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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol

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By *JcuriousCouple
20 weeks ago

Derby

4ft11 here

Miss S x

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By *radleywigginsMan
20 weeks ago

northwest

If you can stand on your cock they probably won’t care

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

And I bet you prefer taller lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
20 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

How would one prove you wrong?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
20 weeks ago

Tamworth

Unashamedly so I don’t want to feel like a great big galumphing beast so I prefer men who are taller than me.

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Meet with me instead of ghosting when I give my height lol

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"Meet with me instead of ghosting when I give my height lol"

How do you know it's specifically your height that's the issue? That's on your profile, so if someone's responded to you initially, they'd already know, surely?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
20 weeks ago

Wirral.

I do prefer a guy taller than me OP, sorry. I can't explain why, I just do.

But there's many a guy I've liusted after that doesn't like chubby old women, either.

We work with what we've got, as there's no alternative

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Yes this is true for example I was chatting all fine I wanted to meet so did she until I told her my height suddenly I wasn't for her lol

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By *eneralKenobiMan
20 weeks ago

North Angus


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol"

Where’s the rest of yah?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
20 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Meet with me instead of ghosting when I give my height lol

How do you know it's specifically your height that's the issue? That's on your profile, so if someone's responded to you initially, they'd already know, surely?"

Indeed. You're also a smoker, OP. That, too, is a big no no for many.

I get that it's hard to be positive all the time, but being openly negative will only repel more people. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
20 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Meet with me instead of ghosting when I give my height lol"

What injustice do you suffer when someone finds an attribute of yours unsuitable for them?

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

I prefer to be upfront and honest

I smoke

I'm short

I have a nice sized cock lol so I'm told

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By *ora the explorerWoman
20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Over 6 ft for me. I don’t want to meet men who are shorter than me. I’m sure many men don’t want to meet women who are fatter than them. Swings and roundabouts. Hopefully there’s someone for everyone

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

No injustice I'm used to it now lol their lossxx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"No injustice I'm used to it now lol their lossxx"

How’s it their loss if you’re not for them though?

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

True but I tell myself that lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
20 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No injustice I'm used to it now lol their lossxx"

Then why are you framing it like it's an injustice (we all know what -ist and -ism words mean) and people have to prove otherwise?

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Wonder if there is a short arse swing site pmsl

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside

I like a man to be taller than me too,I guess it comes from wanting them to be my protector and I feel if they were tall they can!

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"Wonder if there is a short arse swing site pmsl"

There's a fetish for everything, I'm sure there is!

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Fair play

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By *oo..Woman
20 weeks ago

Boo's World

I need a man taller than me because I like to be able to look in their eyes as they talk to me not breastfeed them.

Sorry op

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill

One thing I will say is that there is a bit of a stereotype (however well or poorly deserved) that short guys can have exhausting insecurities about it, end up feeling like they have something to prove, and overcompensate for it which just ends up making them look bad.

Not at all saying that's the case here or that anyone you've interacted with thinks it, but it can certainly be among the hurdles.

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

I hear you but to be honest I'm just so laid back tbh I love a good laugh and joke I'm just me no matter what no chip or potato on my shoulders lol

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20 weeks ago

Men are too.

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"I hear you but to be honest I'm just so laid back tbh I love a good laugh and joke I'm just me no matter what no chip or potato on my shoulders lol"

Humour is an extremely attractive trait too!

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

When I'm told on here your to short my reply is allway

No problem happy fabbing x

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm sure they are but taller ladies don't put me off actually I don't have a choice as most are taller pmsl

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
20 weeks ago

bristol/london

I wish there were more tall women to be fair. I'm fed up of bending down to kiss them lol.

Unfortunately though, dude. It's a safety thing. Women associate bigger men with safety. Which is kind of crazy. I work in close quarter protection. Most dangerous guy I know is 5'5 and slim. Ex sbs. Dude is a weapon in himself and not to be troubled.

Maybe try hitting gym and becoming silver fox material?

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By *heelofTimeCouple
20 weeks ago

Two Rivers

Ah we’re both short ar@@s here also. Bothers some but not all! We’ve met really tall women who have had no issues aren’t we all the same lying down lol! But you’re not going to be for everyone as you already know. The women can read you have your height on profile so no need draw attention to it.

Xxx

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Now you given my job away to everyone lol

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By *herrybakewellCouple
20 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Good advise

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By *radleywigginsMan
20 weeks ago

northwest


"Men are too. "

I think that’s true up to a point. I think there are lots of men that could be intimidated by the thought of dating a woman really tall.

