FabSwingers.com forum: How do you feel when you don’t have sex for a bit

By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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Talking weeks. Or months.

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit.

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

I've never really had this. What a player.

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By *a LunaWoman
8 weeks ago

South Wales

"I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit."

This.

The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.

But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Hate it. I’m a grumpy old goat

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By *hunky GentMan
8 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Try years.

That's staying power.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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This.

The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.

But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again."

Wanna change that

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"Try years.

That's staying power.

Jesus of Nazareth

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"Hate it. I’m a grumpy old goat "

Honestly I’m so grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

6 months so far. I think I'm missing the close connection and intimacy more than just the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I've done 19 years once... Never again.

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By *a LunaWoman
8 weeks ago

South Wales

This.

The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.

But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again.

Wanna change that

You’d be wore down to a nub

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By *orthernIrishmaleMan
8 weeks ago

ballyclare

Is that not another way saying being married?

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By *ookie46Woman
8 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Bit angsty

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By *rispyDuckMan
8 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Feels great on gym days

Like with many athletic sports like boxing & football, cumming before a session drains my strength & aggression. The longer I go the stronger I get haha

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By *atte Lover 82Man
8 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Just a normal day. You get used to it after a while.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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This.

The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.

But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again.

Wanna change that

You’d be wore down to a nub

Get in my inbox now

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By *aitonelMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yeah that

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"Is that not another way saying being married?"

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"Feels great on gym days

Like with many athletic sports like boxing & football, cumming before a session drains my strength & aggression. The longer I go the stronger I get haha "

Yeah some football coaches don’t let their players see their partners for this reason I think

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I often have long gaps between sex. Not by choice, I've just had bad luck with finding people who stick around or don't cause trouble, for whatever reason. Both with relationships and casual. 🤔

When it first starts, I'm slightly frustrated for a few days. More at it going south, rather than the lack of anything.

I quickly adjust after that, back to the usual routine of sorting myself out. 😆

Used to bother me more when I was younger, now I shrug it off and care very little.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
8 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I just get the toys out

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Hate it. I’m a grumpy old goat "

Greatest

All

Time

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

"Feels great on gym days

Like with many athletic sports like boxing & football, cumming before a session drains my strength & aggression. The longer I go the stronger I get haha

Yeah some football coaches don’t let their players see their partners for this reason I think"

Women weaken legs! You'd get that reference if you were more cultured...

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By *ell GwynnWoman
8 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Depends on the reason, really. Sometimes life’s just too stressful to even think about it, so it doesn’t bother me much. But if I do want it and can’t, for whatever reason, I tend to get a bit tetchy after a few weeks and that last a couple of months. Eventually, though, I just get used to it. The longest I’ve gone without sex was two years.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
8 weeks ago

St Leonards

Fucking awesome.

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By *olden RatioWoman
8 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I think I just adjust to the situation.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
8 weeks ago

Wolvo

Sad frustrated then adjust

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

If it's been a while for me then I go looking for women who are trying to adjust the situation. 😇

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By *anonfire96Man
8 weeks ago

Mansfield

Try going without for around 20 years. Apart from the trusty palm .

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
8 weeks ago

North West

Depends why. If it's because my body is endeavouring to fail me then I don't even notice the lack of sex. But if I'm comparatively healthy then I can get very frustrated.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
8 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

I can take it or leave it a lot of the time so if I’m not having it regularly, I’m not missing it or losing my mind.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If I've decided I'm not having sex then it doesn't bother me.

If I want the sex and life is stopping me then I get frustrated, but if it's just not happening after a while I simply stop wanting it when it's just not a viable option 💜

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By *ife NinjaMan
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

......just 'a bit'

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By *akedMMan
8 weeks ago

Witney

Coming up to seven years now . Except for my right hand

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By *orthern StarsCouple
8 weeks ago

Durham

The only time I've ever gone months without is after us given birth.

I would hate to think I didn't have regular sex, it's important to me and I love it.

Ruby

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By *eorgesdad69Man
8 weeks ago

Long Eaton

I feel like a real tosser 🫣

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By *NormalMan01Man
8 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Talking weeks. Or months. "

Kinda used to it, tbh… it’s been months. Many months. Like, not even oral.

I do really crave a blowjob.

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By *iddle ManMan
8 weeks ago

Walsall

It doesn't bother me, as long as I have something planned or in the pipeline just over the horizon, I can wait. It's always worth the wait and the effort.

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By *orphia2003Woman
8 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Sometimes I feel frustrated, sometimes I couldn't care less. Really depends on my mood.

