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By *langieB OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Cleator Moor

Started at the gym with a friend a couple month ago, as I needed the additional motivation.

Just wondering what motivates people to go to the gym (or other fitness routine), and how often do you do it?

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

South Wales

The men in shorts. Their thigh muscles quivering in tension.

About every 12 years.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Being fat and not wanting to be any fatter.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Being fat and not wanting to be any fatter."

And 6 times a week.

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By *r John WickMan
9 weeks ago

The Continental

Being too fat, and not wanting to die.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

I go once a week but that's because I need help and can only afford a PT once a week. I go because I like having hench shoulders and arms and I need good upper body strength to self propel.

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By *immy PMan
9 weeks ago

nottingham via worksop

usually x3 unless i'm lazy... once you start it just gets you.. also the gym leggings and toned thighs on the ladies is always a bonus...

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
9 weeks ago

belfast

Usually go three times a week. Go to keep myself in shape. Not been in a good few months though due to illness.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
9 weeks ago

Flagrante

Definitely need to when you get older so that you don't become totally sedentary. Just back from the gym now and go 3 to 4 times a week.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"Definitely need to when you get older so that you don't become totally sedentary. Just back from the gym now and go 3 to 4 times a week."

I can't go to the gym for at least 4wks. I'm sad

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

That I feel physically and mentally better for it. When it's part of my weekly routine it's easier to motivate myself. Also avoiding the DOMS you get after having a break . I go twice a week and 3 times when I can fit it in.

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

That simple line from Friday

"Stop being a bitch and come on!"

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I like bad food so if I don’t exercise I get fat. I hate the gym and I’m not really a fan of swimming, and I’m currently injured so can’t run. Sadly it has to be swimming but in a groove and go three times a week.

It is working though.

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By *8on33Man
9 weeks ago

winfrith

absolutely nothing .

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York

The Rocky soundtrack

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By *r SensualMan
9 weeks ago

London

That “feel good” feeling after a session is done mostly. Also gives me a sense of accomplishment before the day has even begun as I train early mornings…

I go to the gym on average 4-5 times a week depending on my schedule

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By *b750Couple
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Nothing

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By *hillenCouple
9 weeks ago

Borehamwood

Join a martial arts club (doesn't matter which discipline) as there's a ready made group dynamic which can motivate you to attend.

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By *aven.Woman
9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Motivation? Desire to have a flat stomach

How often? I last went on Thursday. In 2009. I expect I'll be going again any day now.

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By *929Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle

The never ending desire to get bigger/always thinking look too small and scrawny. Plus lifting weights is fun

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester


"That “feel good” feeling after a session is done mostly. Also gives me a sense of accomplishment before the day has even begun as I train early mornings…

I go to the gym on average 4-5 times a week depending on my schedule "

I'd go to his gym!

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9 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Assholes motivate me to not go. Thanks TicToc … or other leading social media outlets.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

I don't rely on motivation as it can be fleeting.

Regular gym going is a habit and it's one I love. Its also underpinned by tangible goals.

Good luck on your fitness journey OP.

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By *orny entitiesCouple
9 weeks ago

lincoln

To look great naked… sums it up

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincoln

Lift heavy rock make sad voice quiet.

LvM

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Lift heavy rock make sad voice quiet.

LvM"

And ability to lift big butts yes?

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

What actually motivates me though is wanting to hit that magic combo of looking and feeling good. It helps my mental health and I used to be really fat. I'm roughly the same weight I was at my heaviest but I'm not as squishy.

I go 4x a week now with 2 upper days and 2 lower days. It's either that or I do 3 full body days.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincoln


"Lift heavy rock make sad voice quiet.

LvM

And ability to lift big butts yes?"

Of course, how else am I going to manage that standing 69 position? 😈

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I go 5 times a week and I guess what keeps me motivated is seeing the results in the mirror and and also progressing in various lifts that makes me feel accomplished

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York


"I don't rely on motivation as it can be fleeting.

Regular gym going is a habit and it's one I love. Its also underpinned by tangible goals.

Good luck on your fitness journey OP. "

I can tell you're special just from this message

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By *ostindreamsMan
9 weeks ago

London

I like going on long hikes but I do that only once a month. I need to keep my fitness going in order to do those long hikes.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best."