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Height of a woman I don't mind at all if I can kneel down and have a lick while they stand I'm a happy midget lol

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
20 weeks ago

Cumbria

So many short men get so insecure and emotional, it’s just not worth the hassle.

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm fine really

Where's my shotgun pmsl

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By *eneralKenobiMan
20 weeks ago

North Angus


"I'm fine really

Where's my shotgun pmsl"

Is it a sawn off?

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Lol well really it's a hand gun but feels like a shotgun lol

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By *ee04Man
20 weeks ago

Essex

Have to say on this o get asked if I am really the height on my profile the answer is always yes otherwise I wouldn’t put it.

Personally I don’t care as long as I like the person.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
20 weeks ago

North Angus


"Lol well really it's a hand gun but feels like a shotgun lol"

Wee snub nose

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Loving the jokes btw

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By *eneralKenobiMan
20 weeks ago

North Angus


"Loving the jokes btw"

Sorry I’ve had a lot of sugar today

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By *r SproutMan
20 weeks ago

the middle

I like women who are shorter than me . Just saying

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Lol or tea

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

5’2? That cute ….

* maybe that compliment only works for a woman, sorry, op

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Lol yes

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
20 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Lol @ OP. You have a great sense of humour

But here is my two cents... I consider myself a short guy.. I'm about 5ft7/5ft8 and all my life I'm usually surrounded by guys, friends and workmates taller then myself. I've just come to learn to live with it. I mean, I used to go to the gym, do Shukokai Karate and Gracie Jiu Jitsu so I kept myself in shape and put on a little bit of defined mass to bulk myself up a bit, but yeah... I understand the short feeling.

However, as people have said... most ladies would want someone tall, it's an almost primeval thing. Some ladies are fortunate enough not to be bothered by height. The thing is, you work with what you've got and be damn proud of who you are and not let anyone tell you otherwise... just to not take it to heart I guess.

We all have our preferences and every single one is just as valid. The programmed 'desired' average is a guy that's taller than them, just like some guys are programmed to find slimmer ladies attractive... we're all different.

I mean, the shortest girl I've dated was like 4'10 and the tallest girl I've been with was 6'4. My regular FWB up until early this year is exactly 6'0 so the right girl is out there I'm sure.

Hope this has helped

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr."

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!"

Brunette eh

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By *ittlebirdWoman
20 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol"

But your profile says 5’3 OP. That inch is very very important

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By * D 777Man
20 weeks ago

bathgate

love a tall and short women

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol

But your profile says 5’3 OP. That inch is very very important "

We all know guys are terrible at gauging inches.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
20 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!"

I'd say that was his loss.

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

Brunette eh "

Well ombré!

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

I'd say that was his loss. "

I console myself with this fact an thank you x

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
20 weeks ago

St Neots

Scientist say short man syndrome really is a thing, best avoided

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

Brunette eh

Well ombré! "

What colour is that. It sounds like an oil paint.

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

Brunette eh

Well ombré!

What colour is that. It sounds like an oil paint. "

It's just a posh way of sayin brown with blonde on the bottom!!

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
20 weeks ago

Wales


"Scientist say short man syndrome really is a thing, best avoided "

Ey up

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"Scientist say short man syndrome really is a thing, best avoided "

U wot M8? Come say that to my face!

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

Brunette eh

Well ombré!

What colour is that. It sounds like an oil paint.

It's just a posh way of sayin brown with blonde on the bottom!! "

Ahh. Nice. In that case, I’m transitioning to my next colour. … confusing way of saying I’m going grey

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol"

Funsize mate

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

Brunette eh

Well ombré!

What colour is that. It sounds like an oil paint.

It's just a posh way of sayin brown with blonde on the bottom!!

Ahh. Nice. In that case, I’m transitioning to my next colour. … confusing way of saying I’m going grey "

Your 'ombréing'

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
20 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm 5ft 1 but got years I thought I was 5ft 2, still can't quite put the "1" lol.

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By *elvet RopeMan
20 weeks ago

by the big field


"Meet with me instead of ghosting when I give my height lol"

Could be worse, i always seemed to get that reaction when i sent a face pic

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By *hilloutMan
20 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Being taller may improve your odds, but it's pointless without the right attitude when approaching women or you present nothing else that interests them besides the height.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I like women who are shorter than me . Just saying "

Screw that - if a 6’4” Amazon in 6” fuckme heels approached me for sex, I’d give her a jolly good listening to and do as I’m told.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I'm 5ft 1 but got years I thought I was 5ft 2, still can't quite put the "1" lol."

