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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield

how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys

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By *elix SightedMan
27 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’m single and if anything I have too much sex.

How’s that for filling a void.

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By *ir tootMan
27 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By *exandcoffeeWoman
27 weeks ago

Stamford

Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Tamworth

It’s not easy for a woman. FYI 😂

That’s why I aim to find people who are looking for something a bit more regular. And also why I tend to go to club nights.

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By *JcuriousCouple
27 weeks ago

Derby

Have you tried clubs?

New different/toys?

Miss S x

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Have you tried clubs?

New different/toys?

Miss S x"

too far for me to travel were iam I went www and didnt get lucky

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?"

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

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By *hrek101Man
27 weeks ago

Herts

It is what it is, i have hobbies to distract me. if I didn't it would drive me mad.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I'm not bad looking either just not getting any attention at all Nada ziltch zero does worry me a bit because sex and having someone atracted to you feel great and good on the ol mental health

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"It is what it is, i have hobbies to distract me. if I didn't it would drive me mad."

shit innit bro

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By *mmaleiaWoman
27 weeks ago

Trowbridge

It’s not easy for women at all on here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

27 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?"

I don't think it's 'easy' for either, nor should it be.

I don't find it difficult. But then I don't just use Fab to find company.

It can be as 'easy' or hard as anyone chooses to make it, regardless of gender.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"It’s not easy for women at all on here. "

fancy a social sometime lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can "

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can "

are you suggesting us women will go with any guy ? you are so so wrong 99.99% of men or higher dont interest me i only go with guys im sexually attracted to and more than just that so to suggest us women have it easy is very very wrong we are not like most men who will stick it in anything wet n warm ..

you can tell from the forums how many couples and women find it hard because the cant find what they want yes theres plenty of men but not men we are looking for ... men have it hard for many reasons from the ''zillions'' of them to how the behave to wanting things to fall on a plate for them that's nobody's fault bar their own

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*"

100% correct

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct"

must be something wrong with me then eh

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

are you suggesting us women will go with any guy ? you are so so wrong 99.99% of men or higher dont interest me i only go with guys im sexually attracted to and more than just that so to suggest us women have it easy is very very wrong we are not like most men who will stick it in anything wet n warm ..

you can tell from the forums how many couples and women find it hard because the cant find what they want yes theres plenty of men but not men we are looking for ... men have it hard for many reasons from the ''zillions'' of them to how the behave to wanting things to fall on a plate for them that's nobody's fault bar their own"

yea ok then trying find mr right must be hard connection and all that

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh"

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
27 weeks ago

Maidstone

😂😂😂😂😂

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

As for how I fill the void?

I read. I write. I study things. I go for walks. When the urge gets too much, I wank.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield

end of the day when you climb into bed on your own and its just you alone with your thoughts its not the best but it makes you stronger whatever genders

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"As for how I fill the void?

I read. I write. I study things. I go for walks. When the urge gets too much, I wank."

any videos lol

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By *urvy ClarissaWoman
27 weeks ago

wigan

If I wanted to have disappointing and unfulfilling sex it would indeed be easy but I’d rather just sort myself out any day than meet some random who clicks his fingers and expects me to jump to it!

It’s all about attraction for me and if it’s not there ,both physically and mentally, then I’d rather watch something on Netflix! 😂

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"end of the day when you climb into bed on your own and its just you alone with your thoughts its not the best but it makes you stronger whatever genders "

I adore sleeping alone.

My thoughts can get in the sea, but they're there whether or not you have a cover hog who farts and snores through the night

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As for how I fill the void?

I read. I write. I study things. I go for walks. When the urge gets too much, I wank.

any videos lol "

Only for my friends lol

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"As for how I fill the void?

I read. I write. I study things. I go for walks. When the urge gets too much, I wank.

any videos lol

Only for my friends lol"

they in the 0.001 bracket

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By *KTim61Man
27 weeks ago

Tipton


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys "

Coming onto sites like this & with fingers crossed & pray I just meet up with that woman that I've been looking for? But an I on the right site ?

