FabSwingers.com forum: What is your love language?

By *imply Dee OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

Apparently we all give and receive love or care for another in 5 different ways: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.

Mine is definitely acts of service. Make me feel secure, supported, loved, and wanted? I'm gentle, I'm soft, I'm very touchy-feely and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, keep you comfortable. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve problems.

(I sound delightful, ha!)

What is yours?

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By *hyguy9iMan
13 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Acts of service like cleaning,cooking, helping in a way I can or if they need someone to talk to and give my honest opinion when they want it. For me thou simple playing if the hair or cuddled up watching a film or sleeping.

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By *usty kayWoman
13 weeks ago

Burnham

Physical touch is my love language

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

Mine is also acts of service but I probably show it in thoughtful gifts.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Through jelly babies

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By *heGateKeeperMan
13 weeks ago

Stratford

Predominantly acts of service, but also words of affirmation 🥰

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
13 weeks ago

Next Door

Mine is definitely acts of service. Make me feel secure, supported, loved, and wanted? I'm gentle, I'm soft, I'm very touchy-feely and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, and keep you comfortable. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve prob

I have a few, and they are similar to yours OP. i also like quality time together.

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By *oo..Woman
13 weeks ago

Boo's World

Quality Time - if I'm giving you that you'll get the others following 🥰

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
13 weeks ago

Essex

Giving wise I’m acts of service. On occasion I can do words of affirmation…

Receiving is words of affirmation. But they sometimes need backing up.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
13 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Being kind, considerate and caring, listening is an underrated quality.

If you listen i always know the best way to show my affection and support.

Failing that club them over the head snd drag them back to my cave is a good second choice 🙄😂

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By *aramel.desiresMan
13 weeks ago

Heathrow

Thanks for this. Not something I have thought about. But mine is definitely physical touch. Would love to add some acts of service too.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Mine is my tongue. I love you with my tongue 😏

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By *ost SockMan
13 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Welsh

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By *orlandaMan
13 weeks ago

Norwich

Acts of service and physical touch.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

I've no idea is there a quiz? I mean I suck his cock on bad days & stick my boobs in his face to make him smile, I make his coffee with his favorite spoon even when he's a dick, I'll buy his favorite treats & provide cuddles oh and ask 500 times if he's ok..... If that doesn't say I love you I don't know 😂

Mrs

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
13 weeks ago

Wolvo

Quality time. Came top for me. Then words of affirmation. Physical touch came last. Oh the irony 🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Penmanship, prose, sonnets, missives and Åfternoon Teå seems to work well so far in my toolkit of 'langage de l'amour'. 🦋

(Butterflies too. I often get them)

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

"I've no idea is there a quiz? I mean I suck his cock on bad days & stick my boobs in his face to make him smile, I make his coffee with his favorite spoon even when he's a dick, I'll buy his favorite treats & provide cuddles oh and ask 500 times if he's ok..... If that doesn't say I love you I don't know 😂

Mrs "

There are many quizzes online you can take, a friend sent me one this morning, 30 easy questions.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

London

Acts of service. e.g. My partner always loses her phone charger so I bought a bunch of them and scattered them around the house so she can always find one

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By *r lotharioMan
13 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

and there was me, from the headline, going to say 'italiano'

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By *viatrixWoman
13 weeks ago

Redhill

Giving: Acts of service, words of affirmation

Receiving: words of affirmation, physical touch

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Acts of service and physical touch 💜

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By *cott14Man
13 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Acts of service , making time for the person I’m with , being their advocate when they aren’t present …. And being incredibly tactile x

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By *ea monkeyMan
13 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Mine are physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation.

Giving I’m quality time, words of affirmation and acts of service

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

Btw, interesting how people also include receiving. I didn’t cross my mind as I’m never on the receiving end

🤔

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

London

Is 'acts of being a pain in the ass' one too?

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By *aven.Woman
13 weeks ago

Not the North West...

This is a language I am yet to learn.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Is 'acts of being a pain in the ass' one too?

I definitely class it as part of my service 💜

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

Quality time - I live a rich and full internal life. It means something to give that up to spend time with people that are important to me.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

London

"Is 'acts of being a pain in the ass' one too?

I definitely class it as part of my service 💜"

It's the deepest of love languages. I'm not anyone elses problem

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Cake

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By *orphia2003Woman
13 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Food, beer, straight talking, cwtches.