Pounded so hard over the years you’ve shrunk?

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By *im_1878Man
20 weeks ago

Formby

5’7” short arse here.

Went out with a lady on a date once via match I think it was. She told me after ten minutes she only dates men 5’10+ and above (oh and earn over £35k a year) no idea why she agreed to go on a date with me, my profile clearly stated my height, oh well, that ended pretty quickly

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Tomorrow I'm out with a 4ft11 bombshell.

One of my favourite people is 5ft3.

I'm not bonking some random shortarse to prove a point. But if I'm happy with people over a foot shorter than me before factoring in the 6 inch heels I live in I think that's proof enough

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By *xydadbodMan
20 weeks ago

Milton keynes


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol"

I'm 5'4 but often class myself as a hobbit but I don't mind lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol"

Your profile states 5ft 3 which is it a fab inch is important

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

5ft 2 must of had shoes on not trainers that day lol

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By *eordieJeansCouple
20 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I didn’t know The Borrowers were on fab.

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By *ixfootfiveandabitMan
20 weeks ago

oxford

OP just say you’re 6ft like every bloke on here has 7” or 8.5” on cam…

I don’t boast I’ve 5.5” and anyway it’s what you do with it

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By *eordieJeansCouple
20 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"OP just say you’re 6ft like every bloke on here has 7” or 8.5” on cam…

I don’t boast I’ve 5.5” and anyway it’s what you do with it "

So you’re not 6’5”?

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Cock size to the problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol

But your profile says 5’3 OP. That inch is very very important "

Honestly, don't you just hate liars? An instant block from me

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By *ixfootfiveandabitMan
20 weeks ago

oxford


"OP just say you’re 6ft like every bloke on here has 7” or 8.5” on cam…

I don’t boast I’ve 5.5” and anyway it’s what you do with it

So you’re not 6’5”?"

I was on the other ‘fab inches’ (with a half)

Yes I’m 6ft 5 and 1/2

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"I got rejected for not being tall enough once lol.

Lots more people to choose from.

Mr.

I was snubbed for not being blonde from a guy once!!

Brunette eh

Well ombré!

What colour is that. It sounds like an oil paint.

It's just a posh way of sayin brown with blonde on the bottom!!

Ahh. Nice. In that case, I’m transitioning to my next colour. … confusing way of saying I’m going grey

Your 'ombréing'"

I’ll take that

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
20 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

I'm 5ft 7 and 7/8ths with a face that looks like it's been drawn with someone's left foot.

In fact.. I look like someone who drew a picture of Aaron Paul (Jessie Pinkman) whilst having him described what he looks like down the phone.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
20 weeks ago

Chatham

Best shag I've ever had, and the man who taught me to squirt for 5'2 lol

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By *andyman 123 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

See small can be fun x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
20 weeks ago

Wirral.


"So many women on here are shortist lol

Who's not prove me wrong I stand at a staggering 5ft 2 lol

But your profile says 5’3 OP. That inch is very very important "

I take FAB heights with a pinch of salt, LB.

I've been to group socials where I've towered over guys in my heels (still only 5'6").

A quick look at their profiles confirmed they'd somehow shrunk from the 5'8" odd quoted on their profile.

I've also met 5'10 who claimed to be 6 foot.

As I've said, as long as you're (genuinely) over 5'6", I don't care about extra inches, but it seems guys do

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By *ralfan2323Man
20 weeks ago

stoke

It’s just peoples preferences mate.

I’m 5’10 and also get the same at times…don’t let it stress you out!

Life’s too shoorr…..small in timescale !

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"Best shag I've ever had, and the man who taught me to squirt for 5'2 lol"

Can that be taught?

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By *iablo soloWoman
20 weeks ago

southside


"Best shag I've ever had, and the man who taught me to squirt for 5'2 lol

Can that be taught?"

It can! I can agree and concur!

But it's like a pandoras box once opened!

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By *vaRose43Woman
20 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Maybe I’m the weird one but I rarely look at a guys height when checking out a profile.

