Also- I’ve got a pic on my profile.
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "*hearty round of applause J | |||
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"Yeah we need more women in tighty whiteys. Oh and fewer men in grey joggers ffs" I’ve got tightey whitey knicks and grey joggers! | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "Same reason that women can say they’re cheating and men get slaughtered Same reason for anything women get away with that men get slaughtered for  | |||
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"There is though a big difference between saying you like women or men looking a certain way and assuming every woman or man who looks that way wants to have sex with you Oh yeah definitely. It was just an old thread I saw earlier that had been bumped up, but Ive seen this sort of thing loads of times on here. Same with the cheating thing. Husbands not interested in sex - aw poor wife what’s wrong with him. Wife not interested in sex - cheating scumbag being on here. " Yep. Man bashing is a popular pastime on fab | |||
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"Yeah we need more women in tighty whiteys. Oh and fewer men in grey joggers ffs I’ve got tightey whitey knicks and grey joggers! "Ye ye whateva😁 | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
Same reason that women can say they’re cheating and men get slaughtered
Same reason for anything women get away with that men get slaughtered for "It’s true though. I’ve been on hen nights and seen hen nights when I’m out. With the dare cards etc. pinch 3 men’s bums. Randomly snog a man etc etc etc. I’ve seen men be so embarrassed to be approached for this. Imagine the other way round?!! | |||
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"Seems like it depends on who the original poster is wither they get slated or not." This is also true sparkle! | |||
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"I have worn a kilt quite a few times and for some reason it seems acceptable to some women to try and lift it up, look under it or grab your cock."   | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
Same reason that women can say they’re cheating and men get slaughtered
Same reason for anything women get away with that men get slaughtered for
It’s true though. I’ve been on hen nights and seen hen nights when I’m out. With the dare cards etc. pinch 3 men’s bums. Randomly snog a man etc etc etc. I’ve seen men be so embarrassed to be approached for this. Imagine the other way round?!! "Absolutely 💯 true Nora. I never really give a fuck about my arse getting pinched to be honest and take that as a compliment as much as I respect that the next man wouldn't want it happening to him and could be offended. I certainly wouldn't pinch a woman's bum. | |||
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"Canal toes Secretary look Upskirt shots (legally) Stockings .. oh fuck it and many more …. " 🤣 I love autocorrect | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
Same reason that women can say they’re cheating and men get slaughtered
Same reason for anything women get away with that men get slaughtered for
It’s true though. I’ve been on hen nights and seen hen nights when I’m out. With the dare cards etc. pinch 3 men’s bums. Randomly snog a man etc etc etc. I’ve seen men be so embarrassed to be approached for this. Imagine the other way round?!! "My job used to take me into at least a dozen pubs every single day. The number of times I've been grabbed or groped by d*unk women was insane. I was literally jumped on by 20 women in a hen party who assumed I was the stripper. The landlady came to my rescue and told them to get the fuck out of her pub. The following week the stag party for the same wedding was in that pub and they were having a dart and pool competition with no stripper and zero hassle. I often wondered what would have happened if it had been the other way around and the stag party tried ripping the clothes off a random woman doing her job in the pub? | |||
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"I’ve seen several threads where guys state a preference for slimmer ladies get piled on because they’re not looking for bbw…. Despite there being multiple threads for bbw lovers. As a big girl it’s absolutely fine for guys to have a preference for the slimmer form. " Yeah this too. People call it body shaming but it’s actually not. I actually like those kind of threads. You can see who probably wouldn’t be interested in you. It’s good for private notes | |||
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"Canal toes Secretary look Upskirt shots (legally) Stockings .. oh fuck it and many more …. 🤣 I love autocorrect " | |||
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"Seems like it depends on who the original poster is wither they get slated or not." Agreed | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
Same reason that women can say they’re cheating and men get slaughtered
Same reason for anything women get away with that men get slaughtered for
It’s true though. I’ve been on hen nights and seen hen nights when I’m out. With the dare cards etc. pinch 3 men’s bums. Randomly snog a man etc etc etc. I’ve seen men be so embarrassed to be approached for this. Imagine the other way round?!!
My job used to take me into at least a dozen pubs every single day.
The number of times I've been grabbed or groped by d*unk women was insane. I was literally jumped on by 20 women in a hen party who assumed I was the stripper. The landlady came to my rescue and told them to get the fuck out of her pub.
