FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden disability

By *ipers OP Man
3 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Ok. So I have a stoma. Would you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Yes.

Disabilities wouldn't put us off meeting anyone.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

Yes. I have bone cancer, its hidden but does affect me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

It would depend on many other things but a stoma wouldn't be a reason not to

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By *ipers OP Man
3 weeks ago

Nuneaton

"Yes.

Disabilities wouldn't put us off meeting anyone."
. Thanks for that. Maybe when you start meeting again.....

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By *sasauceMan
3 weeks ago

Kingswinford

Stoma here too 👋 as long as you’re upfront before hand like to should be with everything in fab I don’t see an issue. Just personal preference for people

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By *ipers OP Man
3 weeks ago

Nuneaton

"Stoma here too 👋 as long as you’re upfront before hand like to should be with everything in fab I don’t see an issue. Just personal preference for people "

Thanks. Must be my age

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By *hrista BellendWoman
3 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Physical Disabilities wouldn't make any difference to me.

Mental Disabilities however would make a difference, to the thought process, on whether I chose to meet them.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Farnborough

Absolutely…. this is about the person, and the connection, not a problem they may have.

A few years ago I met with a lady who had a stoma (which she told me about upfront) who had also lost a leg. We had an amazing time together.

R xx

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By *iwmwpg1Man
3 weeks ago

Kidwelly

What about the most common one, Erectile Dysfunction?

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

"What about the most common one, Erectile Dysfunction?

This is true. An understanding of this is vital.

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By *imply DeeWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever

"Physical Disabilities wouldn't make any difference to me.

Mental Disabilities however would make a difference, to the thought process, on whether I chose to meet them."

This.

Also brings up the topic of consent.

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

We would still meet people who had disabilities would not bother us its everyone should be treated the same

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By *ildTimes777Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Ok. So I have a stoma. Would you meet?"

Ask someone to fuck the shit out of you....

Right that's our me on about 50 block lists ,🤷🏻‍♂️ 😂😂😂 it's a joke ..

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

"What about the most common one, Erectile Dysfunction?

Somthing like that would not put us off either there's plenty of other ways to satisfy people

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By *ools and the brainCouple
3 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Ok. So I have a stoma. Would you meet?

Ask someone to fuck the shit out of you....

Right that's our me on about 50 block lists ,🤷🏻‍♂️ 😂😂😂 it's a joke .."

It's not a funny joke tho

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By *orphia2003Woman
3 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

It wouldn't bother me. If we got on well enough to want to get you naked, I'm sure it's something you'd already have told me about.

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By *ildTimes777Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Ok. So I have a stoma. Would you meet?

Ask someone to fuck the shit out of you....

Right that's our me on about 50 block lists ,🤷🏻‍♂️ 😂😂😂 it's a joke ..

It's not a funny joke tho "

Subjective really ...🤷🏻‍♂️ Got my dark humour idc

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By *ceKweenWoman
3 weeks ago

Bolton

I’m partially sighted… I don’t advertise the fact and only bring it up as and when required. Those who are understanding don’t bat an eyelid and anybody who did.. well they can do one. Thankfully I have never had any negativity as yet

You kind of sense the right people to interact with and who to pass.

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I have a stoma. Urinary not colorectal.

I have been met with differences of opinions. I was also told that I should not tell someone until after an initial meet

I have also told someone and when the time came to get naked they said they didn’t like the look of it and left

There is no right or wrong way as others opinions will differ

I’d rather have a stoma and be alive and never be intimate again than not have one and not be here

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By *ceKweenWoman
3 weeks ago

Bolton

"I have a stoma. Urinary not colorectal.

I have been met with differences of opinions. I was also told that I should not tell someone until after an initial meet

I have also told someone and when the time came to get naked they said they didn’t like the look of it and left

There is no right or wrong way as others opinions will differ

I’d rather have a stoma and be alive and never be intimate again than not have one and not be here "

Yes

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