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By *veryday_Couple_Nextdoor OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

So on your journey of being intrigued/curious about this alternative lifestyle.

How did you come across FAB?

Or

Was it just a Google search for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meli's mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

Her ex ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl I met on Tinder

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Someone I had previously had relations with :/

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By *veryday_Couple_Nextdoor OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

"

this is simply amazing, so now it’s your benefit. Could of been different with a bit of communication, more fool them

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By *punk n gushCouple
over a year ago

deal

Someone we meet out dogging one night

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Someone I was chatting to on POF

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"A girl I met on Tinder"

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the moral of the story is, ask your partner there probably more than up for some fun with strangers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A total nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a lad at work mentioned it so had a nosey

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

An old partner

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

A friend of mine

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

A ex friend told me about it

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By *iverstMan
over a year ago

Rossendale

The web site for the No3 club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone at the attic club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A total nob "

Jeez, lady - I only mentioned it.

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

An ex FWB who then decided to show my work colleagues my profile, pics and videos. Turns out he wasn't someone to trust. On the plus side, turns out he wasn't quite the sexual genius I thought he was and have had some great experiences since setting up a single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely don’t know how I came across it lol

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By *am and johnCouple
over a year ago

york

A man of wealth and taste who drove a tank in the general's rank. Pleased to meet you. Hope you guessed my name

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By *ipsforlipsMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Used to be on the old dogging.co.uk site, a sister site to this one. Fab was mentioned on that site, and in the run uo to it closing members were encouraged to change to Fab

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Google search for us. Looking at sticking our toes into swinging

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By *veryday_Couple_Nextdoor OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"An ex FWB who then decided to show my work colleagues my profile, pics and videos. Turns out he wasn't someone to trust. On the plus side, turns out he wasn't quite the sexual genius I thought he was and have had some great experiences since setting up a single profile. "
starting to read quite a few responses now about people who have abused someone’s trust shame on those. Glad you’ve turned it into a positive for you though

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

A dominatrix I was dating at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex FWB who then decided to show my work colleagues my profile, pics and videos. Turns out he wasn't someone to trust. On the plus side, turns out he wasn't quite the sexual genius I thought he was and have had some great experiences since setting up a single profile. "
karma

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By *herrybakewellCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

A couple we got chatting with on our first ever club night.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
over a year ago

La La Land


"It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this would be the best place to find what it is I’m looking for, something that I haven’t been able to find anywhere else.

They’re here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Someone on an old similar site way back in 2008 when there was a mass exodus from there after a lot of unwelcome site changes.

Have never used another since.

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
over a year ago

RCT/South Wales

2022 I was speaking to a dude on a dating site and he mentioned Fab, I had no idea what it was. Took a look, joined and experienced my first ever dip into swinging

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

An ex, he was already in the lifestyle before we met and broached the subject with me and I thought why not

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My husband. He set us up initially just to look into clubs.

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By *hrill CollinsMan
over a year ago

The Outer Rim

a girl i was having a scene with on a fet site back 2006 mentioned it when i asked if she'd had any luck on other sites

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never been curious about the lifestyle and had zero experience of websites such as this or anything related to it.

I found it by accident 8 years ago when looking for a way of exploring all the things I had never experienced.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I was Google searching a club name and the reviews showed up on this website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A former friend recommended Fab to me 6 years ago. Only to then let me walk in on her, at a swingers spa, f**king a guy I was seeing regularly. According to her, I suggested it I haven't spoken to either of them since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend who sadly isn't here anymore, wish I listened to her back then.

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By *DcbCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A guy I played an online scrabble game with, he was my first meet.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
over a year ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Someone I originally met through a different fetish website

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By *raig07Man
over a year ago

East of Birmingham

Google search for me, looking for clubs and Fab was mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy I played an online scrabble game with, he was my first meet. "

That’s amazing ‘Amazing’ would score you 19 points but I’m sure you already knew that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex, although not intentionally.

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

Fab left their calling card with my housekeeper, requesting I call on them for tea.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A guy I was seeing told me to get my arse over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend I fancied from a site called Person got me to come here when that site changed. She's still here and I still fancy her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cousin

Since that day I’ve plummeted further down the rabbit hole that is Fab

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace


"A friend I fancied from a site called Person got me to come here when that site changed. She's still here and I still fancy her."

Ah, but does she fancy you?

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

Ditto "

Me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

Ditto

Me three"

Yep, same here

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

My wife and I were looking for sites to satisfy our urges and we found this one.

I have to admit we had our doubts, some of which turned out to be well-founded, but it was certainly worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A clint on a job.

We talked alot but never met up.

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By *arkSovereignMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I met someone on a dating app and she told me about this site and thought it would be a good shout for me…. since I have a lot of kinks of course

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By *uteinasuitMan
over a year ago

Herts

Alexa..I think she had the horn

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

People in a club would ask "are you on Fab?". Some said it's full of f@kes and timewasters

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A couple I got chatting to the first time I went to a club told me about it. They offered to verify me too which was very kind. Luke

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

When I was on OnlyFans a fan asked me if I was on Fab

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By *i-Guy-75Man
over a year ago

travel


"So on your journey of being intrigued/curious about this alternative lifestyle.

How did you come across FAB?

Or

Was it just a Google search for you? "

Dunno never used this site..

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"When I was on Crimewatch a fan asked me if I was on Fab"

Knew I recognised you from somewhere!