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys

Coming onto sites like this & with fingers crossed & pray I just meet up with that woman that I've been looking for? But an I on the right site ? "

I bid you the best of luck bud

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with."

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys

Coming onto sites like this & with fingers crossed & pray I just meet up with that woman that I've been looking for? But an I on the right site ? "

After all that praying you find someone you like and you don’t meet their requirements cause you’re 1 year to young, so you just hit your head against the wall and keep going with your life hahaha (same for any requirement…) 😅

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm "

I'm not sure you understand what "hobby" means, but cool, you do you.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm

I'm not sure you understand what "hobby" means, but cool, you do you."

I enjoy spending it too well my kids do

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm

I'm not sure you understand what "hobby" means, but cool, you do you.

I enjoy spending it too well my kids do "

I'm not sure this helps you with your initial query. While "hobbies", as defined in the traditional sense, may do so.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
27 weeks ago

Wherever

Not having unfulfilling sex it’s not a void, and certainly not an issue.

Having a certain attitude however, is.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm

I'm not sure you understand what "hobby" means, but cool, you do you.

I enjoy spending it too well my kids do

I'm not sure this helps you with your initial query. While "hobbies", as defined in the traditional sense, may do so."

I like fishing great for the sole

I also enjoy cooking too knock a great ruby murry up

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm

I'm not sure you understand what "hobby" means, but cool, you do you.

I enjoy spending it too well my kids do

I'm not sure this helps you with your initial query. While "hobbies", as defined in the traditional sense, may do so.

I like fishing great for the sole

I also enjoy cooking too knock a great ruby murry up "

Excellent. These are good hobbies to have.

Throwing yourself into hobbies is a good way to deal with the void.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"If you'd focused on the important parts of "how do I deal with a lack of sex", the answer is hobbies.

Do lots of things. Wear yourself out. It's not actually hard to deal with.

my hobbies are earning money I live to collect it infacg ive got quite a good collection going on atm

I'm not sure you understand what "hobby" means, but cool, you do you.

I enjoy spending it too well my kids do

I'm not sure this helps you with your initial query. While "hobbies", as defined in the traditional sense, may do so.

I like fishing great for the sole

I also enjoy cooking too knock a great ruby murry up

Excellent. These are good hobbies to have.

Throwing yourself into hobbies is a good way to deal with the void."

I like footy too and horse racing

I only wank once a week though when the void become too overwhelming and then feel disgusted with my self

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By *oryou47Man
27 weeks ago

carlow

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By *oryou47Man
27 weeks ago

carlow


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)"

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so"

I said "people", not "men".

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I like filling women’s voids

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
27 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I like filling women’s voids "

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By *oryou47Man
27 weeks ago

carlow


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

I said "people", not "men".

"

that's that question answered so

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

I said "people", not "men".

that's that question answered so"

I'm not sure anything you've said to me has followed anything I've said.

Reading comprehension seems to have fallen out of fashion

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I'm fine I have my music and art and the occasional club night!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

27 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

I said "people", not "men".

that's that question answered so"

At most times there's 30,000+ people logged on to the site. 0.01% of that is 3. Many people would be happy to be compatible with 1 or 2.

Also.....what's a 'lesie' ? 🤔

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By *issmorganWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can "

A women could get sex when she wants, if she's not that fussy about who she meets Tbf.

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

I said "people", not "men".

that's that question answered so

At most times there's 30,000+ people logged on to the site. 0.01% of that is 3. Many people would be happy to be compatible with 1 or 2.

Also.....what's a 'lesie' ? 🤔"

I read it as "lesbian", which I don't think is a synonym for "not getting any"

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"I’m single and if anything I have too much sex.

How’s that for filling a void."

How where do you meet these people?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can "

A woman can have sex when she wants if she has zero standards - if she wants to be attracted to who she has sex with and them be a decent human then it's just as difficult.

