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"Us men can simply Nether try hard enough 🫤 although we're trying our best, just patience and perseverance I guess" Thing is a lot of men don’t try their best. Not reading profiles, not making their profile decent, sending silly messages, no photos etc etc | |||
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"Us men can simply Nether try hard enough 🫤 although we're trying our best, just patience and perseverance I guess Thing is a lot of men don’t try their best. Not reading profiles, not making their profile decent, sending silly messages, no photos etc etc " I make it a habit of double reading profiles to make sure before I even think of messaging, always respecting boundaries. I'm giving 110٪ but I'm being patient and interacting as much as i can where i can | |||
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"Us men can simply Nether try hard enough 🫤 although we're trying our best, just patience and perseverance I guess Thing is a lot of men don’t try their best. Not reading profiles, not making their profile decent, sending silly messages, no photos etc etc " im trying to be as open and truthfull as i can on my profile, I don't know what else to add other than more pics 😔 | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x " its 2024 this is life for the younger generation sub 40 | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x " If a man is willing to tolerate a penis attached to someone who doesn't interest or excite him then he too can have sex whenever he wants, just like women. Someone who places worth determined by body count can get straight in the bin. Cooking and cleaning should be shared between partners according to the situation, it should not all fall on the woman to do by default. If you think someone doing only fans makes them unsuitable for you then you don't have to date people who do only fans, no need to make out that they are inherently lesser people just because of how they chose to make a living. Not everyone is required to want kids. People who do should be with people who do, people who don't should be with people who don't, and neither group is better or worse than the other. | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x its 2024 this is life for the younger generation sub 40 " It's quite sad really, I'm working hard to ensure my daughter doesn't turn out like that at all. Mrs x | |||
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"You can write what you like and say whatever you want in messages, but if she don't fancy you, it ain't going nowhere! " Super true, it doesn't matter if you make Oscar Wilde look like a tongue tied teenager, if you're not someone's physical preference, and if we're honest,that's what we all go on first, you're done in the first 5 seconds really | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x " Yeah, get back in the kitchen you wenches!!! | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x " I think I've just gone back to Victorian times!!...I think I'll just get on with the cooking, cleaning and having babies.. | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x Yeah, get back in the kitchen you wenches!!!" Yeah not what I was saying at all but its nice to join in sometomes isn't it xx Mrs x | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " Women always get meets ??? Bs I had 4 blokes bail on me this week.... 🙄🤣 | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " Clubs are always the option if you strike out here with messaging. | |||
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"There are good and bad sides to both men and women. Some men can't hold a conversation to save their lives and get by on just being pretty which let's face it most women look for on here. On the flip side a lot of women have a unhealthy ego boost which makes them make an unrealistic list of demands that men can never live up too.. unless they are really pretty. Attraction is the number one thing for meets on here which cancels out any effort, conversation or personality whatever people say. The best way to get by here is have no expectations, have a sense of humour and don't jump through a million hoops to satisfy a dickhead. There's someone on here for all of us, just finding them is the difficult part. " I was going to counteract this ^ but the more I read it the more it becomes inconveniently accurate and empirically correct. Dare I say it - it's also interesting to read a progressive viewpoint that highlights women's shallowness. Conversational skills are greatly lacking on boths sides. From my experience - as I've often said - I wish there were more women on here who could handle a conversation better than they can handle a cock. I'm often contacted by women whose profiles dictate "must be articulate; able to grasp a decent conversation" and yet they fall foul of their own stipulations by sending monosyllabic responses. Aesthetics plays a significant part with some women: men's visage and torsos will quite often outrank their cognitive requirements, despite their profiles asking for "chemistry" and a "mental connection". The lack of quality and effort in men's profiles will often contrast with impractical demands placed by women: they often want the moon on a stick and yet offer space dust in return. With all things said and done a perfectly hand-crafted message backed by a flawlessly executed profile will never clinch the deal. It's a numbers game, plain and simple. No matter what the average man will do all effort is null and void if their message festers amongst the vitriol in most women's InBox. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 25/10/24 17:14:08] filthy beast!! "Oh, sorry shag, I thought you said you were just taking a wank and using the forum. | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " Don't try too hard, if a meets going to happen it will happen, and usually when most unexpected. I get meets but when they find out I work offshore and away for 2 weeks at a time that usually ends the interest. It Certainly ended my marriage but life goes on. Sometimes the chat and online friendship is just as good as a meet so don't rush in. | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 Women always get meets ??? Bs I had 4 blokes bail on me this week.... 🙄🤣" that's what's frustrating all the bad guys seem to have all the luck, if I say i can meet i will and when I can't i will say so 😔 | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 Women always get meets ??? Bs I had 4 blokes bail on me this week.... 🙄🤣 that's what's frustrating all the bad guys seem to have all the luck, if I say i can meet i will and when I can't i will say so 😔" there just making it worse for us genuines 👿 | |||
