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By *ay Smythe OP   Man
12 weeks ago

broughton astley

Helloooooo

Whilst I am bored at work, I was thinking, what’s the sexiest ‘non sexual thing’ you find in a man/woman?

Open to all

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

When a lady slowly but seductively passes a morsel of a cinnamon bun past her red gloss lips... that's quite sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

When he orders me a extra hash brown.

True love right there.

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

In no particular order of preference:

Rolled up shirt sleeves

Hands

Pretty eyes

A well fitted outfit - especially a suit

A good attitude and outlook

A sharp mind

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By *rettCoolMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Like a woman who walks femininity if u know what I mean

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

In them? I mean I know people put a lot of things inside them but most of the things are not sexy at all!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

Enthusiastic dog lover. If you're a dog lover, you're deffo in my good books.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
12 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Ankles on show in gyn gear,,

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Enthusiastic dog lover. If you're a dog lover, you're deffo in my good books. "

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
12 weeks ago

Londontown

How they treat other people.

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Tattoos, nice shoulders, when he puts his hand on my back... There's actually loads now I think about it - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Walking on the edge of the path by the road 😁

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford

A man doing manual labour using his hands. There's a guy on another social media site that chops wood.......nothing else. He has a huge female following. For me it's seeing him swing the axe, seeing him get out of breath and hearing him grunt as he struggles to split the logs..........le sigh!

Added bonus: when he uses his hands to pull a log apart........swoon!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️"

I have a blue and a black biro

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By *arker secrets 321Man
12 weeks ago

West Bromwich

A women in a suit who walks with confidence..always does it for me x

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️

I have a blue and a black biro "

That made me snort laugh - Mrs

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin

Standing in kitchen prepping food in jeans with a squeezeable bum 🤤🤤

But tbh there are lots of non sexual things that are sexy.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️"

Men with ink 😍

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By *ensuallover1000Man
12 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A plethora of things in fact.

But one: A lady wearing glasses 😍😍

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By *ay Smythe OP   Man
12 weeks ago

broughton astley

That’s hot

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By *EAT..85Woman
12 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️"

Tick

Tick

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By *imples24Man
12 weeks ago

tamworth

A women tying her hair up or untying her hair

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin


"A plethora of things in fact.

But one: A lady wearing glasses 😍😍"

I wont reveal my face pic so! 😅😜

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By *EAT..85Woman
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

Rambling away passionately over hobbies.

Calluses/ strong/ hairy hands.

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By *ay Smythe OP   Man
12 weeks ago

broughton astley

Deffo what they meant lol

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"A plethora of things in fact.

But one: A lady wearing glasses 😍😍"

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By *ay Smythe OP   Man
12 weeks ago

broughton astley

So what’s your hobby??

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
12 weeks ago

Markfield


"So what’s your hobby??"

Hello OP, great thread, if you you reply + quote when responding we know who you’re talking to x

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
12 weeks ago

Markfield


"Helloooooo

Whilst I am bored at work, I was thinking, what’s the sexiest ‘non sexual thing’ you find in a man/woman?

Open to all

"

Laughter lines round the eyes

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By *_41Woman
12 weeks ago

paisley


"In no particular order of preference:

Rolled up shirt sleeves

Hands

Pretty eyes

A well fitted outfit - especially a suit

A good attitude and outlook

A sharp mind

I second this 😍

"

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By *reggSausageMan
12 weeks ago

derby

A lady with long hair, cannot help but have a sneak peek

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Rambling away passionately over hobbies. "

Ooh yes this should have been on my list too. Info dumping their current passion too

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford

I love it when my husband talks about something he's passionate about or knows a lot about.

Mrs x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I think I’ve mentioned this somewhere on Fab before, but that thing when a woman grabs a pen, or a chopstick, or something equally innocuous, and ties her hair up with it. Without concentrating. Without even looking. Without breaking her stride in whatever else she was doing at the time.

Oooft.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I think I’ve mentioned this somewhere on Fab before, but that thing when a woman grabs a pen, or a chopstick, or something equally innocuous, and ties her hair up with it. Without concentrating. Without even looking. Without breaking her stride in whatever else she was doing at the time.

Oooft."

Pins her hair up. I should have said pins, not ties.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
12 weeks ago

City Centre

A smile

Acts of kindness

Dancing together

Eye contact

😊

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"A man doing manual labour using his hands. There's a guy on another social media site that chops wood.......nothing else. He has a huge female following. For me it's seeing him swing the axe, seeing him get out of breath and hearing him grunt as he struggles to split the logs..........le sigh!

Added bonus: when he uses his hands to pull a log apart........swoon!

Mrs x"

I know who you mean. X

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By *ripfillMan
12 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Alessi design ..

Very sexy… I love the corkscrews and the lighters ..?