The following week the stag party for the same wedding was in that pub and they were having a dart and pool competition with no stripper and zero hassle.
I often wondered what would have happened if it had been the other way around and the stag party tried ripping the clothes off a random woman doing her job in the pub?"Exactly!! I mean I know we’re wired different and like Mr Fox said, a lot of men wouldn’t mind a bum squeeze etc but some would. It’s not ok | |||
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"I’ve seen several threads where guys state a preference for slimmer ladies get piled on because they’re not looking for bbw…. Despite there being multiple threads for bbw lovers. As a big girl it’s absolutely fine for guys to have a preference for the slimmer form. Yeah this too. People call it body shaming but it’s actually not. I actually like those kind of threads. You can see who probably wouldn’t be interested in you. It’s good for private notes " Exactly. Big girls still get attention, we don’t need white knights to defend our curves | |||
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"It's the same as the threads where women complain about being stood up and there is a pile on to say she dodged a bullet and he was a right wanker. Then a man posts about a no show and he is asked what he did to put her off meeting and that she was right not to turn up. So man doesn't show up to arranged meet, he's a cunt. Woman doesn't turn up to arranged meet it's because man is a cunt. " Yep! 🤣. It’s almost laughable sometimes | |||
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"There is though a big difference between saying you like women or men looking a certain way and assuming every woman or man who looks that way wants to have sex with you Oh yeah definitely. It was just an old thread I saw earlier that had been bumped up, but Ive seen this sort of thing loads of times on here. Same with the cheating thing. Husbands not interested in sex - aw poor wife what’s wrong with him. Wife not interested in sex - cheating scumbag being on here. Yep. Man bashing is a popular pastime on fab" It's not just here, any social platform is full of it! | |||
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"I don’t give a fuck about upsetting people on here
In fact, I think there’s lots of women on here with your opinion Nora that think the forums are too hard on men. So agreeing with you wouldn’t lose them anything.
But anyway I do think that it is understandable that women get fed up of being sexualised considering like, it isn’t just something in certain spaces of the internet. It’s like everywhere for many women and in their day to day for some. It just isn’t for us. In fact I think men on the forum look forward to threads like that so they can show themselves off and be appreciated.
Also- I’ve got a pic on my profile.
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"Well said Nora 👏 Did you say tighty whiteys?
Well it is Friday Bella . I just like the colour. It’s absolutely nothing to do with any bulge that may be present "Bulges?! Really? | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "No you're spot on! I ain't afraid! If anyone thinks there isn't alot of double standards going on between genders at the moment, they are very mistaken. Sadly, a portion of men, are absolutely c*nts and think that because a woman is showing leg and midriff, she is gagging for a shagging. These guys should all be looked in a hole somewhere. But because of their actions, many women now feel they can now never be inappropriate themselves. Recently at work a female colleague put her hand on my thigh as we were talking about work. I didn't mind at all, but I did simply look down, look back at her, and say - Jesus imagine if I just put my hand on your thigh without consent? She removed it 😂 | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking." This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it "To add to that I thinks it’s worse now than it was. | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it "If I had felt it needed saying and started this thread rather than just comment on it how do you think it would have gone down? 😁 | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it
If I had felt it needed saying and started this thread rather than just comment on it how do you think it would have gone down? 😁"Not well at all! | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking." Meli. Thank you for saying what I came here to say. | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
No you're spot on! I ain't afraid!
If anyone thinks there isn't alot of double standards going on between genders at the moment, they are very mistaken.
Sadly, a portion of men, are absolutely c*nts and think that because a woman is showing leg and midriff, she is gagging for a shagging. These guys should all be looked in a hole somewhere. But because of their actions, many women now feel they can now never be inappropriate themselves.
Recently at work a female colleague put her hand on my thigh as we were talking about work. I didn't mind at all, but I did simply look down, look back at her, and say - Jesus imagine if I just put my hand on your thigh without consent?
