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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man?" You watch to much porn | |||
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"Can WOMEN answer the shitty dick question ?" Go for it Granny | |||
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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man? You watch to much porn" Possible | |||
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"Outside of porn I cannot see a single woman.on here agreeing to this. Nor that many guys find that sexy. Some fantasies or porn scenes should just stay where they are." I think you will find that it does happen a lot more than you realise. | |||
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"Outside of porn I cannot see a single woman.on here agreeing to this. …..." Not one single woman? Are you sure? | |||
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"Outside of porn I cannot see a single woman.on here agreeing to this. …... Not one single woman? Are you sure? " They all can't talk just now, some have their mouth full  | |||
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"Outside of porn I cannot see a single woman.on here agreeing to this. …... Not one single woman? Are you sure? They all can't talk just now, some have their mouth full "With 🤢 | |||
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"OP, would you have someone up your bum and then suck them off? " I started this out of curiosity... You asking me gives me impression as you somehow got offended by the question..it s a simple yes or no . But to answer question i would do anal only with women | |||
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"Done it before as part of a BDSM dynamic years ago. I don't do anal that much so these days so it's no longer a factor." When I Dom, yes it happens sometimes but that is with discussion, prep and douching before hand! Outside of that, to quote Clerks II. "Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it's forgivable to go ass to mouth". | |||
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"Done it before as part of a BDSM dynamic years ago. I don't do anal that much so these days so it's no longer a factor. When I Dom, yes it happens sometimes but that is with discussion, prep and douching before hand! Outside of that, to quote Clerks II. "Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it's forgivable to go ass to mouth". " Douching.... Why do people think all is okay cos they've douched ? All douching means is you have a very small window time without any LUMPS involved. As for the constant retraction of the intestines to move solids to the lower bowel and rectum and as for the billions of bacteria present ...... As long it's your own mouth it's going into that's okay | |||
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"I'm guessing deep rimming is out for most on here too" I done that before | |||
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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man?" That's just gross!! | |||
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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man? That's just gross!!" I thought so too..but over time i realize many like. Also after cleaning out ofcourse! | |||
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"I'm guessing deep rimming is out for most on here too" Not for me. If I’m going to fck her ass I will always start off with my tongue… | |||
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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man? That's just gross!! I thought so too..but over time i realize many like. Also after cleaning out ofcourse!" . Sounds even more gross | |||
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"Well its just discussion..nobody is forcing anything to anyone "What's the problem with people answering your question with their own opinions on it ? | |||
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"You’re not a proper swinger if you don’t suck cock that’s been up your arse hole. " I can live with not proper ... | |||
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"I like it when she licks the sweetcorn of my helmet, after being balls deep in her arsehole.... Mr " ,,, holy shit | |||
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"Well its just discussion..nobody is forcing anything to anyone
What's the problem with people answering your question with their own opinions on it ?"Ok well i m not against it | |||
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"Anyone seen Clerks 2? There's a scene on this topic exactly. 😅" A discussion! It’s a discussion before anyone thinks it’s a porn scene. Hahaha. | |||
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"Anyone seen Clerks 2? There's a scene on this topic exactly. 😅 A discussion! It’s a discussion before anyone thinks it’s a porn scene. Hahaha. " Thanks for the addendum, silly me for not specifying it straight away. 🤣 | |||
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"I don’t see what possible extra pleasure it can bring a man over just normal oral maybe I just don’t understand as a bloke who dislikes anal sex just seems kind of degrading to the poor lass not judging anyone who’s into that each to their own " It is degrading. A lot of the 'sex' that goes on is less about mutual pleasure than it is about degradation , humiliation, subjugation , de-humanising , control and forming a power dynamic during the act. | |||