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" If you're not getting meets..." You’re male but not bi/gay. You have parameters and standards. You’re not trying hard enough. (I’m not trying at all, but) | |||
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"A question that always has me questioning when the "but women can get sex whenever they want but men can't" is trollied out is... Who are the women doing the Sex with? Are they all lesbians? Is it a massive reverse gangbang? Or are all the women just doing the Sex with the same 3 (presumably exhausted) men, passing them around like a toy, whilst all other men look on with sad faces? My mind is boggled. Tbf, it IS Friday and I DIDN'T eat much today. " Just to say it's my turn next with the hot guy. | |||
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"A question that always has me questioning when the "but women can get sex whenever they want but men can't" is trollied out is... Who are the women doing the Sex with? Are they all lesbians? Is it a massive reverse gangbang? Or are all the women just doing the Sex with the same 3 (presumably exhausted) men, passing them around like a toy, whilst all other men look on with sad faces? My mind is boggled. Tbf, it IS Friday and I DIDN'T eat much today. " They’re all doing the other 3 of the men who don’t send unsolicited cock shots. I just get tired easily. | |||
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It's a numbers game. You have to be in it for the long haul. Choose how you word your message and don't be crude or say you're going to make them squelch or whatever. Chin up  | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " Yes you are wrong to get irritated by some random Laugh, shrug your shoulders, smile and crack on with life | |||
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"Where is this lesbian gangbang and how do I get in on it? " I would like to know as well! 🙋🏽♀️ | |||
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"You can write what you like and say whatever you want in messages, but if she don't fancy you, it ain't going nowhere! Someone could write 'hey' or even 'oi' and if they're instantly attracted to you, they'll normally respond back, don't believe all the 'oh it's your profile text' or you're not trying hard enough rubbish. " 100% this👆🏼 | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! " But the men they're having sex with must be getting it easily too | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! But the men they're having sex with must be getting it easily too" No, no. I think we've established that the wimminz are having a massive lesbian gangbang and the menz are all sad and crying on the sidelines. | |||
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"We think of Fab as part of a toolkit. We use other lifestyle platforms and closed club groups to arrange non exclusive meets. “We’re going here, if you’re there we’ll say hi”. We’ve had 1 true ‘meet’ from here. Our one and only ‘social’. That less than positive experience changed how we operate. We use the ‘find a meet’ section to make contact with other people going to the same club nights. Sometimes we just go to a club and see what happens Sometimes we have private meets with people we’ve met before. Not to down play the challenges for single guys, but we would find it challenging if we solely used this site to arrange meets It’s supposed to be fun right. We will chick the towel in the moment it stops being that way Xx" Yep, pretty much exactly what I was told. FAB is something of a bygone era. | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , " i make your right son loads of women on here think they make all the rules, you gotta laugh | |||
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"Where is this lesbian gangbang and how do I get in on it? " I am wondering the same 👀 | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , " Most of the women I've spoken to here have been some of the nicest women I've not had the chance to meet yet.
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"Where is this lesbian gangbang and how do I get in on it? I am wondering the same 👀" Is this something I need to arrange? | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , " Tbh given your profile states that your married and no mention of your wife is it any wonder that on most sites many but not all will not want to engage with you..? | |||
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"I just open my door and go out in to the real world, people are very different when you talk face to face. I was in Tescos the other night and got a shag didn't see it coming." Were they doing BOGOFs on shags? | |||
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"I just open my door and go out in to the real world, people are very different when you talk face to face. I was in Tescos the other night and got a shag didn't see it coming." Which aisle was this? | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , " Oh really?! Well if you're going to behave like a c*** you'll be treated like one .  | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , Oh really?! Well if you're going to behave like a c*** you'll be treated like one . "Hey  | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , i make your right son loads of women on here think they make all the rules, you gotta laugh " I think it's refreshing that in a society that's basically patriarchal and where some women are still treated less equally in many areas that on such a site as this they can make whatever rules they like to enable them to meet whom they want, when they want.. And if you don't want to play by such rules some set there's always others who won't both on here and elsewhere.. | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , Oh really?! Well if you're going to behave like a c*** you'll be treated like one .