She removed it 😂"Another example. You didn’t mind but some men would. | |||
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"Unfortunately it's also a case of the genuinely creepy leery fuckwits that taint us guys !! And yes definitely also depends who is saying it as some get away with way more than others and we all know it . I've virtually stopped flirting and being my cheeky self in the forums because of the above reasons . Just not worth the hassle 🤷♂️" I don’t blame you. It’s sad though | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it "I don't think it is. I do think it's important to recognise the difference between posters like yourself who love the boings and those who complain about the sexualisation of women. Like Brucey said about some men having a disgusting attitude towards women. Some women have a rather abhorrent one of men. Some women find behaviour problematic. Some are just here to enjoy perving. Is there a double standard on the forum? Absolutely. But weaker examples don't really demonstrate that. | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it
I don't think it is. I do think it's important to recognise the difference between posters like yourself who love the boings and those who complain about the sexualisation of women. Like Brucey said about some men having a disgusting attitude towards women. Some women have a rather abhorrent one of men. Some women find behaviour problematic. Some are just here to enjoy perving.
Is there a double standard on the forum? Absolutely. But weaker examples don't really demonstrate that. "There have definitely been women on the tightey whitey threads who kicked off over the camel toe threads. I’m sure I did a similar thread a few months ago because of this. | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it
I don't think it is. I do think it's important to recognise the difference between posters like yourself who love the boings and those who complain about the sexualisation of women. Like Brucey said about some men having a disgusting attitude towards women. Some women have a rather abhorrent one of men. Some women find behaviour problematic. Some are just here to enjoy perving.
Is there a double standard on the forum? Absolutely. But weaker examples don't really demonstrate that.
There have definitely been women on the tightey whitey threads who kicked off over the camel toe threads. I’m sure I did a similar thread a few months ago because of this. "A handful. And those women said that it's because they weren't asking to be objectified when going about their day to day life. That's the difference isn't it? In a tighty whitey thread, that sexualisation is being invited. Celebrated. A woman at the gym sweating her balls off isn't wanting to be sexualised. At Asda picking up whatever you would in Asda. And yes, you've done this thread a few times before. I do think that double standards exist! And it's important to point out unfair treatment of men because they have the audacity to exist. Anyway... this has been fun! Thanks Nora. | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "Ooooooo been very dominant today aren’t we  | |||
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it
I don't think it is. I do think it's important to recognise the difference between posters like yourself who love the boings and those who complain about the sexualisation of women. Like Brucey said about some men having a disgusting attitude towards women. Some women have a rather abhorrent one of men. Some women find behaviour problematic. Some are just here to enjoy perving.
Is there a double standard on the forum? Absolutely. But weaker examples don't really demonstrate that.
There have definitely been women on the tightey whitey threads who kicked off over the camel toe threads. I’m sure I did a similar thread a few months ago because of this.
A handful. And those women said that it's because they weren't asking to be objectified when going about their day to day life.
That's the difference isn't it? In a tighty whitey thread, that sexualisation is being invited. Celebrated. A woman at the gym sweating her balls off isn't wanting to be sexualised. At Asda picking up whatever you would in Asda.
And yes, you've done this thread a few times before. I do think that double standards exist! And it's important to point out unfair treatment of men because they have the audacity to exist. Anyway... this has been fun! Thanks Nora. "So saying I love a certain look warrants being accused of sexualising? | |||
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"Because in this day and age women can be as a universal, unkind picky, and unpleasant as they like and it's called female empowerment. " Yes they can thank goodness. As can men. That’s not my point though. | |||
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"Because in this day and age women can be as a universal, unkind picky, and unpleasant as they like and it's called female empowerment. " I've no problem with anyone being picky. Any man with an ounce of self respect should be picky. Being unkind and unpleasant though just makes a woman look like a cunt the same as it does when a man acts that way. There's nothing empowering in being a twat. | |||
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"It's a case of knowing your audience isn't it and reading the room. Sexualising a person is fine *in context*. Saying you find a certain look sexy or attractive is fine if you can be sure it'll be well received. " it's a well made point. Given the fickle nature of the usual brigade and what side of the bed they have fallen out of (probably together) is the only variable in this logic. This probably ties in with the earlier point about who the OP is and what 'standing' they have and whether it's worth initiating the pile on. I remember a comment being made by a guy regarding chloroform being the only means of pulling (or something like that). Fucking outrage. A very very similar comment made by a female 'darling' of the forums and it was met with laughter and jokes. Know your audience indeed. But expect the pile on at all times. | |||
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"Because in this day and age women can be as a universal, unkind picky, and unpleasant as they like and it's called female empowerment. " Empowerment is telling a man that you aren't interested in his advances without feeling you need to be 'nice' about it eg saying "no thank you" without smiling or "go away" without adding please. Being picky isn't about empowerment it's about choice. Being unkind isn't empowerment it's being unkind. | |||