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"Anyone seen Clerks 2? There's a scene on this topic exactly. 😅 A discussion! It’s a discussion before anyone thinks it’s a porn scene. Hahaha. Thanks for the addendum, silly me for not specifying it straight away. 🤣" *hi5
If I’ve had my cock inside her ass I expect her to be clean… so why won’t she suck it? That’s what I’d be asking!!! 😏 | |||
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"I don’t see what possible extra pleasure it can bring a man over just normal oral maybe I just don’t understand as a bloke who dislikes anal sex just seems kind of degrading to the poor lass not judging anyone who’s into that each to their own It is degrading. A lot of the 'sex' that goes on is less about mutual pleasure than it is about degradation , humiliation, subjugation , de-humanising , control and forming a power dynamic during the act. " That Sounds absolutely horrific to be honest and fail to see how it could ever appeal to anyone? Maybe it’s just me being old fashioned as I like sex to be very “loving” and pleasurable for both so cannot see the appeal | |||
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"I don’t see what possible extra pleasure it can bring a man over just normal oral maybe I just don’t understand as a bloke who dislikes anal sex just seems kind of degrading to the poor lass not judging anyone who’s into that each to their own It is degrading. A lot of the 'sex' that goes on is less about mutual pleasure than it is about degradation , humiliation, subjugation , de-humanising , control and forming a power dynamic during the act. " I've done ass to mouth with two different women, not at my suggestion, at theirs, in fact one just pulled out, turned round and did it, which was quite a surprise. I can assure they were no thoughts of degradation running through my head, just how horny it was. I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it but I'd like to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with them though. | |||
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"Yea sure. As long as you go first, no?! Didn't think so.
"Didn’t think what? I would, definitely. It’s a turn on. I have been with about 5 women that have done it and enjoyed it. It’s the perversion factor, the taboo factor that’s the turn on. I can understand those who wouldn’t want to, but there are many women out there who enjoy that level of filth. I just don’t think Fabs is necessarily the place to find them. There’s a certain popular ‘fetish’ site that seems to have many many more women into more perverted, kinky, filthy things, like arse to mouth . | |||
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"I don’t see what possible extra pleasure it can bring a man over just normal oral maybe I just don’t understand as a bloke who dislikes anal sex just seems kind of degrading to the poor lass not judging anyone who’s into that each to their own It is degrading. A lot of the 'sex' that goes on is less about mutual pleasure than it is about degradation , humiliation, subjugation , de-humanising , control and forming a power dynamic during the act. I've done ass to mouth with two different women, not at my suggestion, at theirs, in fact one just pulled out, turned round and did it, which was quite a surprise. I can assure they were no thoughts of degradation running through my head, just how horny it was. I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it but I'd like to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with them though." Agreed. It’s got nothing to do with humiliation or degradation for me either. I don’t think it’s fair to assume that’s what the arousal factor is if you’re not even into it. | |||
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" ... I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it... " Sometimes it's just hot to watch your man cum up close. And some of them taste good. Do you not enjoy watching women cum close to your face? Do you feel it's degrading to you if they do?  | |||
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" ... I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it... Sometimes it's just hot to watch your man cum up close. And some of them taste good. Do you not enjoy watching women cum close to your face? Do you feel it's degrading to you if they do? "Why have you not finished my quote? | |||
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" ... I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it... Sometimes it's just hot to watch your man cum up close. And some of them taste good. Do you not enjoy watching women cum close to your face? Do you feel it's degrading to you if they do?
Why have you not finished my quote? "Same reason I didn't start it. Brevity. | |||
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" ... I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it... Sometimes it's just hot to watch your man cum up close. And some of them taste good. Do you not enjoy watching women cum close to your face? Do you feel it's degrading to you if they do?
Why have you not finished my quote?