Pics yes

Interests yes

His profile writing - 100%

If attraction is there then height has very little to do with it. I do tend to check it when organising a video chat before a social though so I can be sure I’ll recognise them walking into the room

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London

It's like this, nothing wrong in having standards but they have to be realistic. So for example when women ask they only want men who are 6ft and over they have to consider a few things with that request. Like if there's many men in here that are over 6ft because they're ain't. Then they have to consider if they do come across a guy that's 6ft or over if they're attracted to that guy and if that guy is attracted to them as attraction isn't usually mutual. Then they have to consider if that guy is straight or gay, married or single and also how many other women is that guy seeing as a guy who's over 6ft is gonna have more options in the sexual market. These are the sort of critical thinking that most women have to consider when they ask for a guy that's 6ft or taller

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By *avexxMan
17 weeks ago

cheshire

just a teeny weeny bit taller than yoder

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By *C44Man
17 weeks ago

Newbourne

As a shorter guy I find it an advantage when you find a tall woman attractive. The instant you approach them and have a flirt it ticks off the confidence box 😂

Also I've dated a few VERY tall women, I think the problems you face as a shorter guy with confidence about your size are sometimes shared by taller women. I've generally found taller women are more receptive to me as a shorter guy than shorter women are

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Oh gods.

Who summoned the manosphere?

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
17 weeks ago

Southampton


"Unashamedly so I don’t want to feel like a great big galumphing beast so I prefer men who are taller than me. "

This x

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
17 weeks ago

South Down


"It's like this, nothing wrong in having standards but they have to be realistic. So for example when women ask they only want men who are 6ft and over they have to consider a few things with that request. Like if there's many men in here that are over 6ft because they're ain't. Then they have to consider if they do come across a guy that's 6ft or over if they're attracted to that guy and if that guy is attracted to them as attraction isn't usually mutual. Then they have to consider if that guy is straight or gay, married or single and also how many other women is that guy seeing as a guy who's over 6ft is gonna have more options in the sexual market. These are the sort of critical thinking that most women have to consider when they ask for a guy that's 6ft or taller "

And we're ok with that. Most of us are quite happy to hold out for what we're looking for in a sexual partner

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By *eordieJeansCouple
17 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Nobody wants a short king until they need a ring taken to Mordor

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By *r John WickMan
17 weeks ago

The Continental

Maybe it’s because you’re lying.

You state you’re 5ft 3 on your profile, then tell them you’re 5ft 2.

Nobody likes liars.

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By *rishVikingMan
17 weeks ago

Shankill

Shorties

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"It's like this, nothing wrong in having standards but they have to be realistic. So for example when women ask they only want men who are 6ft and over they have to consider a few things with that request. Like if there's many men in here that are over 6ft because they're ain't. Then they have to consider if they do come across a guy that's 6ft or over if they're attracted to that guy and if that guy is attracted to them as attraction isn't usually mutual. Then they have to consider if that guy is straight or gay, married or single and also how many other women is that guy seeing as a guy who's over 6ft is gonna have more options in the sexual market. These are the sort of critical thinking that most women have to consider when they ask for a guy that's 6ft or taller

And we're ok with that. Most of us are quite happy to hold out for what we're looking for in a sexual partner"

are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

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By *aizyWoman
17 weeks ago

west midlands


"It's like this, nothing wrong in having standards but they have to be realistic. So for example when women ask they only want men who are 6ft and over they have to consider a few things with that request. Like if there's many men in here that are over 6ft because they're ain't. Then they have to consider if they do come across a guy that's 6ft or over if they're attracted to that guy and if that guy is attracted to them as attraction isn't usually mutual. Then they have to consider if that guy is straight or gay, married or single and also how many other women is that guy seeing as a guy who's over 6ft is gonna have more options in the sexual market. These are the sort of critical thinking that most women have to consider when they ask for a guy that's 6ft or taller

And we're ok with that. Most of us are quite happy to hold out for what we're looking for in a sexual partner are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it"

I had no idea men 6ft and over were such a rarity.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it"

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
17 weeks ago

Cumbria


"It's like this, nothing wrong in having standards but they have to be realistic. So for example when women ask they only want men who are 6ft and over they have to consider a few things with that request. Like if there's many men in here that are over 6ft because they're ain't. Then they have to consider if they do come across a guy that's 6ft or over if they're attracted to that guy and if that guy is attracted to them as attraction isn't usually mutual. Then they have to consider if that guy is straight or gay, married or single and also how many other women is that guy seeing as a guy who's over 6ft is gonna have more options in the sexual market. These are the sort of critical thinking that most women have to consider when they ask for a guy that's 6ft or taller

And we're ok with that. Most of us are quite happy to hold out for what we're looking for in a sexual partner are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

I had no idea men 6ft and over were such a rarity."

