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If not, why not and if so, why so many?

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Belfast

A random Sunday evening thought.

I've rarely looked at fab videos on people's profiles but in the last few weeks I've taken interest and viewed quite a few.

I've clicked on numerous profiles I've never seen before through the new pics and videos section and came to an interesting conclusion.

There are many many profiles with lots of pics but not a single video and I wondered why this might be?

Is it that pics are more easily cropped and adjusted to present the best of us or do people just feel less comfortable with videos?

The other thing I noticed is that for those who have multiple videos, there is little or no variety on many profiles and they are almost all exactly the same.

Some people have 30 videos of their face blowing kisses while others have 40 close-ups of their nether regions.

So as the title says if you don't have videos, why not and if you do, why so many of the same?

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By *ir tootMan
20 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"A random Sunday evening thought.

I've rarely looked at fab videos on people's profiles but in the last few weeks I've taken interest and viewed quite a few.

I've clicked on numerous profiles I've never seen before through the new pics and videos section and came to an interesting conclusion.

There are many many profiles with lots of pics but not a single video and I wondered why this might be?

Is it that pics are more easily cropped and adjusted to present the best of us or do people just feel less comfortable with videos?

The other thing I noticed is that for those who have multiple videos, there is little or no variety on many profiles and they are almost all exactly the same.

Some people have 30 videos of their face blowing kisses while others have 40 close-ups of their nether regions.

So as the title says if you don't have videos, why not and if you do, why so many of the same? "

No supporter

I'm not sure what I'd put tbh

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By *nesCouple
20 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Mrs has a lot of tattoos, we’re always really fussy and careful with the angles we post. Videos would be far too identifying.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I think videos are viewed less than photos so there’s less ‘incentive’ to post them. As for the repetitious pics and videos that suggests the user is posting them to get attention on their profile as the objective, rather than to give more idea of what they’re like (or maybe they’re just boring and lack imagination but let’s be optimistic).

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By *aomilatteCouple
20 weeks ago

Midlands

We have a...few videos, but they're not too similar. Variety is actually our middle name

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By *a LunaWoman
20 weeks ago

South Wales

I don’t want to show my face in a video for privacy reasons. I have done non face videos before but they’re a bit limiting, as are photos really, but that seems less pointless.

My sex drive has gone for a burton or I’d maybe upload vids of me rubbing my clitoris to oblivion. But luckily you’re all spared that. For now

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By *andT2023Couple
20 weeks ago

in the middle

I dont feel comfortable with videos to be fair . So its my decision. I think its more risky and harder to stay anon. With a video.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

There is a few videos on my profile, they are similar in that most of them I am having sex, but the settings and positions are different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

20 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd feel horribly awkward being videod for public consumption, those we do have are very personal to us. Whereas I'm very relaxed in 'still life'.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
20 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I don't post action shots so I'm not quite sure what I'd have a video of, that's why i don't have any.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
20 weeks ago

Llanelli


"A random Sunday evening thought.

I've rarely looked at fab videos on people's profiles but in the last few weeks I've taken interest and viewed quite a few.

I've clicked on numerous profiles I've never seen before through the new pics and videos section and came to an interesting conclusion.

There are many many profiles with lots of pics but not a single video and I wondered why this might be?

Is it that pics are more easily cropped and adjusted to present the best of us or do people just feel less comfortable with videos?

The other thing I noticed is that for those who have multiple videos, there is little or no variety on many profiles and they are almost all exactly the same.

Some people have 30 videos of their face blowing kisses while others have 40 close-ups of their nether regions.

So as the title says if you don't have videos, why not and if you do, why so many of the same? "

Most of my vids are just me singing/playing guitar so definitely very similar but a few are playing of a different kind.

I think most people have their own go to content they usually show and get stuck in a pattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Don’t think it makes much difference tbh so pics are easier

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By *ed OpiumWoman
20 weeks ago

Never Never Land

im new and working my way through getting some pictures, its easier to pose a picture. Videos are only a minute long so you need to crop quite a bit to try and make it make sense. Photos are easier to view.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

It's very interesting that you bring that up and I think what you've said has a lot of merit. I think as a single person, it's harder to come up with unique video ideas but I do think a lot of it is that photos are easier to adjust to your liking as there aren't as many moving parts to try and make look good.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"im new and working my way through getting some pictures, its easier to pose a picture. Videos are only a minute long so you need to crop quite a bit to try and make it make sense. Photos are easier to view."

Aren’t video up to 2 mins now? Thought I read that somewhere.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
20 weeks ago

Ends

I like to give the people what they want.

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By *jk1978Couple
20 weeks ago

Cheshire

Lot of photos and videos but hard work trying to get them right in the middle of sex

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By *eah BabyCouple
20 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have a couple of videos on here but think people probably wizz through peoples photos then playing a video

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Belfast

One of the reasons I asked about the lack of variety is that the advice often given to men is to not have so many dick pics and try and present themselves as more than just their dick.

As I've scrolled through the videos on women and couples profiles there are some very inventive ones but by far the most popular are just very close up videos of the woman playing with herself or using toys and I was curious if they had the same mindset as the men with multiple dick pics or videos of them wanking?

