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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

What would you say is your worst trait?

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I eat too much.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"I eat too much. "

Don't we all sometimes

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"What would you say is your worst trait?"

What about you OP? X

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"What would you say is your worst trait?

What about you OP? X"

Mine used to be I was too trusting. Now I believe actions more than words.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I don't get enough sleep, which plays havoc with my blood glucose levels and then takes a while to balance them again 🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Over thinking and hyper vigilance for me

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
29 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm too loving and kind

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"I'm too loving and kind "

Is that a bad thing ? Only if used in the wrong situations ?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't get enough sleep, which plays havoc with my blood glucose levels and then takes a while to balance them again 🙄"

I'm with you on the lack of sleep 😴

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By *avid 50Man
29 weeks ago

kendal

Timekeeping, I always think I can get more done in the time available and then end up arriving late

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"Over thinking and hyper vigilance for me "

That can mess with your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"What would you say is your worst trait?

What about you OP? X

Mine used to be I was too trusting. Now I believe actions more than words."

Same here. Was always too trusting of what people said to me, so I got hurt frequently. Now I've gone the other way and it takes me much longer to trust people. I can't win 🤷

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'm too loving and kind "

I don't think that's a bad trait x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"Timekeeping, I always think I can get more done in the time available and then end up arriving late"

I'm the opposite, always early

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I work too hard.

Is this a job interview?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"Over thinking and hyper vigilance for me

That can mess with your head."

It certainly did before I worked on myself that coupled with insomnia was not ideal

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"I work too hard.

Is this a job interview? "

You're sacked

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By *ShyButNotShyCouple
29 weeks ago

Stafford

I have so many. I overthink. I worry about things that haven't happened. I always see the worse in people instead of the best. That's my job role though. I don't sleep or eat properly. To name a few 🤣🤣

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By *avexxMan
29 weeks ago

cheshire

im to much of a gent

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

Over thinking

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

29 weeks ago

East Sussex

Procrastination

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By *aseylee324Couple
29 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Cynicism

It IS useful though

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
29 weeks ago

Reading

Indolence

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
29 weeks ago

Ends

I’m really really playful. I enjoy winding people up for a laugh. And enjoy having it done

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Mr here, I tend to skip pleasantries and get straight to the point when asking people questions or enquiring about things, no hey how are you opening line or anything, just straight to the point no faffing about

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’m too modest.

Luckily I’m fucking great at everything else.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Over thinker , emotional wreck , lazy, greedy, bit of a lunatic.... take your pick 🤣🤣🤣 on the other hand at least all the trauma made me hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"Over thinker , emotional wreck , lazy, greedy, bit of a lunatic.... take your pick 🤣🤣🤣 on the other hand at least all the trauma made me hilarious "

That’s exactly how I feel about my own trauma part of healing is to find humour in things , grow and move forward x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
29 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'm too suspicious and untrusting.

Mrs x

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By *hawn ScottMan
29 weeks ago

london Brixton


"Procrastination"

This but now I can juist blame ADHD

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By *orthern BeardMan
29 weeks ago

Warwickshire

I’m very unselfish

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By *oodmessMan
29 weeks ago

yumsville

Giving people fashion advice

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London


"Over thinking and hyper vigilance for me

That can mess with your head.

It certainly did before I worked on myself that coupled with insomnia was not ideal "

This is me. Overthinking has caused a lot of anxiety issues for me in the past. I’m much better at managing it now but it can still get the best of me at times.

Pleased to hear you’re in a better place now.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"Over thinker , emotional wreck , lazy, greedy, bit of a lunatic.... take your pick 🤣🤣🤣 on the other hand at least all the trauma made me hilarious "

Oh, stop it K, you daft woman 🤣

I know for a fact that you've got a million and one positive traits, so don't be worrying about negative ones x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Over thinker , emotional wreck , lazy, greedy, bit of a lunatic.... take your pick 🤣🤣🤣 on the other hand at least all the trauma made me hilarious

Oh, stop it K, you daft woman 🤣

I know for a fact that you've got a million and one positive traits, so don't be worrying about negative ones x"

Thank you lovely 😘😘

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I'm very patient and understanding with a sexual partner, but outside of that I'm really not! When I got divorced 5 years ago and moved into my own place, I decided to do everything on my own terms. It's something I'm aware of and am working on.