Were not, there’s loads of us, the little fellas are just at hoping the ladies will settle for less if they think there aren’t enough of us to go around.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"It's like this, nothing wrong in having standards but they have to be realistic. So for example when women ask they only want men who are 6ft and over they have to consider a few things with that request. Like if there's many men in here that are over 6ft because they're ain't. Then they have to consider if they do come across a guy that's 6ft or over if they're attracted to that guy and if that guy is attracted to them as attraction isn't usually mutual. Then they have to consider if that guy is straight or gay, married or single and also how many other women is that guy seeing as a guy who's over 6ft is gonna have more options in the sexual market. These are the sort of critical thinking that most women have to consider when they ask for a guy that's 6ft or taller

And we're ok with that. Most of us are quite happy to hold out for what we're looking for in a sexual partner are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

I had no idea men 6ft and over were such a rarity.

Were not, there’s loads of us, the little fellas are just at hoping the ladies will settle for less if they think there aren’t enough of us to go around. "

check the ONS stats if you don't believe me

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜"

ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it"

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 "

ok i guess thats fine with you then

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then "

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect.

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By *ou only live onceMan
17 weeks ago

London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it"

You're not helping yourself, mate. It's quite a weird attitude for a man to ask a woman to settle as she won't find anyone better/taller rather than because she likes him!

But I will also say that being below 6ft doesn't automatically mean you're mediocre (or so my Mum tells me)!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"You're not helping yourself, mate. It's quite a weird attitude for a man to ask a woman to settle as she won't find anyone better/taller rather than because she likes him!

But I will also say that being below 6ft doesn't automatically mean you're mediocre (or so my Mum tells me)!"

This too. My little 5ft3 shortstack has by far the most muscled and adonislike body, and he can throw me around the bedroom better than the 6ft+.

He's short but he's still fucking hot 💜

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
17 weeks ago

Ends

🥴

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect."

No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

You're not helping yourself, mate. It's quite a weird attitude for a man to ask a woman to settle as she won't find anyone better/taller rather than because she likes him!

But I will also say that being below 6ft doesn't automatically mean you're mediocre (or so my Mum tells me)!"

I'm not asking women to settle at all. They can be with whoever they want. My point is most (not all) women tend to go for the same type of men, tall and handsome, fit etc but just saying there's a small number of men that fit the criteria

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By *ou only live onceMan
17 weeks ago

London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men"

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men"

Man, I don't know where you're finding your women to have these ideas so firmly, but raise your damn standards. There's vapid and vacuous idiots on both sides. I don't see it in action because the people I choose to have in my life are better than that.

Maybe your own outlook would be better if you stopped tolerating mediocrity too 💜

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
17 weeks ago

The Lake District

Im just 5'3 & 1/2" !! Put a pair of 5" heels on (plus full dress up) and i feel 10 feet tall

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By *agic.MMan
17 weeks ago

Orpington

In 2010 the procentage of men over 6' in Europe was 15%-16%...and dropped to 3% for the men over 6'3. Not sure how much has changed since than, but maybe it is this rarity that makes tall men more desirable. Or maybe it's the cave"woman" instinct of "tall = strong (safer with him). Whatever it is, tall men are simply more desirable and preferred by women.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains?"

Im not making it up or my opinion its facts. There's studies and stats to back up what I've said. In fact I wish I was making the stuff I'm saying but you can't argue with facts

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
17 weeks ago

North West


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains?"

Taller men's brains get less oxygen due to the greater altitude.

*Nods in a sage, scientific manner*

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Man, I don't know where you're finding your women to have these ideas so firmly, but raise your damn standards. There's vapid and vacuous idiots on both sides. I don't see it in action because the people I choose to have in my life are better than that.

Maybe your own outlook would be better if you stopped tolerating mediocrity too 💜"

Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?"

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole.

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By *he KakapoMan
17 weeks ago

A nice rock


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains?

Taller men's brains get less oxygen due to the greater altitude.

*Nods in a sage, scientific manner* "

This is the type of unfounded, unproven science I can get behind..

Not on top of cause of tjmhe shortness... buy definitely behind

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
17 weeks ago

North West


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains?

Taller men's brains get less oxygen due to the greater altitude.

*Nods in a sage, scientific manner*

This is the type of unfounded, unproven science I can get behind..

