FabSwingers.com forum: I love you

By *iddlesticks OP Man
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wales

Respectfully. But I'm also really not looking for complications.

So we'd have to have an open and honest chat

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Block.

The mr

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By *hiversMan
35 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

It did happen a while back. Very flattering, but not reciprocated unfortunately.

I was taken aback at the time as she was a more experienced swinger than I was, but we talked it out. We continued being fwb for a little while, but that was the beginning of the end. To much of a head fuck for her I think.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
35 weeks ago

St Leonards

Aww. That's sweet. Everyone usually does, and that's why my boundaries are clearly established from the start.

I imagine loving me whilst I continue doing everything that I enjoy (mostly being on my own) will prove hard for you?

In which case, think about the reality of being with me, and if your love for me is too difficult for you to manage, then please - fuck off x

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By *he love catsCouple
35 weeks ago

South Wales

I love your shoes.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
35 weeks ago

Maidstone

Depends if I felt the same way. Highly unlikely to happen though so all hypothetical. Shrugs.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
35 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
35 weeks ago

somewhere

Married him

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
35 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Block it's the only way if not meant as a friend

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Block it's the only way if not meant as a friend "

I didn’t say anything

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

I've had it said a good few times to me. I've said it back to two people. The fiancé and a partner during the Covid days.

I love language, love being loved but... I'd much rather be shown it. For it not to be a declaration of expectation and love but loving me for who I am, as I am.

So I'd react positively (I imagine, it's nuanced) but also... wanting the actions to match the words.

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By *ffervescentMan
35 weeks ago

winfrith

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

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I'd marry them

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I love your shoes."

Thank you, I was wondering what that sticky mess in them was.

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By *ripfillMan
35 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Ouch ….

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I've had it said a good few times to me. I've said it back to two people. The fiancé and a partner during the Covid days.

I love language, love being loved but... I'd much rather be shown it. For it not to be a declaration of expectation and love but loving me for who I am, as I am.

So I'd react positively (I imagine, it's nuanced) but also... wanting the actions to match the words."

You really should have your own television show.

Midday with Meli.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
35 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"Block it's the only way if not meant as a friend

I didn’t say anything

It's not the only reason I block people so don't take it personally

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By *he love catsCouple
35 weeks ago

South Wales

"I love your shoes.

Thank you, I was wondering what that sticky mess in them was. "

Gravy and feathers?

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Block it's the only way if not meant as a friend

I didn’t say anything

It's not the only reason I block people so don't take it personally "

No worries

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By *onkeynutWoman
35 weeks ago

somewhere

I had someone say that to me, they weren’t from fab but it was a very casual thing and we hadn’t known each other long.

He said it in bed and I jumped out of bed and said out loud “what the fuck”…. And that was that

I do feel bad at how I reacted, I wish I had been a bit more gentle with his feelings but I was shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

It’s a forum Game isn’t it? That’s what I’d think.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
35 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Depends on the relationship. Random fabbers spouting it then ignore and block

If it's someone I've know for a long time I'll explore what it means to them and why

Twice it's been said by FWB's, both long term relationships and yes, both times it's been reciprocated

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Had it happen a while back after only meeting them once. Kind of freaked me out a bit.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
35 weeks ago

Always on the move

Give em a high five while secretly praying for their sanity

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By *tsJustKateWoman
35 weeks ago

London

If it was a long- term friendship I'd be flattered and also try to establish what they meant by it and what they really felt about me.

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

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I would be frog-marching them to Mappin & Webb™ on Old Bond Street to secure this season's most coveted platinum engagement ring, bending down on one knee and doing the needful.

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By *rBobbMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don't know is an honest answer. I can't remember the last time anyone said that to.

I guess it would depend on how I felt about them.

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By *rispyDuckMan
35 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

And I love your vagina

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

"I've had it said a good few times to me. I've said it back to two people. The fiancé and a partner during the Covid days.

I love language, love being loved but... I'd much rather be shown it. For it not to be a declaration of expectation and love but loving me for who I am, as I am.

So I'd react positively (I imagine, it's nuanced) but also... wanting the actions to match the words.

You really should have your own television show.

Midday with Meli.

Aww Fiddles you softie! That's really made me smile. I love love. In all its forms. There's so much to be said for actions that match words.

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By *rHotNottsMan
35 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I would probably say awwww, that’s nice for you…. And then something about the weather

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By *weetiepie99Woman
35 weeks ago

cardiff

I don't think I will ever get close enough to someone here for it to even happen...away from here I told them I loved them back. Big mistake, huge!!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

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I would be frog-marching them to Mappin & Webb™ on Old Bond Street to secure this season's most coveted platinum engagement ring, bending down on one knee and doing the needful."

Oh, really?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd say thanks & then maybe block

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By *agatoXXXMan
35 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Send for the men in white coats.

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By *allandathleticMan
35 weeks ago

Asgard

Id reply awkwardly

"I like you"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd just smile and say "no you don't". Nobody knows me well enough to be able to say that and actually mean it

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
35 weeks ago

Mid Glamorgan

That’s nice in mrs brown’s voice

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'd probably think it was a sweet compliment rather than a declaration of desire for a consummate relationship.

