FabSwingers.com forum: Best excuses for a cancellation

By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Beds

Same guy ......

1st excuse he was too nervous

2nd excuse he broke his foot

Not giving him a chance for a 3rd

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
30 weeks ago

somewhere

"Same guy ......

1st excuse he was too nervous

2nd excuse he broke his foot

Not giving him a chance for a 3rd

I mean I'd give him the 1st time, I'd ask for a pic of said broken foot lol.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
30 weeks ago

North West

I think it’s quite nice he was honest to say he was too nervous….

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Would want a pic of the broken foot , how many days before did he cancel op ?

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

yea i had one that said he over slept -

from Tuesday to Thursday

2nd attempt Saturday for the Sunday - forgot!!!

3rd attempt because he says im worth it !!!! na aint happening

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

Car wouldn't start

Forgot/got into an accident on way- both by the same person on the same day

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By *mmaleiaWoman
30 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Mine are really dull & got called to an emergency at work

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
30 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I had one send me x-rays of his broken arm... lol

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By *pril555Woman
30 weeks ago

Devon EX area

He didn't get my message...even though it was read, replied to and subsequently deleted!!!

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
30 weeks ago

somewhere

I've had "fell asleep" before.

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By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Beds

"Would want a pic of the broken foot , how many days before did he cancel op ? "

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Both times it was me messaging on the day to confirm the time, that he cancelled.

If he had contacted me it might have been different

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By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Beds

"Same guy ......

1st excuse he was too nervous

2nd excuse he broke his foot

Not giving him a chance for a 3rd

I mean I'd give him the 1st time, I'd ask for a pic of said broken foot lol."

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I didn't believe him, if the shoe was on the other foot

I would have sent a pic

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By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Beds

"I think it’s quite nice he was honest to say he was too nervous…. "

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I think he set the bar high with all the chat before hand

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By *TG3Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Same guy ......

1st excuse he was too nervous

2nd excuse he broke his foot

Not giving him a chance for a 3rd

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he broke his foot thats a pretty good excuse if you ask me

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By *d4fun73Man
30 weeks ago

Shipley

"I've had "fell asleep" before. "

That's why I don't do late night meets!

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By *alandNitaCouple
30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Same guy ......

1st excuse he was too nervous

2nd excuse he broke his foot

Not giving him a chance for a 3rd

It's not as if he would need his foot, it's as if it was a broken Penis

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Would want a pic of the broken foot , how many days before did he cancel op ?

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Both times it was me messaging on the day to confirm the time, that he cancelled.

If he had contacted me it might have been different "

Yeah after hearing that would not be giving a third chance , didn’t even let you know

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
30 weeks ago

stanley

"Same guy ......

1st excuse he was too nervous

2nd excuse he broke his foot

Not giving him a chance for a 3rd

I reckon you naked would take my mind off a broken foot

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
30 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I had one who said he couldn't get online, to reply to my message asking if we were still meeting.He managed to get on fine the next morning.

He then tied to tell me when we'd meet again, I don't think so sunshine, blocked.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

Said had no way to get online to check directions but was showing online

Didn't like the look of the road I lived on when he arrived by taxi

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair

If he was half the gentleman he would give reasons and not excuses.

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By *nitterWoman
30 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Died

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Died"

“I’m sorry I left you waiting alone at the bar, but I was dead at the time.”

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever

Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.

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By *elloWoman
30 weeks ago

alpha centauri

When this question is asked of always seems to be mostly women and some couples who answer about men who have given crappy excuses.

Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or aldo they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged

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By *nitterWoman
30 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Died

“I’m sorry I left you waiting alone at the bar, but I was dead at the time.”"

I'm sooper glad you recovered

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or do they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged?"

I’ve had my share of cancellations from women. They’re usually reasonable and believable excuses though. You could even call them reasons, rather than excuses.

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By *ou only live onceMan
30 weeks ago

London

"Died

“I’m sorry I left you waiting alone at the bar, but I was dead at the time.”"

That's the problem these days. No manners.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
30 weeks ago

South London

After almost 2 hours after the agreed meet time in a hotel we’d paid for, a Guy told us he had got a better offer!

A week later he had a new profile and messaged saying he’d like to still meet us.

We didn’t meet him

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
30 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Meant to meet at 9 pm, 10pm I got a message saying 'I was walking down the path to come and meet you and my elderly neighbour saw me and asked me to help him move his living room around'

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
30 weeks ago

North Somerset

I find that meets that get nervous just delete their profile...yawn. Kx

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By *oomlMan
30 weeks ago

Fareham

1st time I have a cold and don't want to pass it on. 2nd time exactly the same.

