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"£800 for a nail and two hair extensions? 👀" stander if you get decent quality exertions | |||
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"A one night stand? No. I’d feel a sense of owing him something. " even tho she has no idea how much they cost she just turned up got them done and left | |||
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"£800? What the beep? " if we take the amount out of it would you let a guy fix what he help break ? | |||
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"I'm sorry, did you say £800??" for what she does and had done it's a fair price | |||
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"£800? What the beep? if we take the amount out of it would you let a guy fix what he help break ?" No, because if I’m normally paying for my own nails and hair upkeep I would already account the cost into my lifestyle. Not necessitating a man to pay for it. There’s also a sense of well he paid for it, and now what is he expecting? A ONS is that full stop. Seems weird to me overall. I’d feel funny about it. | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. " it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while | |||
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"I'm sorry, did you say £800?? for what she does and had done it's a fair price " £800 for two extensions exceeds most high end London hair extension salon prices, and that would be master stylists who are world renowned. | |||
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"I'm sorry, did you say £800?? for what she does and had done it's a fair price " What was the womans name you had the one night stand with, Rapunzel?? Sorry OP that is a very steep price. And to answer you original question OP, no I wouldn't allow it. | |||
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"£800? What the beep? if we take the amount out of it would you let a guy fix what he help break ? No, because if I’m normally paying for my own nails and hair upkeep I would already account the cost into my lifestyle. Not necessitating a man to pay for it. There’s also a sense of well he paid for it, and now what is he expecting? A ONS is that full stop. Seems weird to me overall. I’d feel funny about it. " Exactly what Bella says. I have natural quite long nails, shoulder length curly 3a/b hair. I like to get it blowdried and I know there's a likelihood it won't stay that way. I'd never want a casual dynamic to pay for it. | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while " Her hair extensions came out - she could have taken them back to a salon and had them re-glued back in. Most nail places can fix a nail for roughly a tenner! You've had a one night stand with the woman. Everything you done after OP , is incredibly weird and like your trying to own someone you don't even know. And from her side she's just taken you for a complete ride. She knows full well how much roughly you've spent even if she wasnt handed a bill. The woman clearly isn't stupid. She gets a new look and you get an £800 bill, it really is not right. This is all very weird behaviour | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while " I hope she was a good fuck! | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while " I can't see a problem really. I wouldn't accept such a gift after only knowing you for one night but you're not saying this is payment to her of any kind...other people are. | |||
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"Wouldn't ask, wouldn't expect, wouldn't accept." This. Mrs | |||
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"Also if anyone has taken advantage of you it's the friend who replaced an entire head of extensions and did a manicure and pedicure" This was kinda my angle too I am giving the OP the benefit of my normally cynical doubt here in that he put something right that he didn't necessarily need to I am still exasperated at the cost though My ex Mrs had expensive tastes but, £800, fkin ell  | |||
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"Did you manage to snap her toenails too? " 🤣 | |||
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"A one night stand? No. I’d feel a sense of owing him something. even tho she has no idea how much they cost she just turned up got them done and left " But surely she'd know what hair extensions cost if she had them in the first place? | |||
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"Your catching a lot of flak here OP but I figure if you don't mind and she doesn't mind then everyone is a winner. " Not really flak. He asked what people thought and it just seems that most people seem to think it's a little odd. An £800 gift is quite extravagant, no matter who the person is, but unusual for someone you barely know. Very kind of him though, and, as you say, if he's happy it doesn't really matter what a bunch of strangers on the internet think! | |||
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"£800? What the beep? if we take the amount out of it would you let a guy fix what he help break ?" No.. | |||
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" even tho she has no idea how much they cost she just turned up got them done and left " Which is strange as normally they'd book you to come in for an assessment appointment first to check on the type of extensions you have in currently, and provide a color match, and then also assess how long the appointment would need to be for. It's not like a quick blow n go  | |||