Also, I don't ever want a full on relationship ever again. I've had some wonderful friends with benefits who I stopped seeing as they started off happy with just sex, but then wanted more. Shame, but I am more than happy with my lifestyle.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Over thinker, recovering manic pixie dream girl, too honest, expect too much honesty from other people, arrogant as fuck 💜

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By *elisandre300Woman
29 weeks ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Im too independent… I hate asking for help even when I really need it.

I’m way too honest and trusting… I’m too open about myself and believe others are too.

I wear my heart on my sleeve and I over think way too much.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
29 weeks ago

cardiff

Impatient

Tendency to repeat myself

Impatient

Tendency to repeat myself

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Impatient

Tendency to repeat myself

Impatient

Tendency to repeat myself"

I think I have double vision.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I want to be loved

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I want to be loved "

You are!

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I want to be loved "

Does being lusted count?

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By *hilledExplorerMan
29 weeks ago

Colchester

I spend far too long worrying about things that probably won't happen.

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By *llaandGCouple
29 weeks ago

London

I am far too patient…

E x

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By *issmorganWoman
29 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm impatient.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’m a bit of a tart.

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By *olfandtazCouple
29 weeks ago

Bristol

Smoking but I will be going back into vaping soon with aims to quitting

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
29 weeks ago

Ends


"I want to be loved "

I feel this. I chase love. And I love reassurance

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By *ustamanMan
29 weeks ago

weymouth

Insecurity

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I’m a bit of a tart."

"A bit" 🙄

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


""A bit" 🙄"

I admit, that was Preybait.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
29 weeks ago

Essex

I’m just annoying in general.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


""A bit" 🙄

I admit, that was Preybait."

Don't be trying to lure me in Mantart.

I'm weak at the moment 💜

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I’m a bit of a tart.

"A bit" 🙄"

I was so going to say this but restrained myself 🤣🤣

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By *ell GwynnWoman
29 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Focussing on my negative traits when it would be far more helpful to celebrate the positives.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I'm weak at the moment 💜"

I wouldn’t dream of taking advantage.

Have a cookie. 🍪

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Focussing on my negative traits when it would be far more helpful to celebrate the positives."

And there’s so many positives. You’re awesome you are.

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"I'm weak at the moment 💜

I wouldn’t dream of taking advantage.

Have a cookie. 🍪"

Just have Cookie. She doesn’t live that far away and is filthy

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

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By *hilloutMan
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Stubbornness...though that's a double edged sword, both good or bad depending.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Just have Cookie. She doesn’t live that far away and is filthy "

I’ll tell her that you’re pimping her out.

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Focussing on my negative traits when it would be far more helpful to celebrate the positives."

Amen to that.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
29 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Stubbornness. 💯

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By *ynamicnatureMan
29 weeks ago

Doncaster


"What would you say is your worst trait?

What about you OP? X

Mine used to be I was too trusting. Now I believe actions more than words."

G'day Sparkle, I to am a trusting person, always have and I think I always will be.

I've been burnt a few times in life because of that... But! I have had soooo many good experiences in life due to being trusting that it far out ways the negatives,

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands

Tardiness, I am late or leave everything to the last minute, worst thing is I try not to be this way but I always am.

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By *llaandGCouple
29 weeks ago

London


"I am far too patient…

E x"

Don't forget you're obsession with grammar

G

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

I'm a wind up merchant

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
29 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

I like to take the piss, even with ppl I don't know

Mr

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By *irthandgirthMan
29 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I don't hydrate enough. Which is why I've just had to go to the hospital to have a 10mm kidney stone dragged out of my peehole.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I could write a list but if I had to pick one it would be my lack of patience.

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London


"Tardiness, I am late or leave everything to the last minute, worst thing is I try not to be this way but I always am."