Not on top of cause of tjmhe shortness... buy definitely behind "

Mr KC has to use supplemental oxygen just to make it to the bathroom. Such are the vagaries of being 6ft 4

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Taller men's brains get less oxygen due to the greater altitude.

*Nods in a sage, scientific manner* "

Less oxygen, but more PUSSAYYYYY 💜

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By *he KakapoMan
17 weeks ago

A nice rock


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains?

Taller men's brains get less oxygen due to the greater altitude.

*Nods in a sage, scientific manner*

This is the type of unfounded, unproven science I can get behind..

Not on top of cause of tjmhe shortness... buy definitely behind

Mr KC has to use supplemental oxygen just to make it to the bathroom. Such are the vagaries of being 6ft 4 "

I lost the ability to type there.

I'd be completely incoherent at 6'

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By *7VYMan
17 weeks ago

Orbit

I am quite short too but come with three legs

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By *ou only live onceMan
17 weeks ago

London


"are you really? That means you'll be competing with other women for the rarest type of men you like too but that's fine if you're ok with it

Why would I try and compete with anyone?

If there's no appropriate men available I'm more than capable of entertaining myself over settling for mediocrity 💜 ok let me rephrase that, you're more than likely to be sharing a guy who's over 6ft with other women and not know it

I'm happily poly and only one of my partners is over 6ft. So it's not much of an argument for me 💜 ok i guess thats fine with you then

Wait. Are you claiming that shortarses don't cheat?

Because that is woefully incorrect. No i didn't say that all, of course short men can cheat although not as much as taller men

Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains? Im not making it up or my opinion its facts. There's studies and stats to back up what I've said. In fact I wish I was making the stuff I'm saying but you can't argue with facts "

Well that proves it. Can't argue with science like that.

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By *aizyWoman
17 weeks ago

west midlands


"I am quite short too but come with three legs "

That's the spirit!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains? Im not making it up or my opinion its facts. There's studies and stats to back up what I've said. In fact I wish I was making the stuff I'm saying but you can't argue with facts

Well that proves it. Can't argue with science like that."

All I can think of is the bit in Brass Eye with Doctor Fox saying "There's no scientific proof, but it's scientific fact!"

I have no idea how people didn't realise how much piss was being taken out of them on that show 💜

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
17 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yep I admit that I’m height-ist. I’ve never been attracted to short guys. 5ft10 would be my minimum but ideally 6ft+ 😬

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By *ou only live onceMan
17 weeks ago

London


"Literally, you are now just making stuff up. That's not how facts work. How can you possibly know this? The inclination to cheat has surely got more to do with the brain than height? Or maybe taller men have different brains? Im not making it up or my opinion its facts. There's studies and stats to back up what I've said. In fact I wish I was making the stuff I'm saying but you can't argue with facts

Well that proves it. Can't argue with science like that.

All I can think of is the bit in Brass Eye with Doctor Fox saying "There's no scientific proof, but it's scientific fact!"

I have no idea how people didn't realise how much piss was being taken out of them on that show 💜"

Would pass for a documentary by today's standards, he said, sounding as old as the hills.

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By *tubbsy85Woman
17 weeks ago

ipswich


"In 2010 the procentage of men over 6' in Europe was 15%-16%...and dropped to 3% for the men over 6'3. Not sure how much has changed since than, but maybe it is this rarity that makes tall men more desirable. Or maybe it's the cave"woman" instinct of "tall = strong (safer with him). Whatever it is, tall men are simply more desirable and preferred by women."

*some women. The only physical preference I have on my profile is for men under 6ft. I don't typically find tall people desirable.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole."

I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
17 weeks ago

Cumbria


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part"

So you’re saying that women should settle for a man they don’t find attractive because attractive men will cheat on her?

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By *raig784Man
17 weeks ago

away

Back when I was on conventional dating sites, anytime someone would ask me my height, I would always lie and tell them that it was 5'8.

I'm actually 6'3 but wanted to make sure that they were not the type of person to judge my attractiveness just based on 1 physical attribute.

On here I take a different approach

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Of course they’re care about height, who else is going to reach the shit off the top shelf in Tesco, if they don’t pick a tall one, one of you is climbing for those beans.

The mr

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By *vaRose43Woman
17 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part"

This is all beginning to sound like the person who has the most issue with your height is you.