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford


"A man doing manual labour using his hands. There's a guy on another social media site that chops wood.......nothing else. He has a huge female following. For me it's seeing him swing the axe, seeing him get out of breath and hearing him grunt as he struggles to split the logs..........le sigh!

Added bonus: when he uses his hands to pull a log apart........swoon!

Mrs x

I know who you mean. X"

Super hot right?

Mrs x

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Ooh can we add smells too? I love the smell of b&q, chipboard and all that, so when a guy smells like that... (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"A man doing manual labour using his hands. There's a guy on another social media site that chops wood.......nothing else. He has a huge female following. For me it's seeing him swing the axe, seeing him get out of breath and hearing him grunt as he struggles to split the logs..........le sigh!

Added bonus: when he uses his hands to pull a log apart........swoon!

Mrs x

I know who you mean. X

Super hot right?

Mrs x"

Omg yes. I love watching men work. X

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Enthusiastic dog lover. If you're a dog lover, you're deffo in my good books. "

I absolutely adore dogs, most animals to be fair x

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By *ollymollWoman
12 weeks ago

Stockport


"A man doing manual labour using his hands. There's a guy on another social media site that chops wood.......nothing else. He has a huge female following. For me it's seeing him swing the axe, seeing him get out of breath and hearing him grunt as he struggles to split the logs..........le sigh!

Added bonus: when he uses his hands to pull a log apart........swoon!

Mrs x

I know who you mean. X"

Me too. Swoon indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Men when they’re out of breath and a little sweaty.

Not, like, fighting for their life but just a little.

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By *parkle1974Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Men when they are being honest

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford


"Men when they’re out of breath and a little sweaty.

Not, like, fighting for their life but just a little. "

Oooh and when they have floppy hair too

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Men when they’re out of breath and a little sweaty.

Not, like, fighting for their life but just a little.

Oooh and when they have floppy hair too

Mrs x"

And they push it back. Ugh! 🥵

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By *ay Smythe OP   Man
12 weeks ago

broughton astley

Slight Goth look is a weakness!!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford


"Men when they’re out of breath and a little sweaty.

Not, like, fighting for their life but just a little.

Oooh and when they have floppy hair too

Mrs x

And they push it back. Ugh! 🥵"

Or flick their head to push it back xx

Even better when sweat drips down the hair and theny look you directly in the eyes through it, uuugghhhh!

Mrs x

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By *ABflirtyWoman
12 weeks ago

Norwich

A man making me dinner .. x

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
12 weeks ago

Ilford

Sexiest non sexual thing? A woman that pronounces 'Schedule' correctly (The British English way, not the American English way, unless they're Canadian or American they get a pass).

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"Men when they’re out of breath and a little sweaty.

Not, like, fighting for their life but just a little. "

I mean, if they're fighting for their life then just loosen the rope a wee bit - Mrs

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By *amie HantsWoman
12 weeks ago

Atlantis

Fixing things. I like men who are really handy with things. It’s so attractive!

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By *addisamMan
12 weeks ago

Swords

Confident women in work/public settings. Love seeing them be themselves and take no prisoners

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
12 weeks ago

London

Broad shoulders on a tall woman

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
12 weeks ago

London


"A man making me dinner .. x"

Amd running you a bath, pouring you a glass of wine and giving you a massage?

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
12 weeks ago

Coalville

There’s a bit in rocky horror where riff raff strokes magentas arm… it’s a tiny finger stroke… but I think it’s super sexy.

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

When she takes the first bite from a apple

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

When a woman is goofy and bonkers. I love it, as I'm a massive goofball too

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By *atpurrWoman
12 weeks ago

Kent

A well maintained beard……..on a man

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By *elix SightedMan
12 weeks ago

Cloud 8

When she makes me laugh. That’s hard for anyone to do and, while I admire it in blokes, it makes me go all gooey when a totty is funny.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford


"Broad shoulders on a tall woman"

Hello, ahem!

Mrs x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
12 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

When she plays with her hair (on her head, I mean) 🥰

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
12 weeks ago

London


"Broad shoulders on a tall woman

Hello, ahem!

Mrs x"

Yep you are my ultimate!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford


"When she plays with her hair (on her head, I mean) 🥰"

Oh, I'll go shave my legs then!

Mrs x

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Dartford


"Broad shoulders on a tall woman

Hello, ahem!

Mrs x

Yep you are my ultimate! "

Awww, nice compliment x

Mrs x

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
12 weeks ago

London


"Broad shoulders on a tall woman

Hello, ahem!

Mrs x

Yep you are my ultimate!

Awww, nice compliment x

Mrs x"

Just being truthful. Shame you’re only after bi woman haha

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Boo I'm home I got you a sandwich.

Sex, cuddles, I'll even listen to you talk about your friend's soft furnishing choices or rant about the traffic lights.