Mrs

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By *enegadeMMan
27 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Fill your time with other things .. hobbies….staying healthy / fit…. And if something from fab works out then bonus…. But if not ..the other stuff will keep you busy and not thinking of it… otherwise it will drive you mad

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"Also.....what's a 'lesie' ? 🤔

I read it as "lesbian", which I don't think is a synonym for "not getting any""

I read it that he was a John Leslie fan .. like a Swiftie

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

27 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

I said "people", not "men".

that's that question answered so

At most times there's 30,000+ people logged on to the site. 0.01% of that is 3. Many people would be happy to be compatible with 1 or 2.

Also.....what's a 'lesie' ? 🤔

I read it as "lesbian", which I don't think is a synonym for "not getting any""

Ah, thanks. No.

I'm also not sure suggesting someone who doesn't want to meet is a 'lesie' is necessarily a good idea.

There's plenty of women I have no desire to meet. Still have men blocked though........

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so

I said "people", not "men".

that's that question answered so

At most times there's 30,000+ people logged on to the site. 0.01% of that is 3. Many people would be happy to be compatible with 1 or 2.

Also.....what's a 'lesie' ? 🤔

I read it as "lesbian", which I don't think is a synonym for "not getting any"

Ah, thanks. No.

I'm also not sure suggesting someone who doesn't want to meet is a 'lesie' is necessarily a good idea.

There's plenty of women I have no desire to meet. Still have men blocked though........"

It feels like a very short step from "women who don't meet (certain) men are lesbians" to "we have to convince them otherwise". And not far from that to dark places.

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh

The fact that you don't meet my criteria doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It means you don't meet my criteria.

And you're in very good company. 99.99% or more of people do not meet my criteria.

It's not easier for me at all. (And I don't have the stereotypical lower sex drive women are supposed to have, either)

With that percentage u must be nearly a lesie so"

typical man response do you realize that how life is in real life you just dont like most people when it becomes more personal most people are not compactable ...

back to fab i could have say anything from 300 to 500 messages a week when looking and not one would interest me thats life if there was a million men and i did not like 99.99% that leaves 100 men still thats more than enough to pick from ..

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By *riel13Woman
27 weeks ago

Northampton

What makes you think its easy for women?

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By *ife NinjaMan
27 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"What makes you think its easy for women? "

He's probably thinking that you have the pick of the thousands of guys on here. I don't think he was being disrespectful

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"What makes you think its easy for women?

He's probably thinking that you have the pick of the thousands of guys on here. I don't think he was being disrespectful "

I wasnt mate too

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"What makes you think its easy for women? "

like the post below says and I wasnt been disrecpectful but from what the ladies are saying they have there own challenges it would seem me personally just struggle like most single guys on here its just life I suppose so many beautiful women but so hard to find a buddy who I can have a laugh with

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

It’s easier for most women to get a lay, as the majority of men will not say no to sex, however it is difficult for women to get the men they want, as the top guys, in terms of charm, whit, mannerisms etc… will have a very few select play partners.

It is difficult for the majority of men as the numbers of us are high, but be patient, use some charm and whit, don’t take this place too seriously and base your self-worth off of it, and you might get lucky.

We’re not everyones cup of tea, and if we were we’d probably stop enjoying tea

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, I am with you all the way on this one. Cease and desist any compelling notions of the truth from other forum-dwellers in this thread - especially the women, for they follow the principles of allude to delude.

I have seen fewer grandiose openings of a village fete than a typical woman's legs on here. They do not hesitate to pick up men on a whim without even a second thought (they can rarely manage a first thought).

Sex is thrown about like confetti in this place and it's always the impressionable women who get first dibs, leaving us men with the foul crumbs of yesterday.

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"OP, I am with you all the way on this one. Cease and desist any compelling notions of the truth from other forum-dwellers in this thread - especially the women, for they follow the principles of allude to delude.

