FabSwingers.com forum: What if your child was LGBT+??

By *rangar OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Just back from Kidderminster Pride…great event and hope it continues to grow as it’s only its second year but overheard something quite shocking from a trader there who sells LGBT+ items such as badges and flags etc.

They make sure that there is no mention of Pride or LGBT on their merchants details for the card machine as they get a lot of teens and young adults who are maybe at their first pride buying things on a card who know their parents would be disgusted if they thought they had been to a pride or similar….maybe it’s the circles we move in but that anyone could think that of their kids in 2024 shocks me…surely it doesn’t matter what gender or sexuality someone is??

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't think anything about it.

People are who they are and that's okay.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

My ‘child’ is (she’s 20). I don’t know much about Pride events, but I’m proud as fuck of her.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
23 weeks ago

Home

They would be nothing different to me I'd still love them

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By *olfandtazCouple
23 weeks ago

Bristol

If any of our kids came out as being that way we would still love them and support them

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
23 weeks ago

Pontypool

My daughter is bi, and as long as she is happy, so am I. It makes no difference.

However, I am aware, through her, that a lot of her circle are afraid to 'come out' to their parents. There are a few who have been supported, but there still seems to be a barrier for many young people to be open with their parents. Hopefully future generations will be more understanding and approachable.

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By *7inchMan
23 weeks ago

denbigh

As long as they were happy that’s all I care about

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By *ssex_tomMan
23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

There was an old scam years ago where an adult toys site would sell inferior adult toys. If you complained then they would send a cheque embossed with the companies name such as sex toys ltd and few customers would cash the cheque due to embarrassment at the counter

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"There was an old scam years ago where an adult toys site would sell inferior adult toys. If you complained then they would send a cheque embossed with the companies name such as sex toys ltd and few customers would cash the cheque due to embarrassment at the counter "

You mean on Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

This is from the film Lockstock.

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By *um2020Man
23 weeks ago

Lampeter

I have children and I've always tried to encourage them to be themselves... There shouldn't be anything to "come out" about... Just bring them home and introduce us to your partner.

Hopefully the world will get better at this but OP is right that it is a shame that in 2024 some people are not accepting and that some young people are still scared...

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By *andT2023Couple
23 weeks ago

in the middle

One of mine is and it makes no difference to how proud i am of him. He is brilliant ! Proud as punch that he can be himself x

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By *he love catsCouple
23 weeks ago

South Wales

I honestly wouldn't mind neither would the Mrs.😎

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
23 weeks ago

Reading

I do and I love her to bits

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By *eordieJeansCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The only thing that would bother me about it is the thought of the adversity they will face from bigots. Other than that my kids will always be loved exactly the same as they are right now.

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By *ssex_tomMan
23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

This is from the film Lockstock."

Based on exactly the truth from the much loved Exchange and Mart paper

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By *eordieJeansCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

This is from the film Lockstock.

Based on exactly the truth from the much loved Exchange and Mart paper"

Based on the writings of Guy Ritchie.

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By *vaRose43Woman
23 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

As the only straight in my family, it’s really a non issue

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By *ssex_tomMan
23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

This is from the film Lockstock.

Based on exactly the truth from the much loved Exchange and Mart paper

Based on the writings of Guy Ritchie."

Think Exchange and Mart paper was long before Guy. It's the same as gents toilets in pubs. Put a pound in the Durex machine and nothing. Not many will go to the bar to complain. Same scam really

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"I have children and I've always tried to encourage them to be themselves... There shouldn't be anything to "come out" about... Just bring them home and introduce us to your partner.

Hopefully the world will get better at this but OP is right that it is a shame that in 2024 some people are not accepting and that some young people are still scared...

I'm glad you said this, I've never felt the need to "come out" if I took a woman to meet family I'd expect them to treat them as if I brought a man.

My family wouldn't bat an eyelid though.

Mrs

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By *ssex_tomMan
23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

If Tom had kids he would prefer them straight, then gay and lastly bi..

Less prejudice that way

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By *eordieJeansCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

This is from the film Lockstock.

Based on exactly the truth from the much loved Exchange and Mart paper

Based on the writings of Guy Ritchie.

Think Exchange and Mart paper was long before Guy. It's the same as gents toilets in pubs. Put a pound in the Durex machine and nothing. Not many will go to the bar to complain. Same scam really"

A condom for a £1? Now I know this is a work of fiction.

