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"No and would not send such a message " Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff? | |||
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"No and would not send such a message Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff?" I was in 20s ( turn 30 today) But wouldn’t dream of sending message like that I like the build up of chatting and learning what gets them going | |||
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached. He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. " It can get to you so hope you are ok. My wife used to be on here but left as to many unwanted guys thinking could do what like. She did try to tell some about their behaviour but in some cases just got more abuse | |||
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached. He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. It can get to you so hope you are ok. My wife used to be on here but left as to many unwanted guys thinking could do what like. She did try to tell some about their behaviour but in some cases just got more abuse " Hi I'm fine thanks He got a flea in his ear lol I don't get that many as I use a few filters | |||
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached. He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. It can get to you so hope you are ok. My wife used to be on here but left as to many unwanted guys thinking could do what like. She did try to tell some about their behaviour but in some cases just got more abuse Hi I'm fine thanks He got a flea in his ear lol I don't get that many as I use a few filters " That good to hear. Take care | |||
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached. He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. " Same! I'm not far from an airport, and was online... I was asked whether I wanted a meet. I did tell him yes, as I was feeling in a mischievous mood. The profile had no pics, one line of text, and nothing else was sent in the message. As far as I'm aware, the sender didn't even have a hotel, but was just sitting in departures... | |||
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached. He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. Same! I'm not far from an airport, and was online... I was asked whether I wanted a meet. I did tell him yes, as I was feeling in a mischievous mood. The profile had no pics, one line of text, and nothing else was sent in the message. As far as I'm aware, the sender didn't even have a hotel, but was just sitting in departures... " I've heard of exhibitionism, but that would take the cake. | |||
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"I generally don't get them. But then again if I posted naked pictures or pictures of me having sex on a swinging site then you know, I probably wouldn't be that surprised. " Is this where I'm going wrong? | |||
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"Should Fab put in some sort of A.I. to out even block messages that have: 1. "Up for a fuck" anywhere (title or message body) AND .... 2. That's the first ever message he/she has sent to him/her? Fab can make it OPTIONAL for a person to block such messages (just like you can block "new" member messages amongst other things? PS: has ANYONE (male or female) ever gotten such a message and immediately said "YES" and actually fucked? I'm GENUINELY curious, not passing judgement" Yes couple of times - once I was on Fab idly browsing around midnight and a local lady about 5 miles away messaged ‘are you available now?’. She had two girlfriends with her and the guy friend that was supposed to be coming had to cancel last minute. I was showered and around there in 30 minutes and naked a couple of minutes after that. Marvellous, they were merry, having laughs and were horny as hell and it was a riot. The other time was leaving a quiet night at Chams. Checking phone in the carpark and suddenly a message from a couple on Fab said come round to our hotel now… Hotel was on the route home so I thought… why not | |||
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"Should Fab put in some sort of A.I. to out even block messages that have: 1. "Up for a fuck" anywhere (title or message body) AND .... 2. That's the first ever message he/she has sent to him/her? Fab can make it OPTIONAL for a person to block such messages (just like you can block "new" member messages amongst other things? PS: has ANYONE (male or female) ever gotten such a message and immediately said "YES" and actually fucked? I'm GENUINELY curious, not passing judgement" No, not the sort of thing I'd ever send. I'm not that crass. I usually send a message that has manners, courtesy, punctuation and some sort of context, with no pressure to provide a reply. | |||
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"No and would not send such a message Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff?" I belong to the 20’s group and I’ve never sent such a message, especially not as the first message. In your experience you might get a lot of younger guys messaging you this, but for other women it might be the opposite. I wouldn’t say its to do with a persons age as such | |||
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"No and would not send such a message Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff?" very probably both.got their chat up lines from porn because it always worked in porn. As for messages like that I wouldn't dream of it. Though I have had a few similar ones but all from gay or bi guys despite my profile clearly stating I'm straight | |||
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"Here's another one ......... JUST NOW ......... "Hey up for having s3x at all today" 30 " Some days I wonder why I bother. Due to guys like this. But hey. I suppose that's why there's a block button. | |||
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"I’d love a filter of those who think they can get somewhere with one of those messages. I’ve never responded to one, I love getting to know people. Equally I’ve never sent one either, if I ever did I’d be having strong words with myself " Agree always best to get to know person and respect what they like or not. Always far better fun in the end in my experiences | |||
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""Sexy can I come and fuck you xx " He's 32 But at least he was polite: there was an adjective ("sexy") and "xx" at the end " But he didn't say 'please' | |||
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