Context isn't it?

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
35 weeks ago

bristol

If you have a few times and both single it could be positive .

If in throws of passion an accident

If after just pic swapping and chat then feel positive really likes you but then get very careful

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Depends on the relationship. Random fabbers spouting it then ignore and block

If it's someone I've know for a long time I'll explore what it means to them and why

Twice it's been said by FWB's, both long term relationships and yes, both times it's been reciprocated"

This

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By *heelerMan
35 weeks ago

Northants

A lot of females say I love you in the sense of being friends not the deep relationship love you.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

If they said I love you that’s great by me for friends. I love all of them. If they said they were “in love” with me I think we would need a proper serious chat

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"If they said I love you that’s great by me for friends. I love all of them. If they said they were “in love” with me I think we would need a proper serious chat

I think we need a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Married him

Awwww there is hope there still for the romantics

I was once mid throws of passion 2nd meet and the man in the middle of some dirty talk suggested "I loved him" .... I think my response of laughing was not what he was expecting ..... politely explained it was just sex and I didn't know him well enough to have feelings ....

My last two proper relationships (one from fab and one not) i got the feelings and it was not reciprocated.... well not at all in one of them ... and not very well in the other. My lesson in that is if it happened to me and someone declared the Love word to me .... if I did not feel that way or have any intention of feeling that way I would bring things to an end kindly and swiftly.

Did once have a FWB who wanted more and I drew things to a close as I didn't.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Ive said to several people if they loved me they’d go get me an onken cherry yoghurt.

I remain yoghurtless.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
35 weeks ago

Hell

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

They often have, but always during sex. No other time

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"If they said I love you that’s great by me for friends. I love all of them. If they said they were “in love” with me I think we would need a proper serious chat

I think we need a chat

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

I've experienced that and I cut it off. It's not what I am looking for and came way too early on.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

Think.i had misheard it!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Ive said to several people if they loved me they’d go get me an onken cherry yoghurt.

I remain yoghurtless. "

Onken Cherry Yoghurt is rather nice. Good choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

If they are mid orgasm shouting “Oh God, I love you!”, I’d laugh.

If they were d*unk at a bar after kisses and flirting, threw their arm over my shoulders and whispered, “Fuck, I love you!”, I’d take it to mean in that moment they are loving our time together.

If they stared into my eyes sober, clumsily, whilst crying at breakfast and expressed they loved me, I’d be terrified. Not a Fab person, but on a second date a guy did this to me. Over breakfast. Whilst crying. I didn’t know how to react. I panicked. We had a whole day to spend together and he dropped this literal love bomb on me early in the day. Needless to say, I never saw him again.

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By *ustamanMan
35 weeks ago

weymouth

Context and whether it's reciprocated - could be the start of a wonderful relationship, or not

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By *viatrixWoman
35 weeks ago

Redhill

He did. LMAO.

Then backtracked, saying it “was autofill/autocorrect”…

Then started distancing himself after that until he fell of the face of the earth. Pah.

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By *viatrixWoman
35 weeks ago

Redhill

"He did. LMAO.

Then backtracked, saying it “was autofill/autocorrect”…

Then started distancing himself after that until he fell of the face of the earth. Pah.

After a friendship of 4 years, I hasten to add, not a first meet, haha!

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By *oobaaMan
35 weeks ago

South Shields

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

I d be fucking amazed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’d ask them if they need they need to have a chat with a professional, then disappear.

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By *rBobbMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I love you.

How would you/do you react if someone on fab said they loved you?

I d be fucking amazed lol"

^^ Yep this

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Ask if they have stopped taking their meds

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By *nnCeeWoman
35 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I love you."

I love you too, Fiddlesticks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

It’s currently happening to me and yes I like her but I’m not for a relationship now, plus she’s married. We do text everyday though

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Only ever had it happen the once during sex, though I don't think he meant it but at the time it shocked me enough to stop having sex.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
35 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I said it, she said it. Last year I asked her to marry me!

Turns out she can't do commitment, never had any intention to, so she ran away and ghosted me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Back away very slowly and don't make eye contact

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By *oxy jWoman
35 weeks ago

somerset

ive had guys say this to me despite knowing im married and very very happy married too for me im blunt and tell them they should know better and thats it no more meets ...

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
35 weeks ago

kent

I’d be so surprised I’d probably die of shock (and thus, Break their beautiful heart)

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By *hortarseWoman
35 weeks ago

Norfolk

Tell them to go to Specsavers. I would have chat with them. Tell them we just friends having great sex.

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By *mf123Man
35 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

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By *mf123Man
35 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I typed in the wrong place my bad my bad

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By *mf123Man
35 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

At this point in my like likely look stone faced at them i wont anyone close enough to even confuse it with lust

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By *eordieJeansCouple
35 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’d tell them I need the toilet and then climb out the window.

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By *ngel-ishWoman
35 weeks ago

Colchester

I was so happy as I had said I love to them already

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By *mf123Man
35 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Say how much?

Enough for me to see how far a can put a traffic cone up your anus and then use an ostrich feather to tickle your insides?

That will scare em off i bet

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