FabSwingers.com forum: Mixed Weight Relationships

By *ssex_tom OP Man
5 days ago

Chelmsford

Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news

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By *r John WickMan
5 days ago

The Continental

It’s no issue until some tool in the spotlight makes it one to generate some click bait.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually

At the time plumpness was a sign of wealth and comfort, and so probably considered more of a positive.

Plus, she does have cracking norks.

People are attracted to different body types to themselves sometimes.

I don't generally find my kind of hourglass on a male torso as attractive as I find it on another woman. When I lost 8 stone I didn't suddenly become more attracted to skinny people

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
5 days ago

Bedfordshire

I prefer a man taller, fatter and broader than me, I think it's a primative feeling, but one I struggle to let go of

Alas, I have found my audience to be extremely sparse

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By *wonsamediMan
5 days ago

stockport

I guess that's just the Internet for you. People will bitch and moan about anything and everything, especially if it doesn't affect them in the slightest.

My opinion, as long as who you're attracted to is of legal age, nothing else matters

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By *4bimMan
5 days ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Glad I don't have a tv.

Nothing but crap on from sounds of it

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
5 days ago

in Lancashire

None story Tom..

What about local reports, surely there's a fete with cute puppies and egg and spoon races or a flower show with rude shaped vegetables to inform the lounge about?

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By *r John WickMan
5 days ago

The Continental

"I prefer a man taller, fatter and broader than me, I think it's a primative feeling, but one I struggle to let go of

Alas, I have found my audience to be extremely sparse

Ahem

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By *ou only live onceMan
5 days ago

London

I blame Jack Sprat.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
5 days ago

Bedfordshire

"I prefer a man taller, fatter and broader than me, I think it's a primative feeling, but one I struggle to let go of

Alas, I have found my audience to be extremely sparse

Ahem"

Ohhhhh hello... I was referring to the dating world...

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By *r X46Man
5 days ago

Liverpool

It isn't real. I was watching some bbw porn the other day. That was real and well better than Bridgerton.

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By *r John WickMan
5 days ago

The Continental

"I prefer a man taller, fatter and broader than me, I think it's a primative feeling, but one I struggle to let go of

Alas, I have found my audience to be extremely sparse

Ahem

Ohhhhh hello... I was referring to the dating world... "
ahhh right.

I get ya now.

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By *ripfillMan
5 days ago

havant

"At the time plumpness was a sign of wealth and comfort, and so probably considered more of a positive.

Plus, she does have cracking norks.

People are attracted to different body types to themselves sometimes.

I don't generally find my kind of hourglass on a male torso as attractive as I find it on another woman. When I lost 8 stone I didn't suddenly become more attracted to skinny people

Wow that’s a great achievement … probably one of the hardest things ever to do

Your brain takes over a year to recognise your new weight and shape - thus making it so easy to put it back on again

Big respect

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By *iving Bi a TryMan
5 days ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

If I wanted to loose eight stone, I'd probably have to cut some limbs off!

BUT ....

Can I jump on the bandwagon please? I'm working hard at it and I've lost 9.2 kg since March.

For Tom, that'd be 1 and a half stone, a measurement system sometimes referred to as Imperial, because good ol' Blighty once ruled most of the globe and we had the best ever defeat at Dunkirk.

Gbat

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
5 days ago

St Neots

Need to mention her tits again. Quality!!

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

No it's not. There you go Tom. Easy.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
5 days ago

Wirral.

"If I wanted to loose eight stone, I'd probably have to cut some limbs off!

BUT ....

Can I jump on the bandwagon please? I'm working hard at it and I've lost 9.2 kg since March.

For Tom, that'd be 1 and a half stone, a measurement system sometimes referred to as Imperial, because good ol' Blighty once ruled most of the globe and we had the best ever defeat at Dunkirk.

Gbat "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
5 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Mixed weight relationships

whatever next!

