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By *rbiggy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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Why do people get pissy and throw thier dummies out of the pram when you show the same level of respect, kindness and comments back to them. That they originally display?

Such strange behaviour 🙄

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Intent and interpretation are incredibly different things.

For some reason I'd guess they just see your actions as behaving like a twat. Their own influence on such behaviour probably doesn't really matter to them 💜

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By *rbiggy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"Intent and interpretation are incredibly different things.

For some reason I'd guess they just see your actions as behaving like a twat. Their own influence on such behaviour probably doesn't really matter to them 💜"

How would you interpret me outright calling you names? As a response to a opening message with zero malice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Intent and interpretation are incredibly different things.

For some reason I'd guess they just see your actions as behaving like a twat. Their own influence on such behaviour probably doesn't really matter to them 💜

How would you interpret me outright calling you names? As a response to a opening message with zero malice. "

As I see absolutely nothing in common I wouldn't be sending an opening message personally.

Some people are jerks. Some people are having a bad day. No point in getting wound up over it 💜

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By *rbiggy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"Intent and interpretation are incredibly different things.

For some reason I'd guess they just see your actions as behaving like a twat. Their own influence on such behaviour probably doesn't really matter to them 💜

How would you interpret me outright calling you names? As a response to a opening message with zero malice.

As I see absolutely nothing in common I wouldn't be sending an opening message personally.

Some people are jerks. Some people are having a bad day. No point in getting wound up over it 💜"

Having a bad day, feeling entitled and taking it out on others is never okay ❤️

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By *asterfulsoulMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Some people look in mirrors with their eyes closed 🧡

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Having a bad day, feeling entitled and taking it out on others is never okay ❤️"

Nope.

But there's still no point getting wound up about it. Just block and don't let the bastards ruin your day 💜

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By *iker JackMan
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If someone showed me any level of disrespect I’d block and move on. Why message them back at the same level, you’re dropping to their level

I don’t get upset by people who know little or nothing about me and 99.9999% I’m never likely to meet

Don’t let it raise your blood pressure. Block and delete

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

People can be pricks, don't let them take a second of your day.

Merry Christmas

Mrs

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By *armandwet50Couple
2 weeks ago

Far far away


"Why do people get pissy and throw thier dummies out of the pram when you show the same level of respect, kindness and comments back to them. That they originally display?

Such strange behaviour 🙄"

Do you not consider yourself entitled to a reply?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
2 weeks ago

Markfield


"Why do people get pissy and throw thier dummies out of the pram when you show the same level of respect, kindness and comments back to them. That they originally display?

Such strange behaviour 🙄"

Even in real life, I have learnt: When you treat people like they treat you, they don’t like it.

Move on. Honestly, really not worth trying to understand crazy 🤪

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By *rbiggy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"Why do people get pissy and throw thier dummies out of the pram when you show the same level of respect, kindness and comments back to them. That they originally display?

Such strange behaviour 🙄

Do you not consider yourself entitled to a reply?"

Why would I?

This is a public discussion forum. You can choose to engage or not!

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By *aron Von RingsplitterMan
2 weeks ago

Mottram St Andrew

You answered it in the title, entitlement. Society seems to have lost how to value humility and considerations for others. Instead, people feel they are entitled to whatever they want and haven't developed the socially acceptable coping mechanisms for when they don't get it.

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By *antasdeerideMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

You can't equate a message as real life eg a stranger sending a first message that he deems to be polite and courteous but the recipient doesn't because they've misinterpreted that message ,unfortunately especially on this site the meanings of words get lost in translation, humour ,sarcasm ,serious or caring all get mixed into the melting pot .So maybe Op you missed an important factor that was mentioned in the profile write up or maybe the recipient just got out the wall side of the bed ,just chalk it up as another one bites the dust .

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It can be a whole host of different reasons, sadly this is often never really explored when ruptures or clashes occur.

A retired psychiatrist once said to me. After a 40 year career I realised everyone is projecting their insecurities and frustrations onto each other, including myself. So I retired and now I live in a houseboat in Amsterdam, buy my cheese and jam with my wife and drink port. I have never been happier in my life.

I wouldn't say he encapsulated every aspect of the human condition, but certainly significant part of it.

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By *armandwet50Couple
2 weeks ago

Far far away


"You answered it in the title, entitlement. Society seems to have lost how to value humility and considerations for others. Instead, people feel they are entitled to whatever they want and haven't developed the socially acceptable coping mechanisms for when they don't get it."

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By *eardysingsMan
2 weeks ago

sandhurst and York


"Why do people get pissy and throw thier dummies out of the pram when you show the same level of respect, kindness and comments back to them. That they originally display?

Such strange behaviour 🙄"

This is quite interesting to me, in a lot of way - and my reaction to this kind of thing has changed as I’ve learnt to understand what my reaction means.

I’m ADHD with very high levels of rejection sensitivity dysphoria - and for that reason I’d take aggression and rudeness very badly, and am also very selective about who I message (and one of the criteria for me is that I think the person looks like they’d read my message and care enough about the content, to actually reply).

It’s all very well saying “don’t waste your energy” - for me, that’s not really an option.

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