FabSwingers.com forum: When will FABmin do something about unsolicited genitalia pictures

By *ouples_EroticaXXX OP Couple
24 weeks ago

manchester

Without fail we get sent multiple unsolicited dick pics daily and by far out of all the places we interact fab is the worst place for it.

They have no place on dating sites, social medial sites, DM's, or other sex based sites so why is fab the exception?

Especially seeing as sending unsolicited genitalia pictures are unlawful.

We report each incident as abuse but nothing gets done. Is this a case of burying the head, dereliction of care of users, or just sheer ignorance?

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By *atch0101Man
24 weeks ago

Here

I've never understood the need. I mean look at the thing. It's ugly

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By *4bimMan
24 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

sent your message filter to block single men.

then you contact the ones interested.

this puts you in complete control.

the site has the means to make it a better place for you.

if you choose not to do it then thats on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

*Woody adds Cockpic to profile picture …😏…

😅

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

"Without fail we get sent multiple unsolicited dick pics daily and by far out of all the places we interact fab is the worst place for it.

They have no place on dating sites, social medial sites, DM's, or other sex based sites so why is fab the exception?

Especially seeing as sending unsolicited genitalia pictures are unlawful.

We report each incident as abuse but nothing gets done. Is this a case of burying the head, dereliction of care of users, or just sheer ignorance?

Discuss "

This is one that would be super easy to prevent, too, since you need to tag pictures with what their content is. It wouldn't be hard to add a filter that blocks messages containing a photo of a certain tag or higher.

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By *aytime78Man
24 weeks ago

Aylesbury

never sent one non on my profile either if you want to see that thang you see him in real life standards and gives the suprise away but it is ilegal and some men have no manners and spoil it for most of us

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By *ffervescentMan
24 weeks ago

winfrith

Just a wee point you say you don't want dick pics sent but if the profile avatar is a dick how the hell can you make that a legal thing ,you can't. It's not possible to make a dick pic illegal on a sex site ,I incidentally would never send one or have one as a profile avatar .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
24 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Literally the tool to do this is in your own hands Op, it's not hard either..

Apologies for the pun..

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By *eordieJeansCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes "

I send my loop hole too.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes "

I usually send dik-dik pics, myself.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

I send my loop hole too. "

Pics or it didn’t happen.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Just a wee point you say you don't want dick pics sent but if the profile avatar is a dick how the hell can you make that a legal thing ,you can't. It's not possible to make a dick pic illegal on a sex site ,I incidentally would never send one or have one as a profile avatar ."

It's perfectly possible to make any content illegal on any website.

It's perfectly possible to make anything illegal in any place. That's how law works.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

I send my loop hole too.

Pics or it didn’t happen."

*Woody throws in his hand..

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By *illy IdolMan
24 weeks ago

Midlands

It's a tough one but I don't massively see a difference with me logging into the forums and your vagina being on show.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

I send my loop hole too.

Pics or it didn’t happen.

*Woody throws in his hand.."

In your loop hole?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

I send my loop hole too.

Pics or it didn’t happen.

*Woody throws in his hand..

In your loop hole?

And now you can understand that’s why I can’t take a picture.

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By *affron40Woman
24 weeks ago

manchester

"It's a tough one but I don't massively see a difference with me logging into the forums and your vagina being on show.

Same.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
24 weeks ago

Stoke

We still get loads, and it's even our profile of not to send. Some just don't care, and it acts as a brilliant filter.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

I send my loop hole too.

Pics or it didn’t happen.

*Woody throws in his hand..

In your loop hole?

And now you can understand that’s why I can’t take a picture. "

Get a tripod and a Bluetooth remote but don’t lose it up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I don't see how it can be abuse.

This is a swinging site so, weather you like it or not there are going to be dick pics.

The simplest option is to use the filters provided, and the delete and block button.

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By *a LunaWoman
24 weeks ago

South Wales

You can block explicit images from being seen when you use the site. But this means every image.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If people choose to have them on their profile, that's fine, I've clicked on it and can always come off the profile.

I hate them sent to me in messages when we've never spoken before, I've bloked one man this am for attaching 3!.

