FabSwingers.com forum: Dick Pics? Yes or No?

By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

Is this something I should just keep to my friend’s only photos?

I’ve seen on Forums a lot of people saying how if a guy has dick pictures on their profile it puts them off or is a big no no for them.

I wonder what the majority of you think? Because it’s funny in the Men’s section all the top pics are their dick

And before anyone comes at me for looking at the men’s hot photo section I was trying to get some pic ideas

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By *enfleetMaleMan
13 weeks ago

Hadleigh

My dick pics were only fabbed by other men.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
13 weeks ago

Lincoln

"I wonder what the majority of you think? Because it’s funny in the Men’s section all the top pics are their dick

That's because men get fabbed by other men.

I personally don't mind seeing one or two pics including cock on someone's profile. Using a close up dick pic as a profile photo is never a good idea though.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"My dick pics were only fabbed by other men. "

Wanna see my dms from last night jesus....

Awful lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If you want a well fabbed pic then penis pics do well. It'll be mostly men fabbing like, but still.

People are different and like different things.

The consensus on the forum tends towards no dick picks, or at least not as a profile picture. But everyone is different.

Do your profile how you want to present yourself. If it puts off people who don't like that, that's a good thing and saves you both time wasted messaging incompatible people 💜

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
13 weeks ago

Lincoln

"If you want a well fabbed pic then penis pics do well. It'll be mostly men fabbing like, but still.

People are different and like different things.

The consensus on the forum tends towards no dick picks, or at least not as a profile picture. But everyone is different.

Do your profile how you want to present yourself. If it puts off people who don't like that, that's a good thing and saves you both time wasted messaging incompatible people 💜"

☝ She loves dick pics.

LvM

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By *aven.Woman
13 weeks ago

Not the North West...

The majority of forums users will say no. But forum users are a small percentage and I'd bet most others don't actually mind.

Basically, just do what you want op.

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By *naswingdressWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

This is what I would do if I were a man.

I'd have a variety of body shots showing off my assets and what I think would appeal to my audience.

Among those pictures I would have one dick pic. Clearly taken, erect, either with most of the rest of the body or a close up.

Some people do want to see them, and so having them on a public profile makes some sense to me. But others (myself included!) would rather not.

To me, this is the compromise position. Not 200 pictures of penis from every angle and from flaccid to all spunked out.

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By *orphia2003Woman
13 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Personally, I'm not that interested in seeing them. The odd few are fine and I've seen some very lovely artistic pics. 101 close-ups of your cock is just very off-putting. Not fond of seeing them as profile pic and certainly don't want them in my inbox.

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By *r lotharioMan
13 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

"This is what I would do if I were a man.

I'd have a variety of body shots showing off my assets and what I think would appeal to my audience.

Among those pictures I would have one dick pic. Clearly taken, erect, either with most of the rest of the body or a close up.

Some people do want to see them, and so having them on a public profile makes some sense to me. But others (myself included!) would rather not.

To me, this is the compromise position. Not 200 pictures of penis from every angle and from flaccid to all spunked out. "

we have audiences?

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
13 weeks ago

Maidstone

I like them. I'm probably a minority though and probably not your target audience. I have one rule with my pics. I post them because I like them and if someone else does then hey, we have that in common. Everyone else can do one.

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By *naswingdressWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"This is what I would do if I were a man.

I'd have a variety of body shots showing off my assets and what I think would appeal to my audience.

Among those pictures I would have one dick pic. Clearly taken, erect, either with most of the rest of the body or a close up.

Some people do want to see them, and so having them on a public profile makes some sense to me. But others (myself included!) would rather not.

To me, this is the compromise position. Not 200 pictures of penis from every angle and from flaccid to all spunked out.

we have audiences?"

Yes. Or at least you're seeking an audience.

Places like this, you try to make yourself look good to the people you want to attract. That's how I'd do it, if I were a man.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like to see a couple. There are just as many ugly cocks out there as sexy ones and I want to see what is going to go in my mouth before it happens, as no one wants to hear me say, Oh.'

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Having read all the responses above OP, I think you have your answer: it's a YES.

Display your phallus without malice. 🔱

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By *exy-Teacher93Man
13 weeks ago

cork city

"I wonder what the majority of you think? Because it’s funny in the Men’s section all the top pics are their dick

That's because men get fabbed by other men.

I personally don't mind seeing one or two pics including cock on someone's profile. Using a close up dick pic as a profile photo is never a good idea though.

Just changed mine based on your advice! Thanks 😁

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By *naswingdressWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Having read all the responses above OP, I think you have your answer: it's a YES.

Display your phallus without malice. 🔱"

Halloween picture challenge: malicious genitals

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

I'd recommend just one, to satisfy those who like to see the goods before sampling

. It also allows them to compare with what they could get elsewhere.

A profile that's mainly dick pics is off-putting to many. They need to gauge your overall physique, to get a feel for whether they fancy you being physically close to them

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By *ust another WonkoMan
13 weeks ago

here and there

I prefer to receive strapon ones

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

A dick pic in a gallery isn't off-putting, what is is a pic of it from every possible angle or unsolicited into an inbox.

Some like dick pics some don't, you won't please everyone.

Mrs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If it’s a full body picture that displays the penis in its natural habitat then it’s something we like to see so we can gauge if we’d like to meet the person behind it.

If it’s a close up to skew the scale of it from 200 very slightly different angles then you’re in the bin.

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Just my take op, but one in a mix of other pics is fine, as I can get an idea of the body type etc.

If it's all cock pics that puts me off, but my bigger gripe is men sending me cock pics in a first message.

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By *r lotharioMan
13 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

"Just my take op, but one in a mix of other pics is fine, as I can get an idea of the body type etc.

