FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to Get Verified

Wilts

Hi everyone,

I’m having a hard time getting verified, and it feels like a catch-22. I understand verification is about trust and credibility, but without verification, I find it challenging to grow my profile in the ways that seem to matter for eligibility.

I’m open to suggestions! What steps can I take to make my profile stand out and improve my chances? Are there specific elements I should focus on, like forum engagement, messages, or certain types of content?

Any advice or insights from those who’ve been through this process would be really appreciated!

Thanks in advance!

Let me know if you’d like to adjust the tone or focus further!

By *eardysingsMan
7 days ago

sandhurst and York

I have a similar issue - but I’ve also not clicked with anyone enough to have a meet with them…. And I have a bit of a thing about webcams (Joel Dommett’s experience, etc).

The only answer really, is to be real in your messaging, and when you get to a social, ask that person to make sure they verify…

Or go to a social / event / munch - and ask someone to verify that you’re who you say you are- but again, that’s a huge leap of confidence to go to the meet alone!

By *mmaleiaWoman
7 days ago

Trowbridge

"Go to a club or social. "

This

Or post updates regularly on your profile so they appear on feeds & you’re seen there.

Keep posting on the forums, you’ll get to know folk & who’s in your area

Struggling to Get Verified – Catch-22 Situation