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"Where am I going wrong? No one ever replies " Read profiles and don’t just message the basic shit think outside the box | |||
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"Let's review: "I am a 30 year old man and I'm looking to meet women, couples." First thing I notice is that your profile age says you're 32, implying that you haven't updated this in 2 years. It's also the absolute bare minimum of information about you that's already present in other parts of the profile. In effect, your bio says nothing. I have no idea who you are as a person, and what you're looking for besides their gender. Good move not having a gallery of cock pics, but you may get more engagement from your face photos if you put some up where you're smiling. You look relatively annoyed in the ones you have up currently. Your age settings imply a lazy approach as well; are you *really* willing to throw down with a 99-year-old? A lot of people will be put off by a lack of defined settings like that. What sort of messages are you sending? What about your profile do you think should currently entice people to respond, that sets you apart from the tens of thousands of other guys on here?" Basics really - wholeheartedly agree | |||
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"Thank you for the advice! Why should I put? " • Why? Because if you don't then you have sealed your fate in a downward spiral of lost hope, rejection and dejection. | |||
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"I meant what should I put haha" One of your photos is from 5 years ago, does it still reflect you? One of your photos looks like you’ve punched a hole in the behind you which would be a red flag for me and a reason to not meet incase you lost your temper. The profile pic you have, you’re not smiling. Smiles are good to see in a profile. | |||
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"I meant what should I put haha" You should work that out for yourself. If you write what everyone tells you to write, you’re not describing you. Look at guys profiles and find some that are well written. Get a few ideas of how they approach it. Write a profile out on paper for yourself, read it and ask “would you meet yourself if you read it”. Pictures - smile. You look like an angry young man in all of your current photo’s. A friendly looking face will attract more interest. | |||
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"Where am I going wrong? No one ever replies " …. A question that’s asked a hundred times or more. What is it they want? Less or more? A face pic? Some banter, poetry or just ‘hello’? What should we write? Does anybody know? | |||
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"Where am I going wrong? No one ever replies …. A question that’s asked a hundred times or more. What is it they want? Less or more? A face pic? Some banter, poetry or just ‘hello’? What should we write? Does anybody know? " A wise couple told us early on to add our interests and dislikes as helps someone make a decision (not the tick box ones). the fab world definitely changed for us from then on as there was a point of discussion upon contact. also I feel that because we are clear in it we don’t waste anyone’s time as the information is all there (albeit a little long for those who just want a fuck and go!) xx  | |||
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