FabSwingers.com forum: Dating site vs Fab

By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?

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By *ootnootboopCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

Different websites produce different results for different people..

I suppose the real question is "is it working for you?"

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"Different websites produce different results for different people..

I suppose the real question is "is it working for you?"

Nice way of looking at it

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By *adyLover1Man
10 weeks ago

Hertford

Oh yes I agree. In the last year I’ve found the majority of women I contact on here to be extremely arrogant and downright rude on occasions.

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By *agic.MMan
10 weeks ago

Orpington

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?"

Surprisingly yes

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By *lfa RomeoMan
10 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Yes., I'm actually on two of the most popular dating sites, and have had way more luck on them then here, find it bizarre, but hey it is was it is

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By *weetiepie99Woman
10 weeks ago

cardiff

I prefer 'dating apps'. Have met good people. Can see each other up front. It's been quite positive so far with a few exceptions

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By *adyLover1Man
10 weeks ago

Hertford

"Yes., I'm actually on two of the most popular dating sites, and have had way more luck on them then here, find it bizarre, but hey it is was it is "

Which sites please?

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Oh yes I agree. In the last year I’ve found the majority of women I contact on here to be extremely arrogant and downright rude on occasions. "

Wow, pretty sure that such a comment is going to help you have considerable success on Fab.

Just wait for all those arrogant and rude women to flood your inbox with offers

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke

Probably because this is a swinging site, not a dating site.

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By *host63Man
10 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

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By *arla SwingerWoman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?"

Makes sense really. The balance is probably split better than the ratios on here. Dating sites are viewed as the norm these days. Swinging sites are probably still classed as more taboo.

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"Probably because this is a swinging site, not a dating site. "

Very true, but is populated with single male and female wanting only singles

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By *otcplmidsCouple
10 weeks ago

Warwick

I am obviously not on dating sites, but did wonder if it were true, why? Perhaps people try harder on dating sites whereas on here it's just sex. I could be wrong of course

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By *adyLover1Man
10 weeks ago

Hertford

"Oh yes I agree. In the last year I’ve found the majority of women I contact on here to be extremely arrogant and downright rude on occasions.

Wow, pretty sure that such a comment is going to help you have considerable success on Fab.

Just wait for all those arrogant and rude women to flood your inbox with offers

Waiting patiently

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Oh yes I agree. In the last year I’ve found the majority of women I contact on here to be extremely arrogant and downright rude on occasions.

Wow, pretty sure that such a comment is going to help you have considerable success on Fab.

Just wait for all those arrogant and rude women to flood your inbox with offers

I mean, he's not wrong though lol

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"I am obviously not on dating sites, but did wonder if it were true, why? Perhaps people try harder on dating sites whereas on here it's just sex. I could be wrong of course

I get more replies on the dating sites than I do on this. That's my reasoning to it

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
10 weeks ago

Middle England

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I feel fab is more relaxed, haven’t really got anything too loose, and can be yourself, and open up about kinks and fetishes, where dating sites you may fall for someone then have to introduce certain things and then it starts going down hill

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

Daring sites have been a waste of time for me, in getting sex or actually a date.

I'm sticking to here for sex and hopefully finding someone

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"Daring sites have been a waste of time for me, in getting sex or actually a date.

I'm sticking to here for sex and hopefully finding someone"

Why have you found the dating sites to be poor for finding a date?

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By *orningcoffee9Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester

I think over time, the site we all use has evolved from its original purpose. While it started as a place primarily for swingers, its popularity has grown, and so has the variety of people and interests it attracts.

Now, you'll find single males looking for females and vice versa, as well as people seeking all sorts of connections.

Some are here for traditional swinging, while others use it more like a dating site or even just to chat and browse without any intention of meeting up. So, the question arises.. are they still considered swingers?

In the end, it really depends on how you see yourself and what you're looking for.

Just because you're on this site doesn't necessarily mean you consider yourself a swinger. Maybe you're here to find fun, make friends, or build connections.

The choice is yours, and the key is to be honest with yourself about your intentions.

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By *imply DeeWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

When I was dating and using apps, everyone I’ve met was already on here anyway . Those people were not looking for relationships but hook ups. I don’t date anymore and Fab suits me just fine.

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By *uvery30Woman
10 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

But do you have to show your face on dating site?

That's the thing most people choose to keep there face out of it here. So maybe the reason? Not sure.

