FabSwingers.com forum: Whats the biggest worry in your life right now ?

By *ymClassDropout OP Man
24 weeks ago

Berkshire

Mine is health related. Since chemo my blood counts are generally not the best and I’m quite immune to infections.

But it’s a paradoxical in a way as I also don’t sweat the small stuff anymore due the the recent journey I’ve been on.

‘Health is wealth’ has never rung more true.

What worries you the most in your general everyday life ? Health, financial, relationship ……. etc.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The balance between high standards and being crippled by perfectionism. I breathe less than I worry about this

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

I have so many at the moment I'd struggle to pick out one I'd consider the largest.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Results of grandsons heart check up yesterday,

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By *JcuriousCouple
24 weeks ago

Derby

Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
24 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Wanting the transition through the teenage years, to go smoothly for my kids, is my only worry tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x"

Sorry hear that. Happened to me last Yr

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By *olfandtazCouple
24 weeks ago

Bristol

"Mine is health related. Since chemo my blood counts are generally not the best and I’m quite immune to infections.

But it’s a paradoxical in a way as I also don’t sweat the small stuff anymore due the the recent journey I’ve been on.

‘Health is wealth’ has never rung more true.

What worries you the most in your general everyday life ? Health, financial, relationship ……. etc."

I have a heart condition which has knocked on to other parts of my body.

I try not to let it impact to much on my life but it's always there in the background

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By *umalotagainMan
24 weeks ago

a town called malice

The £140k that has left my bank account in the last 3 weeks for stock for my business

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By *JcuriousCouple
24 weeks ago

Derby

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x

Sorry hear that. Happened to me last Yr"

Thank you.

Shite isn't it 🙄 hope you managed to sort everything out.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

What to have for tea tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x"

hope you get it sorted soon 👍

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x

Sorry hear that. Happened to me last Yr

Thank you.

Shite isn't it 🙄 hope you managed to sort everything out.

Miss S x"

Worked out great as moved from merthyr to Neath and lot nearer the grandkids

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
24 weeks ago

North West

Too many things.

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By *obilebottomMan
24 weeks ago

All over

Very sorry to hear that OP. I hope you continue to get better and stronger all the time. And you are right, nothing more important than health. I hope everyone's worries go away. Most of us worry about something most of the time. The small stuff though don't matter. All the best to everyone

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By *JcuriousCouple
24 weeks ago

Derby

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x

hope you get it sorted soon 👍"

Thank you, us too.

Just hard for houses at the minute as they are pricey and in high demand.

Miss S x

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By *JcuriousCouple
24 weeks ago

Derby

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x

Sorry hear that. Happened to me last Yr

Thank you.

Shite isn't it 🙄 hope you managed to sort everything out.

Miss S x

Worked out great as moved from merthyr to Neath and lot nearer the grandkids"

Awww, brill! 💕

Miss S x

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

I have a few worries, my left leg is very painful (thankfully I have private health care so hopefully not too long to wait to see what's up with it, I'm waiting on my smear test to come back as I've had a couple of worrying things the last few years crop up and a few money issues but nothing I'm losing sleep over at the moment.

Sorry to hear your news op x

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

What to eat per meal 🤷🏽‍♂️ gratefully that is all 😁

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By *heGateKeeperMan
24 weeks ago

Stratford

What if Saka gets injured?

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By *ymClassDropout OP Man
24 weeks ago

Berkshire

"I have a few worries, my left leg is very painful (thankfully I have private health care so hopefully not too long to wait to see what's up with it, I'm waiting on my smear test to come back as I've had a couple of worrying things the last few years crop up and a few money issues but nothing I'm losing sleep over at the moment.

Sorry to hear your news op x"

Thankyou and it’s reciprocated.

It was actually your thread yesterday that prompted mine today.

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By *viatrixWoman
24 weeks ago

Redhill

My kids as they move from teenagers to adults- will they be ok, will they be self sufficient? It’s looking quite grim out there…

Also thinking about my own future …

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By *illie fitMan
24 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Waiting on results from hospital about kidney scan

Camara in the bladder last week

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester

The cost of living and working in the public sector area nobody cares about so we are getting a shit pay rise once again.

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By *ad NannaWoman
24 weeks ago

East London

That one of my family will die.

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By *he KakapoMan
24 weeks ago

A nice rock

The general lack of empathy I see spreading across western Europe and the growth of the far rights influence in local politics.