I have seen fewer grandiose openings of a village fete than a typical woman's legs on here. They do not hesitate to pick up men on a whim without even a second thought (they can rarely manage a first thought).

Sex is thrown about like confetti in this place and it's always the impressionable women who get first dibs, leaving us men with the foul crumbs of yesterday."

thats one way of putting it still tuff not having sexual connection with no one fact of life I just stay patient and try to be a nice man

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

A woman can have sex when she wants if she has zero standards - if she wants to be attracted to who she has sex with and them be a decent human then it's just as difficult.

Mrs "

There's plenty of 0 standard women on here!

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By *riel13Woman
27 weeks ago

Northampton


"What makes you think its easy for women?

He's probably thinking that you have the pick of the thousands of guys on here. I don't think he was being disrespectful "

I didn't think he was being I was just wondering what made him think that, so asked

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys "

How is it easy for women ???

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys

How is it easy for women ???"

See the trillion answers above, you beautiful melting pot of lust and desire

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys

How is it easy for women ???"

its not and I stand corrected I certainly didnt mean to offend any of you beautiful ladies either anyway just had a sneaky look at your profile and id definitely make it easy for you but then again probably not your type thats the hard bit yea lol

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys

How is it easy for women ???

See the trillion answers above, you beautiful melting pot of lust and desire

I'm a ledgened in my own underpants

"

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

somerset

simple fact is for men ''there is not someone for everyone'' on this scene simple maths will tell you that with so few couples / women ..plus bare in mind alot of those women and couples are indeed single men ...

it not a scene that attracts many women / couples its still compared to the vanilla world a very very small scene thats nobodys fault some people just want vanilla life ...

we all know for most men its a very very hard scene alot of it is self fault thinking this will be easy for free sex its gets worse as guys run off and tell there mates about fab then their mates join thinning out the pickings even more .. but men alway act as if its us women who are at fault because theres so few of them on here... in a ideal world fab would have more couples and more women but even if there was more it would still be hard as selection is based on preference / sexual attraction / and other stuff

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By *iss.curvyWoman
27 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can "

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down

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By *iss.curvyWoman
27 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"simple fact is for men ''there is not someone for everyone'' on this scene simple maths will tell you that with so few couples / women ..plus bare in mind alot of those women and couples are indeed single men ...

it not a scene that attracts many women / couples its still compared to the vanilla world a very very small scene thats nobodys fault some people just want vanilla life ...

we all know for most men its a very very hard scene alot of it is self fault thinking this will be easy for free sex its gets worse as guys run off and tell there mates about fab then their mates join thinning out the pickings even more .. but men alway act as if its us women who are at fault because theres so few of them on here... in a ideal world fab would have more couples and more women but even if there was more it would still be hard as selection is based on preference / sexual attraction / and other stuff "

Well said Bab, there isn't a lot of single women that are happy to play with men but generally the 1s that are are worth it

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair


"OP, I am with you all the way on this one. Cease and desist any compelling notions of the truth from other forum-dwellers in this thread - especially the women, for they follow the principles of allude to delude.

I have seen fewer grandiose openings of a village fete than a typical woman's legs on here. They do not hesitate to pick up men on a whim without even a second thought (they can rarely manage a first thought).

Sex is thrown about like confetti in this place and it's always the impressionable women who get first dibs, leaving us men with the foul crumbs of yesterday.

·

thats one way of putting it still tuff not having sexual connection with no one fact of life I just stay patient and try to be a nice man "

I wasn't being serious. 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down "

Probably because they're not actually single!

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By *ags73Man
27 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Last ‘played’ in May, went to socials and other things in June, holiday myself with kids July and they’re just back to school .

Next weekend off is maybe two weeks, so I’ll have to either hope something daytime is on that I can go to or someone is interested.

Can’t be helped and just gotta do what I can.