Not on dating sites so wouldn't know

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke

"Probably because this is a swinging site, not a dating site.

Very true, but is populated with single male and female wanting only singles"

No, it's populated with men and very few women, that's why men have more luck on dating sites as there's a better balance of women to men, on here it's about 80/20

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having similar experience?"

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Nø. Fab serves me perfectly. Furthermore, the 'more sex' doesn't apply for me; I'm after quality and not quantity. 🌈

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"But do you have to show your face on dating site?

That's the thing most people choose to keep there face out of it here. So maybe the reason? Not sure.

Not on dating sites so wouldn't know

That's a very good point, I show me face in a private message instead.

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"Probably because this is a swinging site, not a dating site.

Very true, but is populated with single male and female wanting only singles

No, it's populated with men and very few women, that's why men have more luck on dating sites as there's a better balance of women to men, on here it's about 80/20 "

True statement, I get a lot of messages from men

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By *orningcoffee9Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester

"But do you have to show your face on dating site?

That's the thing most people choose to keep there face out of it here. So maybe the reason? Not sure.

Not on dating sites so wouldn't know

I think dating sites go more of facial attraction as well as body attraction, whilst here its more so, "okay what does this person have to them that I know I'll really like"?

Which is why here it does help to have an about you and what you're actually looking for, it helps to know if your interests align with the person you feel attracted to.

I guess some people are very confident to show there faces on here, they already know the site and what it offers and are just very comfortable in their own skin. Others maybe not so much, but then again others may have a legitimate reason not to show their face.

After all it is a site which not many would want others to know about, even though its becoming a lot more popular.

Just my opinion

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"I think over time, the site we all use has evolved from its original purpose. While it started as a place primarily for swingers, its popularity has grown, and so has the variety of people and interests it attracts.

Now, you'll find single males looking for females and vice versa, as well as people seeking all sorts of connections.

In the end, it really depends on how you see yourself and what you're looking for.

Just because you're on this site doesn't necessarily mean you consider yourself a swinger. Maybe you're here to find fun, make friends, or build connections.

The choice is yours, and the key is to be honest with yourself about your intentions."

Well said

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By *iscean_dreamMan
10 weeks ago

Llanelli

I get more sex at home than from fab or dating sites 😂

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

"I get more sex at home than from fab or dating sites 😂"

There's always one that brags

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By *agnar73Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Must admit mind has wandered towards thinking about dating apps again.

Probably same result but..

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By *riel13Woman
10 weeks ago

Northampton

"I am obviously not on dating sites, but did wonder if it were true, why? Perhaps people try harder on dating sites whereas on here it's just sex. I could be wrong of course

They can all see faces so only have conversations with people that know they are attracted already

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By *heSwingingNerd42Man
10 weeks ago

Carlow And

Nope get 0 results form either haha

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

I used to find Pof was pretty stable at meeting

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"I used to find Pof was pretty stable at meeting "

I get zero from that one, tinder and facebook dating for me

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

"I used to find Pof was pretty stable at meeting

I get zero from that one, tinder and facebook dating for me"

Tinder I am banned from as they don’t really like trans in my experience

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By *P994Man
10 weeks ago

Travelling

I’m on a dating site but it’s more so the fab of dating sites, about as much luck there as here. I’m not particularly looking to date as such but would in the right circumstances. If you’re open with people and are honest about what you’re actually looking for you’ll tend to find more connections.

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

I'm having a much better time on fab than I ever did on dating apps. Maybe it's the social events.

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By *ngel-ishandtheswingersCouple
10 weeks ago

Colchester

We fell in love which neither of us expected!

But I was told by a fabber I should remember this "is not a dating site" and not in a supportive way. Mike and I are exploring each other, for the time being, just us 2. The person didn't take kindly to that.

So I guess I'm saying if something makes you smile, just enjoy! Everybody has an opinion. Agree or not who cares! 😘

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Nope, but then I don't use dating apps for hook-ups

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

No I’ve found dating apps to be dire. Would rather stick to fab and hopefully find someone with the same interests.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
10 weeks ago

Llanelli

"I get more sex at home than from fab or dating sites 😂

There's always one that brags

😇😂

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By *espacito56Man
10 weeks ago

Orkney

Not getting much from anywhere.

Found a fwb on c date a couple of years ago, which is something.