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By *rowley616Man
23 weeks ago

Scarborough

Personally I would be more disappointed if they turned out to be straight.

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By *osey WalesMan
23 weeks ago

Surrey

I've had conversations with my 12 year old daughter, maybe even gentle ribbing about bofriends or possibly girlfriends. An aunt of hers is gay and married to another woman and she was a bridesmaid at their wedding.

My daughter makes me proud every day, as others have said, if she is happy, i'm happy. If someone hurts her, be it a guy or a girl, i hurt too.

Her sexuality, when she discovers what it even is, is what it is.

I still love her and always will

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By *ellinever70Woman
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Personally I would be more disappointed if they turned out to be straight. "

Why?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
23 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It would be a total non-issue. Neither of mine have had a serious relationship yet, but when they get round to it it'll be exciting and lovely, whoever it's with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think that this kind of thing is too far beneath the surface. Trans kids get the brunt of it - we've seen plenty of discussion of it - but I do wonder if the kinds of attitudes I remember from my youth would be more prevalent if polite society allowed it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

My step-son has dated both sexes and I’ve not batted an eye lid as he has never seen it as problem. He owns it and doesn’t hide anything and I’m pleased he’s never felt the need to hide from anyone including me.

I wouldn’t view any of my children differently as their preferences don’t have anything to do with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I’d be more concerned why my kids are in Kidderminster!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't have or ever intend to have children.

But I don't see why it would matter to me what their sexual identity is.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
23 weeks ago

Next Door

My youngest is a lesbian, totally proud of who she is, like I am of my other 2 kids.

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By *ellinever70Woman
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It would probably have made me worry more that their life might have been a bit more difficult

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By *rowley616Man
23 weeks ago

Scarborough

"Personally I would be more disappointed if they turned out to be straight.

Why?"

Because I want more for them than I had.

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By *ellinever70Woman
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Personally I would be more disappointed if they turned out to be straight.

Why?

Because I want more for them than I had."

Not sure I understand

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

"I’d be more concerned why my kids are in Kidderminster!

Come down Woody!

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By *rowley616Man
23 weeks ago

Scarborough

"Personally I would be more disappointed if they turned out to be straight.

Why?

Because I want more for them than I had.

Not sure I understand "

Don't try to. It is of no consequence.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
23 weeks ago

your head

My children's sexuality is not really any of my business. Id be a hypocrite if i had an issue with it. I always tried to make it known they would never need to "come out" our eldest still chose to last year. It was her choice and she knew she didn't need to but she wanted to.

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By *uenevereWoman
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

My child is Trans... I have no issue with that at all.

I struggle with the fact that some parents can't accept a child who is gay, trans or whatever.

I love my trans son and just want him to be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Why would it make any difference?

As long as they are happy

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Cheshire

My autistic son crossdresses I honestly starting to think it’s hereditary. I wish he didn’t as I know some of the challenges he’ll face in the future, but hoping the situation / society changes.

I love him and will always support him, not because I understand his feelings but he’s my son and unlike my Father I at least will understand him.

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By *allumUKMan
23 weeks ago

KingsLynn

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By *allumUKMan
23 weeks ago

KingsLynn

What does LGBT stand for again? Lesbian, Gammon, Bacon, Tomato?

Pretty sure I've had one from the garage before. Very tasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

It's a complete non issue.

They are who they are...long as they are happy.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

My mum accepted it though she never saw pictures. My late dad never knew and wouldn't have accepted.

Never really explored it till I moved out of Ireland

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By *avexxMan
23 weeks ago

cheshire

it wouldnt bother me in the slightest

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By *riar BelisseWoman
23 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

They can identify as a chocolate teapot and I'll support them, as long as they are happy

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
23 weeks ago

Northerner

Their sexuality will not alter my love or thoughts of them. A happy child is all I would want

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
23 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

As long as they are happy that is all I care about, it wouldn't change a thing

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By *hesblokeMan
23 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

Wouldn't matter to me either way (actually quite surprised one of mine isn't but hey ho

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By *ealitybitesMan
23 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community but one of my daughters took part in last years Belfast Pride in support of a few of her friends.

I was very proud of her for doing so and if any of my kids told me they were bi or gay it wouldn't cause a second thought.

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By *um2020Man
23 weeks ago

Lampeter

"I have children and I've always tried to encourage them to be themselves... There shouldn't be anything to "come out" about... Just bring them home and introduce us to your partner.