Same reason I didn't start it. Brevity. "I'm unsure what you mean by "cum close" to my face, unless you mean whilst I'm giving her oral, which the answer is yes of course. I still like "to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with" you though. | |||
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"There is no “correct” preparation. It doesn’t matter how clean you think it is, unless you power wash yourself with bleach, there is always faecal matter and bacteria. I just don’t see the appeal of it "Agree  | |||
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"There is no “correct” preparation. It doesn’t matter how clean you think it is, unless you power wash yourself with bleach, there is always faecal matter and bacteria. I just don’t see the appeal of it "If you've cleaned correctly there won't be any faecal matter. There'll probably be less Bacteria than a pussy as that likely won't have been douched 🤷 | |||
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"Done it before as part of a BDSM dynamic years ago. I don't do anal that much so these days so it's no longer a factor. When I Dom, yes it happens sometimes but that is with discussion, prep and douching before hand! Outside of that, to quote Clerks II. "Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it's forgivable to go ass to mouth". Douching.... Why do people think all is okay cos they've douched ? All douching means is you have a very small window time without any LUMPS involved. As for the constant retraction of the intestines to move solids to the lower bowel and rectum and as for the billions of bacteria present ...... As long it's your own mouth it's going into that's okay" You worry about you and yours, I'll worry about me and mine. That way everyone is happy. | |||
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"There is no “correct” preparation. It doesn’t matter how clean you think it is, unless you power wash yourself with bleach, there is always faecal matter and bacteria. I just don’t see the appeal of it
If you've cleaned correctly there won't be any faecal matter. There'll probably be less Bacteria than a pussy as that likely won't have been douched 🤷"I am a healthcare professional, the intestines ALWAYS have fecal matter unless you flush it with bleach. The bacteria in the rectum are way more dangerous than the ones in the vagina. You can argue with me all you want but unless you are a person educated in human anatomy and physiology, your opinion on this matter is not valid sorry | |||
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"There is no “correct” preparation. It doesn’t matter how clean you think it is, unless you power wash yourself with bleach, there is always faecal matter and bacteria. I just don’t see the appeal of it
If you've cleaned correctly there won't be any faecal matter. There'll probably be less Bacteria than a pussy as that likely won't have been douched 🤷
I am a healthcare professional, the intestines ALWAYS have fecal matter unless you flush it with bleach. The bacteria in the rectum are way more dangerous than the ones in the vagina.
You can argue with me all you want but unless you are a person educated in human anatomy and physiology, your opinion on this matter is not valid sorry "PS: I do not endorse flushing no body cavities with bleach | |||
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"What about if it had a bit of sweetcorn on the end if it?? … "I'm guessing sweet corn garnished with shit could become the new dish 😂 | |||
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" ... I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it... Sometimes it's just hot to watch your man cum up close. And some of them taste good. Do you not enjoy watching women cum close to your face? Do you feel it's degrading to you if they do?
Why have you not finished my quote?
Same reason I didn't start it. Brevity.
I'm unsure what you mean by "cum close" to my face, unless you mean whilst I'm giving her oral, which the answer is yes of course.
I still like "to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with" you though."I've watched a lady cum on her man's hand as I was licking her inner thighs, men often look at toys on me from similar proximity... Lots of fun ways a lady might be cumming near one's face. Includinly oral. Obvs. Similarly chaps. Not to kink shame but I don't share your interest in trauma. I like my sexual experiences joyful. | |||
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" ... I do agree with you about how a lot of sex acts are about degrading the woman though, e.g., spunking over a woman's face, often requested by the man, not the woman. Some women will say they love it... Sometimes it's just hot to watch your man cum up close. And some of them taste good. Do you not enjoy watching women cum close to your face? Do you feel it's degrading to you if they do?
Why have you not finished my quote?
Same reason I didn't start it. Brevity.
I'm unsure what you mean by "cum close" to my face, unless you mean whilst I'm giving her oral, which the answer is yes of course.
I still like "to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with" you though.
I've watched a lady cum on her man's hand as I was licking her inner thighs, men often look at toys on me from similar proximity... Lots of fun ways a lady might be cumming near one's face. Includinly oral. Obvs. Similarly chaps.