People are allowed to have preferences, I’m sure you have some too. That’s all height is, a preference. No different from preferring slim vs curvy, small vs big boobs, brunette vs redhead etc etc.

I don’t exclude anyone over height as it’s kind of irrelevant to me in terms of attraction, but for others it’s essential and that’s ok. Trying to convince people that their preferences are wrong by making spurious claims that they are somehow choosing inferior playmates is where the prejudice comes in.

I always feel sad seeing threads like this, your insecurities are showing loud and clear. Accept and love yourself for what you bring to the table, don’t worry about what others bring. If someone doesn’t want what you have to offer that’s ok, move on to the next who might xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part"

You asked if I agreed that if a man had the capabilities to cheat then he would.

And your defensive response further goes into how the majority can't or won't because it's hard to get sex. Rather than having the backbone to be ethical and honest.

It's telling man. I'm sad for the people in your circles.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Maybe I’m the weird one but I rarely look at a guys height when checking out a profile.

Pics yes

Interests yes

His profile writing - 100%

If attraction is there then height has very little to do with it. I do tend to check it when organising a video chat before a social though so I can be sure I’ll recognise them walking into the room"

I do t look at height or age … in fact, I’m unlikely to open a profile page at all until I start to imagine who they might be.

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By *ustamanMan
17 weeks ago

weymouth


"I do prefer a guy taller than me OP, sorry. I can't explain why, I just do.

But there's many a guy I've liusted after that doesn't like chubby old women, either.

We work with what we've got, as there's no alternative "

So true, I like (lust after) chubby older women it seems though they generally prefer younger chunkier fellas.

Can't really change what you look like and as you say work with what you've got

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
17 weeks ago

North West


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part"

Men don't or can't cheat?! Is that a serious assertion?

Deary me.

Anyone is capable of cheating.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

Men don't or can't cheat?! Is that a serious assertion?

Deary me.

Anyone is capable of cheating. "

Apparently 80% of men are incapable because nobody wants them. There's no scientific proof, but it's scientific fact

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By *asterMeliodasMan
17 weeks ago

Newmill


"Apparently 80% of men are incapable because nobody wants them. There's no scientific proof, but it's scientific fact "

I read it on the interwebs so it has to be true.

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By *outhern77Man
17 weeks ago

Quinton

I don't care How Tall the Woman is..

If You want it to work, it will

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think I've ever looked to see how tall someone was... I'm more interested in their location and age x

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part"

What defines "exceptional"?

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
17 weeks ago

Crewe

I don't really get the age thing. I'm in better shape than very many much younger men and there I know there are men older than I who are even more athletic.

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By *urry BlokeMan
17 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I never understand why guys lose their shit over this

Height is one thing beyond your control

It will never change - apart from becoming even shorter as you age

In terms of women not going for short guys, again beyond your control

You can't litigate for preference

Concentrate on those that don't mind a shortarse

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

6 foot is often the shortest some women go for. Oh well, 2 inches short! Lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"6 foot is often the shortest some women go for. Oh well, 2 inches short! Lol"

Yeah but how tall are you

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I would love to meet a lady close to my height I do like a tall lady.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? "

In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc

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By *hil most chillMan
17 weeks ago

South East & Europe

If it's any consolation to the shorties, I'm over 6' tall and rarely get a meet

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By *ou only live onceMan
17 weeks ago

London


"I don't really get the age thing. I'm in better shape than very many much younger men and there I know there are men older than I who are even more athletic."

Yeah, but this thread is about height! But I guess the same rule applies - you get to set your own rules about who you'll meet, whether height, age or anything else. But equally no one needs to be a dick about their preferences, which does seem to be lost on a few people.

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc"

Not many around then.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
17 weeks ago

Here and There

Height is important to me as I’m a large, 6ft woman. I don’t enjoy sex with a man who is smaller than me both in height and build. Men larger than me are a minority though, unfortunately.

My profile makes clear that I’m looking for a man my height, but it often attracts feedback from men shorter than me who feel they want to defend their worthiness, which I find strange.

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By *ou only live onceMan
17 weeks ago

London


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc"

Competency in what?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc

Competency in what? "

Cheating apparently 💜

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
17 weeks ago

Cumbria


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc"

It’s a swingers website, we have yet to meet a woman who has enquired about how much I earn, and what my competences are. Stop making excuses and work on yourself.

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By *olfandtazCouple
17 weeks ago

Bristol

Taz is quite short anyway so it won't take much to be taller than her

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By *C44Man
17 weeks ago

Newbourne

Dear Short King's.