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"I just open my door and go out in to the real world, people are very different when you talk face to face. I was in Tescos the other night and got a shag didn't see it coming. Were they doing BOGOFs on shags? " Didn't see that on my clubcard benefits  | |||
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"I just open my door and go out in to the real world, people are very different when you talk face to face. I was in Tescos the other night and got a shag didn't see it coming. Were they doing BOGOFs on shags? Didn't see that on my clubcard benefits " | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , i make your right son loads of women on here think they make all the rules, you gotta laugh I think it's refreshing that in a society that's basically patriarchal and where some women are still treated less equally in many areas that on such a site as this they can make whatever rules they like to enable them to meet whom they want, when they want.. And if you don't want to play by such rules some set there's always others who won't both on here and elsewhere.." proves my point, thanks love | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , i make your right son loads of women on here think they make all the rules, you gotta laugh I think it's refreshing that in a society that's basically patriarchal and where some women are still treated less equally in many areas that on such a site as this they can make whatever rules they like to enable them to meet whom they want, when they want.. And if you don't want to play by such rules some set there's always others who won't both on here and elsewhere.. proves my point, thanks love " I'm not your love.. Him.. | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , i make your right son loads of women on here think they make all the rules, you gotta laugh I think it's refreshing that in a society that's basically patriarchal and where some women are still treated less equally in many areas that on such a site as this they can make whatever rules they like to enable them to meet whom they want, when they want.. And if you don't want to play by such rules some set there's always others who won't both on here and elsewhere.. proves my point, thanks love I'm not your love.. Him.." Ahh yes calling a couple love. Good old fab etiquette rigjt out the window. | |||
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"You get more luck on ,Plenty of fish, and believe it or not Match.com, I have never come across such rude women as you find on here , , i make your right son loads of women on here think they make all the rules, you gotta laugh I think it's refreshing that in a society that's basically patriarchal and where some women are still treated less equally in many areas that on such a site as this they can make whatever rules they like to enable them to meet whom they want, when they want.. And if you don't want to play by such rules some set there's always others who won't both on here and elsewhere.. proves my point, thanks love I'm not your love.. Him.." wow who knew | |||
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"Well you could be open and see guys, as guys will always want to meet and there are plenty of places to meet bi and gay men. I have to say women have little to offer a guy nowadays and they are more trouble than they are worth. Sorry ladies but you are the gate keepers for sex and I have lost many years of my sex life thru relationships keeping that gate firmly shut. Even to mention zero sex life, you called a pervert and there is more to a relationship than sex? WRONG! I wished I'd known that when I was younger. If you are looking for a no strings attached hookup then meeting a guy is the best. You literally cum and leave and all are happy. If you want more then get a male friend(s) with benefits are good too. Plus literally going out with your male friends at weekends and holidays is so much more fun. Guy sex may give you the ick but I know my bank account would have been so much healthier by meeting guys during my lifetime. Not to mention one's own mental health. So give it a go." | |||
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"I’m married and can’t get it whenever I want never mind when I was single." Does your wife know? | |||
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"I’m married and can’t get it whenever I want never mind when I was single. Does your wife know?" That I’m married? I’d hope so | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x I think I've just gone back to Victorian times!!...I think I'll just get on with the cooking, cleaning and having babies.." Mmm, that smells lovely dear: what are you cooking? Boiled nappies | |||
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"I’m married and can’t get it whenever I want never mind when I was single. Does your wife know? That I’m married? I’d hope so" Noooooo. That you can't get sex | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 Women always get meets ??? Bs I had 4 blokes bail on me this week.... 🙄🤣" I didn't say women always get meets. Are you replying to someone else? | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x its 2024 this is life for the younger generation sub 40 " I might move to one of those blue zones then…. Get my old on with the oldest of them  | |||
