FabSwingers.com forum: Body shaming

By *implynaughty1 OP Couple
10 weeks ago

stockport

Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
10 weeks ago

Yes.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
10 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Not yet but it probably will.

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By *ed MartinMan
10 weeks ago

Shefford

No-I’m a considerate type, so I shame myself pre-emptively to save others the bother.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
10 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Not in person, but through messages, yes.

A very busty woman (or man pretending to be) messaged to tell me that my partner at the time preferred big breasts, and that he was always going to be unsatisfied with my tiny fried egg excuses for boobs.

She said a lot of other things too. It was very odd.

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
10 weeks ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 25

It's something we simply wouldn't stand for at our events as they are about body positivity - anyone found to be going against that is out the door and won't be returning!

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By *ambslass54Woman
10 weeks ago

Yaxley, Peterborough

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

Yes had comments about my reconstructed boob some nice and some down right nasty and also being a bigger lady. Their loss in my mind.

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By *ustamanMan
10 weeks ago

weymouth

In clubs no, in the world yes - often though probably less of late, probably due to age and most folks seeing through you

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By *imply DeeWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

Yes, I’ve had some “looks” from much younger women.

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I get enough insults on here without going to clubs

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By *oobaaMan
10 weeks ago

South Shields

Yep...a woman in a club.

Pretty horrible comment TBH but I laughed it off which seemed to annoy her.

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By *awpleasureMan
10 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

I removed my shirt at a club and a woman said I looked better with it on

Not sure if that's body shaming or just someone being a twa t

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands

No, I am going to a club for the first time in years next week though 😬

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, I am going to a club for the first time in years next week though 😬"

You'll be fine.

Need a chaperone?

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

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Each to there own ... good thing we are all different x When i first this i was thinking is this some new fetish i know nothing about. xxx I learn alot reading forums . xlol

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

It's on here daily unfortunately.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I haven't. There is an undercurrent of trying to curry favour with one body type by insulting another in the forum though.

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By *iker JackMan
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Yes I have. Those that know me will know why

It used to really bother me. Sometimes it does still but the majority of the time it goes straight over my head

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By *ustamanMan
10 weeks ago

weymouth

I think if I experienced it at a swingers club I'd end up shutting down and leaving immediately depressed. It's the one place where I let my defences down so negativity affects me more. It's also the one place that this kind of behaviour shouldn't be tolerated 😡

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By *weetCherryWoman
10 weeks ago

London

I used to be much younger and much thinner when I used to go to clubs, so no shaming but still felt self conscious about my own body

Now…now yes, loads of body shaming from everyone you can imagine

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts

I had it here certainly.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
10 weeks ago

LONDON

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

Nope, not yet, and I'm a chunky sod

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By *arla SwingerWoman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere

To my face, no. Online, yes...

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By *ayndeeCouple
10 weeks ago

Newark

We've had it on here and at a club from both male and female, but we don't let it bother us, it's really their issue tbh.

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London

"Not in person, but through messages, yes.

She said a lot of other things too. It was very odd."

My mind tends to think these are men who have been rejected, or women who are upset that the men they like prefer you.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
10 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"Not in person, but through messages, yes.

She said a lot of other things too. It was very odd.

My mind tends to think these are men who have been rejected, or women who are upset that the men they like prefer you.

It was just someone who took pleasure in being spiteful. They also said that he was a deserter in the army and loads of other ludicrous stuff. It wasn't simply about body shaming, but they utilised it wholeheartedly. The only effect it had on me was to think "who pissed on your chips?".

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Not in person, but through messages, yes.

She said a lot of other things too. It was very odd.

My mind tends to think these are men who have been rejected, or women who are upset that the men they like prefer you.