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"It's a case of knowing your audience isn't it and reading the room. Sexualising a person is fine *in context*. Saying you find a certain look sexy or attractive is fine if you can be sure it'll be well received. it's a well made point. Given the fickle nature of the usual brigade and what side of the bed they have fallen out of (probably together) is the only variable in this logic. This probably ties in with the earlier point about who the OP is and what 'standing' they have and whether it's worth initiating the pile on. I remember a comment being made by a guy regarding chloroform being the only means of pulling (or something like that). Fucking outrage. A very very similar comment made by a female 'darling' of the forums and it was met with laughter and jokes. Know your audience indeed. But expect the pile on at all times." Personally I find those sort of 'jokes' distatseful (to say the least) whoever tells them | |||
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"It's a case of knowing your audience isn't it and reading the room. Sexualising a person is fine *in context*. Saying you find a certain look sexy or attractive is fine if you can be sure it'll be well received. it's a well made point. Given the fickle nature of the usual brigade and what side of the bed they have fallen out of (probably together) is the only variable in this logic. This probably ties in with the earlier point about who the OP is and what 'standing' they have and whether it's worth initiating the pile on. I remember a comment being made by a guy regarding chloroform being the only means of pulling (or something like that). Fucking outrage. A very very similar comment made by a female 'darling' of the forums and it was met with laughter and jokes. Know your audience indeed. But expect the pile on at all times. Personally I find those sort of 'jokes' distatseful (to say the least) whoever tells them " Most do. Some others don't. Some others are ambivalent. That's the thing. | |||
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"...and I'll be the first to defend men on here, promote solidarity, thwart the sycophants and mitigate any 'man bashing'. Even on the swipe right/swipe left threads I usually swipe right for most men just to include them. The duplicity in this place beggars belief." Right | |||
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"If I was a woman on here I'd run a mile from the men who agree with everything I say and tell every woman how gorgeous they are, blah, blah, blah. Also you're completely correct Nora and you look amazing today! x" 🤣 | |||
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"If I was a woman on here I'd run a mile from the men who agree with everything I say and tell every woman how gorgeous they are, blah, blah, blah. Also you're completely correct Nora and you look amazing today! x" 😆😆😆😆 | |||
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"...and I'll be the first to defend men on here, promote solidarity, thwart the sycophants and mitigate any 'man bashing'. Even on the swipe right/swipe left threads I usually swipe right for most men just to include them. The duplicity in this place beggars belief." Totally. I remember a very good friend from Berks who used to be on here who loved women in summer dresses. He never got any slating because it was him. | |||
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"If I was a woman on here I'd run a mile from the men who agree with everything I say and tell every woman how gorgeous they are, blah, blah, blah. Also you're completely correct Nora and you look amazing today! x" Quality Leo. Quality. 😂 | |||
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"And a message for ALL men: when you create a thread please kindly ensure that you're also replying to the menfolk and not just exclusively to the women. The tongue is a wonderful organ but it doesn't always have to be stuck to the sphincter of women." Hahahaha I know everyone says it for effect. But I have literally just spat my coffee out on my desk. If Fab was better I would hot a button and show you. Fucking brilliant. Plus I answered you, fellow man. | |||
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"And a message for ALL men: when you create a thread please kindly ensure that you're also replying to the menfolk and not just exclusively to the women. The tongue is a wonderful organ but it doesn't always have to be stuck to the sphincter of women." But the think is some worry if they reply to a guy someone might think they are fab straight | |||
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"Because in this day and age women can be as a universal, unkind picky, and unpleasant as they like and it's called female empowerment. Yes they can thank goodness. As can men. That’s not my point though. " It's called a double standard. | |||
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"I'm not a fan of tits out, tighty whitey, big boobs, camel toe etc etc type threads, they are a bit in my opinion. But that's just me, and I rarely comment on them "Nice tits | |||
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"Not sure if it's been said, not read the whole thread. But to me at least I think in general women will say I like men in grey joggers, whereas men are more likely to post how they've seen some woman in the gym with skin tight leggings. I think sometimes this makes the difference in the kind of response people get maybe?" Yeah, perhaps read the thread. That has literally been said 😂 | |||
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"Not sure if it's been said, not read the whole thread. But to me at least I think in general women will say I like men in grey joggers, whereas men are more likely to post how they've seen some woman in the gym with skin tight leggings. I think sometimes this makes the difference in the kind of response people get maybe? Yeah, perhaps read the thread. That has literally been said 😂" Was too lazy 🤣 | |||
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"I'm not a fan of tits out, tighty whitey, big boobs, camel toe etc etc type threads, they are a bit in my opinion. But that's just me, and I rarely comment on them
Nice tits "You and Nero both owe me a new keyboard.