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"Sorry ladies but you are the gate keepers for sex and I have lost many years of my sex life thru relationships keeping that gate firmly shut. " Damn right we're the gatekeepers of who gets to put their penis inside us. Nobody wants that from someone whose attitude is less than favourable | |||
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"its true i can get sex when ever i want but only because ive been on this scene so long i know lots n lot of men as well as my regulars.... but from a just a fab point of view finding a guy is very differcult as most women at the very least want some sort of sexual attraction and thats normally just the first thing and thats hard to find im not looking for ''love'' i have that as a very happy married woman ... a guy has it very very hard on this scene due to the sheer numbers and thats before selection /rejection its always been a hadrd scene for men even when the number of guys was way vway lower and thats not just fab that all swinging sites old ones included men have always had the bad end of the stick.... quite simply most guys on fab will get nowhere men and women think differently when it comes to sex and just from what we see on fab alot of men will shag anything its plain to see.. maybe fab should change its name and take the swinger bit out because 70% 80% are not swingers and that means swingers are not joining plus those leaving " FAB could really improve the user experience though. Why it hasn’t is beyond me. | |||
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"its true i can get sex when ever i want but only because ive been on this scene so long i know lots n lot of men as well as my regulars.... but from a just a fab point of view finding a guy is very differcult as most women at the very least want some sort of sexual attraction and thats normally just the first thing and thats hard to find im not looking for ''love'' i have that as a very happy married woman ... a guy has it very very hard on this scene due to the sheer numbers and thats before selection /rejection its always been a hadrd scene for men even when the number of guys was way vway lower and thats not just fab that all swinging sites old ones included men have always had the bad end of the stick.... quite simply most guys on fab will get nowhere men and women think differently when it comes to sex and just from what we see on fab alot of men will shag anything its plain to see.. maybe fab should change its name and take the swinger bit out because 70% 80% are not swingers and that means swingers are not joining plus those leaving FAB could really improve the user experience though. Why it hasn’t is beyond me. " It's really ancient, even the flex tape ain't holding. | |||
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"Sorry ladies but you are the gate keepers for sex and I have lost many years of my sex life thru relationships keeping that gate firmly shut. Damn right we're the gatekeepers of who gets to put their penis inside us. Nobody wants that from someone whose attitude is less than favourable " This has nothing to do with attitude if 36 years trying absolutely everything only to be put down time after time. The women on here are different, you are liberated. However, the women I married were at it like rabbits until the wedding ring went on their finger or they got kids. Then they didn't want to know what ever you did for them. It's seemed to me women generally don't need sex, but men do and that where the disconnect is. I have so many friends in the same position, my friend is 30 years of a sexless marriage. That makes mine 13 years of sexless marriage seen small. There are so many married men on these sites not getting sex at home. But still my point is that many women gatekeep sex to the extreme and have done for centuries. The courts are loaded against men, so what do you do, stay in a sexless marriage and have sex outside marriage or separate. My experience of women in 36 years in marriages has turned me bi or gay to fulfil the basic need for sex. | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " mate those site is hard work, not blowing my own but I can go into town and pull every weekend if I wanted and the ladies are of a very good standard, I don't class myself as good looking but I don't think I'm ugly, I think my success comes from being injected with a grammar phone needle | |||
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"Sorry ladies but you are the gate keepers for sex and I have lost many years of my sex life thru relationships keeping that gate firmly shut. Damn right we're the gatekeepers of who gets to put their penis inside us. Nobody wants that from someone whose attitude is less than favourable This has nothing to do with attitude if 36 years trying absolutely everything only to be put down time after time. The women on here are different, you are liberated. However, the women I married were at it like rabbits until the wedding ring went on their finger or they got kids. Then they didn't want to know what ever you did for them. It's seemed to me women generally don't need sex, but men do and that where the disconnect is. I have so many friends in the same position, my friend is 30 years of a sexless marriage. That makes mine 13 years of sexless marriage seen small. There are so many married men on these sites not getting sex at home. But still my point is that many women gatekeep sex to the extreme and have done for centuries. The courts are loaded against men, so what do you do, stay in a sexless marriage and have sex outside marriage or separate. My experience of women in 36 years in marriages has turned me bi or gay to fulfil the basic need for sex. " Whilst I sympathise with your relationship troubles, it's not the fault of women in general. We don't owe you sex and the only reason it could be perceived as being kept like that is because historically men have traded, monetised and managed women's bodies. Imagine, wanting to be in control of your own body. And also, the women who choose not to sleep with you are just as liberated as the ones on fab. Freedom is the right to choose to fuck or not to fuck | |||
