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"Trying to guess the part of town I live on based on distance from them. Creepy, stalker like behaviour and very intrusive." We've had one of them, trying to work out which street we live on. They weren't even close, but is the quickest we've blocked anyone. | |||
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 *he was reported.
I’m sure there’s more to my list… | |||
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"Telling me a story about what they would do to me with vomit inducing detail... I have never gotten to the end of one of those "I’m with you on this too! | |||
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Calm down love at least buy me dinner 1st haha 
And how many kids we planning? | |||
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"Trying to guess the part of town I live on based on distance from them. Creepy, stalker like behaviour and very intrusive. We've had one of them, trying to work out which street we live on. They weren't even close, but is the quickest we've blocked anyone." It's a horrible feeling isn't it? One of them had it to maybe half a mile away | |||
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"Telling me a story about what they would do to me with vomit inducing detail... I have never gotten to the end of one of those
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"Dick pics I don’t want them in my inbox.. it’s not like they’re beautiful or anything! You free now? Meet now? Come to my hotel? Those who leave and come back every week Those who offer money Those who make arrangements and then don’t log back in until afterwards, I now don’t meet anyone who doesn’t confirm the night before. I also had one once who wanted to drug me, tie me up, ra*e me and then apparently drive me out to nowhere *he was reported.
I’m sure there’s more to my list… "Oh the irony! One of those that leave and come back, is indeed back on Fab and messaging me | |||
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"What's everyones ick" From *recieves mail …From Man …. ^thats my ick | |||
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"Trying to guess the part of town I live on based on distance from them. Creepy, stalker like behaviour and very intrusive. We've had one of them, trying to work out which street we live on. They weren't even close, but is the quickest we've blocked anyone." I’ve had similar, and funnily enough where I am parked up right now. A guy messaged and asked if I was interested. I didn’t answer as I wasn’t. It said he was a few miles away. About half an hour later I got a message again from him, followed by another half dozen and he was within touching distance. He decided to describe what my lorry looked like and exactly what he was going to do to me. Weird. | |||
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But seriously, the amount of icks that women have stated already about 'faf' or 'where r u?' Or 'come to my hotel' with no profile picture and an unsolicited dick pic in the message that get deleted... then I look at my well constructed messages, proof that I've read the profile, not come across too pushy but still alluring and yet my messages still get deleted leaves little hope for guys on here lol
Digressions aside, I haven't had any opening messages that I've found an 'ick' with to offer a valid opinion | |||
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"hey bb wen u get site of muh gawgus man meet I gunna make u squirt til u flood ur house ... three hours of writing later... n den ill leaf n ull neva 4get me" Sorry about that. I’ll try harder next time. If I spell it all proper, will it open your legs for me?  | |||
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"hey bb wen u get site of muh gawgus man meet I gunna make u squirt til u flood ur house ... three hours of writing later... n den ill leaf n ull neva 4get me Sorry about that. I’ll try harder next time. If I spell it all proper, will it open your legs for me? "Trying to impress me with fiction is a fool's errand  | |||
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"I've ordered an uber..I can redirect it to collect you I'm not sure why I'm supposed to be turned on by this but I've now had a version of it 3 times "?? there’s a prolific northern message sender who does this one constantly. | |||
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"I've ordered an uber..I can redirect it to collect you I'm not sure why I'm supposed to be turned on by this but I've now had a version of it 3 times
?? there’s a prolific northern message sender who does this one constantly. "You mean I'm not special I'm devastated | |||
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"I've ordered an uber..I can redirect it to collect you I'm not sure why I'm supposed to be turned on by this but I've now had a version of it 3 times
?? there’s a prolific northern message sender who does this one constantly.