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By *oxy jWoman
10 weeks ago

somerset

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?"

well thats because fab is a swinging site not a sex site there is more to swinging than sex ..

fab is also not a dating site never has been

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Dating sites god no.

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By *ngel-ishandtheswingersCouple
10 weeks ago

Colchester

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?

well thats because fab is a swinging site not a sex site there is more to swinging than sex ..

fab is also not a dating site never has been"

Have no experience of dating sites, so can't comment. Fab, It's both now, hook up and swingers. Not intented I get that. If fabbers are happy, why does it matter? It doesn't matter in my head, can you explain cos it seems to for you, I truly don't understand xx

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By *weetiepie99Woman
10 weeks ago

cardiff

Dating apps and fab are whatever you want them to be. Who says they are for one thing or another, there are no rules. Use them how you like.

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By *ngel-ishandtheswingersCouple
10 weeks ago

Colchester

"Dating apps and fab are whatever you want them to be. Who says they are for one thing or another, there are no rules. Use them how you like."

That's what I believe

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?

well thats because fab is a swinging site not a sex site there is more to swinging than sex ..

fab is also not a dating site never has been"

Fab is absolutely a sex site and functions that way by design.

It's also a dating site

And a porn site

And a forum

And a cam site

And a swingers site

It might have started out exclusively for swingers but that's not what it is now.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
10 weeks ago

In the clouds

Maybe because on dating sites you have to show your face?!

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I used to find Pof was pretty stable at meeting

I get zero from that one, tinder and facebook dating for me

Tinder I am banned from as they don’t really like trans in my experience "

Oh really? Well it's their loss as you're gawjuzzzzzz...

Yeah, one of my bi fuck buddies met a cis girl on a dating site. She doesn't know he's bi and he's petrified. She checks his phone so he's not really his sexually liberated self. I check on him occasionally to see if he's happy. He is but I am careful with my contact with him as she doesn't like him having a BFF.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Anyone come across attached people on dating apps

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By *ittlelad69Man
10 weeks ago

clay cross

Any decent sites out there?

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
10 weeks ago

Maidstone

God I want to know which dating sites people use as the ones I've encountered are awful swipey sites. I honestly must be the most unattractive woman ever as I rarely get a match let alone a conversation. Yes, I know, it's not them it's me. Must be.

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By *eter4599Man
10 weeks ago

Wigan

More sex from the dating sites than Fab

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By *yzykMan
10 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

Fab for the forums and a nosey, dating sites for meets

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By *ouise 555Woman
10 weeks ago

dorchester

What dating apps/sites

are best? Thanks in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Also after the dating sites have no luck on here, plus the swipe ones never seem to get a match unless you start paying, definitely bruises the ego 😅😂

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By *allumUKMan
10 weeks ago

KingsLynn

I find people are far more talkative on dating sites than they are on here. I've been here, over a year and half, maybe more, and I've not spoken to 1 single woman. Nobody seems to want to chat. Not even in the chat rooms. People have their own little groups and don't seem to care about outsiders on here. They don't even say hello back.

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London

I found men lied more on dating sites. They pretended they wanted a relationship but only wanted sex.

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By *r SensualMan
10 weeks ago

London

Dating apps when I was single were a whole lot of rubbish… a lot of emotionally unavailable women I came across who didn’t seem to know what they want.

Slowly phased them out when I came on to fab and started delving deeper into the swinging lifestyle. I’ve now been lucky enough to meet my partner through this world and couldn’t be happier.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I hear this from my male friends especially one who is Asian.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Nobody likes a show off!!

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

Been on two main sites mostly p.f and always successful only problem always ended up in long term relationship lol like current she like I noticed majority of women on the dating sites are also on here former partner was on here also after few months we created an account couples as she admitted she was bi but knows nothing about me plus others, back 2017 was a girl that I chatted to on side as was going through stuff plus relationship issues and the girl I was chatting to introduce me to Fab even did cam and sexting yes not a good faithful partner but as said date sites more and didn't take much for sex but as said majority on date sites also on here

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By *iny_tight_pussWoman
10 weeks ago

wednesbury

"Getting more sex from the dating sites than Fab, anyone having simular experience?"

Yes I was the same. When I was on eharmony some weeks I’d be having sex with more than one guy a week.

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By *iftywaysMan
10 weeks ago

wigan

All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Many women look for different things in a "dating" partner vs. a sex partner.