Granted I am probably able to focus on this as my main worry in life bdcause everything personally is pretty great (please don't jinx it) which is a little confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

So much hate and anger in the world on so many levels and how so many innocent minds are corrupted so easily.

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By *usty kayCouple
24 weeks ago

Burnham

Reading this post I am feeling very blessed in my life.

My biggest worry right now is swinging related which although it would hurt if it goes wrong it's such a small part of my life it'll be a short term impact.

I'm sure when schools go back the worries with my youngest will start again but right now I'm enjoying the holidays and the peace that they tend to bring.

Big hugs to all whether worries are big or small 🤗

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Idiots on social media believing things just because someone typed words on a screen.

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By *ir tootMan
24 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Not getting a new job, got places and people to see.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The general lack of empathy I see spreading across western Europe and the growth of the far rights influence in local politics.

Granted I am probably able to focus on this as my main worry in life bdcause everything personally is pretty great (please don't jinx it) which is a little confusing "

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
24 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

The police discovering my looted stash of Gregg's sausage rolls.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Actual worry that's causing anxiety, my dad.

I have other concerns but I know how to deal with them or there's nothing I can do about them

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Impending heart surgery

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Impending heart surgery "

Good luck with that. Is it quite soon?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends

Money most of all.

Safety second of all.

My partners getting sick of me next.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Money most of all.

Safety second of all.

My partners getting sick of me next. "

Money was a constant worry almost all my life. It does get better eventually, it just seems like it never will

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By *ir tootMan
24 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Money most of all.

Safety second of all.

My partners getting sick of me next. "

Money

Feel that

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
24 weeks ago

Newcastle

Health for me atm and sick of all the cock ups at the doctors… it’s exhausting trying to tackle all their mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Impending heart surgery

Good luck with that. Is it quite soon?"

Thanks, end of the month x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Impending heart surgery

Good luck with that. Is it quite soon?

Thanks, end of the month x"

It's a daunting prospect to be sure. You'll be in good hands

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
24 weeks ago

little house on the praire

physical and mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Health for me atm and sick of all the cock ups at the doctors… it’s exhausting trying to tackle all their mistakes "

I can identify with that sister!

My first foray into the NHS for a major health issue and I just don’t know what you would do if you didn’t have a computer, phone or the ability to question issues.

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By *aizyWoman
24 weeks ago

west midlands

Health as well, hopefully I'll be getting some good news soon and I can start putting all this behind me.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Impending heart surgery

Good luck with that. Is it quite soon?

Thanks, end of the month x

It's a daunting prospect to be sure. You'll be in good hands

Thanks I am in good hands

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends

"Money most of all.

Safety second of all.

My partners getting sick of me next.

Money

Feel that "

Hopefully another career change will help.

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By *ookie46Woman
24 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My biggest worry is about my sons post sixteen education. He’s about to start his final year in September at a specialist provision for kids with anxiety and autism where he’s been extremely happy and settled for the past three years

I know it’s a year away but time just goes so quickly

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By *aytime78Man
24 weeks ago

Aylesbury

the goals ive been forced to set myself and the day by day steps to acheve them my housing needs my kids and the family home and finances and an ex digging the heels in on the house I grew up in and the idioligy behind some folk that think it's ok for a woman to behave this way and then the lonliness thats about the lot in a nutshell hope you get well soon op

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends

"Health as well, hopefully I'll be getting some good news soon and I can start putting all this behind me."
❤️❤️❤️

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By *elightfulDuo01Couple
24 weeks ago

Bristol

Knowing if I've made the right choice in career move.

My anxiety has been bad the last few days, but today it's the worst

Mrs x

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By *hilloutMan
24 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Can't say I have any big worry in my life at the moment. I suppose I'm fortunate in that respect.

I am wondering how well my son's university application will pan out.

Hope it all goes well Op.

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By *till gameMan
24 weeks ago

Oldham

Biggest by far is if I will be lucky enough to receive the double lung transplant I desperately need

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
24 weeks ago

North West

"Actual worry that's causing anxiety, my dad.

I have other concerns but I know how to deal with them or there's nothing I can do about them"

Yep, my Dad is one on my list too.