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By *affron40Woman
5 days ago

manchester

"Mixed weight relationships

whatever next!"

Fucking hell was just about to say the exact same thing

what the actual fuck!?!?!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
5 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I can’t imagine many couples weigh exactly the same as each other so aren’t most mixed weight?

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By *r John WickMan
5 days ago

The Continental

Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about?

She’s tiny, I’m huge.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
5 days ago

North Yorkshire

"I can’t imagine many couples weigh exactly the same as each other so aren’t most mixed weight?"

Exactly! I'd very much struggle to find a guy the same weight as me

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By *iving Bi a TryMan
5 days ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about? She’s tiny, I’m huge. "

Photos or it's not true.

Gbat

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By *ootnootboopCouple
5 days ago

Cheshire

What next, mixed eye colour???

"Oh we're in a mixed shoe size relationship"......

Isn't there more important things to worry about??? And does it really matter??

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By *eordieJeansCouple
5 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I can’t imagine many couples weigh exactly the same as each other so aren’t most mixed weight?

Exactly! I'd very much struggle to find a guy the same weight as me

That sounds like a challenge.

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By *r John WickMan
5 days ago

The Continental

"Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about? She’s tiny, I’m huge.

Photos or it's not true.

Gbat

What do you need photos for?

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By *iving Bi a TryMan
5 days ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about? She’s tiny, I’m huge.

Photos or it's not true.

Gbat

What do you need photos for? "

I don't. I just think our styles of humour might be different, sorry.

Gbat

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By *awpleasureMan
5 days ago

Sutton Coldfield

What is a perfect weight? Certainly not the one I bought for my balloon. It floated away.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
5 days ago

Chelmsford

If you search the term, 'mixed weight relationships' then lots of articles ..

It's all ooover the gooogles

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
5 days ago

Chelmsford

"Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about? She’s tiny, I’m huge.

Photos or it's not true.

Gbat

What do you need photos for?

I don't. I just think our styles of humour might be different, sorry.

Gbat"

You have humour Batty ?

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By *iving Bi a TryMan
5 days ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Well I regularly laugh at some of your posts!

Does that count as humour Tom Tom? I’m guessing it’s laughs your after?

Gbat

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By *urry BlokeMan
5 days ago

"Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news"

I was in a relationship that was mixed weight, mixed age, mixed nationality and same sex

There were more people frustrated by the weight difference than anything

It's just a nonsense

The notion that if you are gym fit you can only fancy other gym fit people is ridiculous

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By *edeWoman
5 days ago

the abyss

I'm just thankful some people like the extra insulation. Although I'm prepared for spinsterhood I wouldn't mind the odd kinky visitor

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
5 days ago

North West

We couldn't be any different weight-wise, if we tried. 20yrs later and it seems to work pretty well. Now you add "disabled" in with the "fat" label and you get some wonderful insults aimed at Mr KC.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
5 days ago

little house on the praire

Until I got the Internet I was always the biggest person my boyfriend's had been with. They difny cate it eas Mr as a whole they where attracted too

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By *essTTWoman
5 days ago

Birmingham

Who said the man was the 'perfect weight' did they check his BMI?

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
5 days ago

somewhere

TV shows mostly make out that no skinny bloke wants to be with a fat bird do they? Unless it's to make fun of and mock, so to see it like it's perfectly normal (which it is!) is refreshing, which reminds me, I need to watch bridgerton lol

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By *entBarryUKMan
5 days ago

Ashford

Never been an issue in my life or with my friends. As long as they are happy it's nobody else's right to judge or comment.

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By *mma1973Woman
5 days ago

just out of reach

If you look her up, she's far from overweight. She wears a 10/12 and is 5ft1. She just stands next to very thin and taller girls in all her shows

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By *entBarryUKMan
5 days ago

Ashford

If you look her up, she's far from overweight. She wears a 10/12 and is 5ft1. She just stands next to very thin and taller girls in all her shows "

And she's the only reason that I would watch that show

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