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"When I look back upon my life It's always with a sense of shame. I've always been the one to blame for everything I long to do. No matter when or where or who …, "Damnit Woody thanks for the earworm  | |||
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"If you were guilty you wouldn't have signed up to this site, let alone ponder the question. No. It's not a sin." This guys a liar^ I was brought up a Catholic boy and this place is definitely a sin. We're all going to burn in hell, but was a social it'll be  | |||
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"Sin is a religious term to denote doing something against the instructions of a God. I don't believe in a God, therefore I don't believe there is any such thing as sin because I don't believe there is a God there to be angry with us. " Agreed | |||
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"If there is no God then there's no sin. " Exactly, sinning is a Christian construct....So if you're not a god botherer then you don't sin. | |||
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"What a load of only pony. " Isn’t it just Mr Wick. Took the words right out of my mouth. Couldn’t agree more. | |||
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"For years I have felt guilt for my sexual desires and needs and wants (and, as such, I haven’t had sex for nearly 5 years, but that’s a story for another day.) I sexually repressed myself to the point where the guilt was eating me up; I couldn’t do anything without that little voice at the back of my head telling me I’m a terrible and horrible person and that I’m going to hell. My depression has ceased recently and I’ve come to realise that mental health played a big part in my reasoning of why I felt so terrible. I was depressed which made my mind believe I was a terrible person which in turn made me believe I was a terrible person for experiencing normal feelings (happiness, sexual desires, sadness, etc.) My sexuality has also played a big part in it. Coming to terms with my sexuality has helped massively. But the biggest thing of all that’s helped is my body confidence. I think it’s the main thing people struggle with. This is a long winded way of saying: I understand what you mean, and I have been there, but there’s nothing wrong with this. There’s nothing wrong with just wanting sex, a simple hook up or something more committed. There’s nothing wrong with having gay sex or bisexual sex when you aren’t either of those things because truly, labels are made up, and no one’s going round with a clipboard telling you off. Just embrace it friend " This is a lovely message and actually addressed some of my worries and feelings so thank you! I guess you are right we made up these labels and sexual acts and enjoyment is all pretty damn natural! I don't feel overly religious but I think we had to come from somewhere and I see how some religions treat people who sin? Not in our country but it's very real to be killed for such a thing elsewhere so I value other swinger's opinions | |||
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"If there is no God then there's no sin. Exactly, sinning is a Christian construct....So if you're not a god botherer then you don't sin." Hallelujah sister. | |||
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"If there is no God then there's no sin. Exactly, sinning is a Christian construct....So if you're not a god botherer then you don't sin." Thank god for that! | |||
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"The only way to forgiveness Is for her to get down on her knees…
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"Sin is a religious term to denote doing something against the instructions of a God. I don't believe in a God, therefore I don't believe there is any such thing as sin because I don't believe there is a God there to be angry with us. " This! | |||
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"If there is no God then there's no sin. Exactly, sinning is a Christian construct....So if you're not a god botherer then you don't sin. Thank god for that! " | |||
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"And now that's been cleared up anyone up for several five finger knuckle shuffles and a chippy tea? "With a saveloy? | |||
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"A little off topic but if there's a god out there, he will have to account for his non action the last few hundred years " I'm sure you meant thousand | |||
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"It's an absolutely ginormous sin. I'm descending to hell anyways." I'm sure you'll whip them into shape. | |||
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"I really don't mean to ruffle any feathers with this one and I get it's totally dependent on your individual views but I just personally wanted to hear others opinions? Would you consider the act of swinging or behaviour such as having lots of partners or gay or group sex sinful? I mean as far as I am aware it's been happening for all of human history, we have always wanted to explore experiment and have fun? The Romans had huge orgies? I mean we are all here playing so we must justify it somehow I just sometimes feel is this wrong? I get thats my personal thing to query but I wanted to see if it was mirrored by any others? I crave and want group fun bisexual fun orgies etc I just sometimes feel guilty for wanting it? " Religion is bullshit we're just glorified "intelligent" cells. Go fuck who you like and how you like (legally) | |||
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"When I look back upon my life It's always with a sense of shame. I've always been the one to blame for everything I long to do. No matter when or where or who …, "It's a, it's a, it's a........... | |||
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"When I look back upon my life It's always with a sense of shame. I've always been the one to blame for everything I long to do. No matter when or where or who …,
It's a, it's a, it's a........... "That's it you and Woody need to do karaoke together at the MLS and sing this | |||
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"And now that's been cleared up anyone up for several five finger knuckle shuffles and a chippy tea?