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"I'm not a fan of tits out, tighty whitey, big boobs, camel toe etc etc type threads, they are a bit in my opinion. But that's just me, and I rarely comment on them
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"It's been going on for years - the love of man bashing, I wouldn't say it's anything new. As have threads like these. And the "men you are great" threads that seem to follow. I don't disagree with you, I've said similar in other threads before but... those women who complain about the constant sexualisation of women? They're not the same ones getting a wide on for boings or tighty whiteys. It would be worse if it was, in my mind and it's a point that's oft overlooked. I think Sparkles is right about the poster as well - certain male posters can get away with certain things, others get a bollocking. This isn’t an arse licking men you are great thread by the way. Just in case anyone thought it was. I know it’s been going on years. Today I felt it needed saying. So I said it
If I had felt it needed saying and started this thread rather than just comment on it how do you think it would have gone down? 😁"Give it a week and start the thread. Let's call it a social experiment.
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "It's the white knights who come galloping in to defend the virtue of the women pretending they are all politically correct and all they are doing is trying to get into their knickers.  | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday "A few points OP: You know why women get away with stuff that men get called out for on here; it's because there are far less women on here than men, they call the shots. I'm more than happy for any Fab member to ask for pictures of Fab males in grey joggers, tighty-whities or even string vests; I won't respond to these requests, not because, as a male , I feel that I'm being sexualised, it's just that I not a performing monkey that's ready to dance to whatever tune when told to. But this is the way that Fab is. There are dual standards on Fab and it's not as easy for a man to meet up with someone as it is for a Female or an MF couple but I'm happy with with the status quo - queue intro to Whatever you want..... | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
A few points OP:
You know why women get away with stuff that men get called out for on here; it's because there are far less women on here than men, they call the shots.
I'm more than happy for any Fab member to ask for pictures of Fab males in grey joggers, tighty-whities or even string vests; I won't respond to these requests, not because, as a male , I feel that I'm being sexualised, it's just that I not a performing monkey that's ready to dance to whatever tune when told to.
But this is the way that Fab is. There are dual standards on Fab and it's not as easy for a man to meet up with someone as it is for a Female or an MF couple but I'm happy with with the status quo - queue intro to Whatever you want.....
"Sad that you see it as a performing monkey thing when it’s just a bit of fun. Do you think that of the photo challenges etc too? I can see how tits out Tuesday can be fun but I’d never partake because I don’t want to. I don’t see it as people demanding things though. I see it as fun. | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
It's the white knights who come galloping in to defend the virtue of the women pretending they are all politically correct and all they are doing is trying to get into their knickers.
"I can’t stand that. Give me a man that will stand up for himself and say lady you are bang out of order any day. There are a few on here but not many. | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
It's the white knights who come galloping in to defend the virtue of the women pretending they are all politically correct and all they are doing is trying to get into their knickers.
I can’t stand that. Give me a man that will stand up for himself and say lady you are bang out of order any day. There are a few on here but not many. "Got to say Nora, that’s bang out of order is that! | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
It's the white knights who come galloping in to defend the virtue of the women pretending they are all politically correct and all they are doing is trying to get into their knickers.
I can’t stand that. Give me a man that will stand up for himself and say lady you are bang out of order any day. There are a few on here but not many.
Got to say Nora, that’s bang out of order is that! "Haha. Bad boy. Go to my bed | |||
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"That’s it’s ok for women to post about grey joggers, tightey whiteys etc but if a man posts he likes a certain look he’s sexualising women? It pisses me the fuck off and always has. I know not many men will comment, probably for fear of upsetting a lot of the women on here but men please know that not all women think like that. I know some men do sexualise women this way and are leeches but for someone to post something they like to see and get comments like that is just pathetic. PS. It’s tightey whitey Friday
It's the white knights who come galloping in to defend the virtue of the women pretending they are all politically correct and all they are doing is trying to get into their knickers.
I can’t stand that. Give me a man that will stand up for himself and say lady you are bang out of order any day. There are a few on here but not many.
Got to say Nora, that’s bang out of order is that!
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