All the replies so far have been valid points and I totally get the difficulties with videos which is why I only have a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"One of the reasons I asked about the lack of variety is that the advice often given to men is to not have so many dick pics and try and present themselves as more than just their dick.

As I've scrolled through the videos on women and couples profiles there are some very inventive ones but by far the most popular are just very close up videos of the woman playing with herself or using toys and I was curious if they had the same mindset as the men with multiple dick pics or videos of them wanking?

All the replies so far have been valid points and I totally get the difficulties with videos which is why I only have a few. "

I find it tough to compare the two when it comes to men having their cock out and women playing with themselves as it's all about knowing your audience. It's kind of assumed that men enjoy seeing that whereas women don't.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
20 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm not a site supporter now but when I was I had no desire to see anyone's video. I never opened one

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
20 weeks ago

North West

I've not put any videos on this account. Not that many photos either.

Our couples' account has a mixture of videos. None particularly graphic.

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By *hil most chillMan
20 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I think videos take more effort. Like OP said, it's easier to control the quality of a photo, a video has a lot more moving parts (obviously). And also not everyone is a site supporter, and a lot of people just don't want videos of themselves on the internet.

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair

The answer, for me, is quite simple: I have nothing worth showing through the medium of high definition video. What very little there is worth showing will probably be betrayed by my many bodily imperfections in ghastly angles.

Instead I employ a little necromancy in my stylistic still images. They're of reasonable (and sufficient) quality to get me laid.

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By *rHotNottsMan
20 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I can’t be bothered to make and upload videos up and what’s the point? I have a few photos and text, I’m not an exhibitionist so why would I !?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
20 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Nobody needs to see my fat ass wobbling about on video

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By *ell GwynnWoman
20 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I don't do videos as I'm fairly lazy. I'd have to think up something interesting, non-graphic, and faceless, and that's just effort.

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By *uenevereWoman
20 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

It's much more difficult to hide tattoos and distinguishing features in a video.

I'm also just not sure what I would put in a video that I actually wanted to share.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most of mine are wiggle Wednesdays and random requests.

I should probably clear out some of the older wiggles.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
20 weeks ago

Llanelli


"Most of mine are wiggle Wednesdays and random requests.

I should probably clear out some of the older wiggles."

Wiggle wiggle, wiggle wiggle, don't stop moving baby all you do is drive me crazy, wiggle wiggle.

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By *HUSH-Man
20 weeks ago

London

I’ve got a few video ideas that I’d like to film and upload but you can’t unless you’re verified. So that might be a reason why they’re less popular too.

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By *viatrixWoman
20 weeks ago

Redhill

I have a selection of videos, they are all very diffferent.

The most tame are the public ones- though I have a couple of hardcore ones in my private gallery. 😎

I like making videos but often they may not be as spontaneous as taking photos.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Northampton

We try to mix them up but there’s only so much we can do whilst keeping our faces from shot

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I used to have some.

I don't currently as I'm far too bleurgh right now and videos are harder to edit.

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By *ed OpiumWoman
20 weeks ago

Never Never Land


"im new and working my way through getting some pictures, its easier to pose a picture. Videos are only a minute long so you need to crop quite a bit to try and make it make sense. Photos are easier to view.

Aren’t video up to 2 mins now? Thought I read that somewhere. "

you may be correct - hey i can just about work the photo upload thing!

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By *alico_KittyWoman
20 weeks ago

Kittys Lane

I often upload a quick vid to show the outfit that I'm wearing in the pic I upload but mine are all boring but sometimes they are appreciated more x

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By *oodmessMan
20 weeks ago

yumsville

It's pretty unnerving knowing you're loading a vid onto the web for all to see. I have, as was horny and fancied it but haven't since. The reason why I haven't loaded any of any meets is I never thought to record any - I didn't meet for entertainment or want posterity.

I have some pics of some I met regularly but setting up a vid to start shagging would feel wholly unnatural.. I can't imagine watching back 1/2 hr of foreplay

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By *asual777Man
20 weeks ago

i travel all over

I love posting videos . It brings the profile and behaviours of the member to life more

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By *eyond PurityCouple
20 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We have done a few videos but tried to make them a bit more different than action videos.

I don’t understand numerous action videos or guys/women wanking as they look samey but it’s other peoples profiles and basically I can just move on if I don’t enjoy viewing them.

K

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By *iscean_dreamMan
20 weeks ago

Llanelli

I'm open to suggestions if any has them for new videos.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't like videos being taken so there isn't any, the Mr has plenty of me sucking his cock for his own viewing.

Mrs

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By *eeper ThanMan
20 weeks ago

Dartford


"I'm open to suggestions if any has them for new videos. "

Yeah this is true what’s a single guy got to post no one really wants to see them pulling that self silly do they very limited or just need to think out the box more maybe

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By *iscean_dreamMan
20 weeks ago

Llanelli


"I'm open to suggestions if any has them for new videos.

Yeah this is true what’s a single guy got to post no one really wants to see them pulling that self silly do they very limited or just need to think out the box more maybe "

I got one video of me cumming and that's it for graphic vids, definitely no need for more than that.

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By *orphia2003Woman
20 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I simply have no interest in being videoed.

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