I ask for them not to be sent, but that's ignored. I've got to a point where I just won't look at messages with any attached pics anymore now.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
24 weeks ago

Stratford

Unsolicited genitalia pics are illegal. This being a sex site doesn’t mean that the law doesn’t apply.

Saying OP should ban single men doesn’t work as I’m sure couple profiles are capable of doing the same thing.

Not sure how you’d be able to police it over than not letting someone send a picture in their first message to someone and them needing to respond before pictures can be exchanged.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
24 weeks ago

Wherever

At this point I consider myself immune.

Personally, I think it’s a great filter and early indication me and the sender of said penis won’t be compatible.

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By *ellinever70Woman
24 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If you receive a message from someone you don't know and see there's an attachment, just delete

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
24 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Without fail we get sent multiple unsolicited dick pics daily and by far out of all the places we interact fab is the worst place for it.

They have no place on dating sites, social medial sites, DM's, or other sex based sites so why is fab the exception?

Especially seeing as sending unsolicited genitalia pictures are unlawful.

We report each incident as abuse but nothing gets done. Is this a case of burying the head, dereliction of care of users, or just sheer ignorance?

Discuss "

Agree with the comments about taking control of your own profile and applying filters,

However I also find your post hypocritical given your avatar is of your pussy- some people also don't like to have female genitals pushed in their face without consent

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By *ea monkeyMan
24 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I miss the old days, when if someone wanted to send an unsolicited dick pic they had to come around your house with a fresh Polaroid picture. Those showed real commitment

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
24 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Maybe some people don't like fanny shots as avitars

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By *ad NannaWoman
24 weeks ago

East London

I don't see much difference between people sending a genitalia photo with a message or having one as a profile photo.

If I don't want to inspect the photos I ignore them.

We can use it as a form of filter, if we get lots of messages.

Personally, I don't find any photos offensive or annoying, but I will make a decision based on what I see.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
24 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Didn't you know it's how they get sex by showing people what they could have, makes us drop our underwear so it does

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

Personally I'm not a lover of genitalia pics as profile pics, regardless of sex, I'm also not a lover of them in messages, unless I have asked.

When a dick gets sent to me, I either block (depending on the message, if there is one sent of course) or just delete, usually they just stay in my inbox and mass delete at some stage, as I kinda just go "oh look, a dick".

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
24 weeks ago

Leeds

I absolutely hate unsolicited dick pics, they are a good filter.

I also hate vag pics however I've never received any unsolicited.

We have the option to turn off site images if we don't want to see people's profile pic, that's there for everyone to use for those complaining of the vagina in the OP's profile pic, plus you kinda have to zoom if you want to see the actual vag, it's hardly a comparison to being sent unsolicited genitals, you didn't choose to see.

This being a swingers site isn't an excuse for poor morals & whacking your cock in everyone's inbox.

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Central

If you don't want them, you add men to your message filters to block them.

Report any inappropriate law breaking to the police and to Admin.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
24 weeks ago

Tamworth

"It's a tough one but I don't massively see a difference with me logging into the forums and your vagina being on show.

Absolutely this. At least you can delete a message and block the sender but you’d have to avoid the forum to not see them as profile pics.

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By *AYENCouple
24 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It's allowed on Fab so it's their right to have them, but we block any single male that has public dick pics.

We would never trust them as we feel they have no regard for consent.

Block them from your local updates and any that you see as forum posts and from messages.

It's a bit of work to start with but is then easily maintained. K

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By *ookup75Man
24 weeks ago

kent/london

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By *rHotNottsMan
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’d never send one, never did but definitely not now it’s a crime. You only need one a woman to report you to the police and you can end up on the naughty list

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By *punk n gushCouple
24 weeks ago

deal

"It's a tough one but I don't massively see a difference with me logging into the forums and your vagina being on show.

Absolutely this. At least you can delete a message and block the sender but you’d have to avoid the forum to not see them as profile pics. "

Yes this and they can Still slag you of in public

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By *ark n kimCouple
24 weeks ago

Durham

We just use it as a very effective filter.

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By *ucy AnneTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Woodstock

I usually send dik-dik pics, myself."

I wish that you would!