Jealousy is ugly

Unlike you

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By *mmaleiaWoman
10 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

No, luckily, but I’ve only ever gone to curvy girl nights

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"No, luckily, but I’ve only ever gone to curvy girl nights"

I love curvy nights

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By *ase4122Man
10 weeks ago

Lancashire

No, but I suppose this is why I won't take the plunge and go to a club

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By *ongandharderMan
10 weeks ago

Rotherham

If someone doesn't interest you a polite no should be all thats needed

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

A little experience of it here. But I’m quite blasé about it, and laugh it off. Some people can be twunts.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

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I have Yes and partys 9 out of 10 its woman who think your a threat in some way taking attention from them in some ways .. and can be a group of people doing it together .. when you confront it they feel stupid And look it too ..

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By *eordieJeansCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

On here, yes. In clubs I’ve never seen or heard any body shaming as there’s people of all shapes and sizes with their clothes off.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"On here, yes. In clubs I’ve never seen or heard any body shaming as there’s people of all shapes and sizes with their clothes off."
well can happen clubs sites and partys .. were there is groups. I dont get it as much but i did x

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Slightly different, but I was once refused entry to a nightclub cos I was too fat

They tried telling me it was a private party

The flaw in that plan was that my mate was already inside

It was only when I challenged them that they confirmed that they didn't want fat people in there and suggested I tried another nightclub further up the road that 'let anyone in'

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
10 weeks ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 25

"No I haven't. There is an undercurrent of trying to curry favour with one body type by insulting another in the forum though. "

We've seen this in clubs too and body positivity works all ways. We would never tolerate anyone being fat or skinny shamed

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By *eordieJeansCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"On here, yes. In clubs I’ve never seen or heard any body shaming as there’s people of all shapes and sizes with their clothes off. well can happen clubs sites and partys .. were there is groups. I dont get it as much but i did x"

I don’t doubt it does happen we just haven’t seen it. As with any place with large numbers of people, a small portion of them will be massive dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

And the sad thing is can be slim and still have it .. all sizes its really about more then that .

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By *ootnootboopCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

In messages yes, we both have.

I (A)is occasionally the subject of "he's to short or his cocks to small" i laugh it off as best as I can as it's a ridiculous thing to message out of the blue to say.

Ess is the receiver of "your boobs are too small, your too fat yadada" that does get to her a bit more which is why I do most of the fabmin to shield her from it.

However in a club, never had anything like it

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By *ootnootboopCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

I totally agree, no need to shame anyone for their body. Everybody has insecurities about their body and we don't need to amplify them!

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By *ucy AnneTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Woodstock

"Not in person, but through messages, yes.

She said a lot of other things too. It was very odd."

That sounds like a rather sad pathetic little man pretending to be a woman to me!

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
10 weeks ago

Lancashire

In clubs, never. In real life yes, all the time. I’m regularly told I’m too skinny and a couple of weeks ago a retired colleague asked me if I was ill 🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"A very busty woman (or man pretending to be) messaged to tell me that my partner at the time preferred big breasts, and that he was always going to be unsatisfied with my tiny fried egg excuses for boobs.

Rather taken by the image of fried egg breasts. Were they sunnyside up? Has the yoke gone from the yellow to an orange colour? Would the yoke still be runny?

Have I rather missed the point?

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By *aughtcouple69Couple
10 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

Unfortunately I've female half have experienced body shaming on here and in real life even by ex partners. It's very sad that other just can't be kind.

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By *uckurcumMan
10 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

People are so shallow and image obsessed these days ...It's so easy for them to be rude online but it's also transfering to daily life ...

Not everyone wants to look or be gym fit,life's not one size fits all.

A polite no if someone's not your type is all that's required ...

Also,to have good sex there has to be a mental connection,sometimes not going for your ideal vision can be the best sex you'll have ..be it a woman or man !

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not as such. I did have one Tgirl accuse me of letting the side down due to the size of my boobs. She didn't get a jelly baby

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By *andadbodMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

lots of times when our couples profile was active, always from guys

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By *rBobbMan
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Shaming in any format is just wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

No sure why people wish to put others in boxes .... We are how we are .. why should you have to change to fit in .. I just think you should be true to yourself.