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By *hunky GentMan
8 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If any of my female friends want to reset their timer please let me know.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

It's the literal worst. Especially because I'm going through something at the moment which means that I'm not able to orgasm through masturbation. So if I go weeks or months without having sex it means weeks or months without having an orgasm. And that's pretty fucking miserable.

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By *teveinYorkMan
8 weeks ago

Pocklington

Oh I'm used to it

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By *sWyldWoman
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Maybe I'm strange but the more I have the more I want. I can get a bit grumpy then. If I don't have any, I just don't crave it

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By *tr8MrEMan
8 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

"Talking weeks. Or months. "

Or years (yes by personal choice since my partner past away) and to be totally honest I actually feel no different. 🤷

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
8 weeks ago

Next Door

For me, it's always been.. the more I get sex the more i crave sex and have become insatiable in the past. If I'm not getting sex then I don't really miss having sex.

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By *ansoffateMan
8 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Fantastic

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
8 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Longest I’ve ever gone was just under 2months and yeh, it wasn’t my finest time… a lot of solo time was had! 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

What is sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I feel

Normal....

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
8 weeks ago

Bradford

"Talking weeks. Or months. "

I can’t comment, and I’m not saying it in a (I’m a top shagger way) but I’ll tell you now if I ever come into an sex drought I would definitely be going to the knocking shop

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
8 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Great. The less I have it the less I want it

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By *tr8MrEMan
8 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

"What is sex?"

Nearest I can compare is it's like pushing a shopping trolley around with a wonky wheel 🤣

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
8 weeks ago

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
8 weeks ago

nuneaton

Inked would tell you I'm a grumpy bitch

7 days without and I'm an angry short woman. Attitude needs fucking out of me

(Mrs)

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
8 weeks ago

Wrong thread

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By *NormalMan01Man
8 weeks ago

Harrogate

"What is sex?"

It’s where you get naked and talk to someone.

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By *aple syrupWoman
8 weeks ago

Bournemouth

When I was homeless for a year I really missed it but mainly the connection and hugs

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By *idewayscontrolMan
8 weeks ago

Exeter

The ache kicks in after a while

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By *weetiepie99Woman
8 weeks ago

cardiff

I don't really care...that much

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"I don't really care...that much"

Might as well have a shag when I’m in Cardiff. We deserve it.

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By *ensual DesiresMan
8 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"Talking weeks. Or months. "

What about years

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By *weetiepie99Woman
8 weeks ago

cardiff

"I don't really care...that much

Might as well have a shag when I’m in Cardiff. We deserve it.

Message me

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Tbf I masturbate plenty and have lots of orgasms so I could cope with it. I've gone plenty of time without sex before as long as I can make myself cum. I would miss the intimacy side of sex and masturbating isn't the same but I wouldn't be climbing the walls. Tbh the longer I go without the easier it gets in some ways.

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By *ags73Man
8 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Shite.

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By *lansmanMan
8 weeks ago

Sheffield

"I feel

Normal...."

Was just going to say the same. Its only the few that get regular sex . This site is based more in fantasy than reality.

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By *viatrixWoman
8 weeks ago

Redhill

8+ weeks without amd I honestly don’t think about it.

More primal instincts have taken over. Survival comes to mind.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"I don't really care...that much

Might as well have a shag when I’m in Cardiff. We deserve it.

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You KNOW I’m too young you tease

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By *avexxMan
8 weeks ago

cheshire

i go all fuzzy and light headed,,

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By *weetiepie99Woman
8 weeks ago

cardiff

"I don't really care...that much

Might as well have a shag when I’m in Cardiff. We deserve it.

Message me

You KNOW I’m too young you tease

Me tease?...never

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
8 weeks ago

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"I don't really care...that much

Might as well have a shag when I’m in Cardiff. We deserve it.

Message me

You KNOW I’m too young you tease

Me tease?...never

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By *mazonEuk5Man
8 weeks ago

spalding

Kinda got used to it.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
8 weeks ago

nearby

Most of the time, I feel like giving up on it, I always go out with that little tiny hope that I might get lucky, this has been going on for 20 years, so basically gave up on it now

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By *ad NannaWoman
8 weeks ago

East London

I don't miss sex.

I do miss knowing someone actually gives a shit enough to want to see me.

I went years without sex before I split up from my husband.

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By *ensual DesiresMan
8 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Cranky and frustrated

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central

People start to notice that I need a shag and comment or help me along

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Can’t remember it was back in 2017

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By *cLovin2Man
8 weeks ago

Reading

I dunno about the rest of you, but after a period of no sex,

I feel randy!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Wretched and sad.