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By *929Man
24 weeks ago

bedlington

This bastard diabetes I got told I had a few months ago since tablets don’t seem to be working. I know I shouldn’t think like this but I think of all the fat lazy slobs in my family with nowt wrong with them and yet I get this despite being one of the last people to have it with having very high activity level, decent diet and well below average bodyfat levels

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
24 weeks ago

The Lake District

Im just a few months out of the 2 years treatment it took treat Hyperthroidism(Thyroid Gland 17 times over active

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Effects 2 in 100 woman but just 2 in 1000 blokes

Thyroid and Diabetes are closely related by the Endocrine system and now im diabetic and on meds for life for Thyroid,just like to be able to loose enough weight to put diabetes in remission

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By *mmaleiaWoman
24 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Right now? Change, selling up my business, moving 100 miles west, starting up a new venture

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By *ie n MashCouple
24 weeks ago

Back in Malice

"Results of grandsons heart check up yesterday,

We really feel for you on that one. Fingers crossed for you all x

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Results of grandsons heart check up yesterday,

We really feel for you on that one. Fingers crossed for you all x"

Appreciated x

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By *rHotNottsMan
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The £140k that has left my bank account in the last 3 weeks for stock for my business "

Hopefully it’s the banks money not your own!?

I once put 10K on my Amex at 47% APR to fund a project when I was a student. Friends said can you sleep at night, yes like a baby, it’s the banks money not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Money, personal and business…..

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By *ell GwynnWoman
24 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Cost of living

My son's MH

My Dad's physical health.

Staying mentally and emotionally healthy while I manage all three.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Dont worry be happy .... I liked that song xx

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
24 weeks ago

The Continental

How many meals I’ll have to skip to make sure there’s food for the other Wicks at the continental.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
24 weeks ago

Always on the move

Winning/no winning "best cock in the world"

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
24 weeks ago

w midlands & n wales

Ready the posts here I feel relatively blessed that the issues in my life are relatively minor in comparison

I send the very best wishes to everyone who's struggling at the moment, and hope that things work out well for you all x

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
24 weeks ago

w midlands & n wales

Reading*

FFS I try to be sincere and start with a typo haha

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By *ltrMan
24 weeks ago

sheffield

Results of a brain scan for my son not enough he's a quadriplegic his speech has started to slur fingers crossed its just a glitch

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Someone else catching the eye of my fwb. Back off.....she's all mine 😜😏🤣😈

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By *aseylee324Couple
24 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

How my neurodivergent daughter navigates the world

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By *rAitchMan
24 weeks ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I found a small lump this morning where I don't want to fund one. Will double-check later. Looks like a phone call to the docs tomorrow.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
24 weeks ago

Bromley

Never seeing my 2 brother's again, one lives in York and the other in northern Thailand.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
24 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Health for me atm and sick of all the cock ups at the doctors… it’s exhausting trying to tackle all their mistakes

I can identify with that sister!

My first foray into the NHS for a major health issue and I just don’t know what you would do if you didn’t have a computer, phone or the ability to question issues."

Yep totally agree…. I have the NHS app and if I didn’t do a thorough dig into that to check for updates or mistakes, I would feel completely in the dark. I feel for those who maybes aren’t as tech savvy and take the GP/ receptionists word for it…

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By *aiducMan
24 weeks ago

Chelmsford

How my daughter settles in to her out of area secondary school in September.

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By *affron40Woman
24 weeks ago

manchester

My parents health. Lots of other things are far from ideal but it’s only health of loved ones that truly matters. Love to all going through health issues. ❤️

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

My kids GCSE results next week

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By *ools and the brainCouple
24 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

EVERYTHING!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Our housing situation, our landlord has sold the house and we have to be out for October

Miss S x"

Balls. Mine had just told me my rent is to rise in 6 mth

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By *929Man
24 weeks ago

bedlington

My second biggest (but not so serious) worry is getting my mother to stay the fuck out my house I can’t have a single day off work without her visiting and it’s doing my fucking head in haha

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By *he KakapoMan
24 weeks ago

A nice rock

Currently I'm really worried I won't get top 50 in woodys penis comp

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"EVERYTHING!"

Everything?

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By *ymClassDropout OP Man
24 weeks ago

Berkshire

Thanks to all those who replied to my thread. I have just gone through and read each and every post.

This was quite a heartfelt offering and I appreciate the replies.

What I will say to ALL is say strong, positive and if you believe in a deity may he/she go with you.

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By *amsevenMan
24 weeks ago

cork

My MH. But that is minor compared to the posts on here. I wish everyone the best with their situations

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