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By *ante40Man
10 weeks ago

darlington

He Just sounds insecure probably projecting for his lack of something

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

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By *izandpaulCouple
10 weeks ago

merseyside

Never at a club, party or anywhere else.

We've seen a single lady get a bit sniffy when a single guy turned her down, but he was very nice, just said no thanks when she asked if he would like to go upstairs.

We been turned down by couples and turned down other people too.

It's the nature of the game, a personal choice but we are always pleasant and civil.

Would never dream of trying to shame anyone it's just plain rude and disgusting behaviour.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Not anywhere , not ever in my life. Oh im lying ... my brother was a mean git when we were kids and he'd mention my bits... I'd kick seven bells out of him and call him something far worse.

We were slightly more civilised as adults.

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By *all me missWoman
10 weeks ago

South Wales

Only on here never at a club ….normally it’s because they are jealous or they can’t have what they want / I’ve turned them down lol

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By *orthern_nudieMan
10 weeks ago

leeds

Hey it often tbh. But I don’t care

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

No not at all.

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By * and R cple4Couple
10 weeks ago

swansea

Never experienced any negativity in a club everyone has always been very friendly and welcoming..

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By *ollmanMan
10 weeks ago

Burnley

Yeah, I've had it on here a few times in the past because of my belly and skinny legs mainly single ladies. That's why I now don't message anyone CBA, to be honest with the hassle.

That's why I am now going back to the clubs even if they don't like me then that's their problem, not mine to be honest as well there are too many good-looking single men on here who can talk the talk and all that.

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By *acey_RedWoman
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

Only ever on here. Never in a club.

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By *uvery30Woman
10 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Yes I met a guy and we had fun I ended up staying at his house the night as well.

Went home in the moring after 3 rounds. When I got home he messaged and said it was fun he had never been with a fat girl before (so I was a experiment) felt so crappy after.

Then a random number messaged me a week later saying my mate said your a fat girl and I want to try can you meet me to.

Just blocked them both took me ages to feel comfortable and confident again to go and meet. Xx

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By *uenevereWoman
10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

No.

I've not seen or received any body shaming in clubs. Nor have I received any body shaming messages.

In my experience, clubs are full of a variety of shapes and sizes and are generally very inclusive.

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By *lfa RomeoMan
10 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Only body shaming I do is my own body. I'm do not very confident about my body

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Only once

I was seeing a guy regularly(2-3 times a week) for a good few months

I was due to go on holiday and made a joke about going on a diet prior and he then said yeah you could do with losing a but of weight tbf.

Never saw him again

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Yes I met a guy and we had fun I ended up staying at his house the night as well.

Went home in the moring after 3 rounds. When I got home he messaged and said it was fun he had never been with a fat girl before (so I was a experiment) felt so crappy after.

Then a random number messaged me a week later saying my mate said your a fat girl and I want to try can you meet me to.

Just blocked them both took me ages to feel comfortable and confident again to go and meet. Xx "

This is a massive worry of mine

Generally only meet men who have been verified by other fat women so I know they're genuinely attracted to bigger bodies

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By *hrista BellendWoman
10 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Social meets. Yes. 100% by men shorter than me, which is why I am Incredibly reluctant to meet any.

In clubs. Never. That’s with shorter and taller men, club men seem to have a different mindset.

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By *empest2KMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

"Have you ever experienced this when swinging or in clubs?

Yup. On top of this, I had my sexuality shamed too

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By *inx000Couple
10 weeks ago

Manchester

Not in clubs but on here yes unfortunately there are lots of comments and opinions about body shaming which is a real shame.This place is meant to be a bit of fun but people try and bring you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Not in a club. Id been swimming in the sea at a nudist beach, when I got out and walked up to my spot, some guys were walking by and giggled at my shrivelled up cock n balls lol

I suggested to them that they get naked and go for a dip, see hows theirs would look, they didn't say anything lol

I didn't take it to heart, I think they were just immature idiots.

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By *uvery30Woman
10 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Yes I met a guy and we had fun I ended up staying at his house the night as well.