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By *lder budweiserMan
over a year ago

Stirlingshire

A mate heard from another mate that his ex wife was on here and told me... naturally I had to have a nosey

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By *asterMeliodasMan
over a year ago

Newmill

You know what? I genuinely can't remember how I originally came across it. I think the wife and I had been talking about swinging and I just googled swinging websites. XD

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By *asterMeliodasMan
over a year ago

Newmill

Though funny story. Back when I used to work in an electronics place fixing phones, a customer came in for a technical issue and her phone browser was open to a Fab tab.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley Down

Someone I met up with on a CD/TV site, he was telling me about this site post shag.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"When I was on Crimewatch a fan asked me if I was on Fab

Knew I recognised you from somewhere!"

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

My husband lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I complained to a pal that I only missed sex after a break up, she suggested I find a fwb here.

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By *omptationMan
over a year ago

liverpool

An old FWB many, many moons ago

Keep wondering if I’ll come across her again on here and if I do if I’ll come across her again off of here

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Someone I was seeing who I no longer speak to.

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By *ustful_LionessWoman
over a year ago

Heaven-sent

Someone I absolutely adore and always will.. but also absolutely hate for bringing me here..!

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Your mum

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By *ottsbluesMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Looks like a common theme - someone who I used to tangle with but no longer!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letter from ‘Hogwarts’

Said had to be a swinger to be accepted into the ‘Magical school of witchcraft & debauchery’

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Someone we met at a club asked if we were on here - we’d never heard of it, so we looked it up and here we are… still.

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By *eronikapaulCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Well there we were, miles out of our depth, sat at happy hour on the first evening in La Mirage, when this lovely saucy Devonian couple asked "what's your fab name?".

"What's Fab?" We asked....followed by instant silence around the table, then "do you know where you are?"

Life is made of memorable moments like these

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By *r_WeimaranerMan
over a year ago

Swaythling, Southampton


"It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

"

He cheated on Y O U??

Well, he's CLEARLY

mentally deranged!! Xx

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Friends at another swinging site which was expensive and people were leaving in droves. I asked in a chatroom where everyone was disappearing to and they mentioned this one. About 12 years ago now! Been here most years since, though in reality I’m not on that much!

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By *DNudieMan
over a year ago

Dagenham

Was searching for swinger and dogging sites and somehow stumbled across this wonderful site

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By *asterMeliodasMan
over a year ago

Newmill


"Well there we were, miles out of our depth, sat at happy hour on the first evening in La Mirage, when this lovely saucy Devonian couple asked "what's your fab name?".

"What's Fab?" We asked....followed by instant silence around the table, then "do you know where you are?"

Life is made of memorable moments like these "

Welp, there's a new holiday destination to suggest to the wife. XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on your journey of being intrigued/curious about this alternative lifestyle.

How did you come across FAB?

Or

Was it just a Google search for you? "

Google

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Someone was handing out cards in Chams when it first started and I thought I'd give it a go.

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By *tevieg3222Man
over a year ago

Brighton

My step mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^his step mum

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By *inUpProWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A guy I met off POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the site I discovered my ex was on, cheating on me.

Ah fond memories.

"

This

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Read about it on another swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mumsnet

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

The Google Machine

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

A customer

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *lfa RomeoMan
over a year ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Saw an add in my local Waitrose

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

A few years I was chatting to someone and she told me how many people she slept with..it was alot. But most of them were threesomes she said. I was like.... How the fuck are you getting into so many threesomes you lucky bitch?! Lo and behold... Fab

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

my local parish priest few years ago

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By *he MinionMan
over a year ago

.

I was in the early stages of meeting a lady on another site and she asked what my fab was. I'd never heard of it.

Fab was the first pandoras box to be opened

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By *ythenMan
over a year ago

.

Now that is a good question… I’ll be thinking a while here

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By *ripfillMan
over a year ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I got hooked on the pod cast “ vanilla to Vixen “

Which was recommended to me by a work colleague

From listening to it -( which i seriously enjoy -) the word FAB came up so taking a further step onto that slippery slope

I slid into Fab

I have met some absolutely wonderful people and of course “ waste” loads of time in the Forum

For me in my personal circumstances it’s a great fit

Omg - look at the time ….

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By *iKentMan
over a year ago

Kent

During a conversation with one of my clients about her lifestyle she mentioned fab, that got my curiosity awakened so I took a look.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So on your journey of being intrigued/curious about this alternative lifestyle.

How did you come across FAB?

Or

Was it just a Google search for you? "

I found it whilst researching swingers clubs, there is a great list of them and loads of reviews from people who use them.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy in a pub lol

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
over a year ago

Always on the move

An article in a local paper and a local club mentioned it. I had a look out of intrigue, and fell further and further down the rabbit hole

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By *afkaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

One night my motorcycle broke down so I pulled into a secluded layby

It was raining cats and dogs and my phone wasn't working so I flagged down a passing car.

When I explained my predicament the nice young chap kindly let me use his phone to call for assistance.

I made the call, told the guy it would be at least an hour before the AA arrived so he offered to stay and let me keep dry in his car till the pick up truck got there.

Fumbling with his phone I accidentally opened the last page he'd been looking at - Fabswingers!

We got chatting and it didn't take long befire I realised that the layby was a popular dogging spot- when I'd flagged him down he'd thought his luck was in.

Turns out it was

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By *utterfly64Woman
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Through a guy I met on Tinder.

Turns out I have since met (or found) at least 4 other fellas from other dating sites also here

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Found while looking for a club to go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lovely partner, she had been on here before. It's certainly been an eye opener!

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Tom Cruise, we were having a drink in spoons (Swansea) and he said that he knows of this site but because of his fame it was an impossible mission for him to join it. So we made a deal that he would pay my subscription, I would do the sexy stuff and relay the stories back to him on WhatsApp so he could relive the lifestyle through me.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

A lady in the Attic cinema.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

Rubiksville

I was talking to someone online and they recommended I check out a kink site, was on there for a while and someone recommended fab and here I am

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