We have a PB bell at my gym. When someone hits their PB. We all hug the guy who did it and high five too.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best."

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

*GYM bros 🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

We have a PB bell at my gym. When someone hits their PB. We all hug the guy who did it and high five too. "

See… this is proper gym culture. Everyone hyping each other up. We need one at my gym.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester


"Lift heavy rock make sad voice quiet.

LvM"

This made me laugh out loud!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it. "

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

We have a PB bell at my gym. When someone hits their PB. We all hug the guy who did it and high five too. "

Hugs heh? Interesting.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

We have a PB bell at my gym. When someone hits their PB. We all hug the guy who did it and high five too.

Hugs heh? Interesting."

Yes now come here. Free hugs for all 😉

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

We have a PB bell at my gym. When someone hits their PB. We all hug the guy who did it and high five too.

Hugs heh? Interesting.

Yes now come here. Free hugs for all 😉"

I'll apologise first, my hands may be slippery with all that sweat and might wander down.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West

To be honest, what motivates me is me wanting to be healthy and maintaining that body.

I've always been active since school. It is nice to receive compliments from other gym goers too.

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By *rSuave88Man
9 weeks ago

Mirfield

To feel strong. To be active. For mental clarity. Overall wellness. Isnt that motivation enough?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym."

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Whereas I used to smoke and eat whatever. I stopped smoking and carried on (if not gone worse with) my terrible eating habits

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By *929Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym."

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew "

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

We have a PB bell at my gym. When someone hits their PB. We all hug the guy who did it and high five too.

Hugs heh? Interesting.

Yes now come here. Free hugs for all 😉

I'll apologise first, my hands may be slippery with all that sweat and might wander down."

I'm all yours

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy."

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it "

Agreed. I get why people get intimidated. But honestly gym culture is amazing. Guys helping out girls, guys helping out guys, girls helping out girls. We all want everyone to be the best version of themselves.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it "

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

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By *heer Indulgence PartiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Leicestershire


"The men in shorts. Their thigh muscles quivering in tension.

About every 12 years."

This though I go 4 times ish a week … gotta keep my eyes peeled for those quivering thighs !

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way). "

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it."

I did the Iron Man tournament this year. Honestly I couldn't have done it without all my mates at the gym, who gave me tips to prepare

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
9 weeks ago

Mid-Sussex

I just like to stay fit,also there's some nice girls that go there.

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By *929Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Agreed. I get why people get intimidated. But honestly gym culture is amazing. Guys helping out girls, guys helping out guys, girls helping out girls. We all want everyone to be the best version of themselves. "

Definitely mate I love the culture there everyone helping each other out, encouraging ect never been in a place that’s as friendly and inclusive as the gym

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

I did the Iron Man tournament this year. Honestly I couldn't have done it without all my mates at the gym, who gave me tips to prepare "

You’re a braver man than me. The thought of doing that scares the shit out of me

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire

i dont use the gym anymore,, workout in the garage i have bench and weights it keeps me ok

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By *agic.MMan
9 weeks ago

Orpington

Well...I found out it's one of the best way to deal with my anxiety, stress, frustration...it helps me be more calm, focused, disciplined and self control... it makes me feel fit and strong and healthy...and as a result I got this sexy body that's really good at doing the sex thing, as well ...who would've thought 👀

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By *929Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it."

It’s funny how the regulars tent to gravitate towards each other and become so friendly often like you say with few words said haha

I trained at home most the time I trained only joined a gym a few years back to get a bit of a social life after becoming single, made some great friends in thst time, have gotten numerous jobs through the gym also, been invited on holiday ect all lovely interactions I wouldn’t have had if not been at the gym

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them."

There can be motivation found from the dickheads though. Like having better strength gains than the random man offering me unsolicited advice and "correcting" my personal trainer and physiotherapist designed exercise programme .

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"What motivates you to go to the gym?"

Nothing. There were a number of years when I went every working day, but some idiot changed my gym into AbFab & Kestrel. So replaced gym with cycling and cannot justify the expense of gyms in the area.