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"Sorry ladies but you are the gate keepers for sex and I have lost many years of my sex life thru relationships keeping that gate firmly shut. Damn right we're the gatekeepers of who gets to put their penis inside us. Nobody wants that from someone whose attitude is less than favourable This has nothing to do with attitude if 36 years trying absolutely everything only to be put down time after time. The women on here are different, you are liberated. However, the women I married were at it like rabbits until the wedding ring went on their finger or they got kids. Then they didn't want to know what ever you did for them. It's seemed to me women generally don't need sex, but men do and that where the disconnect is. I have so many friends in the same position, my friend is 30 years of a sexless marriage. That makes mine 13 years of sexless marriage seen small. There are so many married men on these sites not getting sex at home. But still my point is that many women gatekeep sex to the extreme and have done for centuries. The courts are loaded against men, so what do you do, stay in a sexless marriage and have sex outside marriage or separate. My experience of women in 36 years in marriages has turned me bi or gay to fulfil the basic need for sex. Whilst I sympathise with your relationship troubles, it's not the fault of women in general. We don't owe you sex and the only reason it could be perceived as being kept like that is because historically men have traded, monetised and managed women's bodies. Imagine, wanting to be in control of your own body. And also, the women who choose not to sleep with you are just as liberated as the ones on fab. Freedom is the right to choose to fuck or not to fuck "Obviously, women do have the right to choose to have sex or not, as do men. However, when a wife stops the couple's sex life completely without resumption, then that has broken the phycological contract in the marriage. So unless there is a medical reason then alternative solutions should be actively sought, if not resentment will envelop the relationship. I mean, an occasional hand job would not have hurt anyone. The alternative is to spend a lifetime feeling constant resentment, even if you are under the false illusion that being supportive to your partner is the best solution. | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " It’s not from the lack of not trying and if you try to hard you become a sex pest and annoying then get blocked it’s a no win situation | |||
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"Sorry ladies but you are the gate keepers for sex and I have lost many years of my sex life thru relationships keeping that gate firmly shut. Damn right we're the gatekeepers of who gets to put their penis inside us. Nobody wants that from someone whose attitude is less than favourable This has nothing to do with attitude if 36 years trying absolutely everything only to be put down time after time. The women on here are different, you are liberated. However, the women I married were at it like rabbits until the wedding ring went on their finger or they got kids. Then they didn't want to know what ever you did for them. It's seemed to me women generally don't need sex, but men do and that where the disconnect is. I have so many friends in the same position, my friend is 30 years of a sexless marriage. That makes mine 13 years of sexless marriage seen small. There are so many married men on these sites not getting sex at home. But still my point is that many women gatekeep sex to the extreme and have done for centuries. The courts are loaded against men, so what do you do, stay in a sexless marriage and have sex outside marriage or separate. My experience of women in 36 years in marriages has turned me bi or gay to fulfil the basic need for sex. Whilst I sympathise with your relationship troubles, it's not the fault of women in general. We don't owe you sex and the only reason it could be perceived as being kept like that is because historically men have traded, monetised and managed women's bodies. Imagine, wanting to be in control of your own body. And also, the women who choose not to sleep with you are just as liberated as the ones on fab. Freedom is the right to choose to fuck or not to fuck
Obviously, women do have the right to choose to have sex or not, as do men. However, when a wife stops the couple's sex life completely without resumption, then that has broken the phycological contract in the marriage. So unless there is a medical reason then alternative solutions should be actively sought, if not resentment will envelop the relationship. I mean, an occasional hand job would not have hurt anyone.