Went home in the moring after 3 rounds. When I got home he messaged and said it was fun he had never been with a fat girl before (so I was a experiment) felt so crappy after.

Then a random number messaged me a week later saying my mate said your a fat girl and I want to try can you meet me to.

Just blocked them both took me ages to feel comfortable and confident again to go and meet. Xx

This is a massive worry of mine

Generally only meet men who have been verified by other fat women so I know they're genuinely attracted to bigger bodies "

Ya I definitely learnt from that xx

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

On fab…yes.

In a club….never.

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By *orphia2003Woman
10 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes.

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By *a LunaWoman
10 weeks ago

South Wales

I’ve had two comments about my weight on here, I don’t attend clubs.

I’m used to having comments made at me about my appearance though, but it’s usually about my height.

If I had a £1 for every “what’s the weather like up there?” comment I’ve heard, I’d be well off!!

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By *tticusukMan
10 weeks ago

Formby

Nope but most people who body shame are insecure in them self

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By *ripfillMan
10 weeks ago

havant

It’s awful to read the above thread in parts, makes my blood boil

Body shaming is dam right disgusting and it’s discrimination against real people people with real feelings

Curves are good

Be yourself always …

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By *opeyXWoman
10 weeks ago

Dun Dee

"Nope but most people who body shame are insecure in them self "

Agree with this!

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By *agic.MMan
10 weeks ago

Orpington

I've always been confused as to what is considered body shaming (if it's not related to someone's weight). We all know that if someone says "you're fat!" it is considered body shaming (regardless if the person is overweight or not)... but if I get a random message simply stating "you're short!" would that be considered just a simple observation? as I am below average height. And if that is just an observation, would the concept of body shaming change if instead of "fat" you put "overweight" (as in "you're overweight " - rather than "you're fat") or is it still considered body shaming?

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
10 weeks ago

London

Many years ago we met an unfortunate woman who decided to constantly comment on and talk about Mrs pineapples large labia with anyone and everyone in the club. I can only assume she was jealous from the attention we were getting and brushed it off but it was quite a surreal experience

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By *odgerMooreMan
10 weeks ago

Carlisle

I may have been in clubs but not noticed due to my ears being covered by ladies thighs - not been to clubs much so maybe if i went more …? It’s completely unacceptable and as a community we shouldn’t tolerate it… at all.

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By *a LunaWoman
10 weeks ago

South Wales

"I've always been confused as to what is considered body shaming (if it's not related to someone's weight). We all know that if someone says "you're fat!" it is considered body shaming (regardless if the person is overweight or not)... but if I get a random message simply stating "you're short!" would that be considered just a simple observation? as I am below average height. And if that is just an observation, would the concept of body shaming change if instead of "fat" you put "overweight" (as in "you're overweight " - rather than "you're fat") or is it still considered body shaming? "

Body shaming is critiquing or mocking someone’s physical appearance, usually in an effort to make them feel self conscious or inadequate. So yes, it could still be seen as body shaming.

I think most people can tell the intent behind someone’s comments. And why is it necessary to comment on someone’s appearance anyway?

You* either like the look of someone or you don’t. If you do, great! If not, move along. Quietly!

(*General you)

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By *umalotagainMan
10 weeks ago

a town called malice

Pretty much one of the things that puts me off going to clubs of any sort

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

A shame that body isn’t under me…

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By *exxyyDy11Man
10 weeks ago

North West

"Only once

I was seeing a guy regularly(2-3 times a week) for a good few months

I was due to go on holiday and made a joke about going on a diet prior and he then said yeah you could do with losing a but of weight tbf.

Never saw him again

Wow. Some guys are just pricks. Sorry to hear he said that to you. No need for it

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By *umalotagainMan
10 weeks ago

a town called malice

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

For anyone bothered by it on here... I very frequently get told how stunning I look on my personal profile. I also get some shaming.

I have never posted a single image on that profile

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By *agic.MMan
10 weeks ago

Orpington

Body shaming is critiquing or mocking someone’s physical appearance, usually in an effort to make them feel self conscious or inadequate. So yes, it could still be seen as body shaming.