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By *otcplmidsCouple
9 weeks ago

Warwick

I'd rather starve than go to a gym...I keep signing memberships and never go. Sexercise I could do a few times a week

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By *olden RatioWoman
9 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Things which bring me joy are the ones that I always want to do, such as dance, yoga, reformer pilates.

Anything that I have to find motivation for is a non-starter.

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By *ocktails23Man
9 weeks ago

Croydon/Kent

I go to the gym 5 times a week, for me it’s become a routine that keeps me feeling fit and it’s great for your mental health. It also teaches you discipline and makes you want to be a healthier person in general. Meeting some amazing people makes it a lot of fun too.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
9 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Being fat and shattered

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9 weeks ago


"Things which bring me joy are the ones that I always want to do, such as dance, yoga, reformer pilates.

Anything that I have to find motivation for is a non-starter."

I have to admit, I started doing Pilates this year and it's something I really have to find motivation for because I hate how inflexible I feel during it, but keep going as it does generally help me

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By *hilloutMan
9 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The results and the increased self confidence and general vitality it provides.

Shirts are hard enough to shop for for my body shape. Now I'll have to drop a trouser size by the look of things 😅

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Nothing on this great earth.

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By *ock O ManMan
9 weeks ago

Farnborough

3 to 4 times a week. I do it to ward off weight gain, maintain strength, and I like how it makes me feel afterwards. I’ve been going regularly now for a couple of years and I definitely feel better for it.

Any exercise would probably have a similar effect if done regularly and intensely enough. But I find the gym gives me a space where I can focus on working out and the routine of going helps me keep it up over time. (When I say keep it uo, I mean keeping exercise up, never had an issue keeping anything else up! Or maybe that’s because of the gym!??).

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By *929Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them.

There can be motivation found from the dickheads though. Like having better strength gains than the random man offering me unsolicited advice and "correcting" my personal trainer and physiotherapist designed exercise programme ."

Haha there’s always those types in every gym there’s this bloke at our gym who has a bit size but is easily 25%+ bodyfat (not a knock at his appearance just mentioned to highlight the ridiculousness of it all) was once telling big Leroy (who is ifbb pro sized) he was training wrong and should be doing it this way, Leroy is far too nice to tell him to fuck off and was actually going along with it just to keep him quiet haha

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

It’s funny how the regulars tent to gravitate towards each other and become so friendly often like you say with few words said haha

I trained at home most the time I trained only joined a gym a few years back to get a bit of a social life after becoming single, made some great friends in thst time, have gotten numerous jobs through the gym also, been invited on holiday ect all lovely interactions I wouldn’t have had if not been at the gym

"

I changed gym a few months back so I’m still working things out but I’ve still met a few good people in there.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Absolutely nothing. Probably why I've never been to one 💜

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them.

There can be motivation found from the dickheads though. Like having better strength gains than the random man offering me unsolicited advice and "correcting" my personal trainer and physiotherapist designed exercise programme ."

There’s always someone who thinks they know better. Some of the greatest bodybuilders of all time have terrible form based on the advice they give out these days and it’s never harmed them.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

I did the Iron Man tournament this year. Honestly I couldn't have done it without all my mates at the gym, who gave me tips to prepare

You’re a braver man than me. The thought of doing that scares the shit out of me "

I was drained physically for a week and half afterwards. I loved it but fucking hell haha

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them.

There can be motivation found from the dickheads though. Like having better strength gains than the random man offering me unsolicited advice and "correcting" my personal trainer and physiotherapist designed exercise programme ."

I had someone in my old gym who changed the setting and weight on a machine I was using when I was taking a breather. He told me it would be better that way.

He got told where to go.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
9 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Nothing, absolutely nothing could motivate me to see the inside of a gym, the last one I was in was at school.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

I did the Iron Man tournament this year. Honestly I couldn't have done it without all my mates at the gym, who gave me tips to prepare

You’re a braver man than me. The thought of doing that scares the shit out of me

I was drained physically for a week and half afterwards. I loved it but fucking hell haha "

Are you doing it again?

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them.

There can be motivation found from the dickheads though. Like having better strength gains than the random man offering me unsolicited advice and "correcting" my personal trainer and physiotherapist designed exercise programme .