Tsk…tsk

Although you do try so I’ll round it down to a single Tsk.

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By *alico_KittyWoman
29 weeks ago

Kittys Lane


"What would you say is your worst trait?

What about you OP? X

Mine used to be I was too trusting. Now I believe actions more than words."

Mine was the same sparkle, definitely too trusting but I agree actions do speak louder now

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands


"Tardiness, I am late or leave everything to the last minute, worst thing is I try not to be this way but I always am.

Tsk…tsk

Although you do try so I’ll round it down to a single Tsk."

Hush, you!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I don't hydrate enough. Which is why I've just had to go to the hospital to have a 10mm kidney stone dragged out of my peehole."

Owwwwww!

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London


"Tardiness, I am late or leave everything to the last minute, worst thing is I try not to be this way but I always am.

Tsk…tsk

Although you do try so I’ll round it down to a single Tsk.

Hush, you!"

I’m jealous that I can’t be fashionably late. 😔

I’m one of those people who will have to be somewhere 15 minutes away at 1pm and I’ll leave at 11am. Just in case of traffic, or burst water main, or a revolution has broken out on the streets, or aliens have invaded…..

See overthinking again.

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands


"Tardiness, I am late or leave everything to the last minute, worst thing is I try not to be this way but I always am.

Tsk…tsk

Although you do try so I’ll round it down to a single Tsk.

Hush, you!

I’m jealous that I can’t be fashionably late. 😔

I’m one of those people who will have to be somewhere 15 minutes away at 1pm and I’ll leave at 11am. Just in case of traffic, or burst water main, or a revolution has broken out on the streets, or aliens have invaded…..

See overthinking again.

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I try not to be late but I always am, I honestly don't know how I do it, my mum has always said the last time I was early for anything was the day I was born!

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London


"Tardiness, I am late or leave everything to the last minute, worst thing is I try not to be this way but I always am.

Tsk…tsk

Although you do try so I’ll round it down to a single Tsk.

Hush, you!

I’m jealous that I can’t be fashionably late. 😔

I’m one of those people who will have to be somewhere 15 minutes away at 1pm and I’ll leave at 11am. Just in case of traffic, or burst water main, or a revolution has broken out on the streets, or aliens have invaded…..

See overthinking again.

I try not to be late but I always am, I honestly don't know how I do it, my mum has always said the last time I was early for anything was the day I was born!"

😂 😂

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
29 weeks ago

North West

Overthinking. It's so annoying.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
29 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Impatient

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29 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Overthinking, especially when it comes to being hyper-aware of my own actions and how it affects others.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

Seems overthinking is the number 1 worst trait x

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"Over thinking

Mrs "

This!

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Seems overthinking is the number 1 worst trait x"

I'm a bloke.

My cock thinks more than me. 😆 🤣

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"Seems overthinking is the number 1 worst trait x

I'm a bloke.

My cock thinks more than me. 😆 🤣 "

Seems a lot of men think with their small head

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By *ilvelicker60Man
29 weeks ago

kettering


"Seems overthinking is the number 1 worst trait x

I'm a bloke.

My cock thinks more than me. 😆 🤣 "

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By *onkeynutWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

I’m indecisive

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Seems overthinking is the number 1 worst trait x

I'm a bloke.

My cock thinks more than me. 😆 🤣

Seems a lot of men think with their small head "

It's not that small.

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By *iker JackMan
29 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Find people hard to trust

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By *mmaleiaWoman
29 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Being aloof, over thinking, reading things wrong…

I could go on

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By *erfHerder74Man
29 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Take too long to like someone back

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

Sometimes I’m kind.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"I don't hydrate enough. Which is why I've just had to go to the hospital to have a 10mm kidney stone dragged out of my peehole."

Christ, did they zap it?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
28 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I’m indecisive "

Are you sure?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
28 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Laziness

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By *asterMeliodasMan
28 weeks ago

Newmill

Overanalysis and running through mental simulations of every possible outcome of an upcoming event.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
28 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Only put effort in when interested. Easily lose interest.

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