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By *weetCherryWoman
27 weeks ago

London

Wow, way to bomb your “chances” by insulting an entire gender. It is not easy for either, and it’s not meant to anyway, unless you have no self respect and settle for less than what you want

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down "

and its those that let down running it for the good men amongst us all I want is a few female friend to meet up with even just one would make a huge difference

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Wow, way to bomb your “chances” by insulting an entire gender. It is not easy for either, and it’s not meant to anyway, unless you have no self respect and settle for less than what you want "

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Wow, way to bomb your “chances” by insulting an entire gender. It is not easy for either, and it’s not meant to anyway, unless you have no self respect and settle for less than what you want "

ive already apologise and stood corected it wasn't ment to offened aparantly finding mr right is just as tuff anyway im still searching for the right lady but not looking too hard kinda thing

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Just live in hope, I’ve been single almost 4 years but in all honesty I’m just seeking someone, not everyone 😁

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By *iss.curvyWoman
27 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down

and its those that let down running it for the good men amongst us all I want is a few female friend to meet up with even just one would make a huge difference "

Your moaning but you have very recent veri's on Ur profile so you have obviously meet

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By *aytime78 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down

and its those that let down running it for the good men amongst us all I want is a few female friend to meet up with even just one would make a huge difference

Your moaning but you have very recent veri's on Ur profile so you have obviously meet "

nice ladies they were too there on my friends list maybe I should message them some time

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

27 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down

and its those that let down running it for the good men amongst us all I want is a few female friend to meet up with even just one would make a huge difference "

Still no.

Men being unreliable and letting people down doesn't reflect on you or I. It doesn't ruin anything except for those involved.

And every single guy on Fab states they're 'good', 'genuine', 'nice' and 'respectful'. Obviously some aren't, but these should be the bare minimum behaviours for anyone on here.

Never worry about anything anyone else is doing, whether they're meeting more than you or claiming to get more interest. None of that matters a jot.

Just concentrate on yourself and do what you can to enjoy life. And never assume Fab alone is going to be a reliable and regular source of interaction with others. It can open a door, but there are lots of other doors worth opening too.

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

somerset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

I'm sorry but it really isn't that easy for us single women out here. We bloody wish but single men always let u down

and its those that let down running it for the good men amongst us all I want is a few female friend to meet up with even just one would make a huge difference "

no no no guys ruin it for themselves not others lots of guys like to use that as an excuse for getting nowhere its simply not true you do you you fuck up its down to you you get nowhere its down to you it has zero for how others behave ..

who gets to say who the good guys are or the so called genuine ?? i totally ignore those who claim to be a good guy or genuine the very fact you feel you have to say it is a red flag.. if no one is meeting you thats down to noboby wanting to meet you ... yet ...not others fucking up

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By *affron40Woman
27 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve not had sex for over 2 1/2 years and I’ve not spontaneously combusted so seems it’s doable! Sometimes life just gets in the way and the right person doesn’t come along. But sex isn’t the end of the world. It’s much better when it’s right.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"I’ve not had sex for over 2 1/2 years and I’ve not spontaneously combusted so seems it’s doable! Sometimes life just gets in the way and the right person doesn’t come along. But sex isn’t the end of the world. It’s much better when it’s right. "

I think you should show us your tits then the right person might ‘pop up’

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"I’ve not had sex for over 2 1/2 years and I’ve not spontaneously combusted so seems it’s doable! Sometimes life just gets in the way and the right person doesn’t come along. But sex isn’t the end of the world. It’s much better when it’s right. "

Is there not more of a risk of spontaneously combusting if you have sex - surely the rubbing of things together creates the friction and the right environment for combustion (or have I forgotten what the scouts taught me?)

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By *affron40Woman
27 weeks ago

manchester


"I’ve not had sex for over 2 1/2 years and I’ve not spontaneously combusted so seems it’s doable! Sometimes life just gets in the way and the right person doesn’t come along. But sex isn’t the end of the world. It’s much better when it’s right.