Haha there’s always those types in every gym there’s this bloke at our gym who has a bit size but is easily 25%+ bodyfat (not a knock at his appearance just mentioned to highlight the ridiculousness of it all) was once telling big Leroy (who is ifbb pro sized) he was training wrong and should be doing it this way, Leroy is far too nice to tell him to fuck off and was actually going along with it just to keep him quiet haha "

It's funny because if they never seem to just be slightly wrong, always monumentally so . I had a guy telling me I needed to stretch my hamstrings more. I can put my hands flat on the floor without bending me knees, I think they're flexible enough .

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By *aramel.desiresMan
9 weeks ago

London

Motivation.

I'm a real believer in looking after one's self otherwise your body just waste away. Its good for mental health and to destress. Having nice proportions means your clothes look great on your especially a suit.

Other benefits look the eye candy in the gyms and have total respect for all spapes who are trying to look after themselves.

I try and visit about 3-6 times a week.

If gym is not for you try a different sport. Football, swimming, running club. Boxing, martial arts or Mix it up but Just some something.

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Some of the gym bros are quite invested in my lifting progress. I have my own hype crew

And I bet it gives you that little bit extra when you’re lifting heavy.

It's nice to be included and for the dudes to be genuinely impressed (not in a condescending way).

I find (other than the odd dickhead) everyone is equal in the gym. We all have goals and we’re all there to smash them.

There can be motivation found from the dickheads though. Like having better strength gains than the random man offering me unsolicited advice and "correcting" my personal trainer and physiotherapist designed exercise programme .

I had someone in my old gym who changed the setting and weight on a machine I was using when I was taking a breather. He told me it would be better that way.

He got told where to go."

How rude!

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
9 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Just wondering what motivates people to go to the gym (or other fitness routine), and how often do you do it?"

I'm someone who can't just go and train. I need a reason to go. It used to be playing sports and now I do Tough Mudders.

That way I have goal, it shapes my training and there is a sense of achievement.

Another hand tip I got from someone else who also suffers with depression is looking at classes.

Training on your own is extra mental load and can take serious discipline.

Whereas with classes, you just rock up in your gear, with your towel and water bottle and someone tells you what to do.

And if you are going to a class consistently you will meet people and make friends

Hope that helps

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By *alty surpriseMan
9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Motivation...just think if you don't do it ..no one will do it for you !....I exercise because afterwards it makes you feel great

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

I did the Iron Man tournament this year. Honestly I couldn't have done it without all my mates at the gym, who gave me tips to prepare

You’re a braver man than me. The thought of doing that scares the shit out of me

I was drained physically for a week and half afterwards. I loved it but fucking hell haha

Are you doing it again?"

Maybe not next year. I'm after doing a few other challenges. I want to do the Three Peaks Race soon

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London

Probably habit now. Bit of vanity and not wanting to be completely squishy (though never completely happy, so not sure how that's working out for me).

Wholesome, holier-than-thou me would also say something about feeling better for it. I know I do, and I'm annoyed at myself if I miss a session, even if I don't care to admit it.

I go 4 times a week and play football another night.

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Do you guys find you get more motivated for specific things? Like doing weights I'm full steam ahead. However going for a run on a treadmill or outside? Not so much.

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Knowing equipment is available for my needs

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire

i want to try to keep my shape as long as i can even at my age,, thats my motivation

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By *SCouple81Couple
9 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

The fact that I have paid for it and my fat belly

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London


"Do you guys find you get more motivated for specific things? Like doing weights I'm full steam ahead. However going for a run on a treadmill or outside? Not so much. "

Oh yes, for sure. What is this running you speak of?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The fist bumps from the gym bros when I hit a personal best.

The gum bros are really helpful to me, I appreciate it.

Gym bros get a bad reputation but in general they’re the most helpful and friendly people in the gym.

Definitely mate gym culture is the best no other place is like it

Especially when you start to realise who the regulars are. Even though you’ve never actually had a real conversation they’ll hype you up when you most need it.

I did the Iron Man tournament this year. Honestly I couldn't have done it without all my mates at the gym, who gave me tips to prepare

You’re a braver man than me. The thought of doing that scares the shit out of me

I was drained physically for a week and half afterwards. I loved it but fucking hell haha

Are you doing it again?