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By *r X46Man
30 weeks ago

Liverpool

I would have to have at least three broken feet and a catastrophic spinal cord injury not to turn up for a meet with a hot woman. And even the I would try and get in the taxi.

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By *alcon43Woman
30 weeks ago

Paisley

I used to keep a list of excuses for cancelling on me. It did get to the ridiculous stage. These are from different guys.

Rain was too heavy

Injured themselves playing with kids

Firework damaged car

No show but had ended up in hospital

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By *ornycougaWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

A guy told me that he had landed at Stansted to find his (very expensive) car had been nicked. I trust no one so called BS. I felt so bad when he sent me the crime report.

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By *JB1954Man
30 weeks ago

Reading

The one I had was a message to say on way in car on motorway. Then message not far at motorway Junction near me. Problem which I already knew was that they could not be on motorway as closed . Had been for several hours. No show of course . At least I was at home and not travelled.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
30 weeks ago

North East / London

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Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or aldo they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged "

Social meet: “I have a driving lesson I forgot about”

At the time. I thought at least it is a step up from I’m washing my hair.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

Same person: I forgot I had said I'd help my parents in their garden and then 2nd time, I'm feeling poorly and a bit dizzy

Someone from the water company is here to do some work

Work booked me onto another shift and hadn't realised

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By *rRiosMan
30 weeks ago

dublin

Social meet, she said something along the lines of, “I can’t because I’m just very shy” but then qualified further, “not between the sheets though” ¯\_

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

The only cancellation I’ve ever had was a person who I met socially, and made plans with to meet a few days later.

They were stuck in traffic for hours, supposedly, but fancied chatting for hours. Finally, made it back and then needed sleep because they were supposedly up all night walking over ten miles as their Uber left them in the middle of nowhere. They were on a work do at a horse race the night before. They were overly communicative during all this, tbf. Three plus years later, they still try to get me to meet them again. I won’t waste my time.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"Mine are really dull & got called to an emergency at work "

that always amazes me - when they have a 'normal' job - who gets rushed into work at 3pm or 7pm ??

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"I've had "fell asleep" before.

That's why I don't do late night meets!"

mine was in the daytime !!!!

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

ooh the guy that 40 minutes before we were going to meet for a social he had insisted on - im sorry i am going to have to cancel my sister is in a bad way and needs me, her husband died last week, so i need to be with her.

a couple of days later was displaying a verification and picture from outside a club - where he had been on a meet!!

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By *ascaIMan
30 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

"I've had "fell asleep" before. "

That is poor. I’m shattered now but I’m still going to persevere and finish typing this sente

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"I've had "fell asleep" before.

That is poor. I’m shattered now but I’m still going to persevere and finish typing this sente "

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By *rBobbMan
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

We were supposed to meet for a social. I was there early and 10 minutes before the agreed time. I had a message saying she couldn't make it as she had to break up a dog fight and needed to comfort one of the owners.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I have had a message before to say they are on their way and never turned up, deleted profile and never heard from them again, makes you wonder what happened

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By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not a cancellation but after 5 mins,’ just need to move my car’ & never came back leaving with his partner

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless."

Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone

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By *ust JuicyWoman
30 weeks ago

east london

Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel

Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid

(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"When this question is asked of always seems to be mostly women and some couples who answer about men who have given crappy excuses.

Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or aldo they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged "

I was noting that all the excuses were from men. I've never had a no show, though I have shown up to find she had another gentleman with her - completely forgot she double booked, I just pretended I was a friend calling round (we had known each other a while!)

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By *iscean_dreamMan
30 weeks ago

Llanelli

Sounds like he's got no confidence to me and you'd probably eat him alive OP.

A broken foot wouldn't stop me meeting someone if I really wanted to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel

Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid

(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)"

Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I got told by a 'female' that the wife had just come home

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By *ust JuicyWoman
30 weeks ago

east london

"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel

Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid

(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)

Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz"

I have two comfy pillows he could have used

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel

Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid

(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)

Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz

I have two comfy pillows he could have used

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel

Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid

(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)

Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz

I have two comfy pillows he could have used

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hmmmm - that didn't go well!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever

"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.

Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone

He was a fully grown man in his late 20s

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.

Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone

)

He was a fully grown man in his late 20s

even worse - needed to tidy his room !!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

He got arrested!

Lucky escape really.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever

"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.

Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone

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He was a fully grown man in his late 20s

even worse - needed to tidy his room !!"

We’re clearly talking about the same guy!

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