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"I’m going to say it and risk getting put on the naughty step but… “FAB is like a landline. Everyone has one they just don’t really use it that much” That was said to me by a couple who’ve been swinging for nearly 20 years at a club night a few weeks back. Anyone who belongs to a club will likely have access to a private forum, telegram or WhatsApp group. Vast majority of private meets are organised on those channels. Not here. FAB also has a hierarchical structure which is toxic. Single women Couples Single men Now I won’t argue that single men on here can be awful. This isn’t about receiving nasty messages so I’m not going to answer anyone who takes the whataboutism angle. In order to have a great connection and experience you need to find compatibility and mutual interest. Understanding and respect. It is a shared experience after all and when you have a hierarchy the balance to find that ground just isn’t there. You should be speaking to one another as equals and seeing if you click. There are women and couples on here that know this for the record but they are the exception to the rule. Go out to a club or a social and you’ll see the interaction is a lot more balanced. FAB really is broken in this regard. FAB could and should improve the way it works on here. For starters photo verification should be mandatory when signing up and in order to send DM’s you should be a site supporter. It’ll cut down on the fake accounts bombarding and wasting time. I also think that you could and should try some of the other avenues out there. You’re a handsome fella. People are going to want to get to know you. " You forgot the TV/TS, we come below all the other gender types. I sometimes get morose and think "it's so much easier for cis women". But I'm pretty sure that the world is not actually that simple, and though there are some cis women who might find it easy to get the sex they want, I bet that the majority have just as many difficulties as trans women do, or even as men do. The difficulties might be different for different genders, but there are difficulties nonetheless. Cis women could get _some_ type of sex fairly easily, but then I could get _some_ type of sex really easily as well. It's just that being used as a cum dump by some unattractive guy who doesn't give a damn whether I'm enjoying it or not, is not really the type of sex I fancy. And you know, I can imagine that most cis women don't really fancy being used like that either. So guys, next time you think "yeah women can get sex whenever they want", maybe think a little more about just how crappy that sex would be that they could get so easily. Because, you know that you could get that crappy sex as well just as easily. Just don't expect that you'll actually enjoy it. Now mouths wide open boys... swallow... and smile... | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " To be a horny woman on this site, wouldn’t be short of attention, it’s a complete sausage fest | |||
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"I’m going to say it and risk getting put on the naughty step but… “FAB is like a landline. Everyone has one they just don’t really use it that much” That was said to me by a couple who’ve been swinging for nearly 20 years at a club night a few weeks back. Anyone who belongs to a club will likely have access to a private forum, telegram or WhatsApp group. Vast majority of private meets are organised on those channels. Not here. FAB also has a hierarchical structure which is toxic. Single women Couples Single men Now I won’t argue that single men on here can be awful. This isn’t about receiving nasty messages so I’m not going to answer anyone who takes the whataboutism angle. In order to have a great connection and experience you need to find compatibility and mutual interest. Understanding and respect. It is a shared experience after all and when you have a hierarchy the balance to find that ground just isn’t there. You should be speaking to one another as equals and seeing if you click. There are women and couples on here that know this for the record but they are the exception to the rule. Go out to a club or a social and you’ll see the interaction is a lot more balanced. FAB really is broken in this regard. FAB could and should improve the way it works on here. For starters photo verification should be mandatory when signing up and in order to send DM’s you should be a site supporter. It’ll cut down on the fake accounts bombarding and wasting time. I also think that you could and should try some of the other avenues out there. You’re a handsome fella. People are going to want to get to know you. You forgot the TV/TS, we come below all the other gender types. I sometimes get morose and think "it's so much easier for cis women". But I'm pretty sure that the world is not actually that simple, and though there are some cis women who might find it easy to get the sex they want, I bet that the majority have just as many difficulties as trans women do, or even as men do. The difficulties might be different for different genders, but there are difficulties nonetheless. Cis women could get _some_ type of sex fairly easily, but then I could get _some_ type of sex really easily as well. It's just that being used as a cum dump by some unattractive guy who doesn't give a damn whether I'm enjoying it or not, is not really the type of sex I fancy. And you know, I can imagine that most cis women don't really fancy being used like that either. So guys, next time you think "yeah women can get sex whenever they want", maybe think a little more about just how crappy that sex would be that they could get so easily. Because, you know that you could get that crappy sex as well just as easily. Just don't expect that you'll actually enjoy it. Now mouths wide open boys... swallow... and smile..." That’s not what I’m saying though. My critique is that often single men are told that they’re not trying hard enough. Of course that is true for a lot on here but for some it really isn’t the case at all. My personal experience has been me doing the bulk of the leg work when it comes to messaging. There’s been a few exceptions but generally my conversations are always the same. Couples even expect it. They’re looking for a single man to join them but I’m the one expected to chase them. I’m the one who is expected to jump through hoops. Why not meet me somewhere halfway and I don’t know, perhaps give me a reason as to why I would want to meet and spend time with them. I think trying harder isn’t always the answer. Trying other avenues might be. | |||