Maybe not next year. I'm after doing a few other challenges. I want to do the Three Peaks Race soon "

You’re a machine mate. I’m shattered at the thought of it.

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Do you guys find you get more motivated for specific things? Like doing weights I'm full steam ahead. However going for a run on a treadmill or outside? Not so much.

Oh yes, for sure. What is this running you speak of?"

It's that thing you would mostly do if you seen the bus coming round the corner and your not at the stop yet.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"Do you guys find you get more motivated for specific things? Like doing weights I'm full steam ahead. However going for a run on a treadmill or outside? Not so much.

Oh yes, for sure. What is this running you speak of?

It's that thing you would mostly do if you seen the bus coming round the corner and your not at the stop yet."

Yeah I'd just be missing it

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Just back from gym now , weather awful so why not pass an hour or two especially if some hot women in there

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By *r SensualMan
9 weeks ago

London


"That “feel good” feeling after a session is done mostly. Also gives me a sense of accomplishment before the day has even begun as I train early mornings…

I go to the gym on average 4-5 times a week depending on my schedule

I'd go to his gym! "

How much training I’d get done if you did go to my gym would be a whole different conversation

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West

Do anyone of you gym goers do calisthenics? Been doing that a lot more lately than weight training

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By *entfootloverMan
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Going to start soon. Because I'm pretty sure I used to sport an extra inch or so until a year ago...

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester


"That “feel good” feeling after a session is done mostly. Also gives me a sense of accomplishment before the day has even begun as I train early mornings…

I go to the gym on average 4-5 times a week depending on my schedule

I'd go to his gym!

How much training I’d get done if you did go to my gym would be a whole different conversation "

I wouldn't be a distraction at all

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By *r SensualMan
9 weeks ago

London


"That “feel good” feeling after a session is done mostly. Also gives me a sense of accomplishment before the day has even begun as I train early mornings…

I go to the gym on average 4-5 times a week depending on my schedule

I'd go to his gym!

How much training I’d get done if you did go to my gym would be a whole different conversation

I wouldn't be a distraction at all "

Maybe the added incentive and motivation to push myself harder then? Never a bad thing that

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West

Should we all do what the Romans and Greeks used to do and just exercise naked

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Started at the gym with a friend a couple month ago, as I needed the additional motivation.

Just wondering what motivates people to go to the gym (or other fitness routine), and how often do you do it?"

Keeping in shape and the energy. But I have my own little gym at home.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Started at the gym with a friend a couple month ago, as I needed the additional motivation.

Just wondering what motivates people to go to the gym (or other fitness routine), and how often do you do it?

Keeping in shape and the energy. But I have my own little gym at home. "

I completely forgot about you.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
9 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Do anyone of you gym goers do calisthenics? Been doing that a lot more lately than weight training "

Been wanting to do more bodyweight stuff as it's great functional fitness

But like any exercise it can come down to what you're trying to achieve.

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Should we all do what the Romans and Greeks used to do and just exercise naked "

All fun and games till your looking at someones arsehole while they're doing Romanian deadlifts

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By *hrek101Man
9 weeks ago

Herts

Maintaining my sanity, distraction, lifetime habit.

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

Hubby goes at least once a day, every day. Sometimes more. Says it's the one place he can simply empty his head and concentrate just on that

I go three times a week (or try to....)plus have a dance studio at home for ballet and pole.

I think my reasons are slightly different and it involves an unhealthy addiction to chips ....

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

I do keep meaning to sign up to the gym, it's just a major ballache in going to a gym here. Pay for the gym, parking, emissions charge... it all mounts up

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
9 weeks ago

North West


"Should we all do what the Romans and Greeks used to do and just exercise naked

All fun and games till your looking at someones arsehole while they're doing Romanian deadlifts "

Please remove this image from my brain.

🤢

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By *ynamicnatureMan
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

It helps make me feel great if I'm being honest.

I also use it for a bit of a social as well, it's always nice to give and receive compliments,😁

I could think of worse things to do 8hrs a week.

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
9 weeks ago

phoenix

I genuinely feel better when I do. I feel better about myself, I have more energy, I feel stronger, and of course I start noticing more tone.