With a saveloy?"Ie, battered | |||
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"And now that's been cleared up anyone up for several five finger knuckle shuffles and a chippy tea?
With a saveloy?
Ie, battered "You can dip it for sure. But please don’t deep fry it. | |||
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"For years I have felt guilt for my sexual desires and needs and wants (and, as such, I haven’t had sex for nearly 5 years, but that’s a story for another day.) I sexually repressed myself to the point where the guilt was eating me up; I couldn’t do anything without that little voice at the back of my head telling me I’m a terrible and horrible person and that I’m going to hell. My depression has ceased recently and I’ve come to realise that mental health played a big part in my reasoning of why I felt so terrible. I was depressed which made my mind believe I was a terrible person which in turn made me believe I was a terrible person for experiencing normal feelings (happiness, sexual desires, sadness, etc.) My sexuality has also played a big part in it. Coming to terms with my sexuality has helped massively. But the biggest thing of all that’s helped is my body confidence. I think it’s the main thing people struggle with. This is a long winded way of saying: I understand what you mean, and I have been there, but there’s nothing wrong with this. There’s nothing wrong with just wanting sex, a simple hook up or something more committed. There’s nothing wrong with having gay sex or bisexual sex when you aren’t either of those things because truly, labels are made up, and no one’s going round with a clipboard telling you off. Just embrace it friend This is a lovely message and actually addressed some of my worries and feelings so thank you! I guess you are right we made up these labels and sexual acts and enjoyment is all pretty damn natural! I don't feel overly religious but I think we had to come from somewhere and I see how some religions treat people who sin? Not in our country but it's very real to be killed for such a thing elsewhere so I value other swinger's opinions" Religious guilt can be brutal, but you aren’t your religion; you’re a human being first. I’m not a diehard Christian (Catholic), so I haven’t repented for my former sins, but does God not want us to feel pleasure? If sex was a sin, Christian’s wouldn’t wait until marriage: they just wouldn’t have it at all, y’know? The way I see it, when it’s my time, God isn’t going to care about who I spent the night with or who I let inside me; God cares about us as followers. | |||
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"When I look back upon my life It's always with a sense of shame. I've always been the one to blame for everything I long to do. No matter when or where or who …,
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"I really don't mean to ruffle any feathers with this one and I get it's totally dependent on your individual views but I just personally wanted to hear others opinions? Would you consider the act of swinging or behaviour such as having lots of partners or gay or group sex sinful? I mean as far as I am aware it's been happening for all of human history, we have always wanted to explore experiment and have fun? The Romans had huge orgies? I mean we are all here playing so we must justify it somehow I just sometimes feel is this wrong? I get thats my personal thing to query but I wanted to see if it was mirrored by any others? I crave and want group fun bisexual fun orgies etc I just sometimes feel guilty for wanting it? " It’s your own issue to come to terms with OP and I’d say there’s sometimes no need to get that deep, it pretty much is what it is. I’d leave the deeper thoughts at the door in terms of fab. | |||
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"It's an absolutely ginormous sin. I'm descending to hell anyways." I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints, the sinners are much more fun... | |||
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"It's an absolutely ginormous sin. I'm descending to hell anyways. I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints, the sinners are much more fun..." • BS. You're just saying that because you've got "swing" in your name and you can't change it.  | |||
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"It's an absolutely ginormous sin. I'm descending to hell anyways. I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints, the sinners are much more fun... • BS. You're just saying that because you've got "swing" in your name and you can't change it. "Are you blaspheming against Billy Joel? | |||
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But it relied on consent. I don't. Have no imposed or assumed guilt or shame for adult consensual sex | |||
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"Sex outside of marriage, children out of wedlock, living together unmarried... I'm already heading to the hot place so why not add swinging into the mix as well
Tinder"• She also works for VisionExpress™ ... ^ which is bad enough. | |||
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"It's an absolutely ginormous sin. I'm descending to hell anyways. I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints, the sinners are much more fun... • BS. You're just saying that because you've got "swing" in your name and you can't change it.