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"Also if anyone has taken advantage of you it's the friend who replaced an entire head of extensions and did a manicure and pedicure" Yeah i agree with this.. But also if this is what the girl regularly pays, then she knows exactly what it cost? | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while Her hair extensions came out - she could have taken them back to a salon and had them re-glued back in. Most nail places can fix a nail for roughly a tenner! You've had a one night stand with the woman. Everything you done after OP , is incredibly weird and like your trying to own someone you don't even know. And from her side she's just taken you for a complete ride. She knows full well how much roughly you've spent even if she wasnt handed a bill. The woman clearly isn't stupid. She gets a new look and you get an £800 bill, it really is not right. This is all very weird behaviour " I concur.. So strange | |||
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"I have a question for you lovely ladies would you let a guy you just had a one night stand with pay for the hair and nails? a very quick back story I met a woman for a one night stand during the night's activities she managed to break a nail and 2 of her hair extensions came out . she never asked me to pay for them or anything of that manner but we did have food and she mentioned how she couldn't get booked in for a while to get it fixed. I decided to call a very good friend and get her hair and nails sorted and I paid for it . my friend and I were talking and when she found out it was a one night stand she said she would never accept or expect a guy to do that and thinks at a minimum she should pay for half (bill was £800) . my opinion is she never asked I booked it off my own back and never though anything of it again just put my card down and got on with my life . what do you think ? my friend did mention she never told her the price as the hair she took out was of a lower quality so in her words " she kept her my mouth shut thinking it was my new fling " " Wish I’d broke my nail 💅 with you! But I’ve always paid for my own nails 💅… and never had hair extensions….. but your a very generous human to repay what was broke during carnals 😈 🥷🫦 | |||
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"Wouldn't ask, wouldn't expect, wouldn't accept." ^^ this 💯 And tbh goes for relationships too. I pay my own way in life. Always | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while " If you were happy to pay for it, with no obligation for anything, then I'm glad you are happy OP. However the potential for a glossy apple, to con free stuff out of unsuspecting kind people is high and I really hope, this isn't the case, but unfortunately suspect, that it is  | |||
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"£800 for a nail and two hair extensions? 👀" Yes my thoughts wow ! I must be living under a rock or just a country girl ...800 faints ! I wouldn't except although a kind offer | |||
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Crikey on a bike!
Glad I'm not into all that beauty stuff if £800 is the going rate!
Not sure why you would do something like that, I certainly wouldn't accept it
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"I have made 2 mistakes here , 1, putting the price was poorly thought through and not really the point, shame you can't edit it but anyway we move on . 2, i should have just offered to pay and let her sort it helping out if accepted. it needs to be clear it was not a payment for her service, the friend had no idea it was for a one night stand as I never told her the favour was doing it very last minute and the price is a standard price she charges many of the females in my family and has for as long as I can remember. she never asked for a full head I got a call saying they would not match do I want to pay to have it all done? I said sure never to be thought about again . for the nuts in the inbox saying I have changed her hair and attempted to control her by offering her things she can't afford .......wack job fuck off . no she is not on this app .......I don't think so and never asked. her name ! yeah not happening . you can do it cheaper ....bit late now isn't it where was the salon ....hmmmm no ! I won't be given the name as wack jobs will give her hate . also fully take all responsibility for all the hate I am getting as I should have thought about it first tbh. it was a conversation we where having and I wanted more options as I was loosing the argument of who the fuck does that for a one night stand " You shouldn't have paid for anything, unless it was deliberate on your part, or she said don't pull my hair because I have extensions and you ignored her. I'm not sure why you think it was your responsibility just because this happened during sex. If she had squirted over your bed and ruined the mattress would you have expected her to buy a new one? | |||
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"I think personally she took you for a ride by giving you a slight sob story saying she couldn't afford to pay for it. Of course she can, having hair extensions and nail extensions she already knows the upkeep of both. £800 to replace 2 hair extensions and fix some broken nails is just ridiculous OP and I really think you need to think twice before flashing the card next time. it was not 800 to replace 2 she got then al taken out and new ones in as plus her nails and toes done . she never really said she could not afford but more could not get booked ik for a while " So basically you just paid for her makeover? 
And in answer to your question, no way! I would never let anyone - let alone a one night stand - pay for my upkeep. I find it creepy and controlling that he would do that.
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