Maybe if you focused on the things you can control and things you like about yourself other people would too!

Love, a short guy.

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By *C44Man
17 weeks ago

Newbourne


"In 2010 the procentage of men over 6' in Europe was 15%-16%...and dropped to 3% for the men over 6'3. Not sure how much has changed since than, but maybe it is this rarity that makes tall men more desirable. Or maybe it's the cave"woman" instinct of "tall = strong (safer with him). Whatever it is, tall men are simply more desirable and preferred by women.

*some women. The only physical preference I have on my profile is for men under 6ft. I don't typically find tall people desirable."

Not all hero's wear capes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Dear Short King's.

Maybe if you focused on the things you can control and things you like about yourself other people would too!

Love, a short guy.

"

Yes.

Focus on what you do bring to the table.

(And not whether you can reach it or not )

💜

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By *C44Man
17 weeks ago

Newbourne


"Dear Short King's.

Maybe if you focused on the things you can control and things you like about yourself other people would too!

Love, a short guy.

Yes.

Focus on what you do bring to the table.

(And not whether you can reach it or not )

💜"

I usually bring a booster seat to the table

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Dear Short King's.

Maybe if you focused on the things you can control and things you like about yourself other people would too!

Love, a short guy.

Yes.

Focus on what you do bring to the table.

(And not whether you can reach it or not )

💜

I usually bring a booster seat to the table"

I do love a man who comes prepared 💜

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By *C44Man
17 weeks ago

Newbourne


"Dear Short King's.

Maybe if you focused on the things you can control and things you like about yourself other people would too!

Love, a short guy.

Yes.

Focus on what you do bring to the table.

(And not whether you can reach it or not )

💜

I usually bring a booster seat to the table

I do love a man who comes prepared 💜"

Sometimes I do come unprepared but that's a different matter I need to talk to the pharmacist about

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By *eally_RosieWoman
17 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"I don't really get the age thing. I'm in better shape than very many much younger men and there I know there are men older than I who are even more athletic."

Bit of a leap to assume women that have age preferences do so because of some misguided presupposition of athleticism. I’m not attracted to older men. I’m also not particularly attracted to particularly muscle-bound, athletic, or gym-fit types either.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
17 weeks ago

Essex

I don’t care about height. I do have physical attributes that I find unattractive - but height isn’t on the list.

Probably because I’m small.

And possibly because I expect they’ll be on their knees soon enough anyway.. 🤣

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
17 weeks ago

Ends


"I don’t care about height. I do have physical attributes that I find unattractive - but height isn’t on the list.

Probably because I’m small.

And possibly because I expect they’ll be on their knees soon enough anyway.. 🤣"

What ones what ones

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc

Not many around then."

there are around yes but not as many as you may think

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc

It’s a swingers website, we have yet to meet a woman who has enquired about how much I earn, and what my competences are. Stop making excuses and work on yourself."

I have and continue to work on myself. Plus your a couple so whatever I'm saying only applies to single men not men in relationships already and besides it seems that certain women are attracted to men who have a woman already but that's another discussion for another time

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I only date those that measure ‘practicality perfect in every way!’ …..😏

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I have and continue to work on myself. Plus your a couple so whatever I'm saying only applies to single men not men in relationships already and besides it seems that certain women are attracted to men who have a woman already but that's another discussion for another time"

Every discussion, every time 💜

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
17 weeks ago

Medway


"Taller men's brains get less oxygen due to the greater altitude.

*Nods in a sage, scientific manner*

Less oxygen, but more PUSSAYYYYY 💜"

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
17 weeks ago

Medway


"Back when I was on conventional dating sites, anytime someone would ask me my height, I would always lie and tell them that it was 5'8.

I'm actually 6'3 but wanted to make sure that they were not the type of person to judge my attractiveness just based on 1 physical attribute.

On here I take a different approach "

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds


"Ok would you agree that if a man had the capabilities to cheat he would?

Shit people do shitty things.

That you think all men are like that says a lot more about you than mankind as a whole. I didnt say all men. Please read to understand and not to argue. Truth be told most men don't or can't cheat because n general it's hard for men to get sex from women anyways. It's the men who women find exceptional who tend to cheat for the most part

What defines "exceptional"? In men cases it's a man who's not average based in height, income, competency etc

Not many around then. there are around yes but not as many as you may think"

No-one is "exceptional"...male or female! If they think they are it's a bit arrogant and delusional

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