Hopefully the world will get better at this but OP is right that it is a shame that in 2024 some people are not accepting and that some young people are still scared...

I'm glad you said this, I've never felt the need to "come out" if I took a woman to meet family I'd expect them to treat them as if I brought a man.

My family wouldn't bat an eyelid though.

Mrs "

I truly hope this becomes the norm. Sounds like a great family you have... As do I.

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By *osey WalesMan
23 weeks ago

Surrey

Mixing it up ever so slightly...

Do your kids know or even need to know you swing ?

Saying this in the same context as " i am who i am, my parents dont need to know i'm gay,bi, pan, sapio etc etc..."

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
23 weeks ago

There and Here

My oldest child is trans. It makes no difference to how much I love him and cherish his existence.

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Mixing it up ever so slightly...

Do your kids know or even need to know you swing ?

Saying this in the same context as " i am who i am, my parents dont need to know i'm gay,bi, pan, sapio etc etc...""

I think there's a difference between "this is who I am" and "this is one of my recreational activities ".

I don't have children, but both my parents and hypothetical children would be aware of my long term relationships and commitments. I think swinging is more like them knowing I like anal.

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By *osey WalesMan
23 weeks ago

Surrey

"Mixing it up ever so slightly...

Do your kids know or even need to know you swing ?

Saying this in the same context as " i am who i am, my parents dont need to know i'm gay,bi, pan, sapio etc etc..."

I think there's a difference between "this is who I am" and "this is one of my recreational activities ".

I don't have children, but both my parents and hypothetical children would be aware of my long term relationships and commitments. I think swinging is more like them knowing I like anal. "

Yeah, fair point.

This is something i enjoy doing, swinging/playing away. I could stop. However my sexuality is my sexuality.

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By *oung at heartCouple
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

My brothers son came out to everyone but he was scared to his dad as he was s well known tough guy. I told my brother and he shrugged his shoulders and said would he come out to me if he was straight.

Thought it was perfect way of thinking

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
23 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Tbh the biggest shock would be that I have a child. And I’m not bothered who they fall in love with, just tell me where they stand on Brexit!

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By *929Man
23 weeks ago

bedlington

To be honest I hope my daughter grows up to be gay so much easier

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
23 weeks ago

Coventry

I mean for us love is love and all want is for our children to experience all the joys life has to offer, feel comfortable in their own skin and hopefully find the kind of love we have. Whatever their sexuallity or relationship format.

However the would is still far from utopic. We know this. Although it's far more acceptable to see lesbians exchange kisses and intimacy on the streets it's still far less so for gay men to. I know my own mother is still a bit old fashioned and my daughter isn't so forthcoming about her own sexuallity. Of which my daughter has my full support and in truth I don't think my mum who loves her would shun her but I get it's a bit for my mum to get her head around, but would be OK. But its my daughters information to tell when she is ready. So I just encourage and support her. Living in a multicultural community I know very clearly that in many cultural communities this is still a taboo. I know and have worked with people of different cultural backgrounds with very strong private veiws even if they won't express them publicly.

So yes although I have no personal experience myself being a straight male it don't take a rocket scientist to see its still hard for many people to come out or at least express their sexuallity as freely as straight people. And it's my understanding that is part of what Pride is about to normalise different sexualities and help society to just realise its fine. Hopefully one day Pride will become unnecessary in that respect because it will be accepted and normalised in all walks of life. But we're not there yet and you'd have to be blind or living in some kind of progressive bubble not to see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I’d be more concerned why my kids are in Kidderminster!

Come down Woody!"

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

🥰 this thread

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
23 weeks ago

peterborough

Note:: the people who don't understand, don't like and want nothing to do with (LGBT) won't comment here.

Trust, they exist in numbers on the site !!!!!

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By *inkycumsluttWoman
23 weeks ago

St Neots

I truly really don't care if my sons were to be gay, bi, trans. Whatever. As long as they are the decent human beings I'm raising them to be then that is all that matters to me 🥰

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By *wisted999Man
23 weeks ago

North Bucks

Theoretically if they were happy then I would be happy.

And that’s all there is to it. They would also get a fuck off hug for being so brave as to tell me. (They wouldn’t need to be brave at all imo)

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I mean for us love is love and all want is for our children to experience all the joys life has to offer, feel comfortable in their own skin and hopefully find the kind of love we have. Whatever their sexuallity or relationship format.