Not to kink shame but I don't share your interest in trauma. I like my sexual experiences joyful."But I specifically said cumming on a woman's face was an act of degradation. What are you going on about the other stuff for? | |||
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" But I specifically said cumming on a woman's face was an act of degradation. What are you going on about the other stuff for? " I am disagreeing my dear. I was pointing out that there are lots of ways for a gentleman or a lady to cum on/within splashing distance of a face. None are inherently degrading unless the vibe at the time is. They can all, also, be joyful, playful, loving, exciting... and delicious 😋 | |||
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" But I specifically said cumming on a woman's face was an act of degradation. What are you going on about the other stuff for? I am disagreeing my dear. I was pointing out that there are lots of ways for a gentleman or a lady to cum on/within splashing distance of a face. None are inherently degrading unless the vibe at the time is. They can all, also, be joyful, playful, loving, exciting... and delicious 😋 " I love a woman's cum on my face | |||
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" But I specifically said cumming on a woman's face was an act of degradation. What are you going on about the other stuff for? I am disagreeing my dear. I was pointing out that there are lots of ways for a gentleman or a lady to cum on/within splashing distance of a face. None are inherently degrading unless the vibe at the time is. They can all, also, be joyful, playful, loving, exciting... and delicious 😋 " Is this what is called a strawman argument 🤔. I think it is. | |||
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" I still like "to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with" you though." Serious question....I'm wondering why you've brought peoples past trauma into this. Why does this intrest you? Mr | |||
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" I still like "to have a discussion about past traumas, sorry, experiences, with" you though. Serious question....I'm wondering why you've brought peoples past trauma into this. Why does this intrest you? Mr " Because people's past traumas/experiences can and do affect how they conduct themselves sexually. Read what I said in its entirety to get context. | |||
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"Would you love to do it op? Take a dick in your ass then suck it? " Love to rim but im not having a dick in my arse | |||
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"There is no “correct” preparation. It doesn’t matter how clean you think it is, unless you power wash yourself with bleach, there is always faecal matter and bacteria. I just don’t see the appeal of it "The appeal of it for many, is that it's a filthy sex act. Just like how many people like to rim. Some think it's disgusting, others think it's filthy and hot. | |||
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"As far as ATM porn goes there are two things to consider, clever editing and women being that far off their heads they don't care what they do. As for ourselves it's a definite no. " And yet here we are with women who aren’t off their heads enjoying it. | |||
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"As far as ATM porn goes there are two things to consider, clever editing and women being that far off their heads they don't care what they do. As for ourselves it's a definite no. And yet here we are with women who aren’t off their heads enjoying it. " I have scrolled this thread and don’t believe there’s been a single comment from a woman who has said they enjoy ATM… | |||
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"As far as ATM porn goes there are two things to consider, clever editing and women being that far off their heads they don't care what they do. As for ourselves it's a definite no. And yet here we are with women who aren’t off their heads enjoying it. " Well, where are they ? | |||
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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man?" Everything I do sexually is done to pleasure the man. I get my pleasure by (hopefully) giving pleasure | |||
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"It s a kinky topic for some and joy for others... Girls..is this something you love to do...or you do to pleasure the man? Everything I do sexually is done to pleasure the man. I get my pleasure by (hopefully) giving pleasure "Sorry, and as I have just been asked: Yes I do love doing ass to mouth for a guy if it is something that turns him on | |||
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"No...faeces are not entering any of my orifices 💩💩💩💩💩"Just think of the diseases 🤢 | |||
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"OP, would you have someone up your bum and then suck them off? I started this out of curiosity... You asking me gives me impression as you somehow got offended by the question..it s a simple yes or no . But to answer question i would do anal only with women " She can do you with a strapon OP, then you show her how your proposition is fulfilled | |||
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"It will soon get old saying this... Chemistry matters.. yes I've done ATM.. because I know my ass is clean my diet is healthy and it's been in the moment just as is when he's setting my pussy and then kisses me or me BJ him and I kiss him.. If I'm worried about the person's hygiene I wouldn't be fucking him to begin with. And I wouldn't be in ANY sexual situation without gaining that chemistry and connection." Same here for me | |||
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"Funny how these sort of topics are always by single guys that’s got to tell you something " Lol | |||
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"As far as ATM porn goes there are two things to consider, clever editing and women being that far off their heads they don't care what they do. As for ourselves it's a definite no. And yet here we are with women who aren’t off their heads enjoying it. I have scrolled this thread and don’t believe there’s been a single comment from a woman who has said they enjoy ATM…" There was at least one before your post and a couple after it. | |||
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