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By *ad NannaWoman
13 weeks ago

East London

If I love someone they'll get the lot.

Unfortunately, the only person I've ever loved didn't reciprocate, unless he felt guilty about something.

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By *oodmessMan
13 weeks ago

yumsville

Honestly no idea .. probably time, touch, service, gifts, not that big on affirmation.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
13 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Service, quality time, then touch

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By *eliWoman
13 weeks ago

I try to show love and care in a way that the recipient wants/needs because... it's about us as a couple. For some that might mean words expressing how I feel, others it'll be ensuring as much quality time as possible. Others take joy in me cooking and cleaning for them, showing them care.

For me it's quality time and words of affirmation tied. Closely followed by physical touch. But I think it varies, my love language. It's such a situational thing - my hormones, how I fit with another. Sometimes I really appreciate acts of service, other times I want to get lost in their words.

Not sure that makes sense. :D

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By *ansoffateMan
13 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Sounds great, I have a list of problems that need solving - when can you start?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

Correcting your grammar

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By *eordieJeansCouple
13 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t know what category this falls into but give me 8 beers and leave me alone and I’ll fall head over heels.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Stockport

"Apparently we all give and receive love or care for another in 5 different ways: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.

(I sound delightful, ha!)

What is yours?

You got me at the massages. I'm all yours... Xxx

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I honestly don’t know. But whatever it is I appear to be speaking it in Swahili 😳

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By *ira2024Woman
13 weeks ago

Quality time and touch

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By *ookie46Woman
13 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Words of affirmation 🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Kissing is considered a love language. It is a way to express affection and intimacy in relationships, whether it's a simple kiss hello or a more passionate expression of love. I Love to kiss snog until my lips hurt .

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

It's got to be touch.

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By *anceAloneWoman
13 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

Touch for me

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Food can be ... I can make a lovely cream pie to eat in bed , lol xx

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 weeks ago

North West

Mine changes depending on the person.

B and I have plenty of quality time together. And he shows through acts of service so I've very much learned to appreciate that and show through physical touch which he likes. He makes an effort to use words of affirmation even though that doesn't come as naturally.

A different partner struggles for time so I very much appreciate when we are able to spend quality time together.

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

"Sounds great, I have a list of problems that need solving - when can you start?"

I’m forever ready.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Herts

German. Nothing like it for barking orders.

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

"Apparently we all give and receive love or care for another in 5 different ways: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.

(I sound delightful, ha!)

What is yours?

You got me at the massages. I'm all yours... Xxx"

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

Apparently mine are all of them

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
13 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

It is indeed an intriguing enquiry, and I shall endeavor to expound upon it from my own vantage point.

I shall endeavor to elucidate this from my own perspective. To assert that individuals vary in their capabilities in any given moment is neither a standard nor a judgment. Endeavors fluctuate akin to the tides. Likewise, one’s perception and receptiveness to certain matters are influenced by an array of stresses, dispositions, and external factors.

I find myself in need of physical affection and the gift of quality companionship. In return, I bestow physical affection, quality time, acts of service, with love language.

My wife and my partners, they extend to me words of affirmation, acts of service, physical affection, and quality companionship.

Regards

Chad ThunderCock

🌹

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

London

"It is indeed an intriguing enquiry, and I shall endeavor to expound upon it from my own vantage point.

I find myself in need of physical affection and the gift of quality companionship. In return, I bestow physical affection, quality time, acts of service, with love language.

My wife and my partners, they extend to me words of affirmation, acts of service, physical affection, and quality companionship.

Regards

Chad ThunderCock

🌹"

"I shall endeavor to expound upon it from my own vantage point.

I shall endeavor to elucidate this from my own perspective"

You could lose one of those, you're saying the same thing twice. An act of unrequested advice on the house.

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By *anceAloneWoman
13 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

"It is indeed an intriguing enquiry, and I shall endeavor to expound upon it from my own vantage point.

I find myself in need of physical affection and the gift of quality companionship. In return, I bestow physical affection, quality time, acts of service, with love language.

My wife and my partners, they extend to me words of affirmation, acts of service, physical affection, and quality companionship.

Regards

Chad ThunderCock

🌹

"I shall endeavor to expound upon it from my own vantage point.

I shall endeavor to elucidate this from my own perspective"

You could lose one of those, you're saying the same thing twice. An act of unrequested advice on the house.

Chad has never been renowned for his brevity 😆

Why use 3 words when 822 will do 🤔

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