I think you should show us your tits then the right person might ‘pop up’ "

You’d cry if I showed you my tits cupcake 🤣❤️

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By *affron40Woman
27 weeks ago

manchester


"I’ve not had sex for over 2 1/2 years and I’ve not spontaneously combusted so seems it’s doable! Sometimes life just gets in the way and the right person doesn’t come along. But sex isn’t the end of the world. It’s much better when it’s right.

Is there not more of a risk of spontaneously combusting if you have sex - surely the rubbing of things together creates the friction and the right environment for combustion (or have I forgotten what the scouts taught me?) "

Exactly that. I’m staying safe and not creating unnecessary friction. The world is a safer place for having those of us not having the sex.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

A woman can have sex when she wants if she has zero standards - if she wants to be attracted to who she has sex with and them be a decent human then it's just as difficult.

Mrs

There's plenty of 0 standard women on here! "

Of course there is just like the any holes a goal crew they come in male and female form

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"I’ve not had sex for over 2 1/2 years and I’ve not spontaneously combusted so seems it’s doable! Sometimes life just gets in the way and the right person doesn’t come along. But sex isn’t the end of the world. It’s much better when it’s right.

I think you should show us your tits then the right person might ‘pop up’

You’d cry if I showed you my tits cupcake 🤣❤️"

Honestly, I wouldn’t

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By *ffervescentMan
27 weeks ago

winfrith

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By *ffervescentMan
27 weeks ago

winfrith


"how do you fill the void and deal with not having sex easy for a woman not so for guys I have a walk. "
wank

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
27 weeks ago

essex

Wow, women have it easy, that made me laugh. Sure, if they’re willing to sleep with anything but most have standards and want more than just a quick random fuck. For me there’s got to be a connection and attraction. I very rarely meet anyone on this site and yes I’m single and sometimes lonely but I won’t lower my standards.

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By *hagTonightMan
26 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I find it very easy. I dont really need to fill it up with anything, the longer the time goes, the easier it gets too.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I've been single for 4ish years, I can count on one hand the number of times I've had sex in that time. I wouldn't even need all 6 fingers.

Sex just isn't a priority for me, having the TV and bed to myself is though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can

*looks around at options*

*sighs*

*continues not having sex*

100% correct

must be something wrong with me then eh"

Don't assume that there's anything wrong with you. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, including for their preferences.

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By *artfordBlokeMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford

The day my life revolves around getting laid would be a sad day, it's been a reasonable while but I have enough going on to keep me otherwise occupied.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
26 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Why is it easy for a woman but not for guys?

a woman can have sex when she wants just take your pick off here a man gets it when he can "

Not true, I haven't met anyone for over 6 months now. We have standards you know!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
26 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I'm not bad looking either just not getting any attention at all Nada ziltch zero does worry me a bit because sex and having someone atracted to you feel great and good on the ol mental health "

That's subjective though isn't it? Attraction needs to be mutual, on all levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Logging on a single bloke for years and I agree, I’ve looked through a few women’s profiles a found it hard …😏

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By *ffervescentMan
26 weeks ago

winfrith


"Logging on a single bloke for years and I agree, I’ve looked through a few women’s profiles a found it hard …😏"
so you wanked?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Logging on a single bloke for years and I agree, I’ve looked through a few women’s profiles a found it hard …😏so you wanked?"

I’m considering it

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
26 weeks ago

Sheffield

It’s certainly not easy for women believe me.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
26 weeks ago

Ends


"It’s certainly not easy for women believe me. "

Not when you live in Sheffield

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By *asterMeliodasMan
26 weeks ago

Newmill


"I'm not bad looking either just not getting any attention at all Nada ziltch zero does worry me a bit because sex and having someone atracted to you feel great and good on the ol mental health

That's subjective though isn't it? Attraction needs to be mutual, on all levels."

Exactly this. There are people who think I'm sex on legs. There are people who probably think I look like a bag of crushed assholes. Everyone's got their own idea of what's attractive to them.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
26 weeks ago

Sheffield


"It’s certainly not easy for women believe me.

Not when you live in Sheffield"

Amen to that! X

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