Mr"

Lovely comment

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By *ikerP1000Man
22 weeks ago

Durham

I love my kids no matter what orientation they are. They don’t need to hide anything. End of.

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By *earmegrowlMan
22 weeks ago

wolves

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By *earmegrowlMan
22 weeks ago

wolves

I wouldnt have no issues at all with sexuality and who they wanted to be with, the only time I'd have an issue is if they wanted to start using they or them or tomorrow wanted to be a bloody cat lol

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By *bostCouple
22 weeks ago

glasgow

As parents of such a child it wouldn’t make us bat an eyelid. We’ve known for years and have supported our child through it.

We appreciate how it could shock parents at first, but surely all parents just want the children to be happy and contented.

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By *ddie1966Man
22 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

This is a topic that really narks me.

Humans are the only animals in the world that labels people as LGBT+ or whatever..

It annoys me no end that we differentiate.

Why?

Because some idiot decided we should. Why not just let people be people. In the past, I have defended my child physically to closed minded idiots. Our children have the right to choose their sexuality and not live in fear of people with different opinions. Our children have the right to be happy too. Above all, why so many different labels though?

HUMAN is plenty good enough and all humans should be treated equally with love, affection and above all respect.

And no. I'm not an ageing hippy. Just a parent who loves their child, no matter what their sexuality.

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By *orthernJayMan
22 weeks ago

LHR

"Note:: the people who don't understand, don't like and want nothing to do with (LGBT) won't comment here.

Trust, they exist in numbers on the site !!!!!"

^^^ absolutely this ^^^

Although many of these comments are amazing to read, we do still live in a world that shuns anybody who isn’t “straight” and doesn’t conform.

A close friend of my daughter is one of four girls, statistically at least one of them was sure to be gay and it’s her; unfortunately her mother’s response “you need counselling” and her father’s “don’t tell anyone else” greeted her once she found the courage to come out!

We can only hope progress continues globally, it’s amazing todays children can mostly be whoever and whatever they choose; they’re standing on the shoulders of everyone who spoke out before them so let’s keep talking

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Central

Always let them know that everyone is valued and equal love for all

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By *viatrixWoman
22 weeks ago

Redhill

My oldest is- does not make any difference at all. It is a part of him, like his dark hair or his hazel eyes.

People overthink these things too much.

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By *evils PuddingCouple
22 weeks ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

Take my kids to pride every year as 1 came out a few years back. Love and support them all regardless.

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By *jj2012Man
22 weeks ago

Barry

"Just back from Kidderminster Pride…great event and hope it continues to grow as it’s only its second year but overheard something quite shocking from a trader there who sells LGBT+ items such as badges and flags etc.

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves."
It wouldn't change anything as long as there happy in life then I'm happy

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
22 weeks ago

La La Land

My eldest came out before I did

It made my coming out story a lot easier to say

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By *tYourPleasure_80Man
22 weeks ago

Newcastle

It wouldn't bother me, love for my children is unconditional. As long as they are honest and remain true to themselves. Not about my acceptance but the ignorance of others

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

my 12 year old son wore a dress to school for their pride day a couple of weeks ago. I felt so proud that they felt he could express themself like that

theyre not sure which way they lean in terms of sexuality or gender but I love them whatever they decide

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By *ornycougaWoman
22 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

They are still my children who i would lay down my life for. All I want is for them to be happy

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
22 weeks ago

south coast IOW

One of my grandchildren is trans and fortunately has felt able to be open with the whole family. Born female now identifies predominantly as male so was a groomsman at my daughters wedding (her aunt) whilst his sister was a bridesmaid along with my other grandchildren. I feel strongly that a person’s sexuality is irrelevant and hope that society will one day genuinely accept that.

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By *ripfillMan
22 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

As culture evolves there are more taboo boundaries being broken down in a free democratic society it takes this “type” of society to enable it.

Love does not wear labels it’s wonderful there is more openness and through rallies and positive media and indeed my thoughts are the key catalyst is social media speeding up people’s acceptance- and righty too

Kindness and tolerance are essential to evolve a culture so we have a greater understanding and paitence.