Are you blaspheming against Billy Joel?"• He's before my time.  | |||
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"Sex outside of marriage, children out of wedlock, living together unmarried... I'm already heading to the hot place so why not add swinging into the mix as well
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She also works for VisionExpress™ ... ^ which is bad enough."You wash your mouth out! I'm bad but not that bad
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"Defining sin can be very complicated (though sinning is quite easy) and it differs from one religion to another and from one culture to another. Language also complicates things further, so for instance there are different meanings of the word sin in Hebrew and Greek (sorry just dealing with Judeo-Christian concepts). For instance it could just be missing the mark (so maybe those who spaff on someone's tits rather than their fooff are sinning), could also be missing the goal (so most of the season CPFC fell into that category - and on Fab many men will, cos we fail to meet our goal of avoiding a dry May [or year or decade]). Another is to fail - bugger, again that may be many of the men. A further meaning is to go astray - oops, that is those who many in the forum (in totally non-judgemental ways) refer to as 'cheaters'. Probably enough or I will get banned, but like the Eskimos have lots of words for snow, in Hebrew and Greek there are quite a few different words for sin. It's the guilt that gets you though (unless of course you can get away with a few Hail Marys) "Hallelujah!!!! | |||
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"Sex is amazing. Sex is a sin. Sinning's forgiven, So sex is in! "Praise the Lord | |||
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Get that tambourine out sister "If you meant rabbit I’m in.. I mean it’s it … I mean praise the lord | |||
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" Hallelujah!!!!
Get that tambourine out sister
If you meant rabbit I’m in.. I mean it’s it … I mean praise the lord "I don't think rabbits are unclean beasts in the bible or torah, but crabs are a different matter | |||
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"Swinging us sex Sex is evil Evil is sin Sin is forgiven So get stuck in "Is not us* | |||
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That's it you and Woody need to do karaoke together at the MLS and sing this "Buy more raffle tickets or we sing!!!!! | |||
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"I really don't mean to ruffle any feathers with this one and I get it's totally dependent on your individual views but I just personally wanted to hear others opinions? Would you consider the act of swinging or behaviour such as having lots of partners or gay or group sex sinful? I mean as far as I am aware it's been happening for all of human history, we have always wanted to explore experiment and have fun? The Romans had huge orgies? I mean we are all here playing so we must justify it somehow I just sometimes feel is this wrong? I get thats my personal thing to query but I wanted to see if it was mirrored by any others? I crave and want group fun bisexual fun orgies etc I just sometimes feel guilty for wanting it? " Interesting thread. Like every action. There are consequences. For yourself and for others. I'm not sure it's sinful, I'm not sure it's wholesome and healthy for mind, body and soul. | |||
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"I spent waaaay too many years worrying about what other people think. You have one life. Embrace the freedom of being your true self and enjoy the opportunities that come from that. C x" And accept there are always consequences of whatever you choose to do. | |||
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"There are literally Christian Swinging Groups, so I'd say that THEY don't think so. "Aww bless | |||
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"There are literally Christian Swinging Groups, so I'd say that THEY don't think so. "You sure it's not Christian singing groups? | |||
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"Not swinging related but when in Salt Lake City I noticed Grinder was huge! My travelling chum had a great time there
Evidently you can be a Mormon and have lots of indiscriminate sex."Not according to the actual rules of the Mormon church | |||
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"There are literally Christian Swinging Groups, so I'd say that THEY don't think so.
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