You mean I'm not special I'm devastated " | |||
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"I'll make you need that wheelchair.... Creepy AF "No worries... I'll make sure those cuffs are real
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"I'll make you need that wheelchair.... Creepy AF
No worries... I'll make sure those cuffs are real
Time served..."Also, I sorry that you've had any messages like that. Someone isn't right in the head | |||
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"I'll make you need that wheelchair.... Creepy AF "Jesus christ... | |||
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"I'll make you need that wheelchair.... Creepy AF "What the absolute fuck | |||
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It’s just rude hahaha
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"Trying to guess the part of town I live on based on distance from them. Creepy, stalker like behaviour and very intrusive. We've had one of them, trying to work out which street we live on. They weren't even close, but is the quickest we've blocked anyone. I’ve had similar, and funnily enough where I am parked up right now. A guy messaged and asked if I was interested. I didn’t answer as I wasn’t. It said he was a few miles away. About half an hour later I got a message again from him, followed by another half dozen and he was within touching distance. He decided to describe what my lorry looked like and exactly what he was going to do to me. Weird. " It's quite scary that someone thinks it normal behaviour. I had a guy driving around guessing road names by the distance changing. | |||
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"Out of curiosity if anyone will indulge me: I've started sending my initial messages as rhyming couplets, just for something a bit quirky and unique. But would that give any of you the ick if you received a message in the form of a poem? XD" Depends on the contents of the poem. I’ve received poems as opening messages. Some have utterly made my stomach turn others have been surprisingly brilliant. | |||
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"What's everyones ick" "Hay" "U Gawjus" "Wat u up2"...that usually get repile "about 7 inches currently" | |||
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"Trying to guess the part of town I live on based on distance from them. Creepy, stalker like behaviour and very intrusive. We've had one of them, trying to work out which street we live on. They weren't even close, but is the quickest we've blocked anyone. I’ve had similar, and funnily enough where I am parked up right now. A guy messaged and asked if I was interested. I didn’t answer as I wasn’t. It said he was a few miles away. About half an hour later I got a message again from him, followed by another half dozen and he was within touching distance. He decided to describe what my lorry looked like and exactly what he was going to do to me. Weird. It's quite scary that someone thinks it normal behaviour. I had a guy driving around guessing road names by the distance changing." I've had that too. Unbelievably creepy. | |||
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"What's everyones ick" Anything that mentions the word ick
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"Hi,hey how's you,how's your day,week.meet now.Usually with a blank profile.can I ask you a question,do you want my 7 day load.and many many more. They then wonder why they are not getting replies or meets.proper brain teaser that one "This.... (points up) perplexes me. I can understand not replying/deleting/blocking these comments and profiles, but my messages are nowhere near this crass or vulgar... yet, many will treat me the same and delete/blank. Guys put the effort in, but get painted with the same brush. But this is the way of Fab and just the way it is  | |||
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"Unsolicited videos of people wanking Yeah, sorry about that "Haha where's mine | |||
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"This.... (points up) perplexes me. I can understand not replying/deleting/blocking these comments and profiles, but my messages are nowhere near this crass or vulgar... yet, many will treat me the same and delete/blank. Guys put the effort in, but get painted with the same brush. But this is the way of Fab and just the way it is "That's the thing, though. No matter how much time or effort you spend writing a message out, it's more often than not still an *unsolicited* message you weren't invited to send. It's the equivalent of a door to door salesman: no matter how polite he is or how good his sales pitch, a lot of people just won't bother answering the door because they don't want to buy anything from him. | |||
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"Hi,hey how's you,how's your day,week.meet now.Usually with a blank profile.can I ask you a question,do you want my 7 day load.and many many more. They then wonder why they are not getting replies or meets.proper brain teaser that one
This.... (points up) perplexes me. I can understand not replying/deleting/blocking these comments and profiles, but my messages are nowhere near this crass or vulgar... yet, many will treat me the same and delete/blank.
Guys put the effort in, but get painted with the same brush. But this is the way of Fab and just the way it is
"So you are doing exactly the same and painting all couples with te same brush. If we get even a half decent message we will always reply.even if it's to say no thanks. The only ones we don't reply to are the lazy messages or profiles with nothing on but fill in later. We don't reply to crude or crass messages either. | |||
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"Tearing the letter inside the envelope" Tbf... I do this. Nah, I get it the 'unsolicited' side of it. To be clear, I'm not complaining or moaning, doesn't bother me anyways as I'm not a serial message sender.. the the occasional if someone takes my fancy. The way I figure it... if no one is messaging me, you kinda got to go out and look for it otherwise apart from the forums, it defeats the point entirely being here. It's a bit like telling ugly people to get to the back of the beautiful person queue (if such a thing exists) | |||
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"p.s. and i resent having to look at cocks I haven't asked for on here" Cock pics as forum avatars are innapropriate. civilised people should know better. There is probable even a good case for not allowing them as avatar pictures at all. I am a naturist and proud of it, but only in appropriate environments. Not, for example, in the politics forum, or, usually, the lounge. | |||
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"p.s. and i resent having to look at cocks I haven't asked for on here Cock pics as forum avatars are innapropriate. civilised people should know better. There is probable even a good case for not allowing them as avatar pictures at all. I am a naturist and proud of it, but only in appropriate environments. Not, for example, in the politics forum, or, usually, the lounge." I keep mine in friends only now. If someone wants to see it, they'll ask. | |||
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"p.s. and i resent having to look at cocks I haven't asked for on here Cock pics as forum avatars are innapropriate. civilised people should know better. There is probable even a good case for not allowing them as avatar pictures at all. I am a naturist and proud of it, but only in appropriate environments. Not, for example, in the politics forum, or, usually, the lounge. I keep mine in friends only now. If someone wants to see it, they'll ask. "Are cocks avatars any different to boobs, vaginas or in my case, an arse? | |||
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"p.s. and i resent having to look at cocks I haven't asked for on here Cock pics as forum avatars are innapropriate. civilised people should know better. There is probable even a good case for not allowing them as avatar pictures at all. I am a naturist and proud of it, but only in appropriate environments. Not, for example, in the politics forum, or, usually, the lounge." It’s a swinging site. Nudity is part and parcel of it. Unless the owners choose to ban all full nude pics from public | |||
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