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By *art1968Man
22 weeks ago

stafford

I wouldn’t think much to it, I think more and more young people are bi these days, modern life I suppose

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By *uckslut and MCouple
22 weeks ago

Poole

I've taken 2 of my 4, to Lgbt+q, 3 day events. Bourne Pride in Bournemouth, had/ has dedicated childrens events and activities during daytime hours. Not problem or issue for me. Mine are human beings, it dosnt matter how they are packaged and present.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
22 weeks ago

My child is part of the LGBTQ community and I make sure that I'm there with them at pride events to show that I am hugely proud of who they are, and they should also be too.

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By *moothpussyMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow

I was raised in a very strict family. My mother was a fabulous woman and I do mean fabulous. It was always clear that I was very different from my male peers. I only hand friends that were girls. I came out at 13. I was so afraid that mother would throw me out. She just hugged me and said "I know darling, I have always known since tou were a child, you're still my boy". She then told me that grandpa had a word with her about my being gay. And to look after me. When the whole family found out it wasn't nice. It went from he's just going through a phase to at worst he's a pervert. I had never, ever seen my grandpa get angry and he said that he is gay, there is no issue. It's who he is. Anyone has a problem, come and talk to me and we will also discuss the will.

My 'grandmother' was a horrid person. She told me I was going to hell and wouldn't be welcome back in their house. I got really upset. Grandpa came upstairs and asked what happened. I told him what Claire had said. We all had another family meeting. Claire 'grandmother' was told to either accept it or to pack a suitcase.

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
22 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

When you have kids you’ll realise far more important things to be thinking about / worrying about. It’s never crossed my mind, perfectly normal for kids to experiment with sexuality

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I was raised in a very strict family. My mother was a fabulous woman and I do mean fabulous. It was always clear that I was very different from my male peers. I only hand friends that were girls. I came out at 13. I was so afraid that mother would throw me out. She just hugged me and said "I know darling, I have always known since tou were a child, you're still my boy". She then told me that grandpa had a word with her about my being gay. And to look after me. When the whole family found out it wasn't nice. It went from he's just going through a phase to at worst he's a pervert. I had never, ever seen my grandpa get angry and he said that he is gay, there is no issue. It's who he is. Anyone has a problem, come and talk to me and we will also discuss the will.

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
22 weeks ago

your head

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

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By *aleforfun22Man
22 weeks ago

Lancashire

One of my daughter's is bi and im so proud of her shes braver than i will ever be.i dont and wont ever judge her for it.its her life and as long as shes happy thats all im bothered about.to many people are judgemental on everyone else is life style.just cause your gay or bi or trans doesnt make you a bad person or evil or anything.to much hate and not enough loving in this world.let people live there lifes how they want to dont judge or criticise them for it everyone is entitled to live how they want to be without living in fear what people might say about them...love to everyone xx

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By *entBarryUKMan
22 weeks ago

Ashford

We took all our kids to Pride. They understand what it is about, and now have a greater understanding of the community at large. If it helps them to come out (or not) then it's all good with me.

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By *ie n MashCouple
22 weeks ago

Back in Malice

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

That’s brought a tear to my eye. Your Grandpa sounds an exceptional man.

Regarding the OP’s question, I could handle our kids or grandson being gay far easier than I could them announcing they support Spurs. Not a joke.

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By *moothpussyMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

That’s brought a tear to my eye. Your Grandpa sounds an exceptional man.

Regarding the OP’s question, I could handle our kids or grandson being gay far easier than I could them announcing they support Spurs. Not a joke."

My grandpa was an exceptional man. He was a true gentleman. I understand what you mean about the football lol.

I believe love is love and as long you don't hurt anyone or anything then you should be free to do what you want with your life. I just wish some people weren't so narrow minded.

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By *essTTWoman
22 weeks ago

Birmingham

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves."

Lots of openly homophobic and biphobic people on here

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By *rangar OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

These responses have renewed my faith in human nature a bit I must say….lets hope they are representative of wider society but I still have my doubts….I mean I’ve even had some death stares at bi nights at clubs when we have had same sex play…esp male/male…although I often wonder if that’s because people don’t have the confidence to follow their hearts.

Thank you for all the reasones. Been really interesting to read.

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By *viatrixWoman
22 weeks ago

Redhill

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

As a mother, you know. I knew since my boy was 3 or so. ☺️❤️

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
22 weeks ago

peterborough

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves.

Lots of openly homophobic and biphobic people on here"

And TRANSPHOBIC !!!!!!