I will even watch a period drama with you. Actually, I'd do that anyway, but I'm not going to tell them that.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"When a woman is goofy and bonkers. I love it, as I'm a massive goofball too"

Ahem professional goofball here 🤣

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

A man being a total dog or cat dad

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By *usurrusCouple
12 weeks ago

North West.

Smell, someone who smells good.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Secret mysterious smile

Twinkle in the eye

Smelling sexy

Confidence

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Feet pointing

The hair adjusting thing. I know it’s different for different women.

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By *punk n gushCouple
12 weeks ago

deal

A good honest heart like my wife

And eyes I love deep long gazes just my thang the Mr ladies couples flood our way

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By *edhead72Man
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

Do arms count? Love long slender arms.

Hope that’s not too filthy for this thread

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By *iss.BellaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wales

I feel like I've answered this before, could be wrong 💁‍♀️

Men - and this isn't a piss take but you know when a man listens to you intently, sort of bringing himself to your height to really listen, open body language sort of leaning into your bubble.

Oh I don't know let's go with strong, muscular hands instead.

Ladies - so many to list.. the warmth of a bubbly lady always melts me, the genuine smile, the welcoming vibe they give off.

Does that make sense or do I need more gin?

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
12 weeks ago

Bristol


"I feel like I've answered this before, could be wrong 💁‍♀️

Men - and this isn't a piss take but you know when a man listens to you intently, sort of bringing himself to your height to really listen, open body language sort of leaning into your bubble.

Oh I don't know let's go with strong, muscular hands instead.

Ladies - so many to list.. the warmth of a bubbly lady always melts me, the genuine smile, the welcoming vibe they give off.

Does that make sense or do I need more gin? "

Gin, unequivocally

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By *ancman_3rdMan
12 weeks ago

Saddleworth


"I feel like I've answered this before, could be wrong 💁‍♀️

Men - and this isn't a piss take but you know when a man listens to you intently, sort of bringing himself to your height to really listen, open body language sort of leaning into your bubble.

Oh I don't know let's go with strong, muscular hands instead.

Ladies - so many to list.. the warmth of a bubbly lady always melts me, the genuine smile, the welcoming vibe they give off.

Does that make sense or do I need more gin? "

The key to everything… and I mean everything is confidence, It is not being brashy ‘I’mwell ard’ confidence….

It is the confidence you wear the right thing (even if it isnt the ‘in vogue’ thing, its the ability to wear a pair of jeans and a 3 for9£ tshirt and just rock it. A girl that just owns a jeans and t-shirt look with minimal makeup but has a proper laugh… that is sexy….. confidence and I have mid money but I pull you on a night out no question xx

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

...eye contact with a stranger that lingers a split-second longer than a glance; where you both know you've made eye contact but there is a momentary connection that sparks a smile (even if just behind the eyes). 😍

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By *atinaChica54Woman
12 weeks ago

Marlborough

A man in glasses.. Proper gives me a minge twinge

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By *use and wolfCouple
12 weeks ago

angus

Leather gloves, no that's on.

Confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️

I have a blue and a black biro "

Then you’re the sort 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️

Tick

Tick

"

Indeed 😘

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By *rthur30Man
12 weeks ago

Warrington


"Lush women in flowing summer dresses ❤️ women with ink ❤️

I have a blue and a black biro "

A fountain pen? Now you’re talking hot!

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By *irty-pairCouple
12 weeks ago

Essex

I find geeks and people who are thorough sexy. I really enjoy someone being knowledgeable and passionate about different things. That is a big turn on for me. Mrs Dirty-Pair xx

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
12 weeks ago

kent

There are so many things. Women who wear glasses, very much yes, and hands - hands are sexy, but also people who have a passion for something specific - doesn’t matter what it is, so long as it lights their fire, and their eyes, when they talk about it. People who love reading, people who go out of their way to challenge themselves and grow. People who have found peace. So many ways people are very sexy in non-sexy ways x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

A lady with perfectly painted nails for me, red being the obvious colour to get the blood flowing down south. I could watch a lady tap her nails on a hard surface and get aroused just from that.

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By *napppaMan
12 weeks ago

London

Honest sincerity and genuinely confident, secure women do it for me.

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By *ogibear99Man
12 weeks ago

on the road

People singing or making music.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

Cardiff

Holding hands while you’re out together a bit cheesy I know

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By *rthur30Man
12 weeks ago

Warrington


"People singing or making music. "

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By *ira2024Woman
12 weeks ago

SW

Intelligence is super sexy and kindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Woman who is fun to be around and doesn't take herself to serious

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By *layfull pairingCouple
12 weeks ago

Bristol

A girl with shiny hair in a ponytail bobbing around while jogging past.... they prob think I’m checking out their ass but it’s the ponytail bobbing that does it for me....

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By *rumpyandsexyCouple
12 weeks ago

mansfield

Women driving planes

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