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By *egasus NobMan
9 weeks ago

Merton

When I used to just fitness and being in shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I wanna look good naked and being able to lift heavy is really cool

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Should we all do what the Romans and Greeks used to do and just exercise naked

All fun and games till your looking at someones arsehole while they're doing Romanian deadlifts

Please remove this image from my brain.

🤢"

Look into this neauraliser stick

😎💥

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
9 weeks ago

Epsom

When my favourite pair of jeans get too tight. When you find the perfect pair and can’t be asked to hunt another. Best motivation I need

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I like to do my work outs in bed . when hours can feel like a marathon .

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
9 weeks ago

Soggy Middle-Earth (Cumbria)

Nothing against gyms but I used to live opposite one until it closed and it had no dedicated car park. It was always bemusing seeing everybody turn up morning or evening in the car to then play tetris trying to get as close as possible to the entrance occasionally blocking the road and a screaming row included over a precious spot. Some of these people lived a few miles away I overheard. It was boggling why they never walked/cycled for the added exercise and never saw the irony.

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By *ornucopiaMan
9 weeks ago

Bexley


"absolutely nothing ."

Ditto.

As an aside, we see so many posts about gym bodies on here nowadays that I am wondering if this is the craze which will ultimately replace getting tattooed among those who seek to be different but end up similar.

A bit of a proletarian bonding thing, perhaps, as well as being a money spinner.

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By *igBob4FunMan
9 weeks ago

Cardiff

My motivations... Got diagnosed with high blood pressure 6 months ago (in the 190/120 range), put on medication daily and i hate taking tablets for anything, even headaches.. Joined the gym for cardio, changed my diet.. Yesterday I tested 125/62, back in the green) and lost 15kg since starting (calories intake currently at around 1000 a day). Go to the gym at least 4 times a week for a solid hours cardio.. And although I come out like I've just stepped out the bath without a towel, I love how better I feel.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"Nothing against gyms but I used to live opposite one until it closed and it had no dedicated car park. It was always bemusing seeing everybody turn up morning or evening in the car to then play tetris trying to get as close as possible to the entrance occasionally blocking the road and a screaming row included over a precious spot. Some of these people lived a few miles away I overheard. It was boggling why they never walked/cycled for the added exercise and never saw the irony."

I drive to the gym every single time and I give no fucks what anyone else thinks. I get priority parking, if the ableds are feeling generous ♿💪🏻

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

2 - 4 times a week, because I enjoy the personal challenge, feeling good whilst and after exercising, I get satisfaction from my results, I know I'm healthier, stronger and have many benefits from it. And I love the social aspects and seeing the men.

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By *nt1845Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

I used to be a pretty good distance runner.

Ran for the ARMY and at county level before joining up, but came out of the army in 2005, 4 weeks later I broke my leg in 3 places and almost lost it. Was told I’d never run again.

That spurred me on to target marathons and did my first in 2012. Ended up running 7 in total and achieved good for age times.

Unfortunately I got another bad injury in 2015 and since then I’ve struggled to motivate myself. But I started back 2 weeks ago at the gym, so my motivation is to get back running and lose weight!

Just focus, don’t set goals that aren’t achievable and keep at it

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

chichester

Camel toes

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By *HUSH-Man
9 weeks ago

London

Absolutely nothing motivates me. It’s just a routine thing for me.

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By *orthern BeardMan
9 weeks ago

Preston

Usually 4-5 times a week but have been known to do more. My diets been awful the last few months so this level of exercise had helped me maintain.

I’ve learned as you get older if you don’t use it you’ll lose it. Everyday you’re not putting in work you’re going backwards.

Was probably at my peak fitness this time last year and boy did I notice the stamina increase in the bedroom

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By *WB85Man
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Knowing its good for both my physical and mental health.

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By *agerMorganMan
9 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Knowing that I have, for an hour at least, a bit of peace and quiet whilst I work out. That and really wanting to see results, so keeping at it to build consistency further.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
9 weeks ago

belfast


"The Rocky soundtrack"

Really? It's shite and the music isn't motivating at all.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
9 weeks ago

belfast


"absolutely nothing .

Ditto.

As an aside, we see so many posts about gym bodies on here nowadays that I am wondering if this is the craze which will ultimately replace getting tattooed among those who seek to be different but end up similar.