I think most people can tell the intent behind someone’s comments. And why is it necessary to comment on someone’s appearance anyway?

You* either like the look of someone or you don’t. If you do, great! If not, move along. Quietly!

(*General you)

I'm not sure someone's intent is always that obvious...some people have a very straightforward (dry) approach in communication- which can make them appear inconsiderate (but they don't mean to offend). So at that point it's more about how it makes the recipient feel rather than the intent of the person making the remark. And yes me receiving a random message stating "you're short" is a clear indication of an insult attempt...but commenting on someone's height is not as black/white as commenting on someone's weight (when it comes to bodyshaming).

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

"Yep...a woman in a club.

Pretty horrible comment TBH but I laughed it off which seemed to annoy her."

Yep I have had that a few time in clubs .. I told one woman though , her husband had no problem railing my ass and sucking my cock about 30min earlier on his own in the dark room .. she wasn't so happy looking at that , I laughed and walked off and said was just joking

totally messed with her head though as she was all shaking and getting panicked

was funny

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By *alico_KittyWoman
10 weeks ago

Kittys Lane

No not in a club as I've never been to any.

Yes on here I have had quite a few awful things said via messages

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
10 weeks ago

nuneaton

Had a single lady msg before telling Inked if an when he was ready for a thinner more attractive women to get rid of me and msg her

(Mrs)

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By *odgerMooreMan
10 weeks ago

Carlisle

"Had a single lady msg before telling Inked if an when he was ready for a thinner more attractive women to get rid of me and msg her

(Mrs) "

Any guy would be lucky to have her with that attitude… jeez .. just when i think Ive heard the worst on here… xx

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I just body shame myself on here! Saves the journey

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Had a single lady msg before telling Inked if an when he was ready for a thinner more attractive women to get rid of me and msg her

(Mrs) "

He's not gonna do that... he knows that curves are best

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By *oxy jWoman
10 weeks ago

somerset

in all my years on this scene and the many clubs we visted all over uk /euro clubs are genuinely safe havens most of the time yes there will always be a odd moment ... i love clubs to be very mixed when it comes to body size n shapes they in my opinion are the best clubs ... we disd do a club once in london where you were pre picked and it was the fakest night ever in a swinging club

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By *empest2KMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

"Had a single lady msg before telling Inked if an when he was ready for a thinner more attractive women to get rid of me and msg her

(Mrs) "

Aw, man, that's a horrible thing to experience 😢

I've also never understood why ‘thinner’ is somehow considered more attractive, because it's the opposite to me.

Either way, I doubt Inked or you are going anywhere 😁👍

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By *mf123Man
10 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

No cos id usually be putting the tip in at thst time

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By *oodiesCoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Leicestershire

In real life yes, but thankfully not in swinging (or at least not to my face) 😊

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

some people are just plain nasty i just dont get it,,

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
10 weeks ago

somewhere

Yes but no.

I won't say anymore but I will say, if caused me to lose weight so it had a positive outcome for me overall.

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By *vaRose43Woman
10 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

In messages yeah, fairly frequently

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By * D 777Man
10 weeks ago

bathgate

only via a message

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Have only experienced it on here often x

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
10 weeks ago

wonderland.

Sadly yes I have..both in person and on messages. It says more about them than me

Cali

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By *ellroseWoman
10 weeks ago

Brum

Only happened the once when I stopped seeing someone off here, sticks and stones and all that

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By *agatoXXXMan
10 weeks ago

Mordor

The only body shaming I ever do is about my own.

I think anyone who does shame others should realise that they have flaws themselves.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
10 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

No, never experienced it at any club, unless a kink/fetish night and its what turns them on...

In fact the first time I went to a club I was really really self conscious but within half an hour I was feeling confident just being around people of all shapes and sizes feeling good about themselves.

I actually find clubs really body positive places and I leave all my real world worries about my body image at the door... I find it really liberating xx

Vix

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