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"Start by stopping the vague terms. meet means what exactly Looking for fun means what Body count means what.. All of those are irrelevant ...stop hunting for whatever has a hole or pulse and get to know what you're honestly after..if it's just a hole and a pulse. Accept that your choice will eliminate other choices... If you can't be bothered to read a profile and say what you mea, then what you say is meaningless " I'm Looking for a fun, friendly person/people who don't just want a 'fuck and go'. Let's have a glass of wine, maybe watch a movie? I'm not looking for a relationship but, for the most part, if I'm wanting to hook up, I'd like it to have the feel of a date. (Even if it ends with a drink in my face and a taxi home!) I ALWAYS read profiles, if I think you're hot but your profile is empty or you don't seem like you're for me, it doesn't matter how hot. I also wouldn't menage someone who I know wouldn't want me. Anyone who says "gym fit" for example, you're not going to like me. Reading profiles and saying what you mean may well be the best way but, it's not worked for me. And that's ok. As others have said, no one of OWED sex. I do still think claiming that guys who don't get anywhere is simply because they don't try is madness. | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 To be a horny woman on this site, wouldn’t be short of attention, it’s a complete sausage fest " Depends if you like Tesco finest or Richmond | |||
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"I’m going to say it and risk getting put on the naughty step but… “FAB is like a landline. Everyone has one they just don’t really use it that much” That was said to me by a couple who’ve been swinging for nearly 20 years at a club night a few weeks back. Anyone who belongs to a club will likely have access to a private forum, telegram or WhatsApp group. Vast majority of private meets are organised on those channels. Not here. FAB also has a hierarchical structure which is toxic. Single women Couples Single men Now I won’t argue that single men on here can be awful. This isn’t about receiving nasty messages so I’m not going to answer anyone who takes the whataboutism angle. In order to have a great connection and experience you need to find compatibility and mutual interest. Understanding and respect. It is a shared experience after all and when you have a hierarchy the balance to find that ground just isn’t there. You should be speaking to one another as equals and seeing if you click. There are women and couples on here that know this for the record but they are the exception to the rule. Go out to a club or a social and you’ll see the interaction is a lot more balanced. FAB really is broken in this regard. FAB could and should improve the way it works on here. For starters photo verification should be mandatory when signing up and in order to send DM’s you should be a site supporter. It’ll cut down on the fake accounts bombarding and wasting time. I also think that you could and should try some of the other avenues out there. You’re a handsome fella. People are going to want to get to know you. You forgot the TV/TS, we come below all the other gender types. I sometimes get morose and think "it's so much easier for cis women". But I'm pretty sure that the world is not actually that simple, and though there are some cis women who might find it easy to get the sex they want, I bet that the majority have just as many difficulties as trans women do, or even as men do. The difficulties might be different for different genders, but there are difficulties nonetheless. Cis women could get _some_ type of sex fairly easily, but then I could get _some_ type of sex really easily as well. It's just that being used as a cum dump by some unattractive guy who doesn't give a damn whether I'm enjoying it or not, is not really the type of sex I fancy. And you know, I can imagine that most cis women don't really fancy being used like that either. So guys, next time you think "yeah women can get sex whenever they want", maybe think a little more about just how crappy that sex would be that they could get so easily. Because, you know that you could get that crappy sex as well just as easily. Just don't expect that you'll actually enjoy it. Now mouths wide open boys... swallow... and smile... That’s not what I’m saying though. My critique is that often single men are told that they’re not trying hard enough. Of course that is true for a lot on here but for some it really isn’t the case at all. My personal experience has been me doing the bulk of the leg work when it comes to messaging. There’s been a few exceptions but generally my conversations are always the same. Couples even expect it. They’re looking for a single man to join them but I’m the one expected to chase them. I’m the one who is expected to jump through hoops. Why not meet me somewhere halfway and I don’t know, perhaps give me a reason as to why I would want to meet and spend time with them. I think trying harder isn’t always the answer. Trying other avenues might be. " Is there an element of I’m on here so I need to make it work, rather than asking does this site work for me? | |||