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By *iker JackMan
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

All I have ever wanted and all I want is for my kids to be happy. That is all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

We didn't have a pride here as no funds. Just a picnic in the park. If I lived somewhere that had a proper pride and my son was younger I'm sure we would of gone as a family day out.

Anyone can go and support pride, can't really imagine people being against it unless they are stuck in the dark ages

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By *ansoffateMan
22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

She is.

The first conversation we had after she came out to me. We were driving in the car, she was upset about her gf.

She asked: 'why do girls make it so complicated, they never say what they mean?'

She looked at me with this desperate pleading look in her eyes.

All I could say was:

'I can't lie I've been trying to work that out for 30 years, I was hoping you might tell me.'

That made her laugh 😆.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I'm not surprised this happens as much as I wish it wasn't needed.

There are comments in the forum (especially trans but to other degrees LGB) that makes more understand why it's seen as needed.

Plenty of people here who would y want their kid using certain toilets, or be annoyed if their kid's (assuming over 18) looked at their profile.

Im not comfortable talking about some stuff with my friends. And these are the parents of kids... So can believe there's till shame and worse.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
22 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

He was a total gentleman given his age and was so open minded. I miss that man everyday but I know he's watching over me.

As a mother, you know. I knew since my boy was 3 or so. ☺️❤️"

That’s not always true. My mum was certain that I was a lesbian - to the point as a ten agent she would make me sit and watch tv programmes with her about gay history and legal rights. She totally got the wrong daughter, I’m the straight one.

Also, I remember a friend’s mum projectile vomiting when she found her gay son’s diary

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

It's a whole new world and I'm still not sure where I sit. I have my opinions and they're evolving as I hear more on all sides but that's maybe for another post.

My daughter is in the mindset that she's not straight, but she's also not sure what she is.

I've told her to relax and just be her. She doesn't need to ascribe a label or feel the need to conform to anyone else's need for her to fit in one box or another.

I also think that as teens, we explore our sexual awakening which means we try things that don't need to define us or dictate future life choices.

It's a confusing time.e already without all the overt sexualisation and peer pressure through SM.

I see my job as a parent is to provide a safe environment to find out who they are. There's a reason young teens can't make life-affevting decisions such as alcohol, cigarettes, tattoos, join the forces, enter into contracts, etc and I think that's a good thing. I know my teen would make some pretty poor decisions if she were allowed that she'd later regret.

So whether she's H, L, G, B, T, Q, etc, I do t care. So long as she's happy with herself. Today L, tomorrow B, and next week probably something else.

C'est la vie...

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
22 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"Lots of openly homophobic and biphobic people on here

And TRANSPHOBIC !!!!!!"

Sadly I have to agree

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By *affron40Woman
22 weeks ago

manchester

My youngest stepchild is gay. She came out to me because she was terrified of telling her dad. It’s really sad that some kids still have to go through that. Love is love and she’s so bloody happy.

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By *hoirCouple
22 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves."

Pride and being LGBT aren't the same thing. Pride is too political for some.

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By *amescoupleCouple
22 weeks ago

north walsham

Our daughter had recently come out as non binary. Shes about to turn 18.

End of the day it doesnt change who she is or what we think of her.

You love or dont love the people for you not to tick someone elses check boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I'm 31, about to be 32...

I am STILL terrified to come out to my father.

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By *ssex_tomMan
22 weeks ago

Chelmsford

"Our daughter had recently come out as non binary. Shes about to turn 18.

End of the day it doesnt change who she is or what we think of her.

You love or dont love the people for you not to tick someone elses check boxes."

Is that a thing.. ?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 weeks ago

Ends

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves.

Lots of openly homophobic and biphobic people on here"

LOTS.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Maybe there are even some on here that might think like that??….if so please have a good hard talk to yourselves.

Lots of openly homophobic and biphobic people on here"

I had an abusive message from a guy on here, just because I looked at his profile.

Called me all sorts of names and slurs...

It's disgusting that in 2024 people can't just let others live their own lives, and have to take it into their own hands to tell them what they think.

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By *opinovMan
22 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

My youngest son is. It makes not a single jot of difference to me or our father-son relationship. His life is his to live every bit as much as mine is mine. What matters is he's happy, healthy and loved.

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By *reat me rightWoman
22 weeks ago

Rotherham

Why would that make me feel any differently about my child. They already told me they were queer at 9

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