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By *ungfupandaMan
8 weeks ago

wirral

About 5 years! Frustrated, horny and can I remember what to do

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By *uckslut and MCouple
7 weeks ago

Poole

Frustrated! Mr is away, not due back until Mid Feb. My electric bill is now sky high from using my toy.

I sent him a very erotic message ( fantasy story) with pics of my wet pussy yesterday. I got back pics of his hard on, and him saying - yes please, we're do this when I'm back. We're be fucking like rabbits for a week when he's back. So it won't happen until at least March. Watch this space.

But no dm's on the back of this thread. We don't need offers, until the meet goes up.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
7 weeks ago

Wales

Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.

But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Been months.. only just started thinking about it now, hence why I've joined here.

But I feel great, there has to be passion for great sex

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By *eliWoman
7 weeks ago

Fine after a few weeks - I think the longest has been a couple of months? I'm worse when I've had it recently, get a bit insatiable and think about it far too often.

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By *urnleyLNMan
7 weeks ago

Burnley

Gone from multiple times daily, to nothing for the last nearly 8 months lol.

Dunno how I feel tbh. Get sort of like "I need to go again!" but then have a wank and get over it

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
7 weeks ago

diggle

Frustrated as hell

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
7 weeks ago

diggle

"Fine after a few weeks - I think the longest has been a couple of months? I'm worse when I've had it recently, get a bit insatiable and think about it far too often."

Those times when it just happens and now I feel it’s not going to happen

It’s frustrating when u need it but it’s just too difficult to break down your barriers with someone you connected with so easily

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By *avid 50Man
7 weeks ago

kendal

probably like most on here I get frustrated I feel the need and then I go and play and feel better and get on with my day,

my wife once said when I wanted a quickie it will be even quicker if you played with yourself

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By *cLovin2Man
7 weeks ago

Reading

"Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.

But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things."

It's been 3 years since you got your leg over?

What are you waiting for?

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By *itygamesMan
7 weeks ago

sex is sex , its the orgasm thats healthy/important , just have one or two a day and i'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

It’s only on my mind if something or someone triggers those thoughts. I don’t really care otherwise.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
7 weeks ago

Bliss

I've was celibate for 3 years in the past, I think I struggled with no physical intimacy, rather than no sex tbf

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By *ell GwynnWoman
7 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I've was celibate for 3 years in the past, I think I struggled with no physical intimacy, rather than no sex tbf

Same. I miss affection more than sex.

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By *orbidden eastMan
7 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s not great, but life has to go on. But I do miss the spooning and hugging

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By *.T.BWoman
7 weeks ago

Stockport

I'm fine until I'm not fine. Once I start to think about it and realise how long it's been then every little thing starts to bother me.

I suppose it is just mind over matter.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
7 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Aslong as I don't think about it it's fine

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By *HUSH-Man
7 weeks ago

London

I went without sex for 6 years at one point and it was one of the most empowering periods of my life. It went from being what I thought was an absolute need of mine, to a want when I desire it.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
7 weeks ago

West Dublin

I went for 2 and a half years without.

Didnt really bother me in the least. I was going through health stuff and I got to focus solely on myself.

And my toys kept me company anyway 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Lost my sex drive for the last few months, don't really miss it cause I've be to focused on my own health and fitness

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By *iss.BellaWoman
7 weeks ago

Wales

"Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.

But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things.

It's been 3 years since you got your leg over?

What are you waiting for?"

A miracle

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

Míraclè is my middle name. ♠️

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
7 weeks ago

North West

"Míraclè is my middle name. ♠️"

I thought it was Ethelbert?

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By *avexxMan
7 weeks ago

cheshire

dont get me me wrong sex is wonderful,,, but its not everything

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
7 weeks ago

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
7 weeks ago

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"Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.

But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things.

It's been 3 years since you got your leg over?

What are you waiting for?

A miracle

I offered one

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By *allWithTatsMan
7 weeks ago

Hyrule

I’m 3 and a half years gone.

Not made the effort to get out there and do anything about it, focussed on work and kids to get myself into a good place and just became comfortable, I don’t drink so the social element is a bit different. At the same time I’m not looking for anything serious, I have what I need and would rather not notch bedposts with meaningless nights.

That being said, this year I’m hoping to attend some club nights and see what the fuss is about, so who knows!

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Relieved.... I'm too horny usually and get tired of begging for what I want so when I just go cold turkey the withdrawals wear off and I don't crave it as bad as I do if I get sporadic sex.. fucking horrible being a hopeless romantic nympho

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