For various reasons most of the lovely men I have had sex with via Fab would be pretty poor dating material (for me). However they have all been intelligent, interesting, fit and fuckable.

I doubt (m)any of them would have considered me on a dating site.

Horses for courses, innit

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By *ee69Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow

All the time and snap though originally for younger folk if a fucking gem lol

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By *inja 636Man
10 weeks ago

Grays

Share the love people

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By *oney HoneyWoman
10 weeks ago

York

I suppose it depends what you are looking for and if you are upfront about that.

On a dating site the people you chat to May (probably are) looking for more than sex.

So it wouldn’t be very nice if you used that site as a “sex hook up site” without being interested in a relationship. Unless of course you were upfront about that. Or are you looking for a relationship?

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By *rispyDuckMan
10 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Can’t have all your eggs in 1 basket ayy

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By *etric5555Man
10 weeks ago

BISHOP AUCKLAND

Are there any free like fab if yes please DM me them please

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By *hrista BellendWoman
10 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's not the quantity, its the quality.

Dating sites have too many married cheats, happy to provide a mediocre fuck and ghost afterwards. No thanks

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By *avidbanksMan
10 weeks ago

leeds

No ever speaks on dating sites bit like here lol

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By *ilverfox for youMan
10 weeks ago

Hull

So the best .free ! Dating sites ???

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By *ftGuy81Man
10 weeks ago

Selkirk

Genuinely had many many more NSA meets from a certain dating site than here!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I don't use dating sites myself, bar a couple of months on one more geared to ENM (gave up as most were here anyway).

But it does make me chuckle when claims are made of more success on them than here, and illustrates the expectancy levels of some as to what setting up a profile on Fab will lead to.

Some seem to think that's all they need to do to find someone for sex. It's not, and never will be. Fab is essentially still a swingers site, not a guaranteed hook up site. It's technically not a dating site either I guess, but plenty use it as one (I have myself) successfully and it does benefit from people being able to be more open about their sexuality and preferences.

If people are getting more sex on dating apps then that's all good.

But surely they're not using those sites for the purpose they were set up for, just as much as some aren't on Fab to swing.

Do what works for you. Just be honest with others as to your intentions, whether it's just a quick one off bunk up or you're actually looking to date/find a relationship. Leading people on just to get laid is a bit of a dick move.

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By *ellroseWoman
10 weeks ago

Brum

I found dating sites to be more of a hook up site 🤣

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By *ornucopiaMan
10 weeks ago

Bexley

"Anyone come across attached people on dating apps"

Heaven forbid.

That smacks too much of the real world!

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
10 weeks ago

Wolvo

"I found men lied more on dating sites. They pretended they wanted a relationship but only wanted sex.

Very this! Hence why i prefer fab. I know whats required here and can indulge or not as i so choose. On dating apps i have my dating mind in gear and get rather annoyed about the lying and misrepresentation.

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

Here me out lads. If you say that you've had way more luck on dating sites and no one ever replies on here, have you considered that you probably didn't put five photos of your dick in your dating profile?

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town

"Oh yes I agree. In the last year I’ve found the majority of women I contact on here to be extremely arrogant and downright rude on occasions.

Wow, pretty sure that such a comment is going to help you have considerable success on Fab.

Just wait for all those arrogant and rude women to flood your inbox with offers

Well to be fair. If they've been rude or whatever why would that be anything other than sharing posters experiences?

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...In the last year I’ve found the majority of women I contact on here to be extremely arrogant and downright rude on occasions. "

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I couldn't agree with you more. In my case I would replace "majority" with "some" and, yes, thankfully, it's only occasionally. However, it's when they have sent me the first message.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
10 weeks ago

Kendal

"Here me out lads. If you say that you've had way more luck on dating sites and no one ever replies on here, have you considered that you probably didn't put five photos of your dick in your dating profile?"

This!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

"It's not the quantity, its the quality.

Dating sites have too many married cheats, happy to provide a mediocre fuck and ghost afterwards. No thanks

And they aren't on here?🤔

All sites have the same sort of people.

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town

"It's not the quantity, its the quality.

Dating sites have too many married cheats, happy to provide a mediocre fuck and ghost afterwards. No thanks

And they aren't on here?🤔

All sites have the same sort of people.

Exactly... Same can of baked beans just a different shop.

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