FabSwingers.com forum: No Sex Socials

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

I can think of nothing more appealing jyst now than a social with someone fun flirty with maybe a kiss and cuddle.

Are these a thing?

Do you believe anyone when they suggest it?

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Yes. Because I always want a social before I consider getting naked with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Think these are called dates?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Think these are called dates?"

Muggle world

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By *ebastian83Man
31 weeks ago

Just round the corner

I call it half a larger chip supper and bs k to mine !

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Think these are called dates?

Muggle world "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Avada kadava

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava"

😂

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By *ife NinjaMan
31 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Think these are called dates?

Muggle world "

I haven't been on a normal date for 25 years. I'm so out of touch

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By *ools and the brainCouple
31 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Think these are called dates?"

Nope they are called socials.

Something we always do before playing.

People are very good at pretending that they are something they are not online don't want any nasty surprises come play time.

So a coffee or wine first thanks.

After all it's a swinging site, well at least it's supposed to be not a singles dating site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Think these are called dates?"

Ah, but the connotations of "dates" suggests monogamy and progression...

But yes, maybe I'm overthinking it.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Think these are called dates?

Muggle world

I haven't been on a normal date for 25 years. I'm so out of touch

Weirdness

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By *ools and the brainCouple
31 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Think these are called dates?

Ah, but the connotations of "dates" suggests monogamy and progression...

But yes, maybe I'm overthinking it."

If that's what you are looking for maybe this site isn't for you.

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By *ife NinjaMan
31 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Think these are called dates?

Muggle world

I haven't been on a normal date for 25 years. I'm so out of touch

Weirdness "

I'm a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Think these are called dates?

Ah, but the connotations of "dates" suggests monogamy and progression...

But yes, maybe I'm overthinking it."

I definitely don't think they have to mean monogamy at all. I guess it depends where you find your date and if they are a muggle or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

😂"

I got you with my wand

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By *icecouple561Couple
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31 weeks ago

East Sussex

We always have 'neutral' socials. If someone asks for a 'social maybe more' we politely decline because they rarely mean maybe and it adds too much pressure for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'd ask for a social maybe less

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

😂

I got you with my wand

Stupify me any time 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

😂

I got you with my wand

Stupify me any time 🤣"

You wanna see my patronus?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

This is top level flirting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Loving the live Harry Potter role play but slightly concerned it was originally set in a school!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

😂

I got you with my wand

Stupify me any time 🤣

You wanna see my patronus?

Ooh naughty, I bet it's a very rampant stag

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Loving the live Harry Potter role play but slightly concerned it was originally set in a school!

Don't ruin it I'm doing so well

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By *ad NannaWoman
31 weeks ago

East London

That's what a social is, isn't it?

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By *aizyWoman
31 weeks ago

west midlands

They are a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

😂

I got you with my wand

Stupify me any time 🤣

You wanna see my patronus?

Ooh naughty, I bet it's a very rampant stag "

It's so rampant. And if cums polyjuice potion

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Feel like that was too far

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
31 weeks ago

London

What’s your definition of „social”, OP?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I'd ask for a social maybe less "

in other words 'no thanks'?

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By *ndyrTV/TS
31 weeks ago

southport

Had a few non sex socials.

Definitely recommend xx

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I'd ask for a social maybe less

in other words 'no thanks'?

I was just trying to be funny. Can't imagine you hear no very often

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I'd ask for a social maybe less

in other words 'no thanks'?

I was just trying to be funny. Can't imagine you hear no very often "

I know, so was I 😊

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By *orphia2003Woman
31 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes they exist. I do them frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Feel like that was too far "

No it wasn't, I just had a sneaky nap 😂😘

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Loving the live Harry Potter role play but slightly concerned it was originally set in a school!

Don't ruin it I'm doing so well

I ain't judging...

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Feel like that was too far

No it wasn't, I just had a sneaky nap 😂😘"

Busy day then

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Feel like that was too far

No it wasn't, I just had a sneaky nap 😂😘

Busy day then

I am just lazy,it's Saturday 😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"What’s your definition of „social”, OP?"

For me, it depends on the person and the vibe they bring.

It's probably a date but with someone who brings an open mind and naughty spark. That was the hope I'd find on here that seems to be hidden in vanillaville. Even if they are a perv like me, they keep it hidden as tends to be the social norm out there.

But it can also be something a little naughtier than a date, something you wouldn't necessarily do on an early date like a cosy cuddle and a movie on a Sunday afternoon.

As you can tell, I'm not sure I know myself but sometimes I just can't be arsed with the pressure of trying to get laid and just want some human connection.

#NeedyIKnow

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By *sWyldWoman
31 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"We always have 'neutral' socials. If someone asks for a 'social maybe more' we politely decline because they rarely mean maybe and it adds too much pressure for me. "

This for me too. I don't want the pressure.

I do love when a social goes well though and there's laughter, flirting, kissing and you leave very much looking forward to more some other time.

I also like dates and it doesn't mean anything other than being fully into each other for the time we spend together. I'm not looking for a partner really

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By *IXEN200Woman
31 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

What's a date, I've never had one

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Feel like that was too far

No it wasn't, I just had a sneaky nap 😂😘

Busy day then

I am just lazy,it's Saturday 😂"

Not like I haven't been sat on my arse all day tho

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By *ealitybitesMan
31 weeks ago

Belfast

I state very clearly on my profile that I won't meet anyone without a social and it's not up for negotiation.

Less than 10 percent of all my social meets over the years have gone beyond that initial coffee and that's by choice rather than circumstance.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
31 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"What's a date, I've never had one

The last "date " someone took me on ... which was a few months ago.... ended in disaster...🤣🤣🤣.. think I'll give the whole " dating " thing a miss 🤣🤣

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By *r lotharioMan
31 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

"Avada kadava"

youvada cadaver? dodgy that is lol

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Stockport

Always a social for us first

We appreciate that time is scarce , so we're not opposed to playing on the day

But we're not just turning up and getting naked !

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

youvada cadaver? dodgy that is lol"

It's not mine I found it

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By *r lotharioMan
31 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

"Avada kadava

youvada cadaver? dodgy that is lol

It's not mine I found it "

you dug it up on a social didn't you....

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Avada kadava

youvada cadaver? dodgy that is lol

It's not mine I found it

you dug it up on a social didn't you...."

Yeh sounds plausible, let's go with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"We always have 'neutral' socials. If someone asks for a 'social maybe more' we politely decline because they rarely mean maybe and it adds too much pressure for me.

This for me too. I don't want the pressure.

I do love when a social goes well though and there's laughter, flirting, kissing and you leave very much looking forward to more some other time.

I also like dates and it doesn't mean anything other than being fully into each other for the time we spend together. I'm not looking for a partner really "

This is pretty much it for me... A date suggests moving to partnerdom. I've lived there and don't wanna go back.

FWBville looks like my new home, with the emphasis on F so a "date" or social where we just enjoy the moment, whatever that be, knowing there's no pressure to progress...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

They are the only way I will meet for the first time.

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