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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm feeling really sad and miserable, its been a shit Xmas, for first time in years I've actually had a decent amount of time off work but have been so bloody lonely and bored. Most of the time I've been trapped inside by the trecherous weather conditions, not one member of my family has been to visit(they drive, I don't) or even called to say Merry Christmas, I tried to call them but not been able to get an answer, everyone obviously been out or away. Dreading tomorrow cos I'll be home alone so I just hope there will be other sad f***kers oh here for me to talk to!!!! Sorry just had to have a moan to somone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh that's sad, have a virtual hug

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Moan away. Thats what we are here for...

Yes Christmas is great for some, but not so great for others.

On the bright side - normal service will soon be resumed

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bless you ...i know how that feels ..im happily single but i find christmas is the worst time to be on your own. this is my 5th christmas on my own and it gets a little easier each year ..im home alone now too but have a lovely family i spent christmas with .And i have some lovely guys i gt to play with sometimes !!!! get some happy music on and find yourself something to take your mind off it ...it works for me and tomorrow is another day .you never know what is around your corner ..it could be something wonderful !!!! take care ...

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Oh hun, so sorry to hear it's been shit for you.

Christmas can be the loneliest time of the year, even when you're with someone.

A big hug from me and look forward to the New Year and al your friends from Fab.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh hun, so sorry to hear it's been shit for you.

Christmas can be the loneliest time of the year, even when you're with someone.

A big hug from me and look forward to the New Year and al your friends from Fab.

xxx"

I have to say I'm getting really tired, and the kids (love 'em)are starting to drive me crazy - the weatyher's so crap we can't go outside so it's getting cabin feverish a bit in here.

I sincerely wish a very happy 2010 to all - we're nearly there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is pretty shit for me too at the moment but sending you some of my very limited positive vibes and a big cyber hug xxx

Sugar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww big hugs XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Big hugs from me too xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well been ill all over the hols so havent seen family since xmas day.

So how not to be lonely me thinks - well I have always got a good book in to read which is great, a pampering bath and lots of creams to pamper yourself with, play music loud and sung badly , remember you are your best friend so talk to yourself and remember you are worth talking to. Oh and I go onto google and look for obscure things to search for

Anyway to anyone who is lonely at xmas you are not alone. You have yourself there and you are special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear that you had a bad time, but dont forget some peeps with families might have had a bad time to, family rows, stress of getting everything ready etc, we always used to go to my parents in denmark, crimbo is a huge thing there, but it became so much of a chore we stay here now, grass is not always greener.

big hug anyway xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your Christmas. It can be lonely but the loneliest Christmas I spent was with my husband and kids, four months before I left him, so family doesn't always count. I dont see you as moaning, just hope you have a better year to look forward too. All the best V x

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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Thanks all, sorry to be a moaner today, not like me at all, just feeling sorry for myself I suppose, can't wait for everything to get back to normal. At least all the ice has gone now so I'll take myself off for a walk in the rain later. Thanks agiain. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dreading tomorrow cos I'll be home alone so I just hope there will be other sad f***kers oh here for me to talk to!!!!"

I'm in, on me own, tomorrow night so I'll give you a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really sad and miserable, its been a shit Xmas, for first time in years I've actually had a decent amount of time off work but have been so bloody lonely and bored. Most of the time I've been trapped inside by the trecherous weather conditions, not one member of my family has been to visit(they drive, I don't) or even called to say Merry Christmas, I tried to call them but not been able to get an answer, everyone obviously been out or away. Dreading tomorrow cos I'll be home alone so I just hope there will be other sad f***kers oh here for me to talk to!!!! Sorry just had to have a moan to somone "

((((HUGS))))

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Here are some big hugs hugs hugs just for you hope that has got rid of your Xmas blues.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"I'm feeling really sad and miserable, its been a shit Xmas, for first time in years I've actually had a decent amount of time off work but have been so bloody lonely and bored. Most of the time I've been trapped inside by the trecherous weather conditions, not one member of my family has been to visit(they drive, I don't) or even called to say Merry Christmas, I tried to call them but not been able to get an answer, everyone obviously been out or away. Dreading tomorrow cos I'll be home alone so I just hope there will be other sad f***kers oh here for me to talk to!!!! Sorry just had to have a moan to somone "

We're going to Liaisons (Rochdale) tomorrow night - why not do something similar?

You'll be around likeminded people and you may even see the new year in with a bang!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Oh sweetheart, let me give you a hug, don't like to hear about nice people feeling down. We've been snowed in and had a very quiet one too. I hope the New Year will be kind to you Z xxxxx

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I've had a pretty awful year, although compared to some it will have been positively idyllic.

Just over a yr ago my (former) fiancee walked out - the dressing was part of the problem.

Then i was made redundant in July & i haven't worked since. Been suffering with depression on & off for the last 18 months as well.

The lifesaver has been my new partner. Not only does she accept my need to dress and the bi-sexuality that goes with it, she is more than happy to join in!

I have a job interview in the New Year and i'm about to start training for new quals in MTB leadership/teaching in order to find a new career path.

I live alone as well & find i can easily slip into moroseness, especially when i don't speak to people for days at a time. This time of yr is bad, we all place so much expectation on having the 'best' time & it almost never is.

Get yourself to your local swingers club, it will be warm, fun and friendly if nothing else!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Put up a plean on the forums here and see if anyone can take you to one of the clubs tomorrow night.......

It might be worth a try and people at all clubs are very friendly. You'll probably end up with friends for life.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

super size xxxhugsxx....at least it's almost over for this year Babs. Get yourself looking forward to 2010...and the socials see you soon x x

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

hope your feeling better x wonder what them super size hugs are like ? mm

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

it was hugs not jugs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have the new year to look forward to

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well ive not been good since boxing day but managed to pull myself together a bit today although still not got dressed. Tomorrow night through choice i am staying in. I really just cant be bothered with it. If you want someone to moan too feel free to pm mexxkarenx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me too ... am staying in on my own as canna be arsed going out...

after my exhibition on cam spacehopping up someone's street naked... not once but 4 times......

best too....

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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Thanks again all of you, I feel better already, all hugs whatever size are welcomed with open arms, I will survive, its not the first New Year I have spent alone but hope it will be my last. I think mostly I feel sad that I haven't seen anything of family and I've been arguing with my daughter. ((((Hugs))))) back to everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely lovely message at this time of year,bless you sincerely!xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can join me camping down in South Devon!

Weather is not too bad, and the tent is nice and cosy, just ask the dog, as he is fast asleep at the mo!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Tomorrow night through choice i am staying in"

We'll also be here tomorrow evening someone has to keep the wheels of industry turning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Hugs all round me thinks.

(((((( hugs)))))))

some of have had real shite xmas,s and its still going on.

My get up and go and buggered off me thinks.

roll on the new year and heres hoping we all have a good one

xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put up a plean on the forums here and see if anyone can take you to one of the clubs tomorrow night.......

It might be worth a try and people at all clubs are very friendly. You'll probably end up with friends for life.

"

Wassa a plean ???

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Put up a plean on the forums here and see if anyone can take you to one of the clubs tomorrow night.......

It might be worth a try and people at all clubs are very friendly. You'll probably end up with friends for life.

Wassa a plean ??? "

fuck knows........

I was obviously pissed (again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too ... am staying in on my own as canna be arsed going out...

after my exhibition on cam spacehopping up someone's street naked... not once but 4 times......

best too.... "

.....the spacehoppers have been locked away and I'm in hiding too the neighbours still haven't recovered.

All my family think I'm with the others so it's going to be a quiet night with just me and Jules's Hootenany

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