If it's all cock pics that puts me off, but my bigger gripe is men sending me cock pics in a first message.

i tried to upload a picture of a rooster ages ago for this very purpose, but it wasn't allowed hahahahaha

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By *anceAloneWoman
13 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

As part of the whole person..no problem

As a close up...not my favourite

Making up 90% of your pictures... A big turn off

On a DM...instant delete

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
13 weeks ago

Newcastle

Maybes one visible in a full body shot is ok if it’s in a gallery of other good quality photos, but no closeups and not as a profile pic either.

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By *naswingdressWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Just my take op, but one in a mix of other pics is fine, as I can get an idea of the body type etc.

If it's all cock pics that puts me off, but my bigger gripe is men sending me cock pics in a first message.

i tried to upload a picture of a rooster ages ago for this very purpose, but it wasn't allowed hahahahaha"

A friend of mine found a model rooster in a shop, and uploaded that plus hand. (I took the picture)

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By *r lotharioMan
13 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

"Just my take op, but one in a mix of other pics is fine, as I can get an idea of the body type etc.

If it's all cock pics that puts me off, but my bigger gripe is men sending me cock pics in a first message.

i tried to upload a picture of a rooster ages ago for this very purpose, but it wasn't allowed hahahahaha

A friend of mine found a model rooster in a shop, and uploaded that plus hand. (I took the picture)"

they allowed that one?

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By *avexxMan
13 weeks ago

cheshire

i have a couple of naked body pic thats the limit for me

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By *tlanshiaWoman
13 weeks ago

Chatham

As a profile who states no dick pics, I personally am not bothered if there on your profile. If I click on your profile I expect to see whatever you've chosen to share on your profile, and if I'm curious I'll look for them.

I think a lot of woman like myself who dislike dick pics don't like them unsolicited in my inbox, before even a hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

It is your profile and you should post whatever photos you want to show. My advice is have variety as for me personally only dick pics on a profile don't do anything for me.

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

longeaton,

I love cock pics from other men,they look so yummy, wish I could find a used condom user of some of them.

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By *inochioMan
13 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Ive had the usual negative feed back over dick pics on my profile so i deleted them. Totally counter productive. I dont have any pics like that anu more.

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By *ellroseWoman
13 weeks ago

Brum

Each to their own but it’s a no from me

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Stockport

"Just my take op, but one in a mix of other pics is fine, as I can get an idea of the body type etc.

If it's all cock pics that puts me off, but my bigger gripe is men sending me cock pics in a first message.

i tried to upload a picture of a rooster ages ago for this very purpose, but it wasn't allowed hahahahaha

A friend of mine found a model rooster in a shop, and uploaded that plus hand. (I took the picture)

they allowed that one?"

Yes. If anyone wants to rub their cock against a stainless steel sheet metal figure of a cockerel, the only creature that's going to end up injured is themselves. Mind you if they went after a real rooster and it gave them a damn good pecking, they would certainly deserve it.

Rules are pictures must not include any person or creature that cannot give consent (which includes if they are in a photo in the background), must include at least some bit of the person the profile belongs to, and that any other persons present must not be identifiable even if they have given consent. Now whether your picture will be actually rejected because of the tropical fish tank behind you, that's probably up the exact interpretation of the rules by the person verifying the photo, and how alarmed Nemo looks at the sight of your cock...

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Only for challenges if not they go to my vault unless someone asks

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By *iaisonseekerMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

"This is what I would do if I were a man.

I'd have a variety of body shots showing off my assets and what I think would appeal to my audience.

Among those pictures I would have one dick pic. Clearly taken, erect, either with most of the rest of the body or a close up.

Some people do want to see them, and so having them on a public profile makes some sense to me. But others (myself included!) would rather not.

To me, this is the compromise position. Not 200 pictures of penis from every angle and from flaccid to all spunked out. "

This is a very well-balanced analysis that encapsulates the simple truth that you need to understand the audience for your profile. It is impossible to appeal to everyone so it is best to project (no pun intended) the image that will appeal to people who share your outlook.

As a naturist and someone who likes to be watched, it would feel disingenuous to deny those aspects of myself on my profile hence I am nude in all of my pictures. That is not to say that it defines my entire personality but, sexually, it is a core need that would have to be met over the long term.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
13 weeks ago

walsall

"Is this something I should just keep to my friend’s only photos?

I’ve seen on Forums a lot of people saying how if a guy has dick pictures on their profile it puts them off or is a big no no for them.

I wonder what the majority of you think? Because it’s funny in the Men’s section all the top pics are their dick

And before anyone comes at me for looking at the men’s hot photo section I was trying to get some pic ideas

I want to see a dic pic. Not 25 though. I’d also like to see other pics to gauge the whole person.

I wouldn’t contact a profile on a swinger site that didn’t show this.

The forums make up a tiny percentage of site users. I wouldn’t take too much notice.

Just don’t send them unsolicited is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

"Having read all the responses above OP, I think you have your answer: it's a YES.

Display your phallus without malice. 🔱"

Time to start taking pics

Nah I understand one or two is fine but of course no one needs to see 73 different angles of my dick.

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By *irty-pairCouple
13 weeks ago

South Essex

There’s nothing wrong with a few of your cock, but I like to see some of the guy it’s attached to. X

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By *avexxMan
13 weeks ago

cheshire

nothing with a nice body shot

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By *avexxMan
13 weeks ago

cheshire

if you have a nice body why not show it off

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By *entakuruMan
13 weeks ago

Exeter

If someone asks I'll send one. Otherwise don't really see the point. Objectively speaking mine looks nice enough, no lumps, bumps or bends. It's very much ball-park average size. They chopped a bit off it when I was a baby, not too happy about that.

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