Lovely little creatures, dik-diks. I have got a dik-dik horn (and no, that isn’t a joke!) on a little bead necklace from Kenya.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
24 weeks ago

walsall

I completely get it on everyday platforms. Sending genital pics to random internet users is vile and illegal, as it should be.

Maybe it’s because this used to be a swingers site and has since evolved into an everyday hook up site that has changed people’s opinion. It seems that many people feel very strongly about seeing each others genitals.

A profile with nothing but cock pics is ridiculous.

A nice mixture of pictures, including genitals is fine for me.

Just sending someone a picture of a cock with the words meet now? Has that ever worked?

I use this site in the full knowledge and expectation of seeing nudity. Naked profile pics are fine in my opinion.

I’m not het up to the point that just the mere glance at penis will boil my blood!

We are all different though.

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By *izandpaulCouple
24 weeks ago

merseyside

"I completely get it on everyday platforms. Sending genital pics to random internet users is vile and illegal, as it should be.

A profile with nothing but cock pics is ridiculous.

A nice mixture of pictures, including genitals is fine for me.

Just sending someone a picture of a cock with the words meet now? Has that ever worked?

I use this site in the full knowledge and expectation of seeing nudity. Naked profile pics are fine in my opinion.

I’m not het up to the point that just the mere glance at penis will boil my blood!

We are all different though. "

Totally agree, except I love a cock pic with meet up now attatched.

I say OK where are you, I'll be there in 30 minutes, knicker free and ready to go.

For some reason, they change their mind about meeting up.

Child minds in adult bodies.

Watch the cock pics fly in now.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

"Totally agree, except I love a cock pic with meet up now attatched.

I say OK where are you, I'll be there in 30 minutes, knicker free and ready to go.

For some reason, they change their mind about meeting up.

Child minds in adult bodies.

Watch the cock pics fly in now.

RIP your inbox. XD

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By *izandpaulCouple
24 weeks ago

merseyside

"Totally agree, except I love a cock pic with meet up now attatched.

I say OK where are you, I'll be there in 30 minutes, knicker free and ready to go.

For some reason, they change their mind about meeting up.

Child minds in adult bodies.

Watch the cock pics fly in now.

RIP your inbox. XD"

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By *apybarasCouple
24 weeks ago

High Lighthouse!

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Not sure how you’d be able to police it over than not letting someone send a picture in their first message to someone and them needing to respond before pictures can be exchanged.

From a technical perspective it would not be overly difficult to have a per user "accept images" button. Enabling or disabling that users ability to send you images.

Obviously with the default being disabled.

It's similar in function to blocks or friends.

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By *aizyWoman
24 weeks ago

west midlands

"It's a tough one but I don't massively see a difference with me logging into the forums and your vagina being on show.

Absolutely this. At least you can delete a message and block the sender but you’d have to avoid the forum to not see them as profile pics. "

Yes this, on here I tend to expect dick pics in my inbox they are just a quick delete though so they don't bother me too much, on other sites where I don't expect to recieve dick pics, like twitter where I have been sent dick pics pisses me off, on here it doesn't bother me too much, bits are everywhere you look!

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
24 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I agree with the general sentiment, but it's a bit rich coming from the OP who has visible genitals in their profile photo which we see every time they post or dm.

Nobody should be forced to look at someone's genitals, sex site or no. Imo keep it off your profile pic and keep it out of people's inboxes unless they specifically ask for it (site could add a blur to those pics easily seeing as they are categorised when you upload anyway, and a button for you to reveal it in your inbox if you wanna see it), keep em on your public pics if you want - it's a sex site and i know what i might see if i go looking, i just don't want it when I'm not going looking.

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By *apybarasCouple
24 weeks ago

High Lighthouse!

"I agree with the general sentiment, but it's a bit rich coming from the OP who has visible genitals in their profile photo which we see every time they post or dm.

Reading this thread has got me to change our profile pic. I think you (and others) have a fair point on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Everyone complains about dick pics so I send helicopter videos. Loopholes

I send my loop hole too.

Pics or it didn’t happen.

*Woody throws in his hand..

In your loop hole?

And now you can understand that’s why I can’t take a picture.

Get a tripod and a Bluetooth remote but don’t lose it up there."

You’ve done this before havn’t you? 😅

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