A bit of a proletarian bonding thing, perhaps, as well as being a money spinner. "

What a ridiculous post. Absolutely clueless.

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By *ustintime69Man
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Road cycling does it all for me… if I wanted to look more gladiator and less racing snake the gym might add another dimension but I just don’t get the gym culture or the shite music they play in them! 😂

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
9 weeks ago

North West


"Should we all do what the Romans and Greeks used to do and just exercise naked

All fun and games till your looking at someones arsehole while they're doing Romanian deadlifts

Please remove this image from my brain.

🤢

Look into this neauraliser stick

😎💥"

Thank you so much.

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By *cLovin2Man
9 weeks ago

Reading

I've been going to the gym for the last year or so, twice a week, having previously rarely ever gone.

Motivation is that I want to live a relatively pain free maturity. I realise after seeing my best friend in pain due to 5 years of cancer treatment that I better get my act together. I'm still learning, I still have a belly, but bigger muscles, my fwb loves them.

I have to rearrange my visits to do exercise that gets rid of the belly. I also need change in diet. Any advice appreciated.

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By *iddle ManMan
9 weeks ago

Walsall

I don't want to get fat, the wrong side of 40 now and see my friends start to carry their beer belly more an more.

I honestly enjoy the gym, I have met loads of great people since joining. Get involved with your local gym if you do go. It can be a social thing too.

I don't go anywhere near as much as I should but it does allow me to indulge when I feel like it knowing I can burn it all off at the gym, there are several better ways to burn calories though

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By *ornucopiaMan
9 weeks ago

Bexley


"I don't want to get fat, the wrong side of 40 now and see my friends start to carry their beer belly more an more.

I honestly enjoy the gym, I have met loads of great people since joining. Get involved with your local gym if you do go. It can be a social thing too.

I don't go anywhere near as much as I should but it does allow me to indulge when I feel like it knowing I can burn it all off at the gym, there are several better ways to burn calories though "

Never drank beer so no belly and never been to a gym (but went swimming, with trunks on, twice a week until lock down and as often as possible at naturist venues).

Saved a fortune on not buying beer or gym entry!

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By *rispyDuckMan
9 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Don’t even know what motivates me anymore now 😅. Been going so long it’s just part of my lifestyle now. Wouldn’t know what to do with myself if I didn’t go.

But when I started I went cause I knew I could look & feel better in myself if I was more muscular 😊 and I do.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

For me the gym has always supported my other sports. So triathlon previously, now I do strength and physio exercises for running and pole. It’s never been an end in itself.

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By *HUSH-Man
9 weeks ago

London


"Don’t even know what motivates me anymore now 😅. Been going so long it’s just part of my lifestyle now. Wouldn’t know what to do with myself if I didn’t go.

But when I started I went cause I knew I could look & feel better in myself if I was more muscular 😊 and I do."

Yep same way. Pure autopilot at this point.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
9 weeks ago

preston

For me now it’s getting back into climbing and the lady I’m climbing with will be like a whippet up the wall.

Yet since I’ve not climbed for so long I’ll be like a docile sloth 😂

So it’s drop some kgs and build the upper strength in preparation for some amazing times 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I go to the gym more for a space j feel I can just forget about life and work on myself and my own mental health , am I a gym god ... No I still have a dad bod but by god does it sort my head out

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By *onnyGibbMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough

I’ve literally just come home from my first gym session in two years. My motivation was twofold. Firstly, I’ve got a football tournament in Alicante at the beginning of November so I want to improve my aerobic fitness for that.

Secondly, seeing some of the fit bodies on women around my age on dating apps, has made me realise I need to up my game a bit - I can’t just rely on being tall and ridiculously handsome.

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By *ampireLoveMan
9 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

I’ve avoided the gym and any type of exercise most my life! I need motivation now I’m old!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West


"I’ve avoided the gym and any type of exercise most my life! I need motivation now I’m old!"

Give over you're only 21

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By *ampireLoveMan
9 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol


"I’ve avoided the gym and any type of exercise most my life! I need motivation now I’m old!

Give over you're only 21 "

😂😂😂 times that by 2 and then add some 🤣🤣🤣

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