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"Women can literally almost have sex whenever they want it, any woman who thinks men can get sex as easily as them are delusional quite frankly!! I hate the new toxic generation of women who are so judgemental of men to the point that they almost hate them and treat the like dirt. Men nowadays must be so confused how to act as modern women have them believing that they need to be masculine yet feminine, strong yet vulnerable, aggressive yet timid and all at the same time as being everything to all women, being over 6ft and earning over 6 figures! Oh and men need to be ok with women having an extremely high body count and must be grateful to have her even though she doesn't cook, clean or want any kids and does only fans. What a catch!! Oh! I've triggered myself!! Lol! Mrs x " Haha brilliant and well put | |||
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"It's because you're not trying apparently... Seems some women think men can/should just get laid wherever they want and if that's not happening, it's because youndont want it so, you should get off fab? Am I wrong to be irritated by being told that my failure in getting meets is due to me not wanting to or making no effort? (To be honest, I don't care about the topic, people telling me what I think and feel ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way!) but, literally being told "if you want to get laid, just do it, it's not hard Otherwise, quit fab" has irked me! 😂 " Most women on here and even out in the real world outside of fab how difficult it is and often demoralising to get even a conversation with a woman to even ask her out fir a drink. If we dare say anything we get the sort of response like the one you experience. Women fo not have to try to get a partner for whatever reason. So think it's easy fir men | |||
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"I’m going to say it and risk getting put on the naughty step but… “FAB is like a landline. Everyone has one they just don’t really use it that much” That was said to me by a couple who’ve been swinging for nearly 20 years at a club night a few weeks back. Anyone who belongs to a club will likely have access to a private forum, telegram or WhatsApp group. Vast majority of private meets are organised on those channels. Not here. FAB also has a hierarchical structure which is toxic. Single women Couples Single men Now I won’t argue that single men on here can be awful. This isn’t about receiving nasty messages so I’m not going to answer anyone who takes the whataboutism angle. In order to have a great connection and experience you need to find compatibility and mutual interest. Understanding and respect. It is a shared experience after all and when you have a hierarchy the balance to find that ground just isn’t there. You should be speaking to one another as equals and seeing if you click. There are women and couples on here that know this for the record but they are the exception to the rule. Go out to a club or a social and you’ll see the interaction is a lot more balanced. FAB really is broken in this regard. FAB could and should improve the way it works on here. For starters photo verification should be mandatory when signing up and in order to send DM’s you should be a site supporter. It’ll cut down on the fake accounts bombarding and wasting time. I also think that you could and should try some of the other avenues out there. You’re a handsome fella. People are going to want to get to know you. You forgot the TV/TS, we come below all the other gender types. I sometimes get morose and think "it's so much easier for cis women". But I'm pretty sure that the world is not actually that simple, and though there are some cis women who might find it easy to get the sex they want, I bet that the majority have just as many difficulties as trans women do, or even as men do. The difficulties might be different for different genders, but there are difficulties nonetheless. Cis women could get _some_ type of sex fairly easily, but then I could get _some_ type of sex really easily as well. It's just that being used as a cum dump by some unattractive guy who doesn't give a damn whether I'm enjoying it or not, is not really the type of sex I fancy. And you know, I can imagine that most cis women don't really fancy being used like that either. So guys, next time you think "yeah women can get sex whenever they want", maybe think a little more about just how crappy that sex would be that they could get so easily. Because, you know that you could get that crappy sex as well just as easily. Just don't expect that you'll actually enjoy it. Now mouths wide open boys... swallow... and smile... That’s not what I’m saying though. My critique is that often single men are told that they’re not trying hard enough. Of course that is true for a lot on here but for some it really isn’t the case at all. My personal experience has been me doing the bulk of the leg work when it comes to messaging. There’s been a few exceptions but generally my conversations are always the same. Couples even expect it. They’re looking for a single man to join them but I’m the one expected to chase them. I’m the one who is expected to jump through hoops. Why not meet me somewhere halfway and I don’t know, perhaps give me a reason as to why I would want to meet and spend time with them. I think trying harder isn’t always the answer. Trying other avenues might be. Is there an element of I’m on here so I need to make it work, rather than asking does this site work for me? " Yeah, I’ll admit that. There was an element when I first started out on here. I don’t plan on leaving FAB (sorry to disappoint you all) but how I use it has definitely changed. I enjoy talking to people and I would like to meet some in real life from the forums at a social but FAB just gets too demoralising at times. | |||
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